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mina loy
12-29-2007, 03:05 PM
what makes knowing that you're not the only one with the rape fantasy so comforting?

i feel happy that i'm not so sick and twisted after all.

TheTempest
12-29-2007, 06:14 PM
what makes knowing that you're not the only one with the rape fantasy so comforting?

i feel happy that i'm not so sick and twisted after all.

I have major issues with it because I WAS raped. (I still get all twinge-y when I say the word... or type it in this case.) I guess the major part of my fantasy is being in actual control of the situation and having it happen with someone I trust. At the same time, I fear it will throw me into a PTSD flash back (I was drugged and occasionally have these weird flashback things that I can only assume are PTSD related. I could be totally wrong.)

It makes me feel really stupid and dirty and like I was asking for it to have these fantasies, and some mutual feelings on the part of women makes me feel a little better. Not 100% though.

SundayMorning
12-29-2007, 07:47 PM
I've had "rape" fantasies for as far back as I had any idea what sex was. From what I've read, it's an insanely common fantasy and a lot of women call it a "ravishment" fantasy to differentiate. Most of the time, ravishment fantasies appeal to women because it's a way to be "taken" without feeling any responsibility. The man in the fantasy usually looks like a guy you'd actually want to sleep with; the sex is unwilling at first but usually feels good and is desirable by the end and there's certainly no trauma in the fantasy, during or after. So it's a whole different creature than actual rape and nobody should feel guilty about wanting it--whether or not you act on it. [/sex counselor]

GoldCoastGirl
12-29-2007, 08:06 PM
Okay, I have not read thru this thread. It is only now I have given it some thought (and am in the "zone" to think about these things) that I am now posting.

* Rape fantasy where I am a hooker
* Slave fantasy (yes, kinda like one of Jabba The Hutt's slave girls! lol!)
* Sex in a car as I have YET to have sex in a car
* Whilst I have done this fantasy, it is still a fantasy for me: sex in the outdoors
* Sex outdoors of a night on the ground (get all dirty!)
* Sex at the beach (not one I have been able to fulfil as yet)
* Thanks to having a Fireman as a Booty Call: Sex a la "Backdraft" on top of a Fire Engine Truck

I've already had sex sneakingly at the Southport Fire Station hehehe.. he helped fulfil that one for me (my request).

* Gang bang rape fantasy
* MMF (male male female)
* FFM and watching the M fuck the other F
* FMFM (two couples)

That's pretty much it.



I've had "rape" fantasies for as far back as I had any idea what sex was. From what I've read, it's an insanely common fantasy and a lot of women call it a "ravishment" fantasy to differentiate. Most of the time, ravishment fantasies appeal to women because it's a way to be "taken" without feeling any responsibility. The man in the fantasy usually looks like a guy you'd actually want to sleep with; the sex is unwilling at first but usually feels good and is desirable by the end and there's certainly no trauma in the fantasy, during or after. So it's a whole different creature than actual rape and nobody should feel guilty about wanting it--whether or not you act on it. [/sex counselor]

quoting it because I couldn't agree more! it is the "power play" of being totally out of control in the circumstance... allowing someone else to have total control over you.. thus trusting them with your life (as such)... it's a huge intimate thing to do as who can say they actually trust someone THAT much?

tasteebars
12-29-2007, 09:45 PM
1. naked bodypaint sex with real paint (not cheap kind from sex store>:(
2. fuck a guy (or lots of guys) with a strap on
3. get paid $1mil to fuck

Ava Jadore
12-29-2007, 10:40 PM
I've a couple of crazy ones but one tame fantasy I have is to be filmed while having sex...I'm just too chicken that the tape would some how get in the wrong hands.

asianlady
12-30-2007, 03:06 PM
in the club I work in they show pornos all day and watching them I think to my self I want to get f**ked like that why oh why can't I.Came close a couple of times.

mina loy
12-30-2007, 03:21 PM
I've had "rape" fantasies for as far back as I had any idea what sex was. From what I've read, it's an insanely common fantasy and a lot of women call it a "ravishment" fantasy to differentiate. Most of the time, ravishment fantasies appeal to women because it's a way to be "taken" without feeling any responsibility. The man in the fantasy usually looks like a guy you'd actually want to sleep with; the sex is unwilling at first but usually feels good and is desirable by the end and there's certainly no trauma in the fantasy, during or after. So it's a whole different creature than actual rape and nobody should feel guilty about wanting it--whether or not you act on it. [/sex counselor]

yes! that's what i want!




* Slave fantasy (yes, kinda like one of Jabba The Hutt's slave girls! lol!)



jabba.....*shudders*

mollyzmoon
12-30-2007, 06:55 PM
I want a three-way with two bisexual guys.

Also, I have a thing for teachers/ profs. But I'm too shy to ever get either of these things. It's hard to get guys who are willing to play with other guys.

sexysunny
12-30-2007, 07:18 PM
i have never had a one night stand so i would like to 'meet' my bf in a bar and go back to hotel or something like it, i want to be his hooker (which i think he has that fantasy too) and i want to fuck somewhere public, maybe even do a sex show in amsterdam

GoldCoastGirl
12-30-2007, 07:20 PM
LOL!! Not "for" Jabba The Hutt.... however along those lines ;)

Corey
01-01-2008, 08:54 AM
two guys that are straight but not so uptight about 'accidentally crossing swords'.

Sex outdoors. ( I have done it before and it has always been great, but it's been too long).

BalletBaby
01-03-2008, 12:05 AM
I want to be fucked with a strap-on by a really hot chick.

TheTempest
01-03-2008, 11:48 AM
I want to be fucked with a strap-on by a really hot chick.


DITTO! And give it to her too.

Glamgirl
01-04-2008, 06:38 AM
I have a vivid imagination so here goes;
Victorian master and servant thing(or the lady chatterly's lover type thing )
Vampire sex
9 1/2 weeks style fling
Sex with hot girl

StrawberrySwitchblade
01-04-2008, 02:41 PM
I could use some girl-sex.
Sexual slavery.
Being submissive to a sister-slave.
I have this thing for wanting to be cuffed and gagged, then made to do housework, only to be ungagged when orally pleasuring my Master.
Be humiliated verbally. (Like slut, whore, being paid a couple dollars for sex)
Made to serve in skimpy clothing and locked into high heels.
Made to dance for my Master for His entertainment.
Perform sexual acts with a sister-slave for the entertainment of our Master.

I need to live closer to Cherry_sin.

sun child
01-04-2008, 03:40 PM
I really wish I had a best friend kind of girl who I could also have sex with. A confidante, a lover, a partner in crime and a best friend. I've never found anyone openminded enough to have this kind of relationship. I've only been with two women, and one was a prostitute (long story involving a threesome). The other was an amazingly hot ex-dancer, but it was established that it would only be a one-time thing.

Will I ever find her?

dollyrocker
01-05-2008, 05:48 AM
*My first crush ever (when I was 5) was on that 20s film star Rudolph Valentino, best known for his movie 'the Sheik'. Ever since then, I've had this..... Sheik.... fetish. In my wildest fantasy, I pass out in a desert, only to be rescued by a hot sheik who 'carries me accross the threshold' to his tent in the middle of nowhere, where we get hot & nasty! I've had the fantasy since childhood too.

* Thanks to that imagery, I have a 'thing' for the head coverings middle eastern men wear, and a thing for turbans too. If Alladin were a real person, I'd do him! When we first sent soilders to Afghanistan to "search for Bin Ladin", I was totally turned on by all the footage of rebel fighters on CNN. Those guys were hot! I would love to have a one night stand with a dude like that.

* I fantasise about being a very high class hooker, who only has hot, welathy sheiks for clients. They take me on luxury shopping trips, and I get picked up/dropped off by their private jets. And they pay millions for my services. Hahahahahaha, riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

* I also have a thing for nazi SS Totenkoph type hats (relax, I'm part Jewish), like the 60s rockers in Britan wore. I think they can make any guy sexier. Euroboy from Turbonegro for example. Plain as hell, but in his hat he's smokin'!!! I wanna fuck a guy while he wears nothing but one of those hats! If you have no idea what sort of hat I'm talking about, click here: http://content.answers.com/main/content/wp/en/thumb/8/85/242px-Euroboy.JPG

* Consensual mock 'rape' would be hot too.

* I'm on the DP wagon as well.... specifically 2 cocks in one pussy, but most guys aren't cool with bumping against another mans junk : (.

NewMoon
01-05-2008, 07:55 AM
Would love to do a girl with a strap on.

TheTempest
01-05-2008, 01:44 PM
I really wish I had a best friend kind of girl who I could also have sex with. A confidante, a lover, a partner in crime and a best friend. I've never found anyone openminded enough to have this kind of relationship. I've only been with two women, and one was a prostitute (long story involving a threesome). The other was an amazingly hot ex-dancer, but it was established that it would only be a one-time thing.

Will I ever find her?

I thought I found this in high school. I had a great female friend, we'd make out and spend loads of time together. We'd talk constantly and she was always there for me. Then we slept together and she stopped speaking to me. It was quite a blow - and the last time I slept with a woman. That's really the reason I think women are much more difficult than men.

/tangent

XxAmber89xX
01-05-2008, 06:23 PM
lately i've fantasized about having two hunking good looking guys from the club take me out somewhere and share me 2 on 1 after having my first ever bbg.

the trouble is, finding the two perfect guys...

TheTempest
01-06-2008, 10:25 PM
Oh yeah, I just remembered another one (and I like the idea of the vampire sex... I've had a thing for vamps since Interview with the Vampire)

A Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde scenario. An unpredictable lover who is one time gentle and adoring (Jekyll) and the next time demanding and (safely) violent. Man, I've been obsessed with that story FOREVER.

StevieStar7
01-07-2008, 12:36 AM
...just to have a sex life again...

NinaDaisy
01-07-2008, 01:09 AM
I'm about to fly back to NYC for a few days and just want to jump on the new boy at some point this week while I'm back.

I'm thinking of bringing up the back-door lovin' this week. ;D

As for other stuff, more to come, as my flight is boarding.

alessandra
01-09-2008, 06:06 PM
I really wish I had a best friend kind of girl who I could also have sex with. A confidante, a lover, a partner in crime and a best friend. I've never found anyone openminded enough to have this kind of relationship. I've only been with two women, and one was a prostitute (long story involving a threesome). The other was an amazingly hot ex-dancer, but it was established that it would only be a one-time thing.

Will I ever find her?

I thought I had found someone to fill this role as well before... I met this absolutely gorgeous, really sweet girl who started working at my club, and we flirted back and forth for weeks at work before actually going out together for breakfast after work one day. She came home with me that night and it was amazing. About a month later, after I was used to holding her when we slept, she moved to the other side of the country :(

I'm slightly modifying your question sunchild, but why is it so hard to find a girl like this? I don't want to settle for just a physical relationship with a near-stranger, where we sleep together and thats it. And at the same time, I don't want a best friend who just wants to make out or sleep together when she's drunk cause her boyfriend/husband thinks its hot!

Other things I'd like to do:
==have sex in a waterfall again (in warmer weather this time!)
==have a decent threesome with missing girl described above.
==vampire sex with biting, bruising, and bleeding. Preferably the week I'm not working.
==sex with two bisexual males

And uhm...now I'm horny. Thanks Stripperweb ::)

maryjade
01-09-2008, 10:07 PM
Be pet to a gorgeous dominatrix as an ongoing type of thing. It's something that kind of terrifies me but that I have a deep longing for.


I want to go down on a bunch of women. :D



Wow. Those are my two top ones also! Kindred spirits. :D

The first one (for me) has definitely been inspired by the lovely Miss Paige D'Winter.

The second one's probably more of a fantasy than anything I'd ever really do. Unless maybe I went to a swingers club.

maryjade
01-09-2008, 10:13 PM
I want to be fucked with a strap-on by a really hot chick.


Me too!!! I used to think strap-ons between two women were weird, like "what's the point?", but lately I've been thinking it would be amazing. All of her softness rubbing up against me and then that hard thing up inside me. Mmmmmmm. }:D

And I almost forgot this one - I want to give a BJ to a really, really big cock. Just a BJ though. I'm too little to do anything else.

Amyisme
01-25-2008, 01:58 PM
1. Be someplace like a dance club, see a really hot guy, have sex with him someplace inside the club. All without ever really even talking.

2. Have a threesome with two other women.

Minette
01-27-2008, 08:08 PM
Fisting two chicks at the same time. Girls who are used to being fisted, who can take it hard. Gawd I love fisting.

Fucking a chick up against a wall outside where we could totally get caught, but somewhere queer-friendly with lots of dykes roaming around so it'd be other lesbians who'd just look, be amused, and move on, not nasty guys getting off on it.

Fucking chicks some more with my strap-on - I did get to once, right after I got it, and it was awesome, but my sex life has dried up since then. >:(

Airplane sex.

Okay, really, sex in lots of inappropriate places - it's totally my thing. Done it lots, want to do it more.

mizztissa
01-28-2008, 08:37 PM
i want to fuck a pre op passable asian tranny.

bangkok awaits you.

SundayMorning
01-28-2008, 09:45 PM
Right now, two frat boys with reasonably hard abs, douchebag caps and no squeamishness about accidental ball-to-ball contact. I want cheap dirty double dicking. It's like the McDonalds of sexin...you know it's so bad but you just want that greasy flavor.

sun child
01-29-2008, 04:38 AM
^ So glad I stumbled into this thread. You know, I'm not even going to scroll up past that, SundayMorning. That's all I needed.

SundayMorning
01-29-2008, 09:11 AM
Glad I could help! :D

Stella swede
01-29-2008, 10:30 AM
I am bisexual, and now living n a relasionship wih a wonderful andsexy man.
:O Yes they xist.
I fantasise about having a women, go down on her, play but no strap on, we will have my boyfriend for that..

Vyanka
01-29-2008, 02:14 PM
1. Be someplace like a dance club, see a really hot guy, have sex with him someplace inside the club. All without ever really even talking.

Me too. :) I was watching Basic Instinct the other day, & that scene where they had sex in that nightclub in the middle of the dance floor around ppl dancing..... turned me on.

242_fair
01-29-2008, 02:23 PM
an I the only one with a dirty daddy fantasy? Yowzers that taboo shit turns me on!

Yah I have issues.

hardkandee
01-29-2008, 02:24 PM
I could use some girl-sex.
Sexual slavery.
Being submissive to a sister-slave.
I have this thing for wanting to be cuffed and gagged, then made to do housework, only to be ungagged when orally pleasuring my Master.
Be humiliated verbally. (Like slut, whore, being paid a couple dollars for sex)
Made to serve in skimpy clothing and locked into high heels.
Made to dance for my Master for His entertainment.
Perform sexual acts with a sister-slave for the entertainment of our Master.

I need to live closer to Cherry_sin.



Umm... when did you sneak into my mind and steal all my dirty dreams? :O

kitty69
01-29-2008, 02:53 PM
Hmmm...Always wanted to suck on guy off while another is doing me from behind. Not that kinky, I guess, but mmm mmm.

Same here.
I have had sex with a woman, but to be honest it didn't do that much for me, I love c*&k too much. Ideally it would be me kissing a girl and playing with her boobies (love kissin women and LOVE boobies:boobies:) while getting done from behind by a guy.
Rape fantasies have featured in my head, I would never wish it on anyone, but I love rough sex and the thought of being 'taken' is so horny.
Have got a thing for biting and scratching so if anyone knows any vampires?......}:D
Crowded nightclub, banging music, hot sticky atmosphere and sat on bf omg would love it. Unfortunately bf doesn't like nightclubs lol.
Anywhere with a of risk of getting caught.

RebeccaSolidarity
01-29-2008, 11:58 PM
an I the only one with a dirty daddy fantasy?

No, no you are definitely not the only one.

Unless I am crushing on someone, most of my more deep-dark fantasies involve men. I know it sounds weird to "be in the closet" about wanting to sleep with men, but the lesbian community can be pretty judgemental about that. I mentioned it just once at a bar and it took me weeks to salvage my dating potential. It took even longer to get people to stop making fun of me.

So yeah I guess right now the sexual thing that I wanna do is sleep with a man.

How pedestrian. Ha.

:-X


From Circe: Be pet to a gorgeous dominatrix as an ongoing type of thing. It's something that kind of terrifies me but that I have a deep longing for.

Oh yeah.

That one also. That would be awesome.

PleasureVictim
01-30-2008, 08:03 PM
I want to be fisted. That is all.

I did it a couple years ago, and nothing has come close. I just got back in contact with my ex who did it to me, and I would love to relive old times....but she has a GF now. Oh well.

XxAmber89xX
01-30-2008, 11:53 PM
^ sounds like fun. I'd love to be fisted, though I never have and don't even think I can fit it... I still like the stretched feeling though... mmmmm...

ivygrl
02-02-2008, 10:03 PM
Oh gawd, do I love this. But technique is so important. most men don't get it, because their hands are too big - but also they don't understand the nerve endings down there.

If I had my choice, this would be my number one activity in bed.

RebeccaSolidarity
02-03-2008, 04:29 PM
Fisting is fun.

Mmhm.

Though once I was fisting this one woman whom I was dating (it was my first time too) and she neglected to tell me that she was bleeding. So after we were done I freaked out cause I thought that I had, like, wounded her or something. Obviously she told me what was really going on and I was fine with that but, yeah, it was really scary for a hot second.

TMI story maybe.

anomar
02-04-2008, 09:35 PM
I'm so stoked. My boyfriend and i have actually been talking a lot recently about our fantasies and we're going to role play at some point soon. I've never been really able to do that (not being open enough with my partners, perhaps having to do with being a strippah), so it's great. The other day we went to Crate and Barrel and talked about all of the hot stuff we would do to each other if the store was closed. That progressed into amaaaaazing stuff later that night.

So now soon we're going to have a date where we go to Ikea. And I wear a short skirt with no panties on. And then we go and try out all of the furniture and I keep teasing him. Oh my god, I'm so excited.

He also told me about a fantasy he had that I'm SO incredibly wanting to try. He used to do admissions for the college he went to and he wants me to dress up like a school girl and then he'd force me to service him so that I could get into that school. Which I'm dying to do because a) me as schoolgirl b) him as authority figure c) role playing and d) me getting spanked really really hard = delicious

Basically I'm stoked. We are in the first few weeks of our relationship right now so it's been AMAZING. We actually haven't had penetrative sex yet so far, but we get each other off several times a day. He eats me out for hours... he's the first guy I've felt comfortable doing really dirty naked lapdances for... he knows how to use all of my toys on me... .... I went through like five pairs of panties this weekend...

:D :D :D

Also, he's bi, which means that if I ever want to get to a mmf threesome (which I've thought about before but never seriously) then it's going to be full on balls touching kind. YUM

StrawberrySwitchblade
02-04-2008, 11:02 PM
Umm... when did you sneak into my mind and steal all my dirty dreams? :O

The list or living closer to cherry_sin? :D

britney
02-10-2008, 06:20 AM
well, i dont have much left to try. A few things that i have thought of are

1. I want to have sex with a midget. I have never done this but think it might be fun.

2. I want to have sex with a tranny that passes for a woman. It would be like a chick with a penis. The best of both worlds.

3. I want to have sex with a much older man. When i say older i mean like 60. I dont know why but it turns me on.

4. Most people may think this last one is a little weird but let me explain. In my parents eyes i am their innocent virgin daughter. They are a little off. hehe. well, my thing is i want them to catch me doing something nasty like in a threesome or something. I dont want them to watch but it would be cool if they walked in the room and saw and were like OH MY GOD, OUR DAUGHTERS A SLUT!! call me weird but this turns me on for some reason.

RebeccaSolidarity
02-10-2008, 06:54 PM
2. I want to have sex with a tranny that passes for a woman. It would be like a chick with a penis. The best of both worlds.

I have heard this so many times in just the last week that it really makes me wonder if that surgery i had a few years back was a good idea.......

uh......

i mean.......

i said nothing!

Victoryx0x0
02-11-2008, 10:45 AM
me/husband/sex swing :)

SnakeBabe
02-11-2008, 10:59 AM
^ Get one, Sex swings are awesome!

tripletranny
05-28-2009, 01:31 AM
sex with 3 guys, DP while sucking another guy off.

a huge orgy at a club. ive seen a video of it on youporn.

sex with 2 muscular hunks in a gym.

sex with 2 bi-sexual guys.