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revente305
02-13-2006, 02:14 AM
well i didn't really mean to apply it as a response to ur post per sai. I know what you mean but the lap dance to him was more like opening padoras box. pretty much any strippers I know outside the club i dont get dances from unless its to helpthem get away from some anoying customer thatis bugging them an i don't pay and its moe of going through the motions thngetting an actual dance. You should never really give a guya lap dance as a first meeting but thats just my take.

onlythebest
02-13-2006, 02:18 AM
Goddammit OTB... shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Come make me,LOL.

The guy asked me to dance for him.I didn't hit him up.

SanPR
02-13-2006, 02:32 AM
what can I say.... they are in the club.. what was he supposed to do???? get dances from everyone else, but not you?? not smart business sense...

In my opinion if he wants to get a dance, he knows the price, get it... and as a guy myself I can tell you this... the dance was inconsecuential... if the meeting had taken place in a movie theather while watching bambi 2, the end result would have probably been the same...

its the oldest trick in the book..... yawn Im sooooo tired, I dont think I can drive home.... can I stay??? heh.., I just think its too funny, and Im just glad the guy wasnt dangerous....

revente305
02-13-2006, 03:03 AM
in all it could have been much worseyou should count your blessings.

onlythebest
02-13-2006, 03:15 AM
I had back-up in case things weren't Kosher any longer.

Sh0t
02-13-2006, 05:21 AM
Men don't drive 90 miles to meet chicks they met online to be customers or friends.

kermit210
02-13-2006, 09:41 AM
Everyone please be careful with myspace, it's not as innocent and friendly as it looks. It's just as sketchy as other internet dating sites, dressed up for our generation.

A girl from my neighborhood was just murdered by a myspace 'friend'. She was a single Mom. She didn't dance for him, nor did she invite him home. So, even if you ARE careful, bad shit can happen.

I don't have a news link, but here's al ink to her profile http://baltimore.craigslist.org/rnr/133293382.html

CuriousJ
02-13-2006, 10:46 AM
Be careful girl . But from some of the posts here I didnt realize once you receive a ld that friendship is not an option . Is that the opinion of most dancers ? sorry it was just kind of spun into the topic .

Deogol
02-13-2006, 12:00 PM
Men don't drive 90 miles to meet chicks they met online to be customers or friends.

I have.

Well, not as a customer - but as a friend.

I didn't stay the night though - the place I was at had a swimming pool. :D

Deogol
02-13-2006, 12:07 PM
But from some of the posts here I didnt realize once you receive a ld that friendship is not an option . Is that the opinion of most dancers ? sorry it was just kind of spun into the topic .

That is a pretty common sentiment on this board.

Look at it this way - it is pretty unlikely ya gonna be friends anyhow.

To be friends with a woman, you need to be friends with her friends. Anyone ever notice that? Otherwise, you're a "scary stranger" even if you have been working together for like three years.


That's why guys hit on a girl's friends - it's the only way in... unless you like banging your head against the wall at a bar or something.

OK, there are exceptions... but most of the time....

Pamela
02-13-2006, 12:17 PM
I don't think it's a case of a Myspace meeting going wrong; it's a simple case of poor judgement if you're going to immediately let people you just met (and customers at that) spend the night. I can't even fathom a situation where I would find that remotely appropriate.

I Highly agree. Poor judgement. Period. Do your thing for him...kick his ass out 5am or not!

You don't have to say a WORD to many guys. It's the signals they are reading. It was all wrong...i would not have blamed him. And thank god he left.

Very lucky!

Pamela

threlayer
02-13-2006, 12:18 PM
In the Benchley thread we were just talking that a shark is a shark. It does what it does. Why should we be surprised when it bites our feet when they are close by?

You just didn't look long enough to see if it was a shark. But all in all it was a good lesson.


Added:
I don't think necessarily the guy was bad. He was just into immaturity (even at his age), over-horniness, unfounded assumptions, and bad judgements. If he had not have done that, he could have gone part way in proving himself. As it is now, embarassment abounds.

onlythebest
02-13-2006, 12:19 PM
That's the thing Pam,I didn't give him any signals that were antagonizing his behavior.He was just being a pushy idiot.


In the Benchley thread we were just talking that a shark is a shark. It does what it does. Why should we be surprised when it bites our feet when they are close by?

You just didn't look long enough to see if it was a shark. But all in all it was a good lesson.

Only on SW you can have two totally unrelated threads come together in a way,LOL.

Pamela
02-13-2006, 12:24 PM
Everyone please be careful with myspace, it's not as innocent and friendly as it looks. It's just as sketchy as other internet dating sites, dressed up for our generation.

A girl from my neighborhood was just murdered by a myspace 'friend'. She was a single Mom. She didn't dance for him, nor did she invite him home. So, even if you ARE careful, bad shit can happen.

I don't have a news link, but here's al ink to her profile

I dunno, it's like when you put here for...dating etc. in your profile on myspace...kinda freaks me out....i could not put that, and i am single. Not innocent, i have talked via phone to many people there, but not met any person from myspace i do not know. Not that i am scared..it's just that they seem to want much more, and are much more desperate there. And if you show a nice interest....they fuckin never leave you alone....::) have to watch your step. I could see where myspace would be a very good place for predators.

Pamela

Pamela
02-13-2006, 12:27 PM
That's the thing Pam,I didn't give him any signals that were antagonizing his behavior.He was just being a pushy idiot.



Only on SW you can have two totally unrelated threads come together in a way,LOL.

Yea i am glad it worked for you....wow...sounds scary to me to even read what you had against you while you sleep...Safe, that is all that matters now!!!;)

Silverback
02-14-2006, 07:47 PM
SB,you call yourself a stray???

Well, from the perspective of the book.

You know, no one holding the leash. :)

I'm glad you're safe.


(been out of town a couple days)

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 08:07 PM
Well, from the perspective of the book.

You know, no one holding the leash. :)

I'm glad you're safe.


(been out of town a couple days)

I'm holding your leash,LOL!!!

:P

WB,SB.

Silverback
02-14-2006, 08:19 PM
I'm holding your leash,LOL!!!

:P

WB,SB.

Then I shall serve you faithfully to the end of my days, never leave your side, suffer greatly in your absence, and lunge ferociously at anyone who looks your way with even the slightest hint of malice! :)

And, also terrify the neighborhood cats! :P

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 08:23 PM
Then I shall serve you faithfully to the end of my days, never leave your side, suffer greatly in your absence, and lunge ferociously at anyone who looks your way with even the slightest hint of malice! :)

And, also terrify the neighborhood cats! :P

Yes,German shepherds are great for all of the above,LOL!!!

Deogol
02-14-2006, 08:25 PM
OK everybody - lets give OTB a break. Has she been hen pecked enough? :P :D

Silverback
02-14-2006, 08:31 PM
OK everybody - lets give OTB a break. Has she been hen pecked enough? :P :D

If you don't mind we're working out the details of the owner/dog (men are) contract! >:(

tampafldancer
02-14-2006, 08:33 PM
Wow...that sucks.
He totally tried to take advantage of the situation.

As much as I want to say that I wouldn't do that, at times I can be too kind and naive. It might have been the same situation for me. Be careful.

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 08:37 PM
If you don't mind we're working out the details of the owner/dog (men are) contract! >:(


:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Silverback
02-14-2006, 08:43 PM
As much as I want to say that I wouldn't do that, at times I can be too kind and naive. It might have been the same situation for me. Be careful.

I was going to mention how difficult it is to move through life without losing basic kindness and compassion.

Watch out for your safety.

But, it's good to see some people remain kind and considerate. I really hope those are the winners in the evolutionary battle.

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 08:52 PM
Wow...that sucks.
He totally tried to take advantage of the situation.

As much as I want to say that I wouldn't do that, at times I can be too kind and naive. It might have been the same situation for me. Be careful.

That's EXACTLY what happened.Thanks for understanding.


I was going to mention how difficult it is to move through life without losing basic kindness and compassion.

Watch out for your safety.

But, it's good to see some people remain kind and considerate. I really hope those are the winners in the evolutionary battle.

Yep,that's why you're a German shepherd.

;D

Silverback
02-14-2006, 08:53 PM
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:


What?!! /:O

We were so close.

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 08:56 PM
What?!! /:O

We were so close.

LOL,SB.We are closer now than ever before.

:D

Silverback
02-14-2006, 09:07 PM
Oh, that's so nice! :hug:

revente305
02-14-2006, 10:54 PM
sure why not i messaged you and added you :) 8) myspace is a drug very very addicting

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 10:54 PM
Watch out for weirdos.

Biz
02-14-2006, 11:02 PM
http://www.youtube.com/?v=oJ_dam5DmsM

All you need to know about Myspace....

GoldCoastGirl
02-14-2006, 11:04 PM
He said he'd been up since 5 in the morning and didn't want to drive the 2 hours home.After he said that,I felt a little responsible for his safety and that's the ONLY reason I let him stay over.Sue me for being worried about someone.

What's wrong with a hotel or similiar room for the night? Just that I would never allow someone I have just met and just recently did a lap dance for ever stay at my place.

The fact that you did a lap dance for him and then proceeded to 'hang out' with him was where you went wrong. If he just hung at the club, maybe tipped you on stage and hung out the next day he may not have had the same reaction. Next time, do not lap dance someone. Be frank with them by saying STAGE TIPS ONLY.

You can tell a guy you are "just friends" til you are blue in the face... he will rely on your actions (the lap dance) over what you are saying.

Just have some general guidelines or rules for new friends like never lap dancing them within the first year of the friendship.

What is done is done. The past is past. Hope we all have learnt from this that no matter the age... we can't always be right about someone.

I'm also glad OTB that it wasn't worse than a misunderstanding (it had the potential to be worse). ;D

MojoJojo
02-14-2006, 11:05 PM
I resemble that remark....
Watch out for weirdos.

revente305
02-14-2006, 11:14 PM
yes its like the x files--- the weirdos are out there.. everwhere. when im visiting my friend while shes workin i see a lot of them, and then when she calls me after work i hear at least 2 good stories.

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 11:15 PM
You do realize that ALL of the hotel rooms are being currently used for hurricane residents?????I'm sorry,but when a man offers me money at my work for dances,I will not turn him down.I am so f*cking tired of having to explain myself about this.I appreciate your concern,but please stop lecturing me about this.

revente305
02-14-2006, 11:17 PM
What's wrong with a hotel or similiar room for the night? Just that I would never allow someone I have just met and just recently did a lap dance for ever stay at my place.

The fact that you did a lap dance for him and then proceeded to 'hang out' with him was where you went wrong. If he just hung at the club, maybe tipped you on stage and hung out the next day he may not have had the same reaction. Next time, do not lap dance someone. Be frank with them by saying STAGE TIPS ONLY.

You can tell a guy you are "just friends" til you are blue in the face... he will rely on your actions (the lap dance) over what you are saying.

Just have some general guidelines or rules for new friends like never lap dancing them within the first year of the friendship.

What is done is done. The past is past. Hope we all have learnt from this that no matter the age... we can't always be right about someone.

I'm also glad OTB that it wasn't worse than a misunderstanding (it had the potential to be worse). ;D


yes I agree with you even though me and kelley didn't exactly follow that advise . unless you dig the person and want to have a physical friendship stick you your guns.

Feiticeira
02-14-2006, 11:37 PM
I'll bite....
http://www.myspace.com/CorsicaFire

Feel free to add me and Ill add ya back :)

nicetightfit
02-14-2006, 11:48 PM
I fall asleep and then proceeds to kiss my neck and then pushes his hard-on into my back.WTF?????I told him if he didn't go back out into the living room,he would have to leave.

there are some freaks out there!!!!!!
:O :O :O :O

He was just clueless. I wouldn't call him a freak. Freaks are FUN! j/k

He read you wrong...WAY wrong, but kissing your neck and shoving an erection at you sounds like well....a lap dance. :O Getting in bed with a girl that's asleep is dead wrong. Sleep is not a signal to come fuck.

I've known guys that couldn't read a road map into my bed when I wanted them to come in. I keep leashes around for those ones. Strange thing is when I get the leash out of the closet, they start panting and wagging their tongues. Good boy. Here's a scoobee snack.

onlythebest
02-14-2006, 11:52 PM
http://www.youtube.com/?v=oJ_dam5DmsM

All you need to know about Myspace....

That was pretty funny.

Feiticeira
02-15-2006, 12:02 AM
You've gotten enough lecturing OTB, so all I'll say is I am very glad to hear you're OK :)

onlythebest
02-15-2006, 12:11 AM
You've gotten enough lecturing OTB, so all I'll say is I am very glad to hear you're OK :)

Thanks,sweetie.

*HUGS*

Sh0t
02-15-2006, 01:06 AM
link us to his myspace

revente305
02-15-2006, 01:21 AM
i loved that first movie

PaigeDWinter
02-15-2006, 01:47 AM
I resemble that remark....


Yer my favorite MySpace weirdo.

PaigeDWinter
02-15-2006, 01:57 AM
I gotta disagree on the "dont give lapdances to friends" thing. It all depends on the mentality of said friend. When Mast and CO visited, they both got dances. Did either assume that they were going to get laid? No. They were both just helping out friends by getting dances... helping the cash flow to the girls they know and like.

onlythebest
02-15-2006, 02:02 AM
I gotta disagree on the "dont give lapdances to friends" thing. It all depends on the mentality of said friend. When Mast and CO visited, they both got dances. Did either assume that they were going to get laid? No. They were both just helping out friends by getting dances... helping the cash flow to the girls they know and like.

Finally,someone that understands.Thank you,Paige.

Feiticeira
02-15-2006, 02:11 AM
I agree. Many of my male friends are smart enough to know that it's just a lapdance. And that's precisly why they were lucky enough to receive one :P

revente305
02-15-2006, 02:53 AM
add me anyone?



a typical myspace thing your bulletin board is constantly clogged with,.

revente305
02-15-2006, 03:07 AM
what do u think about myspace.com? do any of u have an account there. i do.


yes i do:) would any of you join my group?



you can get my profile from this to.

silverandcold
02-15-2006, 09:34 AM
lol....I just met one of my Myspace friends the other day....we went out for drinks, watched a movie and I proceeded to have THE.BEST.SEX.EVER!!!!!!!!!!!
And yes if we want to get all technical that was wrong in soooo many ways.....But you know that lovely thing called instant attraction? Uh huh.......and it didn't hurt that he had a really, really big hammer. LOL.