View Full Version : Couple has sex in front of 9yr old..
PrettyCurlieQ
04-13-2007, 10:23 AM
lol i meant pcq... im talking about YOU!
HAHAHA I'm such a fucktard .. :rotfl:
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cinammonkisses
04-13-2007, 11:52 AM
HAHAHA I'm such a fucktard .. :rotfl:
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You didn't answer about if you guys ever consulted the childs parents on her known sexual behaviour?
krchab99
04-13-2007, 12:09 PM
thats is so sick and sad i hope those people get alot of theropy. I also thought the reporters in the video were unproffeional in the way they were discussing it.
Optimist
04-13-2007, 12:42 PM
lmao....:D
but seriously...thats sick.
Perhaps you guys have forgotten that BlackSheEp3 has a special edgy sense of humor. You remember the racist t-shirt thread, right? He's just edgy. ::) www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=76315
PrettyCurlieQ
04-13-2007, 12:53 PM
You didn't answer about if you guys ever consulted the childs parents on her known sexual behaviour?
Well like I said, I reported it to my supervisors and they told me that they were aware that she was acting like that. Apparently it's been brought up w/ her mom, and that's all I know. I'm told that this isn't a product of abuse, but there's no more I can do. Apparently her mom was really pissed off that we would suspect such a thing, because her daughter just "expresses herself differently".
My sups. told me that in all cases of suspected abuse or negligence (sp.?!) of any kind, you have to be SUPER sure that you're right before you report it to authorities, because there have been teachers who work up there who have been threatened with their lives. That's a little extreme sounding to me, but apparently some parents get so mad at that kind of accusation that they blow up. IDK if that's a result of maybe being found out that they're abusing their kids or what, but my sups. told me to drop it, becuase they've already tried to figure out what was wrong/get the little girl help. :-\
Optimist
04-13-2007, 01:01 PM
Were I you, I'd report it. Even if you have to do it anonymously. That's not typical healthy acting out. Better to have a professional evaluate the situation than let a 2 year old fall through the cracks.
Corgan
04-13-2007, 05:33 PM
You didn't answer about if you guys ever consulted the childs parents on her known sexual behaviour?
i told her mother (who is a single parent) not to have sex in front of her because of the obvious reasons, and she told me that she couldn't possibly have done that, because shes always asleep when she does something in the room with her.
this is the same mother that told me her daughter's gums started to bleed because i gave her jello.
i'm such a shitty caregiver. ::)
NekkoStarz
04-13-2007, 05:59 PM
You can obviously tell from the photos of the place they lived & of the parents that they're trash. I hope & pray that's all the investigation turns up is that she was "just watching & learning".... People in the world anymore have lost their bloody minds!
Anyways, I know this isn't related... but in Chicago Heights IL area... a principal & teacher were caught having sex in his office... but it's weird how they were caught... They were video taped for about 2 months. Both were married to other people & have resigned due to "health issues & family illness" (yeah right)... Oh, they also caught the principal hugging & gropping another teacher in his office. Ok, so the weird part is... who ever was taping this sent dvd copies of the 2 months to the newspaper, school board, & EVERY PARENT who's child atteneded this elemantary school. The envelops were unmarked & yeah. Who has access to all that!?
NekkoStarz
04-13-2007, 06:25 PM
Oh and to Corgan... you must not know anything bout raising an infant... I have an 8 month old daughter.... When she was 3/4 months old and learning to vocalize she mad "uuugh uughh" noises. It has nothing to do with what they heard or saw cos she was never in the same room yet alone area when my husband and I had sex. And the rocking motion when she was trying to crawl ALL INFANTS DO THAT!! Again, my daughter when learning to crawl rocked back and forth like that till she learned to put a hand out... my friends lil son does it, my other friends daughter did it before she learned. So, yeah, it's just the natural progression of learning vocals & rocking to learn motion.
UtahMike
04-13-2007, 08:50 PM
Well like I said, I reported it to my supervisors and they told me that they were aware that she was acting like that. Apparently it's been brought up w/ her mom, and that's all I know. I'm told that this isn't a product of abuse, but there's no more I can do. Apparently her mom was really pissed off that we would suspect such a thing, because her daughter just "expresses herself differently".
My sups. told me that in all cases of suspected abuse or negligence (sp.?!) of any kind, you have to be SUPER sure that you're right before you report it to authorities, because there have been teachers who work up there who have been threatened with their lives. That's a little extreme sounding to me, but apparently some parents get so mad at that kind of accusation that they blow up. IDK if that's a result of maybe being found out that they're abusing their kids or what, but my sups. told me to drop it, becuase they've already tried to figure out what was wrong/get the little girl help. :-\
Either the law is WAY different in Texas, or your supervisors are feeding you a line of crap so that they do not lose a customer.
The law here requires you to report to family services anything that makes you feel uncomfortable about the way a child acts or is treated. It is a misdemeanor to NOT report it. You can get off the hook if you report it to your administrators and they report it, but if they don't you have an obligation to do so.
I think the laws are likely to be similar in other states.
There should be an anonymous hotline you can call, but Family Services is supposed to keep your name confidential even if you don't request it.
What you have seen is probably not enough for them to take action, but there may be other reports coming in from neighbors, etc., and your report and the others could be enough for them to open a case.
Their goal will be to heal the family, not to break it up, so don't hesitate, call NOW!
PrettyCurlieQ
04-13-2007, 09:00 PM
Were I you, I'd report it. Even if you have to do it anonymously. That's not typical healthy acting out. Better to have a professional evaluate the situation than let a 2 year old fall through the cracks.
IDK, everyone who's worked up there longer than me (i.e. ALL OF THEM) say they KNOW why she does it. It's her 'home situation' and from what I understand from a co-worker, she's seen things she shouldn't, and it's because her mom brings home men all the time, and they don't feel the need to keep what they do in the bedroom. Like I said, I have no idea what's going on, but if I keep seeing this weird shit, I probably will report it. I just don't wanna make a case about it bc I get the feeling it's already been done and no one wants to talk about it?? Because it turned out to be inaccurate suspicions ..