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beauty21queen
02-15-2007, 02:18 PM
Thats cute but if you need other things to spend on go ahead and wear the same,from my experience they dont even know ..... but yeah have fun but if you buy another great, make sure its a good one because I have a bunch that still have the tags!:O

AkashaM
02-15-2007, 11:35 PM
Congrats Lyric!

i have a feeling she's gonna be around SW for a long time, lol. ;D

Lyric
02-16-2007, 05:38 PM
Any suggestions on an image I should do? Or am I just taking this dancing thing overboard?

lovely1021
02-18-2007, 10:26 PM
I think that you should just stick to some sort of sexy lingerie piece to start off. I've only danced for 2 1/2 months. at 19, I found the girls easy to deal with because drama in a strip club is just like drama at a regular job. of course you don't tell everyone your business,but with the custy's it takes a lot more because you have to learn how to tell TRUE lies:) . meaning that you have to lie to them without it sounding like a fabrication, but you can learn some of the tools that will asisst you with that here I know I did. As far as costumes, when I started wearing costumes I found that I made the same amount of money. BUT, once I learned a little more tricks of the trade, costumes made me more money. Costumes require you to be a little more confident. You have to learn how to strike up a convo using your costume or be prepared for sexy comebacks after some custy says something regarding, be it a good or bad one. I read all through this forum & I see that you want to be well prepared before going for it. My advice to you is... go! do it! you'll never learn as much as you want to, until you actually go do it. I was the girl with no rhythm, back home. But once I put heels, make up and my outfit on in the club...I became someone I've always thought about being, I became a sex symbol!! Nothing else mattered on stage. I learned 2 pole tricks and I did almost every set until I perfected them and then on to the next.

If the shyest girl in her senior class could do it, than I know you could.


TIP: Don't tell the girls at the club you choose that you're married & have a child. Girls sometimes spill those beans to custy's on accident!!;)

Lyric
02-18-2007, 10:32 PM
I think that you should just stick to some sort of sexy lingerie piece to start off. I've only danced for 2 1/2 months. at 19, I found the girls easy to deal with because drama in a strip club is just like drama at a regular job. of course you don't tell everyone your business,but with the custy's it takes a lot more because you have to learn how to tell TRUE lies:) . meaning that you have to lie to them without it sounding like a fabrication, but you can learn some of the tools that will asisst you with that here I know I did. As far as costumes, when I started wearing costumes I found that I made the same amount of money. BUT, once I learned a little more tricks of the trade, costumes made me more money. Costumes require you to be a little more confident. You have to learn how to strike up a convo using your costume or be prepared for sexy comebacks after some custy says something regarding, be it a good or bad one. I read all through this forum & I see that you want to be well prepared before going for it. My advice to you is... go! do it! you'll never learn as much as you want to, until you actually go do it. I was the girl with no rhythm, back home. But once I put heels, make up and my outfit on in the club...I became someone I've always thought about being, I became a sex symbol!! Nothing else mattered on stage. I learned 2 pole tricks and I did almost every set until I perfected them and then on to the next.

If the shyest girl in her senior class could do it, than I know you could.


TIP: Don't tell the girls at the club you choose that you're married & have a child. Girls sometimes spill those beans to custy's on accident!!;)
Thanks for the TIP. I've been practicing like crazy. I would love to learn the pole tricks but first I have to get the whole dancing thing right first....lol. Hopefully I'm able to loosen up more. I get all the time that I have a great body but for some reason I just can't seem to put it into action....lol

lovely1021
02-18-2007, 10:38 PM
Just try to dance slow and sensual, and one of the most important things is to look them in their eyes. This is how you know who to go sit with when you come off stage. I always search the crowd while I'm dancing and the guy that I see is glued to me like NFL Game day, that will be the first one I sit next to when I get off stage. I'll say something like "You were making me shy when noticed you staring at me." it works for me. until you learn real trick just always think about selling sex on stage. I mean your job is to provide an illusion. Try dancing in front of your mirror at home. Or asking if there is any time you can practice stage sets. Some girls even have routines prepared already. I wouldn't suggest it because, you might get nervous and forget the steps.

sxc_gia
02-19-2007, 04:15 AM
TIP: Don't tell the girls at the club you choose that you're married & have a child. Girls sometimes spill those beans to custy's on accident!!;)

Personally, I don't agree with that. Not even 1%. I'm not married, nor do I have children but whenever the question rises, I'll tell you if I'm single or not. Men don't get turned off, some actually like it, and as for the girls, let them keep clucking. Chicckkkennheads. No, seriously, I know plenty of ladies that have husbands, kids, boyfriends and make more money because of it. A friend of mine is married with four kids. Four. Boy, let me tell you, that girl is filthy rich. Mind you, she knows how to talk to men to get what she wants, or more importantly, needs. If I tell a guy I'm with someone, they usually start asking how the sex is, bla bla bla (LOL!!) and I make up whatever story comes to mind in my Tequila state, making sure it at least takes up half the song. :P
Speaking of made up stories, I've been trying this "tip" if you will, I work in a place where people tend to get really drunk.. This usually only works with young guys, I wouldn't really play that game on an older gentleman but annnnnyway.. I grab one of my girls and we go to a table and start talking about how we met in Montreal, drank lots and lots of Tequila, (now while I'm doing this, I'm ordering 4 Tequila's.. Now, don't try this if you have a low alcohol tolerance, I can drink around 5 coolers and another 7 Tequila's and still be sober;D ) had crazy sex, and now she/me is in town to visit and we're getting kind of excited (this is when I kiss my friend on her bare shoulder or somewhere sexy.. I know, I know, lame but it works cause men say we're intimate!!) since we just did a dance together but it was only one song.. Bla bla bla.. Or something along those lines.

Next thing you know, we're in the back, giggling and doing everything sensualy and sloooowly... Heheh

Lyric
02-19-2007, 07:57 AM
Tomorrow I go for the real thing. I'm still a little nervous but I think I'll do ok. Hopefully no drama starts. If I keep to myself wil that start anything? I know in school I try this but most of the girls say that I'm stuck up because I dont hang with any of them.

lovely1021
02-20-2007, 12:40 AM
Good Luck Lyric!..... Oh I'm glad that Gia's friend is making money!! But, I still would suggest not telling the girls ur personal business because while some guys are turned on by that, others are not. Some men like to think that you're available & actually interested in them, sometimes when caddy girls go up to ur custy & tells them you have a husband it makes them think ur just talking & flirting for the money... She speaks from her experience & I speak from mine. Your situation may not be similar to either one of us!:-*

Try to be friendly...you never know which girl will be the one that knows all the ends & outs of the club...which will definitely be helpful to you!!

PleasureVictim
02-20-2007, 03:17 PM
I agree with Lovely. Some of your co-workers would do anything to stop you from making money. There are guys out there who won't care about your personal life, and they are some that will.

What I find the most annoying...is that most men will asky 'Why does your husband let you do this?? I would never let my wife yadyadda'.

Just having a conversation like this will get in the way of you securing a lapdance. Try to keep the convo off of your personal life. You can talk about your child, but why do that? (BTW I'm a mom too) He/she really doesn't need to be discussed.
Let's discuss how much fun you'll be having in the VIP room while I'm dancing for you....not what my baby likes to watch before bedtime lol.

The fact that you are in a long term relationship doesn't compute with some people. I've heard dancers whispering about if so and so's boyfriend or husband is really a pimp or a leech because she is working hard to get some money. What it all boils down to is keep your personal life personal. Things can get twisted into so many different ways....and people will believe what they want to believe.

I assume you will be dancing near a military base like I have in the past. (Not too far from you anyway)
Also being prior service I can tell you most military guys won't care that you have a husband. Some want company in the club, others will want some outside regardless of your status.
And if they find out hubby is active duty like them...here comes more questions about what unit he is in yadda yadda. I'm sure I don't have to tell you this- but DON'T go there.

Many of them would love to be what the military calls 'PVT Jody' who takes care of the soldiers wives while hubby is deployed.

Good Luck. :-)

Lyric
02-28-2007, 01:17 AM
So far things have been going well. I had one rude custy so far. He almost made me quit on the spot. As I was dancing he came up to me and called me a ho and said that he knew i wanted to get his "dough" from him so for me to get it. Other than that. i've been managing it well.

AkashaM
02-28-2007, 02:07 AM
Welcome to business, lol.

Aww, her first rude custy....our baby is growing up! (tears)

All really tasteless jokes aside, good luck to you, hope you make lots of money!

Lyric
02-28-2007, 12:56 PM
Lol. I hope I make lots of money too. i'm trying to save up for some cosmetic surgery. And honestly I really didnt think that customers would be rude considering they are the one coming to look at us. I guess I learned the hard way.

lovely1021
02-28-2007, 11:12 PM
Yeah you would think, but not always, huh? N E who congratson the start of your dancing career!!:'( :) ;)


...............Oh!! I love the new picture!!

Lyric
03-05-2007, 09:01 AM
Yeah you would think, but not always, huh? N E who congratson the start of your dancing career!!:'( :) ;)


...............Oh!! I love the new picture!!

Thank you. Many are saying they like the new pic. YAY...lol;D

aubrey_anderson
03-05-2007, 11:12 AM
Congrats! I danced in Savannah for a while at Uncle Harry's. I really liked it there. I'm not sure where you're dancing at but if you ever want a change, I'd highly recommend it! I was underage when I worked there, everybody knew, but nobody cared. At least on nightshift they didn't, I drank all the time in there. Just don't get drunk whatever you do.. But having a little buzz makes it a little easier for me.

As for customers, just be funny.. And when they say something rude to you, just let it go. Don't listen to anything rude they say, most of the time they're just drunk and stupid!

As for the girls, I had a few girls that I would talk to inside the club but I never hung out with any of them outside the club. I'm married and have a kid as well. Oh, and I'm 21.. So I'm young as well, but I just looked at stripping as a job, not a lifestyle which is the most important thing. Don't get caught up, and be friendly to the girls but I wouldn't make friends with any of them IMHO. I always did that, and I never had any drama with any of the girls, and going to work was actually pleasant because I had some nice girls to talk to in the dressing room or if it was slow and I was never the target of any drama.

If you have any more questions about Harry's or anything else let me know!! :)

Paris
03-05-2007, 11:46 AM
Are there any specific exercises I should be doing to keep in shape? Also, I saw some really nice pictures of girls doing pole work and stuff, ho wthe heck do i even begin on that!?....lol

Work your lower body. Squats, uphill walking and calf raises will get your legs ready to be in high heels dancing for 8 hours a night.

Be ready for the muscle and knee soreness, though. You can train for 3 hours a day, and you will still be surprised at how sore/bruised you'll be for your first few weeks dancing. Don't worry, it does go away in three weeks (or less) of regular work (about 20-30 hours a week dancing).

When you begin dancing, SAVE YOUR MONEY! Your husband is going to need time to acclimate to civilian life (maybe a year or more) when he returns. He may have mental and physical conditions that require extra attention, and the VA is just overwhelmed, so saving money and getting private medical insurance for both of you is a very wise move for you both. You should buy a high deductible insurance as it is cheaper by the month. The Health savings accounts offer tax deductible savings and is a kind of peace of mind that you can't get from the VA. (I know someone personally having trouble and not getting the help her husband needs, sorry about the tangent).

Let us know how it goes;).

xBlackBettyx
03-05-2007, 09:28 PM
I think that you should just stick to some sort of sexy lingerie piece to start off. I've only danced for 2 1/2 months. at 19, I found the girls easy to deal with because drama in a strip club is just like drama at a regular job. of course you don't tell everyone your business,but with the custy's it takes a lot more because you have to learn how to tell TRUE lies:) . meaning that you have to lie to them without it sounding like a fabrication, but you can learn some of the tools that will asisst you with that here I know I did. As far as costumes, when I started wearing costumes I found that I made the same amount of money. BUT, once I learned a little more tricks of the trade, costumes made me more money. Costumes require you to be a little more confident. You have to learn how to strike up a convo using your costume or be prepared for sexy comebacks after some custy says something regarding, be it a good or bad one. I read all through this forum & I see that you want to be well prepared before going for it. My advice to you is... go! do it! you'll never learn as much as you want to, until you actually go do it. I was the girl with no rhythm, back home. But once I put heels, make up and my outfit on in the club...I became someone I've always thought about being, I became a sex symbol!! Nothing else mattered on stage. I learned 2 pole tricks and I did almost every set until I perfected them and then on to the next.

If the shyest girl in her senior class could do it, than I know you could.


TIP: Don't tell the girls at the club you choose that you're married & have a child. Girls sometimes spill those beans to custy's on accident!!;)

You're right - there are shit talkers EVERYWHERE. At my old 'regular' job, I had a gaggle of girls that SOMEHOW found out I was dating this girl (who later turned out to be an ex child escort crackhead...God she was a fucked up person...probably lied, who knows) How they found out, I don't know simply because I mentioned it to one person who would NEVER say anything about it, and knew about it cause I went to school with them too.

Just be careful whatcha say to other girls - girls do talk, we're all guilty of it.

lovely1021
03-06-2007, 01:50 PM
You're right - there are shit talkers EVERYWHERE. At my old 'regular' job, I had a gaggle of girls that SOMEHOW found out I was dating this girl (who later turned out to be an ex child escort crackhead...God she was a fucked up person...probably lied, who knows) How they found out, I don't know simply because I mentioned it to one person who would NEVER say anything about it, and knew about it cause I went to school with them too.

Just be careful whatcha say to other girls - girls do talk, we're all guilty of it.

Wow, I can't believe that! caddy bitches are everywhere! So this was at a 'regular job', right? If yes, that's crazy. But like you said it's just human nature. You never know what people might slip up & say once they feel threatened by you in one form or another.
Not everyone knows how to zip (:-X ) it, these days!!!

xBlackBettyx
03-06-2007, 02:12 PM
Wow, I can't believe that! caddy bitches are everywhere! So this was at a 'regular job', right? If yes, that's crazy. But like you said it's just human nature. You never know what people might slip up & say once they feel threatened by you in one form or another.
Not everyone knows how to zip (:-X ) it, these days!!!

Yup, bitchiness is EVERYWHERE. I don't know what it is, but sometimes it is easier to work with men than with women.

PleasureVictim
05-08-2007, 12:11 PM
Lyric, I sent you a PM. If you read this, could you get back to me? Thanks :-)