View Full Version : how much do you spend on average in the SC
lunchbox
03-05-2007, 10:07 AM
X LOL Ive thought the same thing many times. But here I am. It truly is an addiction. But the upside is, my kids are greedy as fuck and as I gleefully spend their inheritance I can say "neener neener" :P
FBR
You should get together with my old man for a couple of beers.
Medman
03-05-2007, 02:17 PM
About $1200-$1500 a time. Don't get out as much as I wished, but usually a couple times a month.
xdamage
03-05-2007, 07:00 PM
About $1200-$1500 a time. Don't get out as much as I wished, but usually a couple times a month.
Ah, it's almost spring time, and a customer who spends $1200-$1500 a visit a couple of times a month... why LOVE is in the air. May many strippers PM you with messages of the love and romance they are feeling for you bro ;)
1500 bucks a twice during month visits equates to well over 30 large a year. Thats serious money. Spread out over a dozen clubs, that probably wouldnt get you that much status because the dancers would likely forget who you are by the time you make the rounds and come back. But concentrated in one or two clubs, that kind of spending would earn you roller status and the associated benefits.
FBR
xdamage
03-05-2007, 07:23 PM
Oh yea, concentrate that spending in one club and you could be "the man" (or at the very least, many girls will tell you so ;))
Oh yea, concentrate that spending in one club and you could be "the man" (or at the very least, many girls will tell you so ;))
X LOL well since its all fake anyways you might as well capitalize :P
FBR
xdamage
03-05-2007, 08:02 PM
X LOL well since its all fake anyways you might as well capitalize :P
FBR
You're right FBR! I missed out on a significant opportunity for STYLE points there. Damn, proves I'm still a newb at this ;)
Medman
03-06-2007, 08:37 AM
1500 bucks a twice during month visits equates to well over 30 large a year. Thats serious money. Spread out over a dozen clubs, that probably wouldnt get you that much status because the dancers would likely forget who you are by the time you make the rounds and come back. But concentrated in one or two clubs, that kind of spending would earn you roller status and the associated benefits.
FBR
I usually keep the love to a couple clubs here in Minneapolis. Sadly not alot of choice's here in "fly over" land. :) I do have a couple girls I go see, but I'm losing interest. I have my eye on a few others to spend some time with. I'm sure I'm asking for drama if I make a change.::)
juggernutz
03-22-2007, 08:54 AM
this total includes drink prices, cover charges, tips, dance costs, etc.
Penny, I just want to say that I find your new avatar really hot.
crizgolfer
03-27-2007, 05:23 PM
Oh yea, concentrate that spending in one club and you could be "the man" (or at the very least, many girls will tell you so ;))
I did this over a 3 month period at one time. It was not $1500 a night, but it was quite significant. Probably 3 visits per month.
I became the "man", and it really started to suck after a while. It killed the enjoyment, because I was constantly getting hit up. By everyone. I could not turn around without someone grabbing me. Sounds nice and it was at first, but when you are enjoying time with one dancer and she goes on stage for her set. It is hard to ever get back to her again. Too many other dancers approaching you and taking time.
I no longer go to that club.
Jenny
03-27-2007, 06:02 PM
I did this over a 3 month period at one time. It was not $1500 a night, but it was quite significant. Probably 3 visits per month.
I became the "man", and it really started to suck after a while. It killed the enjoyment, because I was constantly getting hit up. By everyone. I could not turn around without someone grabbing me. Sounds nice and it was at first, but when you are enjoying time with one dancer and she goes on stage for her set. It is hard to ever get back to her again. Too many other dancers approaching you and taking time.
I no longer go to that club.
I was actually pretty appalled the last time I had a customer and I went on stage; not because other girls approached him (which is the way it works) but because when he politely declined and said he was waiting on me (just... don't even ask why) they don't just go away; instead they derisively say "You're in a stripclub. You don't have to wait for her." Now on the outside I was pretty casual - like "well, she's got a point. You really don't HAVE to wait on me. You could, like, totally ditch me and ignore me for 2 hours and then beckon me over, and I'd STILL be nice to you" (and he laughed), but on the inside I was pretty indignant, like "You can't do that! That is... that is professionally discourteous!" Point is that they SHOULD back off if you indicate that you are waiting on someone.
If you are a known big spending regular of a particular dancer and said dancer is a club queen bee then they don't dare ;)
FBR
crizgolfer
03-27-2007, 06:25 PM
If you are a known big spending regular of a particular dancer and said dancer is a club queen bee then they don't dare ;)
FBR
Ooooh...Chick fight? }:D
Ooooh...Chick fight? }:D
I dont think its a chick fight exactly. Lets just say they are careful.
FBR
xdamage
03-27-2007, 07:56 PM
Point is that they SHOULD back off if you indicate that you are waiting on someone.
I'm having visions of vulchers. They back off when there is no more meat on the bone (or green in the wallet).
crizgolfer
03-28-2007, 04:26 AM
I was actually pretty appalled the last time I had a customer and I went on stage; not because other girls approached him (which is the way it works) but because when he politely declined and said he was waiting on me (just... don't even ask why) they don't just go away; instead they derisively say "You're in a stripclub. You don't have to wait for her." Now on the outside I was pretty casual - like "well, she's got a point. You really don't HAVE to wait on me. You could, like, totally ditch me and ignore me for 2 hours and then beckon me over, and I'd STILL be nice to you" (and he laughed), but on the inside I was pretty indignant, like "You can't do that! That is... that is professionally discourteous!" Point is that they SHOULD back off if you indicate that you are waiting on someone.
Most of them were respectful of the other dancer (some of them weren't). There were a couple dancers that I gave most of my attention to in this time period. There were also 4 or 5 others that I had spent some time with at one point or another. If one of them approached me I would talk for a moment and then move along. By the time I moved along, the one that had my interest would be talking to another guy (totally understandable). This cycle would go on and on most of the night.
There were a few of them that did take the approach of "you don't need her when you have me," but they were the minority. I actually blame myself for causing the problem. The manner in which I tipped probably did it. It did ruin the club for me.
Jenny
03-28-2007, 06:08 AM
I'm having visions of vulchers. They back off when there is no more meat on the bone (or green in the wallet).
Thank you x, for sharing that lovely characterization of me and my colleagues. You are as charming as usual and at times like these I'm somewhat surprised that you have to pay women to act like they like you.
Criz - okay, I admit I have a somewhat latent agenda here. But I don't think the problem is that you tipped too much. (This is my way of working for the cause. Don't stop the generous tipping!)
GenWar
03-28-2007, 08:53 AM
Thank you x, for sharing that lovely characterization of me and my colleagues. You are as charming as usual and at times like these I'm somewhat surprised that you have to pay women to act like they like you.
Those of us who actually DO have to pay women to like us are somewhat insulted by your tongue-in-cheek tone. 8)
-gen
crizgolfer
03-28-2007, 09:05 AM
Criz - okay, I admit I have a somewhat latent agenda here. But I don't think the problem is that you tipped too much. (This is my way of working for the cause. Don't stop the generous tipping!)
I still spend the same amount. Just not the same way.
Jenny
03-28-2007, 10:11 AM
Those of us who actually DO have to pay women to like us are somewhat insulted by your tongue-in-cheek tone. 8)
-gen
Oh come on Gen; regardless of all the things you pay us for, you know we like you for free.
xdamage
03-28-2007, 06:59 PM
There is a compliment in their somewhere. I find Jenny's softer side to be very sexy.
lunchbox
03-29-2007, 12:40 PM
There is a compliment in their somewhere. I find Jenny's softer side to be very sexy.
Odd, I just find it patronizing.
Jenny
03-29-2007, 02:25 PM
Odd, I just find it patronizing.
Oh come on lunchbox. I like you. I find you endlessly funny. And charming. And I'm sure your character is above reproach. And the intelligence of your posts is far beyond the norm expected on stripclubjunkie. I find this just hurtful.
lunchbox
03-29-2007, 03:22 PM
Making a grammatical faux pas just for me? I might have to dust off my I <3 Jenny avatar.
Tdonuts
05-12-2009, 11:59 AM
I used to spend in the neighborhood of $150 a visit. As of recently I met an awesome girl to hang out with in the vip. Awesome personality. No extras-in fact we spend most of the time talking and cuddling, although it is a 2 way high contact club. With her I generally spend $900-$1000.
Earl_the_Pearl
05-13-2009, 02:42 AM
I used to spend in the neighborhood of $150 a visit. As of recently I met an awesome girl to hang out with in the vip. Awesome personality. No extras-in fact we spend most of the time talking and cuddling, although it is a 2 way high contact club. With her I generally spend $900-$1000.
You are the PL strippers dream about.
Tdonuts
05-13-2009, 04:08 AM
Yeah, What can I say. I find it curious though, especially after reading many posts on this site. I'm not some slob that I often see at a club, I always make sure I'm clean and presentable, and DO NOT get "grabby" or try to push the boundries. There are certain things that are acceptable In the club that I'm not comfortable doing. We seem to hit it off well, and despite her dancer persona, she seems to reveal some pretty personal things that I have confirmed as true. (Being a strip club goer for only about 4 mo, I was quite intrigued with the dancers, and with this particular one, I asked all the questions that I should't have, according to the dancers on this site. Yet, she revealed all that I asked) After our first meeting- 100 on lap dances and conversation at the bar-she gives me her email, second visit a few weeks later 100 plus conversation she offers her phone, third visit 250 plus conversation- she asks to do lunch on one of her off days. Did it several times, I've actually spend more time with her outside the club than in. I am not looking for an intimate relationship with her so -maybe that's why this is working out so well. I realize she needs to make a living so I continue to visit the club where she dances. I have the disposable income, so it does't reallybother me.
stressed
05-13-2009, 04:01 PM
Boy someone pulled this up from way back.........i go to so many different types of clubs that it varies. My low is 200 and my high 2500-3000 that is still kind of fuzzy. But on average i would say 600 if you divide the money by the amount of visits per year. who knows i dont think i really want to know
Golden_Rule
06-04-2009, 08:48 PM
Yeah, What can I say. I find it curious though, especially after reading many posts on this site. I'm not some slob that I often see at a club, I always make sure I'm clean and presentable, and DO NOT get "grabby" or try to push the boundries. There are certain things that are acceptable In the club that I'm not comfortable doing. We seem to hit it off well, and despite her dancer persona, she seems to reveal some pretty personal things that I have confirmed as true. (Being a strip club goer for only about 4 mo, I was quite intrigued with the dancers, and with this particular one, I asked all the questions that I should't have, according to the dancers on this site. Yet, she revealed all that I asked) After our first meeting- 100 on lap dances and conversation at the bar-she gives me her email, second visit a few weeks later 100 plus conversation she offers her phone, third visit 250 plus conversation- she asks to do lunch on one of her off days. Did it several times, I've actually spend more time with her outside the club than in. I am not looking for an intimate relationship with her so -maybe that's why this is working out so well. I realize she needs to make a living so I continue to visit the club where she dances. I have the disposable income, so it does't reallybother me.
It shouldn't, unless you feel that you are purchasing her attention because you aren't worth it without the exchange of $$$.
I always wonder about the self-esteem levels of men who trade money simply for company. Do you not think a straight up trade of your company for hers is an equal, fair, trade?
I'm not asking for any other reason than pure, intellectual, curiosity.
So few fellows admit to it that having one present who does gives me the opportunity to ask what the motivations are, and why you think its worth it?
So I absolutely promise I am casting any predispositions aside and am sitting here, totally open minded to anything you have to say on the topic...
Earl_the_Pearl
06-05-2009, 09:55 AM
I always wonder about the self-esteem levels of men who trade money simply for company. Do you not think a straight up trade of your company for hers is an equal, fair, trade?
I find the non sexual company of women I want to fuck boring.
Golden_Rule
06-06-2009, 07:58 AM
I find the non sexual company of women I want to fuck boring.
If I didn't think you were kidding I might find that a little shallow. :)
Earl_the_Pearl
06-06-2009, 12:54 PM
If I didn't think you were kidding I might find that a little shallow. :)
Not shallow just that men have very little in common with women 30 or more years younger then they are. What is the reason we were made man and women? If the command of the creator is shallow that is all I can be.
latingod
06-07-2009, 07:08 PM
Wow I spend a few buxx but I also expects good roi. I like to have fun, drink and get dances If anything else happens so be it.
Golden_Rule
06-09-2009, 05:45 PM
Not shallow just that men have very little in common with women 30 or more years younger then they are.
Oh... You just said women initially.
If you simply meant women 30 years younger than you I understand.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-13-2009, 02:18 AM
Oh... You just said women initially.
If you simply meant women 30 years younger than you I understand.
I said
I find the non sexual company of women I want to fuck boring. There are no women my age I want fuck.
rlams2000
06-13-2009, 05:24 AM
^^Are you sure?
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latingod
07-12-2009, 12:16 AM
So my visits are less frequent as I've been traveling a lt this year for fun. But when I'm in town and I visit my favourite club, let's say 10 days out of everymonth I spend about 1k to 1.5k everyday between drinks, lunch, VIP rooms, tips and girls. I am very well known by everyone from bartenders, bouncers, house moms and dancers as if I like a girl I will spend most of that cash just on her. And I have a few that I like during dayshift and som more during night shift. So now becausei dissapear 4-5 weeks at a time when I'm in town they want to hang out meet outside and come over to my place and hae fun. All in all it's been money well spent.
Jake39
07-19-2009, 10:03 PM
Usually I start off with a dance set of 2 @ $20 - $40 to see if the girl is one I want to do more with. I am particular and won't hesitate to go out on floor and get another girl if situation is not meeting my goals or expectations. If extras then spending can range from $150 - $300, depending on girl, what I want, performance, and type of service. Above all as a paying customer, I expect to be treated with respect and services performed to completetion. I never spend more than $25 just to enter VIP or CR unless buying a lifetime membership of which a have a few.
However, I am not set in concrete. When out of town on businesss I have been swayed by some very sexy women to spend $300 and more on them at the club and this just for dances as they were so hot. My SC monthly budget is $1300 to $2000 per month. When spending pushes above $2000 I get nervous because this is taking away from investment. Currently I am concentrating almost all of this on one gal who is giving me fantastic GFE itc and otc.