AlexxaHex
02-19-2007, 10:47 PM
I absolutely loved SOME of the sub sessions I did, and others made me cry. It wasn't the psychological stuff that I couldn't handle. Playing along was easy.
It was the fact that a lot of these Dominant clients didn't know what they were doing!! I would leave with bruises on parts of my body that should not be struck with anything (kidneys, stomach, etc) and a lot of them tried to use it as an excuse to get some sort of sexual contact.
I would not do another pro sub session no matter how much I was being paid. I might sub to a very experienced lifestyle player (male or female) if the climate was right, but those pro sessions are dangerous and scary. The person who is in control should know what they are doing...and often they do not if they are paying. I hope you are allowed to screen these guys yourself or end the session if you don't feel right about it. At DOI - we were allowed to take some and not others that we weren't comfortable with. I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to do. Sadly, some pro subs are very self destructive individuals who just give themselves to anyone.
Please be careful. It's a sick world out there.
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It was the fact that a lot of these Dominant clients didn't know what they were doing!! I would leave with bruises on parts of my body that should not be struck with anything (kidneys, stomach, etc) and a lot of them tried to use it as an excuse to get some sort of sexual contact.
I would not do another pro sub session no matter how much I was being paid. I might sub to a very experienced lifestyle player (male or female) if the climate was right, but those pro sessions are dangerous and scary. The person who is in control should know what they are doing...and often they do not if they are paying. I hope you are allowed to screen these guys yourself or end the session if you don't feel right about it. At DOI - we were allowed to take some and not others that we weren't comfortable with. I didn't have to do anything I didn't want to do. Sadly, some pro subs are very self destructive individuals who just give themselves to anyone.
Please be careful. It's a sick world out there.
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