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Picaresque
12-14-2007, 12:28 AM
But I have learned how one forign girl does her cyberpunk makeup on youtube
URL plz?? ;D
Picaresque
12-14-2007, 12:35 AM
Damn-finding an apartment with out 4655363485 bad, bad reviews on those rating sites is impossible! I suppose most of NJ is dirty, unsafe and neglected by now?
Have you thought about renting from a private landlord? The best places I've ever lived in were rented out by individual people who chopped up houses into apartments and rented them out. Much less hassle, too. Try craigslist?
::sending productive apartment-finding vibes your way::
Roulette
12-14-2007, 12:37 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRRME-rRxlE&feature=related I like her I only watched two of her vids. She seems kind of uncomfortable doing the vids tho.
Roulette
12-14-2007, 12:38 AM
side note: I've started packing I hope to be done by 3:30.
TigersMilk
12-14-2007, 12:39 AM
We were mentioned in another forum. *puts troll alert to orange status*
sxybrat07
12-14-2007, 12:39 AM
I'm debating getting up early and trying a Bikram Yoga class tomorrow. I've been putting it off due to lack of time...but now it may be due to lack of sleep...it's at 9am....eek
Roulette
12-14-2007, 12:43 AM
We were mentioned in another forum. *puts troll alert to orange status*
ugh. what forum? not another car one is it? Not that I have a problem with gearheads... just... yeah, ya'll know.
I have just entered the exhaustion phase. and also not gotten up to start packing again. Damn you SW and your seductive ways!!
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 12:45 AM
OMG I just spent an HOUR composing a reply to the "dating = prostitution" thread and when I hit "post reply" it told me the thread was closed! I'm soooooooo tired.
So I'm gonna post my reply here! Very sorry for the clog but it was a long-ass labor and I can't just let it go!
OK, you wanna play? Let's play.
First, in general you seem to think you can use a couple of terms interchangeably: sex and dating/relationships, and sex and business. Nope. Picture two Ven diagrams (that's the circles that overlap a little in the middle). That's how it works. You can have overlap (I'll talk about that later) but you don't have to. You can't just switch the words back and forth and pretend they're the same thing. To continue...
The fact is that desireable women are not going to be having instant sex with dudes who take the bus and don't show a potential for high income. Most of you will speak on a minority of females who have integrity. But that is not the case for the majority.
#1: Starting a rant with "the fact is" doesn't make it a fact. Back it up with stats or drop the facade.
#2: If you assume that our replies will be those of the "minority of females who have integrity", why bother asking us? We're obviously the lunatic fringe, according to you. So uhhh why pretend to care what we have to say?
#3: Not addressing the actual statement you purport to be "fact" yet. I'll pick it apart down below.
What if 2 people make a date and when the bill arrives at the restaurant, the man waits for the woman to pay? Are you all going to say that she'll pay with no problems? Are you all going to say that she'll find him to be charming and an equal oppourtunist? No. You'll more be thinking about how he's cheap and inconsiderate. But it's amazing how it's never inconsiderate for the woman not to pay. The point is that if the man were to do that, she will lose any interest in him and move on to another guy.
Your premise #1: All (or we'll even substitute "most" for the sake of argument) women expect the man to pay for their date. Sub-premise: If the man does not pay, the woman's regard of the man will decrease.
Assume the premise is true. What are some reasons why this might be?
A.) The man initiated the date and/or chose the restaurant. As the one "in charge" of the date, it is his (conventionally recognized) responsibility to handle the details.
B.) Societal convention, much like opening a door for a woman. (Which, by the way, is free.)
Of course, a generalized umbrella statement like yours just doesn't stand up in real life. We could throw in innumerable variables like "they discuss the bill, offer to go dutch, etc" and there are as many societal conventions for those options as for your assumption that the man is expected to pay. I personally expect to go dutch on casual dates, which disproves your theory as far as I'm concerned.
You've conveniently ignored posts by AlexxaHex, aussiebelle and Optimist who all said, paraphrased, that their enjoyment of their date and consideration of their partner for sex is NOT based on the money he spent on those dates. Please unignore. A date does not necessarily = lavish dinner at 5-star restaurant, drinks at a bar, theatre tickets, etc. A date's worth does not increase in direct proportion to the money spent. And I do hope that you aren't going to be so anal-retentive as to count the gas money from transporting to and from said date.
Now as many of you are dancers for money, you don't need to know the guy before getting into his lap for a performance, correct? That means you're Natuarlly able to get physical with any type of man, without an emotional connection first. The fact is that no woman Naturally needs to spend 3-4 dates with a man before getting sexual. Most women do it because it's financially rewarding and amazingly easy to do.
Premise #2: Women claim that they need to "know" their prospective lover before having sex with him.
Premise #3: Women are able to have sex with men without knowing anything about him. Sub-premise: This is supported by the fact that women can dance for men without knowing anything about him.
Let's start with premise #3 first (ignoring the sub-premise for now). Well duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Having sex = insert rod A into slot B. People can and do get physical at all stages of "knowing" each other. It CAN be done. What does that prove? Absolutely nothing. By that logic, a man can "naturally" rape a woman, so why doesn't he? C'mon. There is no logic in a "X can do Y, therefore X should do Y" statement.
OK the sub-premise. *flexes knuckles* Back to the Ven diagram. There is business. There is sex. If your business IS prostitution, then the two overlap--sometimes. (I'm sure that prostitutes have non-work-related sex in their private lives.) If your business is NOT prostitution, then there is no overlap. Dancing does not = sex. My business does not = sex. You could just as easily say to a McDonald's cashier, "Hey, you rang up that guy's order, therefore you CAN have sex with him." No correlation, buddy. Sorry.
Now back to Premise #2. We're talking preferences, not abilities. As I said above, the physical ability to do something does not = the normative value of doing it. And it discounts common events such as one-night-stands, where the extent of what the woman really wants to know is their STD status and if they prefer their place or hers. Just like business does not = sex (unless you are a professional prostitute), dating does not = sex. They can overlap or they can be mutually exclusive. The standards for considering someone for one are not necessarily the same as the other. Make sense? Oh I do so hope it does.
Men cannot control their sex drive as well as women can, thus they will do almost anything she wants, in order to get the ultimate sexual goal. Dating is basically a nicer word for prostitution, by defintion of what events transpire -30-
Premise #4: Men cater to women's standards in order to pursue sex with them.
Premise #5: Women's standards = money, or else prostitution = exchanging sex for something other than money.
Gawd I'm getting tired. Sure, let's assume #4. I'd say it's a give-and-take of catering but whatever.
Premise #5 I addressed above as did AlexxaHex, aussiebelle, Optimist and probably another 5 people by the time I post this insanely long reply. Money is not in direct proportion to worthiness as a sexual partner. Again, you're getting confused in the Ven diagram. "Financial stability" is usually in the "dating/relationship" circle. But it doesn't have to be, and it certainly doesn't have to be in the "sex" circle. If I'm cruising for strange, I don't need to know anything about his assets--just his ass.
So in your first statement, which was "desireable women are not going to be having instant sex with dudes who take the bus and don't show a potential for high income," you're talking about "instant sex" aka one-night-stands, right? Not dating? Then the answer is your premise is incorrect; for sex, the standards of dating/relationships don't necessarily apply. (And nor do the ones for business.)
Good grief. I should never try to do this after midnight. I'll probably come back tomorrow and clear the whole damn post out.
Roulette
12-14-2007, 12:47 AM
I want to read that. That will be my motivation to get my shit packed then I can read it as a reward. I hope this works. Oh oh oh I'm also sorry that you spend so much time on something you couldn't respond to. that blows!!
TigersMilk
12-14-2007, 12:47 AM
^^With hot articulate chics like SundayM around...what else do I need...nothing..nothing at all.
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 12:49 AM
Come fondle mah sexy brainses! ;D
Dirty Ernie
12-14-2007, 12:52 AM
You all realize of course, if VC stumbles his way in here and threadjacks the random thread back into his dating/prostitution thread, random thread 2.0 may have to be called into service early.
Anyway, on a random note: I pack like a chick.
TigersMilk
12-14-2007, 12:54 AM
Come fondle mah sexy brainses! ;D
Comes to hump your big brains!!}:D
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 12:55 AM
Oh bring it on. We'll threadjack him right back til the lolcatz come home!
Sophia_Starina
12-14-2007, 01:03 AM
Hehehehe... I had a fun little troll fight!
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 01:03 AM
Egads...another one disappeared. It's like magic! Or soap bubbles. Or magical soap bubbles!
"Is it a shiny magical Christmas tumor?"
sxybrat07
12-14-2007, 01:04 AM
Ah, the troll fun is over. Off to bed I go.
Sophia_Starina
12-14-2007, 01:04 AM
Yeah... I'll miss that thread.
Oh well...
Roulette
12-14-2007, 01:04 AM
Anyway, on a random note: I pack like a chick.
what does that mean? I didn't know we packed a certain way. fuck!! [roulette bangs head] why am i still here!?!?!?!?! (Roulette becomes unconscious from banging head) [/Roulette bangs head]
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 01:09 AM
LOL silly Roulette.
Mmmm I am so past my bedtime. Goodnight, boys, girls, and trolls.
PaigeDWinter
12-14-2007, 01:16 AM
Oh Em Eff Gee the local 711 has Naked Juice! I haven't had that groovy stuff in years! SO FULL OF WIN!!!!
Dirty Ernie
12-14-2007, 01:16 AM
No offense meant, that's just what my friends (male and female) tell me.
I'm packing for Maui right now and it's a solo trip, 8 days. So, what do I need? How about 9 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of swim trunks, 3 pairs of boardshorts, 7 short-sleeve t-shirts, 3 long sleeve t-s, 4 Tommy Bahama's, 4 camp shirts, cross trainers, vans, reef shoes, sandals, dozen pair of socks and boxer briefs, 2 pairs extra glasses, 2 watches. I'm cutting back by not taking Dockers and casual shoes. Plus I write an inventory to make sure I bring everything back.:-[
Oh, and everything gets ironed/pressed before packing, and I do not fold I roll everything to minimize wrinkling. This is why I start 10 days early. :-)
Roulette
12-14-2007, 01:22 AM
Ah. no offence taken!! I'm not packing for a trip though. I'm moving and need to be out by 9:30ish because tomorrow I leave and I have shit to do during the day.
I always want to put two R's in during - durring. Anyway I wont be done by 3:30 and I have clemintine in my teeth.
Callyish
12-14-2007, 01:56 AM
damnit ! the troll thread was entertaining :(
Roulette
12-14-2007, 02:42 AM
ugh. 4:30. finally done packing. sleepy beddy bye time.
britt244
12-14-2007, 08:38 AM
man i missed trolls :(
phillyvixen
12-14-2007, 08:40 AM
I also roll when i pack, i do it because i think it fits more and i am a total over packer!
Our electricity when out last night, first time ever in our new house.
We lit candles and watched Oz on the laptop in bed, then as soon as we shut it down to go to sleep.......Lights came back on.
weird
I am SOOOO procrastinating going into the city. I have to report a car stolen that i let a friend borrow and i hate cops. I'd like to get to see some friends if i go down there too.
britt244
12-14-2007, 08:50 AM
^ hahaha i thought you meant roll like on e!
if theyre draining my water heater does that mean i dont have water? i need to get ready...
not to mention my bathroom is gross lol and theyre draining it into there. whoops.
phillyvixen
12-14-2007, 09:44 AM
i think if i packed rolling on E i would be in big trouble when i got to my destination. I'd probably bring like all my fuzzy socks, some stuffed animals, a few band aids, lots of water and maybe a pacifier. I don't know its been a long time since i've done drugs. Hubby and i were discussing acid last night and we both decided we couldn't handle it again. It feels grown up to make such definite decisions.
Circe
12-14-2007, 09:54 AM
Idiots using gay as a derogatory term annoy me. Spelling it "ghey" doesn't make it less offensive either. Like, what idiot dreamed that up? It still sounds the same and derives from the same sentiment...that homosexuality is associated with something negative. Lame and homophobic.
RoseLeigh
12-14-2007, 10:24 AM
Have you thought about renting from a private landlord? The best places I've ever lived in were rented out by individual people who chopped up houses into apartments and rented them out. Much less hassle, too. Try craigslist?
::sending productive apartment-finding vibes your way::
Yup, that's a lot of what I'm searching. Unfortunately there's a LOT of crap apts out there, with a "kitchen" (no oven, etc) and landlords with weird rules about guests and things. Gotta sift though!
PrettyCurlieQ
12-14-2007, 10:28 AM
Got new contacts today! I CAN SEE AGAIN!!!!!!
kitty260
12-14-2007, 10:30 AM
Shit. I just realized I left my hot rollers at my parents house.....in another province. Now I don't know what to do with my hair for the party tonight. It's too long and I think it looks scraggy if I just leave it down.
PrettyCurlieQ
12-14-2007, 10:32 AM
^If it's long, look online for a crazy sexy updo!
kitty260
12-14-2007, 10:48 AM
^If it's long, look online for a crazy sexy updo!
I tried, but I suck at hair! Seriously, I do. It's like, four inches short of being waist length.
SarahSynn
12-14-2007, 10:55 AM
I need a serious SW detox.
MrChristopher
12-14-2007, 10:58 AM
-Last night was an exercise in futility. I'm hoping it was just the crappy weather but it was baaaaaad. Hopefully tonight will be much better, since it's supposed to be all snowy and yick tomorrow night.
-Went to the diner by the club after work with a couple of the girls and finally got myself a BLT. It wasn't as amazing as I had hoped, but it was tasty and full of bacony goodness.
-I can't stop yawning.
Lady Jade
12-14-2007, 11:02 AM
I'm packing for Maui right now and it's a solo trip, 8 days.
Why was I not invited? Hmm? HMM?? *taps foot impatiently*
zxcire
12-14-2007, 11:07 AM
Yes.
I just got a new butt plug and a new vibrator and a new vibrating cock ring to turn the boy into a vibrator.
Today is a good day.
PuertoRicanPinup
12-14-2007, 11:07 AM
"Turn the boy into a vibrator!" hehe
PuertoRicanPinup
12-14-2007, 11:08 AM
I am a picture whore right now, I just posted a pic of my hunny and I in the Significant other thread and pics of my kitties in the pet thread, and maybe I'll post another one in the "Pics of You" one..
zxcire
12-14-2007, 11:13 AM
I am a picture whore right now, I just posted a pic of my hunny and I in the Significant other thread and pics of my kitties in the pet thread, and maybe I'll post another one in the "Pics of You" one..
Do it! I don't know anyone here who will object to another picture of you. You're gorgeous.
PuertoRicanPinup
12-14-2007, 11:20 AM
I did! LOL thanks sweetie.
MrChristopher
12-14-2007, 11:29 AM
-MrsC just made me a grilled cheese sammich. Life is good.
aussiebelle
12-14-2007, 12:02 PM
It's 6:00am and I haven't slept all night because my house is hot and I have mosquito bites that are itchy :(
Now I'm sleepy :(
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 12:03 PM
MrC I caved and made a BLT. It was sooo yummy but too little. Damn this "trying to eat responsibly" bullshit! Bacon was not meant to be eaten in moderation!
SundayMorning
12-14-2007, 12:04 PM
Happy 1000 posts to me! Gosh I feel like a big kid now.
PrettyCurlieQ
12-14-2007, 12:04 PM
^Is it summer in Australia? Doesn't the season flip at the equator or something??
aussiebelle
12-14-2007, 12:08 PM
^Is it summer in Australia? Doesn't the season flip at the equator or something??
Yeah it's summer now from Dec to Feb. I think it must flip at the equator.
I love summer but I'm itchy :-\
pookie
12-14-2007, 12:09 PM
People go sign up for the SW contest (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=104613)