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Novabynight
12-03-2013, 03:21 AM
Oops double post, you can check it out below

Novabynight
12-03-2013, 03:43 AM
At our club I am extremely good at selling 3 for 100 dances in the "semi-private VIP" area. After I have gotten a "yes" for a dance, I ask them where they want to go. Usually they either say wherever or ask what the different dance prices are. I say "well, you can get a regular old chair dance out here for 20 but it's pretty restricted. We could have way more fun in the semi private or Champagne room. The champagne room is the most private area and Its the only room where I can be fully nude. Blah blah blah" if they are interested I keep selling that but alot of times 300/ half hour is out of their league. I can almost always sell a 40 dance, and once I have one I find it incredibly easy to upsell a 3 for 100. Always try to sell the CR first and work backwards, that is how you bank. Like others have said, always ask for tips. Always ask for dances, no one can say yes if you don't even ask.

Believe in your product. Really believe that you are awesome, amazing, and beautiful and any guy that gets a dance from you is lucky.

Don't ever push your own boundaries- you don't need to in order to make money. You just need to be a smooth talker. Pretend like you really wish that they could touch you but you don't want to be fired or get in trouble with the law. Blame it on the club if possible. Play up the classy card and you will sell more CRs. Big spenders usually just want the time and attention of a beautiful, classy young woman with a good head on her shoulders and a naughty side. When guys ask me why I don't want to be touched sometimes I say " because I'm just like a beautiful flower that will wilt if i am touched too much and i also emphasize that i can touch them in anyway i see fit so just sit back and enjoy. I like to be in complete control and it makes me feel very uneasy to work at clubs where the customers are allowed to grope you for 20 bucks.

Also when I'm selling dances I say the word FUN alot. Ask them if they are having fun and use their response to sell a dance no matter what it is. "I guess" "oh you seem unsure, but I know you would be having fun if I was naked in your lap" or tell them they look bored if they are sitting alone at the bar and say you can help with that. Be flirty and sexual.

One last hint for selling multiple dances is to be very present when you give your dances, make eye contact and soft gasps or whimpers when appropriate. I always make the customer I am with the center of my world, like there is no one else in the room. Most guys will go for the second dance and then the third one is only 20 bucks. Bam 3 for 100.

Oh yeah one last thing, don't lie to anyone to get them in the CR. they are just going to be pissed when they realize they can't actually do extras back there and it's going to be an extremely uncomfortable half hour and they might get angry and complain to management or something or dispute the credit card charge. It is far better to make slightly less money than to flat out lie or imply that something is going to happen that's actually not going to happen. This is why customers don't come back, they feel ripped off. Be straightforward about your rules, alot of times guys are more than happy to follow them if you are clear with them up front. It's not worth feeling like shit later or wondering if the waitress or one of the other girls saw you doing something inappropriate for the rules of your club. You'll make no money at all if you are fired. There have been times where I let a guy touch my legs or something and I won't allow it anymore bc I know that it will make me feel bad. This was pretty long, feel free to disagree its just my 2 cents.

Flickdreams
12-03-2013, 04:58 AM
^ :) Its always interesting to hear a fresh perspective beautiful

MISS_TENAY
01-01-2014, 05:54 PM
exactly Chrissy68 I agree with you on this. plus we all have our own ways of making it happen what may work for one may not work for another. Im not a veteran but im also not such a newbie per-say..(2yrs) and I have learned my tricks of the trade by experience only. but its nice to read and hear how other ladies hustle too.

carolina6
01-23-2014, 08:10 PM
I think it looks a bit unconfident to ask if they want company. I just sit down next to um and start talking, I think of it as "assuming the sale". When I assume they want me I usually do better and in sales they teach you to always assume the sale. kinda goes w that.

While I agree with you in theory, I have found that asking before sitting down works better for me. I don't ask if they want company though. I ask if they are sitting with someone or waiting for someone. If they say no, I sit down. If a guy is waiting for a certain girl or I just don't appeal to him, I am wasting my time. I would rather know this and sit with someone else more likely to spend.

Sierra30
03-31-2014, 11:45 AM
*boyfriends: just dont let them into the club when you work. they will distract you. you will not be focused on the hustle but instead on them. they may get jealous or possessive. they may flirt with other girls and that may piss you off. really, a BAD bad bad idea.



I see.girls do this ALL the time in the club I work in now...one girl is even dating the bouncer and before him she dated the owner...its gotta make it really awkward. She never does dances and I have NO idea how she makes any money....I made the mistake back a million years ago of having my then bf come to the flu. I was working at and....I didn't make hardly anything because I *was* distracted....so now, I don't allow ANYONE who I'm dating to come in unless he spends money on both me and the rest of the girls. And even then I'm not thrilled with the idea...it knocks me off my game

wednesday86
03-31-2014, 01:39 PM
"You're my favorite kind of boy"/"I always go for your type" lines always work for me...whether it be their race/culture ("My last boyfriend was Latino. Latino guys are so hot!") their hobby/profession/name/whatever ("Uh oh you play guitar? Musicians always break my heart." "IT guys always get me in trouble!" "Jacob is my favorite boy name..so sexy" etc) I have a very high success rate with these..Also guessing their background/origins using flattery "You're so tall. Let me guess, Are you German?" gets them every time. :D

MistyGirl
07-27-2014, 06:42 PM
This is a really good thread:) I'm fairly new so it's quite helpful:)

SexedUpCat2
09-22-2014, 07:53 PM
I tried a new hustle that worked both times I tried it:
I see a customer just got in and is waiting on a drink, so I say hi and ask if I can keep him company while he waits. He says yes and we just chat for the half-to-full song the wait takes. When the drink arrives, I say ill let him enjoy it, settle in, and ill see him later. Both times, the customer said I was so nice and friendly that he was happy I came back (during second beer), and they each bought a string if dances. Idk I'm going to try it again, but it seems to work for getting my hooks into them right away! They don't realize I was hustling at all.

KikiGem
10-16-2014, 07:58 PM
*when the club is busy, chatting is not necessary. in fact, it's a waste. one line is all you need. i repeat over and over: "hey, im chrissy, wanna come and play with me? <sexy smile/wink/lip bite in slutty way>" or something similar. often substituted with "let's go play/im ready to rub myself on you."



I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to employ this one but using one-liners is basically everything I've been told NOT to do. I don't know it's worth a try...

Aniela
10-16-2014, 08:56 PM
I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to employ this one but using one-liners is basically everything I've been told NOT to do. I don't know it's worth a try...

Her key phrase there is 'when the club is busy'. When it's packed w/ spenders, the usual 2- or 3-song hustle often goes out the window in the interest of hitting up as many potentials as possible. Guys will also realise you're on a mission when the club is that busy, so they in turn are often more likely to respond positively, since who knows when you may get a chance to come round to them again ;)

NightGoddess
10-16-2014, 09:03 PM
KikiGem, if you're working a lot, you are going to employ just about every hustle in the book. Eventually, you will see that there is a time and a place for every hustle. When it's busy, I can go up to a guy and tell him "let's go" and he will go, especially during the last hour or so in the club. Guys are drunk by that time and there for one thing - to give us money!

KikiGem
10-16-2014, 09:26 PM
^^ Thanks for the advice ladies! I am a day shift girl for now and I hate the slow hustle sometimes. All the taaaallllkiing lol. Obviously though a one liner will not work during a day shift.

I still had it in my mind from reading "Strip and Grow Rich" to never say something like 'wanna dance.' My hustle has always been pretty decent, but I do need to work on my night shift hustle.

NightGoddess
10-22-2014, 05:28 PM
There's no right or wrong way to hustle. The "wanna dance" line has worked for me more often than it has not. I find "I'd really love to dance for you" works really well, too, for some reason.

wednesday86
01-26-2015, 12:09 PM
lately I've been skipping asking customers IF they want a dance or IF they're ready..and just say "so which dance do you want? topless or nude?" 99% of the time it works every time.

Da808gypsy
08-19-2015, 11:05 PM
Thank you for all the helpful tips! I'm trying to focus on these. I'm new to dancing. I've only been doing this less than a year and so far my best night has been about 400. I'm actually on my way to work now and although it's a Wednesday my goal is 800. :) let's see how this goes!

SophiaVonSyren
12-01-2015, 02:28 PM
Best thread EVER! I'm soooo going to try some of these. I am an average'ish earner (sometimes I do really well and sometimes really not so well), so I will report back how much more monies I am earning using some of these tips. Thank you so much! I am so glad I found this forum!

Isabo
02-26-2017, 11:20 AM
This VIP term is confusing to me. Can someone explain what is the difference between regular lap dances and VIP? Is it the location? Say if you get a customer for VIP, is it that the club has more private rooms or do you use the same booths as regular lap dances?

22lligm
02-26-2017, 11:54 AM
This VIP term is confusing to me. Can someone explain what is the difference between regular lap dances and VIP? Is it the location? Say if you get a customer for VIP, is it that the club has more private rooms or do you use the same booths as regular lap dances?

VIP is usually somewhere else and more secluded & at alcohol clubs it includes a bottle.

gwennny
05-30-2017, 10:17 PM
WOW! This thread has changed stripping for me. I want to say thank you to everyone who posted tips and especially to the OP Chrissy. I started dancing again after taking a long break and even though I look really good, I had NEVER been good at hustling, I had always been terrified of asking for dances and asking for money. I was doing so bad, one busy Friday night I froze and couldn't approach anyone and just left. I realized that I really need to figure this out, I will not let stripping defeat me! So I literally went through this thread and wrote down on notecards different lines, mainly ones about TELLING guys that I'm ready to dance for them instead of asking and literally approaching every guy that I possibly can in the club without feeling scared/bad/weird about it, which I used to.

The main things I've been doing that have REALLY worked are: TELLING the guys that "I'm ready to rub all over you, you're gonna love it, you'll never forget it, I know you want to..." etc... then taking their hand and trying to lead them.... realizing that I need to approach everyone and learning to NOT take No's personal at all...still being the sweet girl that I am but talking dirty and about sex a lot....not being afraid to approach different guys that are in the same group.... if its a bachelor party, almost immediately telling the friends that they "need" to buy the bachelor a dance from me... getting into my stripper character and being extremely affectionate with the guys and hugging them a lot, they seem to love that....and that's really about it, but I'm feeling so much more confident and the past two nights that I focused on these things I did really well! Thanks!!!

Honney
02-07-2020, 12:24 AM
It's really helpful! Thanks for posting this!