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Lysondra
03-19-2007, 08:22 PM
My mum has only dated black men except for my father who was Mexican. She says white men are 'boring'... righty-o. She said it was worst when they'd put her in the back dark part of an empty restaurant.. or when they called her a zebra couple. Or when they thought he was her bodyguard. o.O;

I think it's disgusting to treat anybody lower than you. We're all human.

VegasPrincess
03-20-2007, 06:20 PM
Honestly, the people who are telling you not to date him are so ignorant who would even want them around? Screw them, it's better to find out who in your life is cool and who isn't then have false friends and not know it.

sexystephani
03-21-2007, 08:57 PM
I honestly cant believe that in todays world people still have a problem with interracial dating. >:( If someone makes you happy then they make you happy it shouldn't matter what color they are its the inside that counts. (man does that sound cheesy or what but you know what I mean).

Krazyjane
03-21-2007, 11:35 PM
It's one thing to be attracted to an attribute, it's another thing to label it.

dmitri
03-23-2007, 11:33 AM
i found through all my world travels, i just got back from africa, that relationships are work no matter what. theres basics to dating interacially. avoid south street philly while holding hands, unless you have a sense of humor to deal. dont expect people to embrace you or act like were all the same... a white girl in kentucys different then a cali girl, so you cant expect people to see past black and white. dont allow your man to use the excuse that "it's a cultural thing" most often it's not, and most of all dont change. Black men in particular hate it when they date a white girl who starts acting black. we can not ever be anything beyound what we are. i moved to baltimore projects for a while to be with my man. ironically he is a six figure earner that worked his way out of the hood into a good life. we went back to help out his family and you'd think a light bulb went off in the ghetto when i arrived. ironically i never got much heat for being white in the bad part of town. it was always worst when at a highend buisness dinner or shopping in botiques. the man buys me everything and we have lived all over the us. it's never where you expect there to be a problem it's always random shit. it can take it's toll and few have the stamina to maintain a relationship in the face of constant attention. much luck to you.

Kalligirl
03-23-2007, 03:48 PM
Your friends aren't your friends, they are jealous of you and what you have with that man. Its none of their buisness what you do, if your not hurting anyone and they should keep their mouths shut. If your happy, they should be happy.

IMHO, I think "interracial" couples are just couples. Whats the big deal.

Korina
03-24-2007, 04:25 PM
I'm Mexican/Irish American and I married a tall Chinese/American. Going on four years. I get so tired of the small dick jokes.::)

It simply isn't true.

Lysondra
03-25-2007, 07:03 PM
I'm Mexican/Irish American and I married a tall Chinese/American. Going on four years. I get so tired of the small dick jokes.::)

It simply isn't true.

Mexican Irish American?! Holy crap I thought I was the only one!! I must see a picture of you to compare!