View Full Version : Offensive Tipping Technique?
Nameless
01-13-2007, 09:53 AM
I hate when they do that, I usually kick it off the stage back at them. I also hate when they fold the dollar all super skinny, not because it's offenseive, but because its a pain in the ass to unfold it.
This one is NEVER okay. I don't care if it's balled up $100 bills--it's disrespectful and I won't bother picking them up.
ExoticEngineer
02-04-2007, 02:41 PM
So, I haven't had the balled up dollars before, but the other night, for the first time, I had some guy fold the dollars super super skinny and shoot them at me, like darts!
I was pissed! And he sat there with this smug, "go fetch" look on his face.
End of my stage I grabbed up the folded dollars and walked by his table, dropped them all on the table and said "Not EVEN if you begged me."
Grrrrrr!
Djoser
02-04-2007, 04:12 PM
So, I haven't had the balled up dollars before, but the other night, for the first time, I had some guy fold the dollars super super skinny and shoot them at me, like darts!
I was pissed! And he sat there with this smug, "go fetch" look on his face.
End of my stage I grabbed up the folded dollars and walked by his table, dropped them all on the table and said "Not EVEN if you begged me."
Grrrrrr!
Nice going! I fucking love it, lol...
You have to realize, of course, that this sort of behavior is thinly disguised misogyny, and/or an attempt to reassert male dominance upon women who are so clearly out of their league in the outside world.
Thus EE demonstrates the proper response.
I'd rather have guys do this than stick money in their mouth and expect me to retrieve it with my mouth or my tits, or have them grab the side of my thong and shove the money in my panties. Those tipping methods are far more offensive than some young wannabe baller pretending like he's in a rap video. But that's just me.
I agree!! Fuck the money in the mouth you nasty fucks that do this. I had a guy a week or so ago, hold the dollar in his mouth..I leaned down and said I can't take it like that
Not that if we could Id want to anyways
he said fuck you then and walked away.
I hate that shit
now i went back to ignoring it. I doubt i want to dance for any guy that does that shit anyways
Djoser
02-04-2007, 04:44 PM
I agree!! Fuck the money in the mouth you nasty fucks that do this.
...now i went back to ignoring it. I doubt i want to dance for any guy that does that shit anyways
No way, you are far above that.
VegasPrincess
02-04-2007, 04:56 PM
Cheetah Tim, I agree with you, I would prefer to be tipped a 20 dollar bill as opposed to having 20 bucks thrown at me. But hey, really, it all spends the same and I'm not gonna be mad at you no matter how you gave me the money.
Unless, you:
*offer me a dollar, but want me to "work for it" before you'll give it up*
*Throw money at me with the intention of pelting me*
*Run money along my naked body*
*Expect me to bite dirty money out of your mouth*
*Make obsence comments to me*
*Try to touch me*
ExoticEngineer
02-04-2007, 09:59 PM
Here was another one:
Three guys sitting at the stage, one with a dollar in his hat turned backwards, one with a dollar in his collar and one holding a dollar in his mouth, looking like three idiot monkeys with big cheesy grins..... so I crawl over "Mmmmm, you boys want me to come and get that money, yahhhh?" I purrrrrr.
"UH huh! Uh huh!!!" Nodding like dashboard bobble heads.
Pluck! Pluck! Pluck! 1....2...3.... By hand ofcourse!
"thanks boys! Have fun tonight!"
Djoser
02-04-2007, 11:24 PM
Recently I have seen a new tipping technique--these idiots sitting there grinning like monkeys, with dollars tucked into the tops of both their ears. WTF? Is this supposed to be funny? They obviously think it is, but for the wrong reason, lol...
^ yah I dont know what we are supposed to do with that either. My guess is that we are to bend over their heads and be able to go go gadget our boobs to pick up the dollars.
MY ALL TIME FAVE, is when guys would tuck a dollar in the top of their jeans and we were to bend over and "orally" grab it.
Im still maintaining anyone that puts money in their mouth should choke to death on it. Money is soooo sooo gross. I just can't even ..I can't bring myself to take it even in my garter with the slobber
or even follow up with the lap dance. Now im not talking guys who do it because they've seen it before. Im talkign the ones that do it to make you really get creative to get it.
Those ...those guys I fucking ignore. They also seem to be the same ones that come into the club screaming " Where dem bitches at pa? " Swear to god.
hgaha a guy did that last week., and seriously in his drunk glory stood up and said as he pointed to the girl on stage
" eewww weee..I bet her cooter smells purty " hahah
I loved it!
Corgan
02-05-2007, 05:22 AM
- I've never seen a money shower
- I'm talking about guys that stand up at stage and peel off and throw ones while acting like thug posers
- I tip more than they do
- I'm not jealous
- I have never seen them get "attention" from this, they just look stupid
i agree with everyman... i feel like it looks completely ghetto. it happens to me more often than i'd like, but i smile and grin, because it's just more money for me. I just hate that, the guys that do this are the same ones that feel like you OWE them something for doing so. GRR!
thefrog
02-05-2007, 09:11 AM
I have done the money shower befor, 10 or more times [ # just of the top of my head ] about half of the the time the DANCER!! talked to me befor hand and gave me the money/or danced for me after. it makes everyone look and want to know who she is and what is she doing/or what can she do to be getting all that .. I think it can be fun for eveyone if/when its done right.
and im not 21 im 41
and im FAR from a thug/pimp
later&bye
love&light
timothy.....
wanna dance with me ??
wait..she gave you the money ?
Djoser
02-05-2007, 02:17 PM
That might be a good move for a dancer, but I've never seen one do that yet, lol...
thefrog
02-06-2007, 07:44 AM
yep!! sure did more then once 2 different girs at different times have. another time one knowing i would be getting dances from her told me just get ones and drop them on her on stage then she came and danced for me later. not a lot of money just like $40 or $60 ...
later&bye
love&light
timothy....
doc-catfish
02-06-2007, 09:52 AM
Okay. With that in mind, I may have to rethink my commentary on the following thread.
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=79349
Although in this case, the shill was "hired" by the dancer, and not the club. Which in some eerie way, makes a little bit of sense, esspecially considering it didn't really cost her anything but some free service to her shill. Whatever works, I guess.
Phoenix_Rising
02-07-2007, 06:46 PM
In my bar the set up is a bit different, we don't have a tip rail, and the stage is out on the floor in stead of behind the bar. (yeah, it's odd, especially for NJ) Anyway.... I had a customer who was...(a raging pain in my ass, and a moody little bastard) a guy who really needed to be fawned over and liked to be the big spender, but very much the chauvinist. If he felt he wasn't getting enough attention or if there was a new dancer working, he would walk to the stage and shower her with dollar bills (usually 50 or 100) or have me (as the bartender) do it for him. Occasionally he would do the same behind the bar for the bartender, but I soon realized that he enjoyed watching a woman crawl around the floor, scrounging up dollar bills that he had thrown her. He's a weird dude. I think, for some guys, it's a dominance thing.
Phoenix_Rising
02-07-2007, 06:53 PM
Nice going! I fucking love it, lol...
You have to realize, of course, that this sort of behavior is thinly disguised misogyny, and/or an attempt to reassert male dominance upon women who are so clearly out of their league in the outside world.
Thus EE demonstrates the proper response.
I didn't read the entier thread before responding, but this makes me love you even more ;D
cocochanel
02-09-2007, 06:57 AM
On my 2nd night dancing a 21 year old thug came in and did the money shower to me... and I LOVED it. I am a crappy (NEW) dancer, and I get VERY lonely feeling on stage... it's something I had never thought about and I am suprised how much I liked it, but money falling all over my (mostly) naked body? It felt amazing! I liked the attention, the money, and that it was MONEY touching me and not the CUSTOMER! that is definately the highlight of all 4 of my nights so far!
cocochanel
02-10-2007, 10:14 AM
oohh I DON'T like when customers hold out a dollar and pull it back to make it challenging! It's only ONE DOLLAR! If they want to give me a hard time over it, it had better be a $5 at least!
Lola Rose
02-10-2007, 04:14 PM
^ i will not take it if they do that. if I'm really pissed over it, i'll rip it in half and throw it at him.
sxc_gia
02-10-2007, 04:28 PM
Where I am, we don't have the tipping on stage. It's only private dances. Guys get up on stage with money in their mouth and stuff, personally, I don't like that. Lol. I guess you can say I'm a sour bitch when I'm on stage. I'm too focused on my dancing to come grab their money. I will, but I don't like it. I couldn't work in the US cause I don't smile on stage or nothing, I just do my thing. Flips and splits and legs behind the head, lol, paying no attencion to the guys.
UtahMike
02-15-2007, 12:28 AM
I bet everyone will agree that this was an offensive tipping technique.
Some years back, I was sitting by the stage in a small rural club in Minnesota. A young guy who looked not too smart (picture Mad Magazine's Alfred E. Newman, but in bib overalls) sat down next to me and put a dollar on the edge of the stage.
He looked at me and said, "I think maybe she'll pick it up."
Dancer came by, gave him a little pussy show, and picked up the dollar with her hand.
Alfred E. Newman grabbed it back and said, very hurt, "No! I want you to PICK IT UP!"
Dancer looked confused for a second, then she and I both realized what he meant--he wanted her to pick it up with her pussy.
Dancer looked at Alfred a second, then said, "No, honey, I don't want no money in my pussy." She danced off, leaving him with his dollar.
I moved to a different chair on the other side of the stage.
sxc_gia
02-18-2007, 10:14 PM
^^^Hahaha... I see that all the time! The only thing is, girls actually pick up the damned 5$ bill with their pussy!!! Eww! Isn't money like the dirtiest thing around, that five dollar bill has probably been all throughout the nation, all the way from Vancouver to Halifax, and back again. Maybe if the dude put a 100 or a 1000, but come on, a five?!
Do girls do that in the US, with the 1$'s?
Gross.
gingerlee
02-19-2007, 10:27 AM
^^^Hahaha... I see that all the time! The only thing is, girls actually pick up the damned 5$ bill with their pussy!!! Eww! Isn't money like the dirtiest thing around, that five dollar bill has probably been all throughout the nation, all the way from Vancouver to Halifax, and back again. Maybe if the dude put a 100 or a 1000, but come on, a five?!
Do girls do that in the US, with the 1$'s?
Gross.
I don't care if it's a $100 bill, I am not picking up money with my pussy. Money is so dirty! I won't put it in my mouth either, it just grosses me out. I'll take it with my hand or my boobs, but that's it.
yoda57us
02-19-2007, 11:16 AM
These idiots that put the money in their mouths are the same missing links that would but spinach from the bin marked "Half-Price Contamination Special".
BrunetteGoddess
02-19-2007, 12:09 PM
I don't see the contempt in this act either.... someone mentioned this is an acceptable way for belly dancers to get tipped as well because they can't stop for a tip. Money showers or balling up money and throwing it onstage (making SURE NOT to hit the performer) is what you generally have to do for a burlesque dancer as well. They can't stop dancing to accept tips either.
UtahMike
02-19-2007, 11:01 PM
These idiots that put the money in their mouths are the same missing links that would but spinach from the bin marked "Half-Price Contamination Special".
If that dollar bill came as change, you have to wonder where else it has been that night. Maybe in some other guy's mouth? I'd just as soon share my toothbrush.
sleepyboy
02-19-2007, 11:53 PM
When guys do money showers here all you hear is other guys bitching about "Who does he think he is".
"I make it rain, I make it rain, I make it rain on 'dem hoes"
LatinaRose
02-21-2007, 12:59 PM
I love "rain"!
I have seen this particular tipping "technique" a few times in recent months. It is always, without exception, a young (18-22) kid who acts like he thinks he's a hotshot. I've never seen someone over 22 do this.
Funny, Im 20 and have never done this, and have only seen older men do it...hmm