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AlexxaHex
02-19-2007, 10:47 PM
I absolutely loved SOME of the sub sessions I did, and others made me cry. It wasn't the psychological stuff that I couldn't handle. Playing along was easy.

It was the fact that a lot of these Dominant clients didn't know what they were doing!! I would leave with bruises on parts of my body that should not be struck with anything (kidneys, stomach, etc) and a lot of them tried to use it as an excuse to get some sort of sexual contact.
I would not do another pro sub session no matter how much I was being paid. I might sub to a very experienced lifestyle player (male or female) if the climate was right, but those pro sessions are dangerous and scary. The person who is in control should know what they are doing...and often they do not if they are paying. I hope you are allowed to screen these guys yourself or end the session if you don't feel right about it. At DOI - we were allowed to take some and not others that we weren't comfortable with. I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to do. Sadly, some pro subs are very self destructive individuals who just give themselves to anyone.
Please be careful. It's a sick world out there.

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Yekhefah
02-19-2007, 10:57 PM
Oh, definitely I'm not going to do a damn thing I'm not comfortable with. I established up front that if I say "Mercy" it means STOP, and if I say "No Sir" it means don't EVER try that again, I won't do it. I can also walk out any time I want, and there's someone right outside so all I have to do is yell if I need to. And yes, I can totally choose who I am willing to submit to or not. This guy was really nice and pleasant, and knew his stuff, and would always ask before trying something new (and readily accepted "no sir" as an answer). It was a great session. I had a wonderful time. He wants to be a regular and I hope he does call again... but I'm definitely charging a higher marking fee. He REALLY blacked me up. I charged him an extra $50 for bruising but it's going to be $100 from now on.

AlexxaHex
02-20-2007, 01:14 AM
Okay I feel a bit better. Just know that not all clients are going to be as cool as that guy. I hope that you never have to feel bad about it. Those bruises can last for a crazy long time and possibly effect your money in the club. I know it kind of did for me. I was so angry at the dude. After that I never let anyone mark me (even lightly) again. The only sub session I will do anymore is with a necro fetish guy and that's because all I have to do is pretend I'm dead. Technically it's not a domme scene and there is no S&M involved.

Arnica gel is good for bruises, btw (but you probably already knew that being a stripper and all).