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Smith
01-16-2007, 01:08 AM
I want a clarification about what extras mean. If there is still one thin layer of clothing between a customer and a dancer, would you all still call that "extras"? Or when it is said a club where most extras are allowed that typically the customer, sorry for being so literal, can take it out mid-dance at least long enough to put on a condom (or put one back on).

Do many people really not realize that when dancing turns from... grinding to... humping... to a slight poke here or there... to more than a poke... that there often is enough fluid exchange to make it unsafe sex that can spread STDs and get her pregnant? I mean she can get your whole lap wet and he from near the beginning has a wetness from pr ecu m. Condoms just don't stay on with aggressive grinding with intermittent "sex acts" unfortunately.

BrunetteGoddess
01-16-2007, 01:14 AM
Extras is anything that isn't allowed in the club and/or is illegal.

Extras can also be defined as something extra from what a dancer would usually do in a dance.

Jenny
01-16-2007, 05:39 AM
Extras is a bit of a fluid term.

How exactly do we differentiate between grinding and humping? Like what level of pelvic thrust is required to make it humping, and thus "unsafe"? Seriously - this information could be important to me.

And I don't know how much porn you've been watching, but there is just no way I'm soaking some guy's lap.

xdamage
01-16-2007, 08:27 AM
Jenny is correct in saying "Extras is a bit of a fluid term."

It varies depending on the norms and laws (which vary considerably across the United States and world-wide), and even then, there is a fairly hard to define grey scale between legal activities (e.g., some grinding) and extras (e.g., extended humping).

Often what is "allowed" in a club is iffy. The bouncers may look the other way, but if vice catches you, well you're going to jail.

As for intermittent penetration (yes, some dancers will do this), that would almost assuredly be defined as extras anywhere in the United States. Sex is brothel territory. If a guy or girl doesn't know that even a short moment of unprotected penetration is risky (STDs or pregnancy) I mean what can you do? Some people are going to have unprotected sex despite the risks. Nothing you can do about it but educate, and in the case of strip clubs, set laws to try and protect the stupid from themselves. Still people will do it.

As for taking it out long enough to put a condom on, I'm 99.9999% sure that the laws in all clubs in the United States prohibit customers taking it out in front of the dancers period. So you're into extras territory, condom or no condom in the U.S. The laws may be more lax in other countries.

Bob_Loblaw
01-16-2007, 08:32 AM
LOL, sorry but that's too funny! ^^^

Like CF said, extras is anything that breaks club rules. There's no black and white answer as rules differ between clubs, states/provinces, countries...

As far as getting a dancer pregnant through your clothes, you'd have about as much luck getting a girl pregnant by kissing her (twins if it's with tongue).

Smith
01-16-2007, 10:12 AM
Based on what I could read and understand from other exports, the risk goes fairly slowly from zero risk to low risk (with rare apparently-documented cases in similar but not the same activity) to standard risk depending mostly on the quantity of fluid and the thickness of the clothing.


How exactly do we differentiate between grinding and humping? Like what level of pelvic thrust is required to make it humping, and thus "unsafe"? Seriously - this information could be important to me.
If she is wet enough and there is deep enough penetration that lasts long enough for his clothes inside her to absorb enough of her fluid to soak through, then it is "unsafe" if he is wearing thin clothing. If his clothes are thin enough and he generates a lot of precum, then it is "unsafe". If he cums while inside her (perhaps even on the first stroke?), I would imagine that would be "unsafe".

Jenny
01-16-2007, 10:32 AM
Oh my god, this dude is my new favourite Chia Pet. How much precum do you think guys generate? For that matter, how long do you think the dancer would have to be "penetrated" THROUGH CLOTHING in order to soak a guy's pants? You may answer in millilitres and seconds (minutes:seconds, if required).

xdamage
01-16-2007, 02:11 PM
I'm not sure I get the chia-pet reference.

Smith
01-16-2007, 05:06 PM
Perhaps this is more about the clothing a guy is wearing. I agree I don't necessarily see cotton being "soaked" just "wet" with a normal amount of fluids from either. I don't think I really saw a difference between "wet" and "soaked" before I posted but it seems relevant. With just a single layer of certain fabrics with no underwear, I still think it's not safe. Good thing I'm a guy and I can control that part.

mr_punk
01-16-2007, 05:20 PM
If there is still one thin layer of clothing between a customer and a dancer, would you all still call that "extras"?no.

Or when it is said a club where most extras are allowed that typically the customer, sorry for being so literal, can take it out mid-dance at least long enough to put on a condom (or put one back on).no, i wouldn't consider the act of putting on a condom (even in mid-dance) an extra.

If she is wet enough and there is deep enough penetration that lasts long enough for his clothes inside her to absorb enough of her fluid to soak through, then it is "unsafe" if he is wearing thin clothing.LOL..i like to wear thin, oversized shorts (sans underwear). however, in all my laps, i have never had a stripper gush vaginal fluids out of her pussy like a Super Soaker. do you have any idea what this would do to my dry cleaning bill? furthermore, why in the world would anyone try to penetrate a stripper through clothing? it sounds very painful to me.

If his clothes are thin enough and he generates a lot of precum, then it is "unsafe". If he cums while inside her (perhaps even on the first stroke?), I would imagine that would be "unsafe".well, we must be talking about a LOT of precum. you know, it doesn't ooze out like maple syrup from a tree. like i said, i don't wear underwear and even after a number of dances. the spot is only slightly smaller than the diameter of a golf ball.

Perhaps this is more about the clothing a guy is wearing.no, it's more about you thinking about getting the cooties or hit with a paternity suit from a LD.

I_luv_dancers!
01-16-2007, 10:23 PM
Extras is a bit of a fluid term.

:rotfl: Hehehe


How much precum do you think guys generate?

Yup, "fluid" term.....

Maybe you're watching too many "Squirt" porn vids, Smith.

"Extras" are things that are against the rules of the club or counter to local law enforcement's interpretation of the law. Extras can range from one-way touching in an airdance club all the way to full sex. Depends on the context.


Chia pet reference...

Well, ya see you spread the seeds on the outside of the chia-pet then you fill the pet up with water and it slowly oozes out through the pet to water the chia seeds on the outside......

Pulling yer dick out in the middle of a lapdance will get you tossed from a lot of clubs, but it's not an extra until the dancer does it for you.

Katrine
01-17-2007, 10:39 PM
I don't get it. How do you penetrate a woman while wearing clothing? Even thin clothing? Is your dick that big and your pants that thin and loose? Does she not feel the fibers of material tearing up her insides? Is this a communication problem?

Whipping it out is an extra. If you have to wear a rubber over your willy during regular LD, change it in the bathroom. That's fucking gross to do it in the middle of the club. We know some guys do it, but no one really wants to see it!

Jenny
01-18-2007, 09:27 AM
I don't get it. How do you penetrate a woman while wearing clothing? Even thin clothing? Is your dick that big and your pants that thin and loose? Does she not feel the fibers of material tearing up her insides? Is this a communication problem?
Thank you. I seriously didn't want to push this in case I sounded, like, hopelessly naive. But I totally didn't get it.

xdamage
01-18-2007, 10:15 AM
I am pretty sure he he means that either she pulls his dick out completely (or he does), or she undoes his clothes up to the point of his thin underwear, and then pushes down on his dick either while she is wearing something thin (e.g., a bikini bottom) or pushes her own bottom's aside. And yes, some strippers do this if you let them.

He is not saying he is deeply penetrating her, just think outer labia pressing around or against the tip of his dick. His question? or concern or whatever is that if she is wet, can his pre-cum soak through and get her pregnant? Or can they exchange enough fluid through clothing to get an STD?

I'd say yes, and yes, so don't be stupid. The risks are not very high, but it's a cheap thrill, and not worth taking the risk.

yoda57us
01-18-2007, 01:56 PM
This is supposed to be a section for talk about Free Sex. I'm not sure where this umpteen-millionth thread about what an extra is belongs, (by the way, the answer is who really cares?) but I'm quite certain it's not here.

Katrine
01-18-2007, 08:12 PM
That seems pretty lame, like the sex I had in high school, lol! Ah well, I do believe it was our Doc-catfish who claimed that his SC thrill was the idea of making out with the prom queen in the backseat. Or in this case, quasi-wet humping the high school skank. ;)

xdamage
01-19-2007, 08:34 AM
^^^

Exactly.

mr_punk
01-20-2007, 11:14 AM
oh, it is lame. especially, when the stripper asks if you can feel her clit or pussy. now, my shorts may be thin. however, they're not so thin, that i can tell what i'm poking up against. anyway, stick to the RCG, girls.