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britt244
03-30-2007, 12:30 AM
^^ ya know, i agree. each post i see i'm like "huhhhh?!"
AlexxaHex
03-30-2007, 12:54 AM
OK so am I the only one going WHAT THE FUCK?
Not really!
I'm wondering when or why this thread in STRIPPING GENERAL became COUNSELING HOUR FOR FEMALE CUSTYS.
Sounds like you need a support group, not StripperWeb.
lmao ^ I agree.
I just got super confused and ..well .. whatever.
gingerlee
03-30-2007, 11:55 AM
*Sits back and wonders why she hasn't seen this thread before now*
AkashaM
03-31-2007, 12:01 AM
I think HHL is a couple, but the wife created this post. I thought I'd seen other posts that were guyish in tone. I thougt I saw somewhere that her husband comes on here sometimes? Maybe I'm wrong...
Sultry Siren
03-31-2007, 10:45 AM
Geeze it took me a while to read through this thread and absorb what is going on...but here is my 2 cents worth.
First off HHL I am NOT a dancer here though I would love to be one someday....
Secondly, when I joined this forum I came in with NO preconceived notions or fantasy or any expectations at all.
I entered this forum in HUMILITY and read every thread that appealed to me and hardly posted a word until I "learned-the-ropes" of this forum. I found that by being silent reading and absorbing I learned far more than by being a post whore.
When I did start asking questions I kept them very few and very humble knowing that I am the outsider here not "one-of-the-girls". I put myself in their shoes by realizing no one wants to feel grilled like they've been charged with a crime, or that someone was trying to dig up juicy dirt on them.
Damn the dancers here get far too much of that non-sense!!!
I did not start "making friends" here until just maybe a few weeks to a few months ago.
This forum or any other is not meant to take the place of REAL LIFE friendships, relationships or whatever. You most definitely will NOT meet many if any from here...that is reality. LIFE happens AWAY from the keyboard!!!
I too am a stay at home mom with no car but that will NEVER limit me! I am out walking every day with my son, I keep my home up and clean, and I cannot let my responsibilities fall or this home and my family will fall along with it and I am the only one to blame.
Also you, me, or anyone here or in our real lives cannot spend a lifetime blaming anyone else for how our life sucks or how much we feel offended. I've learned long ago that being offended is a choice we make. You choose to let yourself feel offended and hurt or you be the duck and let it roll off your back...That is what women do we let it all roll or be victims our whole life and regret everything because we are the poor victim.
As for your brother, divorce or not, tell him to MAN UP ALREADY!!! Maybe that is the reason his marriage failed...He wants to mooch off everyone else and have them pay his way. Damn maybe I am out of line here but your posts scream loser and user! regarding your brother.
Sorry if my post here is too straight shooting and comes across harsh....but I'm the kind of woman that says things straight up, with no BS, and call things as I see them.
If I make friends here that translate in to real life...GREAT!!!! If I do not make a friend here at all that is cool with me as well.
If I actually become a dancer...AWESOME...if not that is awesome as well.
Coming to this forum is a place for me to learn, and understand what it is like for exotic dancers from all over the world, and to smash the stigma and stereotypes that plague dancers. It is a place for me to open my mind and come out of my box.
It is also one of the few places this mom can have "adult" conversation and be in the company of women who have more life experience than I do. This is helping me to grow.
My respect for the women here has gone up astronomically and they have challenged me in ways I never knew possible...some ways have actually helped my marriage!!!
I guess my thing coming here in the first place was the old saying my Grand-pa had..."You ain't learning a thing when yer talkin'!!"
:D :D :D :D
High_Heel_Lover
04-01-2007, 07:38 AM
I'm a woman.
My husband is here too.
ALready figured out how things worked here.
Got my car back.
BrunetteGoddess
04-01-2007, 07:59 AM
I think this thread has run its course.....
High_Heel_Lover
04-01-2007, 08:22 AM
I think this thread has run its course.....
I think so too :)