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StrayStripper
02-15-2007, 12:45 PM
I hear all these responses mostly from women in their late teens and early twenties. Women change a lot in their 20's and what you want at 21 will likely be very different when you're 30. But then women that age also think they know everything, soooo...

Most of them claim to be mature for their age. ???

How much the age difference matters is determined by what you want out of the relationship. If you are 22 and he is 44, in 5 years you'll be a sexual babe and he will pop blue pills a la Bob Dole. In 10 years, you will be at your sexual peak and he will have extra skin.

I dated a man in his 40s and thought that he wore his pants too high. It was all good because I wasn't looking for something serious or long-term.

ChocolateKiss
02-15-2007, 12:50 PM
I just turned 23 yesterday, and my boyfriend is 37. We have only been together a couple of months, but so far so good.

Aine
02-16-2007, 01:22 AM
When I was 17 my boyfriend was 27. There was one guy I dated for a short time that was 9 years younger than me. My first husband was 2 years older than me. My current husband is 2 years younger than me.

kittygirl
02-21-2007, 04:59 PM
Sorry to come pee in your cheerios again...

The reason age does matter is you can't be 40 when you've lived 21 years.

Meaning= only time will tell what worth the relationship really had, and you can't avoid it.

Personally, and I'm sure I'll get flack for this, I believe girls who aren't even 25 but know how they will think for the rest of their lives are immature and naive. I can't believe they think they are mature for their age.

If they were, they would understand time does alter reality and people change as they age.

Trust me as a former old man fucker - just to prove I'm not from the other side - you are so going to laugh at yourselves after your 30th birthday. If you don't believe it, let's make a bet.

It's funny how youth (in my world anyone 25 and under) know everything and are experts and are always mature enough.

I encourage all these perverted pursuits, obviously some people just don't have enough confidence to get real booty. And I'm referring to the men and girls in the equation.

PS - Honey with the geezer couple, these people sound warped and perverse and I would run very far away before anything gets too deep in your head.

cherry_sin
02-24-2007, 11:03 AM
I'm sorry you're a closed minded bigot.

It's okay though. I forgive you. I run into people like you all the time.

BrunetteGoddess
02-24-2007, 11:09 AM
Sorry to come pee in your cheerios again...

The reason age does matter is you can't be 40 when you've lived 21 years.

Meaning= only time will tell what worth the relationship really had, and you can't avoid it.

Personally, and I'm sure I'll get flack for this, I believe girls who aren't even 25 but know how they will think for the rest of their lives are immature and naive. I can't believe they think they are mature for their age.

If they were, they would understand time does alter reality and people change as they age.

Trust me as a former old man fucker - just to prove I'm not from the other side - you are so going to laugh at yourselves after your 30th birthday. If you don't believe it, let's make a bet.

It's funny how youth (in my world anyone 25 and under) know everything and are experts and are always mature enough.

I encourage all these perverted pursuits, obviously some people just don't have enough confidence to get real booty. And I'm referring to the men and girls in the equation.

PS - Honey with the geezer couple, these people sound warped and perverse and I would run very far away before anything gets too deep in your head.


Bwuhahaha. Yeah, OK.:jester:

If you're laughing at yourself at 30 because you're with a much older man, then you obviously didn't love him enough to stop obsessing over age a LONG time ago ;)


I'm sorry you're a closed minded bigot.

It's okay though. I forgive you. I run into people like you all the time.


Yeah, me too. Funny how they're always the same know-it-alls chastizing others for thinking they know it all ::)

cherry_sin
02-24-2007, 05:05 PM
^^^ Exactly. Irony, anyone? Pshh.

To say that I'll not love the greatest loves of my life after I blow out a particular set of candles leads me to feel sad for her - cause anyone who thinks that has never experienced love as powerful as what I feel right now.

gingerlee
02-25-2007, 02:48 AM
Sorry to come pee in your cheerios again...

The reason age does matter is you can't be 40 when you've lived 21 years.

Meaning= only time will tell what worth the relationship really had, and you can't avoid it.

Personally, and I'm sure I'll get flack for this, I believe girls who aren't even 25 but know how they will think for the rest of their lives are immature and naive. I can't believe they think they are mature for their age.

If they were, they would understand time does alter reality and people change as they age.

Trust me as a former old man fucker - just to prove I'm not from the other side - you are so going to laugh at yourselves after your 30th birthday. If you don't believe it, let's make a bet.

It's funny how youth (in my world anyone 25 and under) know everything and are experts and are always mature enough.

I encourage all these perverted pursuits, obviously some people just don't have enough confidence to get real booty. And I'm referring to the men and girls in the equation.

PS - Honey with the geezer couple, these people sound warped and perverse and I would run very far away before anything gets too deep in your head.


I've always dated older guys, I mean shit, I have an age MINIMUM. I'm 23 and I'm yet to be able to actually date somebody within 10 years of myself. I'm quite happy being the silly girl dating the 'old' guys. More for me I guess. I'm greedy like that. }:D

cherry_sin
02-25-2007, 08:48 AM
A-fucking-men. Why should I date some 21 year old guy who's just barely able to buy his own alchohol when I can date a man who has his shit together and just bought his own house?

I don't wanna put up with him trying to figure out his life and get his shit in order. I'm not his momma. I'd rather find one that already has it going on and share his happiness.

logan820
02-27-2007, 08:13 PM
I have enjoyed this thread older men are great! they know what they want and they know how to treat a woman!!!!

TigersMilk
02-27-2007, 08:23 PM
A-fucking-men. Why should I date some 21 year old guy who's just barely able to buy his own alchohol when I can date a man who has his shit together and just bought his own house?

I don't wanna put up with him trying to figure out his life and get his shit in order. I'm not his momma. I'd rather find one that already has it going on and share his happiness.

A second Amen to that! No boys allowed for me. I'm 22 and my lover is 36 and our birthdays haven't happened yet this year. I learn alot from him. I'm confused enough being 22 and I don't need another confused person in my life. Usually older men know how to treat a woman and that old fashioned mentality is kinda nice too. Not the whole thing but I mean chivalry and showing its not dead.

VegasPrincess
02-27-2007, 08:31 PM
I lived with someone who is 13 1/2 years older than me from age 17-20. We had a great relationship.... wasn't meant to be but age had nothing to do with it. I'm cool with age diffs.

BalletBaby
03-03-2007, 02:38 AM
Sorry to come pee in your cheerios again...

The reason age does matter is you can't be 40 when you've lived 21 years.

Meaning= only time will tell what worth the relationship really had, and you can't avoid it.

Personally, and I'm sure I'll get flack for this, I believe girls who aren't even 25 but know how they will think for the rest of their lives are immature and naive. I can't believe they think they are mature for their age.

If they were, they would understand time does alter reality and people change as they age.

Trust me as a former old man fucker - just to prove I'm not from the other side - you are so going to laugh at yourselves after your 30th birthday. If you don't believe it, let's make a bet.

It's funny how youth (in my world anyone 25 and under) know everything and are experts and are always mature enough.

I encourage all these perverted pursuits, obviously some people just don't have enough confidence to get real booty. And I'm referring to the men and girls in the equation.

PS - Honey with the geezer couple, these people sound warped and perverse and I would run very far away before anything gets too deep in your head.

First of all peeing in cheerios is gross. Use a toilet like the rest of us civilized people.

And who said you had to act 40 to date an older guy? I'm fine being 20 years old.

Time called. It says the relationship is worth it.

Who said anyone under 25 knew how they would think for the rest of their lives? I know I've never said that. Well if you can tell that someone's immature and naive just by something they posted, you most be super-mature yourself! And I'm pretty sure most people on here know that people change as they age. It's part of life.

Alright the bet's on. I'll be laughing after my 30th birthday. Laughing because the man I'm with now is setting the bar really high for anyone in the future. Hahaha. I have high standards, I deserve to be treated like a princess. Hahaha.

And being over 25 makes you automatically mature and an expert? Mkay.

Sorry but I have more than real booty. I've got that plus love.

Geezers are the shit, Mkay?

PS. What's so great about younger guys anyway? Since you seem to know so much? Please enlighten me, older wiser grasshopper!::)

Silky
03-03-2007, 11:43 AM
I have always had and still have a fantasy to fuck a sexy hot older guy...as in 10 - 15 years older,,,,i am 22. My b/f is 5 years older and even that turns me on, although not a big difference. If something was to happen to my relationship, one of the first things i would do is find one to fuck probably.

ViolaStrings
03-03-2007, 12:22 PM
An age difference is fun when you're in your 20s and he's in his 40s, but what about when you're in your 50s and still living life and he's in diapers?

BrunetteGoddess
03-03-2007, 01:18 PM
Well maybe because I didn't start dating, and married, my husband because the age difference was "fun", but when that time comes, I'll help him change them if I have to. It's called love? (No offense VS)

ViolaStrings
03-03-2007, 04:01 PM
Well maybe because I didn't start dating, and married, my husband because the age difference was "fun", but when that time comes, I'll help him change them if I have to. It's called love? (No offense VS)

I think old guys are great, but I wouldn't want to be a widow the last 20-30 years of my life. It's better to marry someone close to your age to grow old with.

My last bf was 20 years older than me and it was great, but I can't imagine how horrible it would be to be in the prime of my life and he's an incapacitated old man.

NinaDaisy
03-03-2007, 05:53 PM
I think old guys are great, but I wouldn't want to be a widow the last 20-30 years of my life. It's better to marry someone close to your age to grow old with.

My last bf was 20 years older than me and it was great, but I can't imagine how horrible it would be to be in the prime of my life and he's an incapacitated old man.

I guess when these women dating much older men get old and their guy dies before them that they try to date someone closer to their age or maybe a little bit older. And all those guys will still be trying to date women younger than they are. That's when you learn the meaning of "poetic justice". :D

BrunetteGoddess
03-04-2007, 03:07 AM
I'm sorry, but if/when my husband dies, I don't think I'll be too keen on dating again. If I eventually was, it would take YEARS for me to open up to any guy again. I would expect my husband to grieve, but then be happy, even with another woman, if I should die first.

hyzenthflay
03-04-2007, 04:53 AM
I think old guys are great, but I wouldn't want to be a widow the last 20-30 years of my life. It's better to marry someone close to your age to grow old with.

My last bf was 20 years older than me and it was great, but I can't imagine how horrible it would be to be in the prime of my life and he's an incapacitated old man.



I have thought about this alot since I am getting pretty serious with my boyfriend. We have a 13 yr difference.
Yes, I have a greater chance of being a young widow, with him, but my last boyfriend was in the military and consistently going overseas, and the one before that died unexpectedly.
My point is........you could be widowed at any age!! You should enjoy every minute of the time you have with the one your with, regardless of age!!
Also, since my boyfriend is older, has a great job, owns his house........he is taking care of me. If he is taking care of me now, why shouldn't I take care of him when he ages?

BrunetteGoddess
03-04-2007, 05:01 AM
Exactly. Well said.

It's a bit disturbing how Nina was talking about "poetic justice" in the aftermath's of a spouse's death. It's as if we are comitting a crime for loving someone much older than ourselves, so we will "get ours" in a sense like we are criminals who should be taught a lesson. WTF? just because you don't understand our decisions, doesn't mean it is wrong. Love is love. I'm sure every woman who is in a serious relationship with a much older man is aware of the young widow factor. I think this forces us to live in the moment much moreso, because your time is quite possibly more limited to spend with the man you love.

Also, I didn't choose purposefully to be with a much older man. He just kind of was brought into my life while I was dating someone else. I did not seek him out. It seems with the comments above once more, that as dating an older man, we must be "snubbing" the younger ones, and we will get it thrown in our faces if/when our partner dies and we are out in the dating pool again. Not true!

What kind of distorted thinking is going on in this thread? It's one thing to have a differing opinion, it's quite another to have such disturbing views thrown at others .

hyzenthflay
03-04-2007, 08:01 AM
Yeah, I was really upset by what she wrote as well. It was actually pretty fucked up and heartless.
Older men and younger women has always been the norm, especially many decades ago. I, myself, have always preferred someone closer to my age. Only twice in my life have I dated an older man, both of them a 13 year difference. I didn't search them out, they just fell in my lap. Thank god I didn't let my prejudice stop me from dating these wonderful men.
I think it is fine that some of these ladies disagree. Even I worry a little about very young women and way older men, but I would never sit here and talk about the death of someone they love, then them being unable to find love again, as some sort of justice!!

BrunetteGoddess
03-04-2007, 08:35 AM
Right again, it was heartless.

hardkandee
03-04-2007, 09:03 AM
In the event my relationship will last until one of us dies (assuming natural causes I'd say that's about 50ish years away), who knows what will happen. Do I have something against dating afterwards? No. Honestly, have I thought about what I'll do after he dies (aside from the fact I've made sure I'm on his life insurance)? No. I can do that in 20 years. Why bother now?
Plus, who said if he turns senile on me I won't lock him up in an old person's home? :devil:

ViolaStrings
03-04-2007, 11:29 AM
You guys are ridiculous.

I have and do date older men, what I stated is simple fact.

BrunetteGoddess
03-04-2007, 12:46 PM
How nice ::)

Well from the "ridiculous" pool over here, I also stated that there was a difference between stating you facts and opinions, and being heartless. Notice we were referring to Nina's posts.

Do people have trouble reading this weekend???

Emily
03-04-2007, 01:03 PM
I think everyone got their opinions in...now it's just getting nasty.