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aussiepunkshocker
04-20-2007, 09:04 AM
Icey can someone go with you to the police that can support you?
Maybe you can type out your basic statement from home to take with you so it will be easier when you get there.
Have you spoken to a support person / counciller yet? They should be able to help advise you with the legal stuff.
Maybe you could also ask to see a female cop or see if theres a special until that deals with rape and sexual assult?

icey
04-20-2007, 09:22 AM
I have not taken Plan B, I took it once when I was 21 and I got so sick and lost so much blood that my DR said to never take it again. I don't know what to do, I am going to make an appt with my DR and get check out, I don't want to get pregnant, is there something else I can take?

Lola Rose
04-20-2007, 09:37 AM
Dear lord, how awful. I'm so sorry this happened to you, and so outraged. I'd be a hard case to win, but I think you should consider suing the club. Most attorneys do cases like that and take a %, so you pay nothing unless you win. The club istotally liable, and it would be good piece of evidence in a case against your rapists. I wish I had an hour in a room with them chained up... I'd fucking rip off their balles for doing this to you.

You are an amazing, precious woman, and you deserve to be surrounded only by people who care for you and your best intentions.

No one should ever have to suffer through that, and I hope you realize so much that you are NOT to blame in the slightest. You did not deserve that.

If you don't want to

also, do you know the guys names? Did they pay by charge? Find the info!!!! Even if you don't do anything legally you can write a letter to their bosses, landlords, family. And its not wrong of you, restitution in some form is needed, otherwise they'll do it again to someone else.. and it's not 1/10th as bad as what you went through...... revenge is deserved here.

and if you want, you can sabatoge the club.

Call the cops, say they're breaking contact laws, nudity laws, hiring underaged dancers, lots of drugs and underaged patrons, underaged drinking.... Overserving/serving already intoxicated people who are driving away completely drunk.... prostitution...

Not all of that may be true, but I'm sure some of it is. And some fines and shit may make them shape up and do things right, and save someone else from the same travisty that happened to you.

sorry, my spelling is awfull in this post. I'm so fuming mad I can't help it. /.

xoxoGracexoxo
04-20-2007, 10:02 AM
Honestly, the way the incident is described, it sounds like it went so smoothly that it could have beenplanned in advance. Maybe those girls and/or those customers had even done it before to other girls. All the more motivation to go to law enforcement or hire an attorney. It shouldn't have happened to you and it shouldn't happen to anyone else.

Lena
04-20-2007, 01:30 PM
Really. The odds of her being traumatized by the police are so much higher than the odds of the police doing anything. She's an adult, and if she's decided not to go to the police, that's her business.

Icey, I'm glad to hear you're going to go to the meetings. Maybe some couples counseling for you and your guy? These kind of issues can make it hard for even the best relationships to survive...

icey
04-20-2007, 01:49 PM
I did go and get the plan B even thou last time I got really sick taking it, but that was back in 2002. I talked with a DR and they said not to take it, but if I did have someone watch me for the next two weeks and if I start having problems to get help. I also have an appt set for May 4 for an STDs screening. Other than that my boyfriend and I will use a condom until I know I am clean. :(

Today its really hitting me that this happened. I have been on and off crying and just feel really used and dirty today. Thank you everyone for you support that means so much to me. :)

toomuchhomeworklately
04-20-2007, 03:01 PM
I think they've improved Plan B. I took it in 1998 & puked ALL DAY. When I took it about 6 months ago I just felt tired - the side effects weren't anywhere near as bad.