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Jenny
04-28-2007, 12:52 PM
No, I disagree. If you are true professional, you don't lose your cool and say garbage like that. Let's suppose you went into a clothing store and you tried on few items, but you did not buy items because you did not like them. As you walk out of the store, a store person who was assisting you say, "you should have stayed home, if you weren't gonna buy anything." .. hmm.. I wonder what would happen ...
Yes, but you're not taking them home with you, wearing them and then bringing them back. When you take up our time you are actually CONSUMING the product, not just trying it on. We don't get that time back.

Look - you asked a question - whether or not you were being a douche by going into strip clubs to deliberately take up dancer's time when you had no intention of compensating any of them at any point. You got an answer. If you're asking us if we can physically stop you - no, we cannot. But we are going to sympathize with the girls who have to put up with you.

Bob_Loblaw
04-28-2007, 03:14 PM
I also enjoy conversations with dancers more than the dances themselves but I buy them regardless if I feel like getting one or not. Most girls get paid from tips and private dances alone. To not buy dances or tip for time just makes you a moocher.

Crow
04-28-2007, 03:57 PM
No, I disagree. If you are true professional, you don't lose your cool and say garbage like that. Let's suppose you went into a clothing store and you tried on few items, but you did not buy items because you did not like them. As you walk out of the store, a store person who was assisting you say, "you should have stayed home, if you weren't gonna buy anything." .. hmm.. I wonder what would happen ...

Do you work for FREE? It's that plain and simple - every girl in that club that you ( so called ) went into is WORKING. They are not there to be social - they are providing a service. IE entertainment, whether it be on stage or sitting at your table chatting you up.

We don't like having our valuable time wasted by some wanker - when it could be better spent making money. Sound harsh? Stop being a penis - true professionals are the ones that sit with you and then ask for some compensation, after dealing with ( I use this term loosely) gentlemen that think they should be able to get anything they want for free and be smiled at in the process.

You can disagree all you want, the facts still remain the same. Nothing in this life is free and if you think so then you are simply put, a fool.

jaizaine
04-28-2007, 10:54 PM
you should just visit a normal bar and not waste people's time. that is, if in your OP u were not tipping...i dunno it wasnt clear from the post.

xdamage
04-30-2007, 11:24 PM
To the OP:

There was a time when SCs were places guys went to drink, and watch the dancers from a distance on stage. Those times are, for the most part, long gone. These days the dancers reasonably expect that the reason they are there, and that customers are there is to sell/buy private dances with them. The stage show is secondary. So when you say 'I'm not into the private dances', it's understandable then that the dancers are going to ask then why are you here?

I suppose I can understand not being able to afford private dances, or perhaps you have reasons like you don't want dancer perfume or glitter on your clothes which an SO would pick up on, but I can't relate to the notion that you're simply not into it. What's not to like?

I'm not saying spend money on a dancer you don't want to spend money on, but if you are repeatedly visiting the same club and never buy dances of course eventually the dancers are going to wonder what's up. The analogy of shopping wasn't entirely a bad one, but if you repeatedly go to the same store, and repeatedly try on clothes, and repeatedly never buy, well, yea, at some point the sales people are going to ask, why are you here?

It's your money, so of course, spend it how you see fit, but private dances are what strip clubs are about these days. And I'd say for most customers, the question is not IF they are into getting private dances, but more about how to spend their entertainment dollars wisely, so more about who to spend it on, and how to budget appropriately so their entertainment expenses are kept within their budget.

My advise though - live a little, and try a few private dances. You may well find that it's worth spending a bit for a no complications erotic experience.

Lysondra
05-01-2007, 01:16 AM
Lol, no not a myth, as LillithMorrigon pointed out to me the other day, I have a pair of blue balls hanging from my bathroom celing (-:

...:gigglesnort:

dragonpearl
05-01-2007, 12:56 PM
It has been my experience that men who think they can get your time for free also generally feel that women exist to entertain and please men. Going to a club and talking to a dancer without tipping and paying is rude as hell. The dancer had every right to tell you plainly how she felt. She should have also alerted all the other girls that you are a mooch so they won't waste time with you. The club is a business for everyone there and doesn't just exist so you can get away from your boring life and enjoy beautiful women. This isn't Mohammed's heaven where you get ten virgins for your good deeds. You either pay or stay the hell away.

Although some people may disagree with me, I think even with the customer tipping it still is a problem to sit and talk unless he tips WELL. It can come down to a difference of me talking to you for a dollar here and there or me making 30 (whatever a lap dance sells for) every 3 minutes for dances with another guy.

I'd rather deal with a dance-buying perv/jerk than deal with a Mr Nice guy who isn't paying for shit.

Corgan
05-01-2007, 01:03 PM
a guy last sunday was getting a dance from me, that his FRIEND was paying for.... and was telling me how badly he wanted to "be in my presence all night". i asked why he didn't tip me on stage, and he said he didn't believe in paying a woman for her attention. he heavily offended me, but i just did the dance anyway. he asked me on a date, and i declined, saying "no, because you will most likely make me pay for my own way, right?"

of course that's not why i said no, but it totally put him in his place.

dragonpearl
05-01-2007, 01:09 PM
Yeah Corgan I had a customer tell me he didn't believe in buying lap dances because it "objectified women." Of course, he had no problem sitting at the stage and not paying. As soon as a man says something like that, I alert all the other girls. There is a possibility that he just said it to me because he wasn't interested in a dance, but I still tell the girls so they can have a heads up. It's always nice to watch those kinds of assholes sit around and look stupid while no one talks to them.

kylie3183
05-01-2007, 02:06 PM
No, I disagree. If you are true professional, you don't lose your cool and say garbage like that. Let's suppose you went into a clothing store and you tried on few items, but you did not buy items because you did not like them. As you walk out of the store, a store person who was assisting you say, "you should have stayed home, if you weren't gonna buy anything." .. hmm.. I wonder what would happen ...

This situation is nothing like going into a store that sells physical goods you take home with you. This is a service industry. It would be like you going to a restaurant to sit there for 3 hours and never order anything, or even tip your waiter. It's just rude.

Lysondra
05-01-2007, 05:02 PM
^ For one main difference, the lady in the store IS PAID BY THE STORE. The nudity in a strip club is SPONSORED IN FULL BY VIEWERS LIKE YOU!

So if you're not paying, you're stealing.

AznExtasy
05-03-2007, 03:02 PM
The only reasons a man will not spend money on a dancer is because 1)he doesn't find her attractive, 2)he's a cheap mfuker, or 3)he's gay. If the last two describe you, then the strip club is not for you.. Please do us all a favor and stay home, thanks.

kaiarose
05-04-2007, 09:26 AM
The next time you go into a stripclub, be completely honest and tell the girls right away that you're here to sit and watch for free, and you don't intend on tipping or buying dances. Then come back and tell us what happened. Just out of curiousity.

Pretty_Penny
05-04-2007, 09:55 AM
(similar to the shopping thing).... let's say you work selling cars (or whatever) and your job is based on your sales alone. would you appreciate someone coming to your work with absolutely no intention of spending money? would you like it even less if they talked to you about your work, the car, etc. etc. for 15 minutes first (wasting your time) while you ran yours sales pitch, and THEN they told you they don't intend to spend any money?

when you go to a strip club you are paying the bar/club for the drinks and the dancers for the entertainment. if you do not pay the dancers, the dancers are working for -you- for -free-. get a club full of guys like you and the dancers make no money. also, have you ever considered that the girls "looking bored" are sitting there alone because they've approached the guys in the room and the guys all have the same mentality as you? "i just came here for some drinks". really? then why didn't you go to a regular bar? ....oh i know! because we have naked girls dancing (apparently for free).

as far as the girls who get pissed off and yell at you, you ever think that maybe you're the 15th guy that day who's fed them that bullshit? have you ever gone to work for entire day and not made any money?

also, would you stiff a waitress/waiter? if you wouldn't... then why would you stiff the hot naked girl dancing for you on stage or having conversation with you?

i bet you're one of those guys that thinks men who spend money on the dancers are suckers. you probably feel like you shouldn't -have- to.

if that's the case, you should stay home.

UtahMike
05-05-2007, 11:02 PM
(similar to the shopping thing).... let's say you work selling cars (or whatever) and your job is based on your sales alone. would you appreciate someone coming to your work with absolutely no intention of spending money? would you like it even less if they talked to you about your work, the car, etc. etc. for 15 minutes first (wasting your time) while you ran yours sales pitch, and THEN they told you they don't intend to spend any money?

Actually, this is quite common in the automobile sales business. One of the jobs I've held was car salesman.

People like this are called "strokers." They enjoy going around to different car lots, wasting a lot of different salesmen's time dickering and negotiating, and then back off at the last moment to "think it over." More experienced salesmen somehow are able to spot a stroker, and will let a less experienced salesman have the customer, then watch and laugh while they look at every car on the lot, test drive a couple, then spend an hour or so dickering.

Jenny
05-06-2007, 06:50 AM
Actually, this is quite common in the automobile sales business. One of the jobs I've held was car salesman.

People like this are called "strokers." They enjoy going around to different car lots, wasting a lot of different salesmen's time dickering and negotiating, and then back off at the last moment to "think it over." More experienced salesmen somehow are able to spot a stroker, and will let a less experienced salesman have the customer, then watch and laugh while they look at every car on the lot, test drive a couple, then spend an hour or so dickering.
Really? We're clearly a more sympathetic and kindly people. We tend to warn.

Darcy Foxx
05-06-2007, 09:07 AM
No, I disagree. If you are true professional, you don't lose your cool and say garbage like that. Let's suppose you went into a clothing store and you tried on few items, but you did not buy items because you did not like them. As you walk out of the store, a store person who was assisting you say, "you should have stayed home, if you weren't gonna buy anything." .. hmm.. I wonder what would happen ...

That is the most retarded anaology ever.

You said in your first post that you do not like lap dances. Therefore, you are entering a business INTENDING TO NOT PURCHASE THE PRODUCT.

People do not go into a clothing store, knowing they dislike the product for sale in there and have no intentions to buy it, then try on clothes anyway even though they already know they're not going to make a purchase.

You absolutely cannot compare the two situations because they're nothing alike.

You sire, are a moocher.

RoseWhite
05-06-2007, 10:24 AM
People like this are called "strokers." They enjoy going around to different car lots, wasting a lot of different salesmen's time dickering and negotiating, and then back off at the last moment to "think it over." More experienced salesmen somehow are able to spot a stroker, and will let a less experienced salesman have the customer, then watch and laugh while they look at every car on the lot, test drive a couple, then spend an hour or so dickering.


This sounds exactly like that I go through at least half the time a guy brings up the Champagne Room on his own. I spend 20 minutes (don't yell at me, Superior Hustlers) trying to build rapport and describing the experience and its benefits without misleading, thinking the time is a worthy investment, and finally it ends with a vague "I'll think about it. Maybe later." %*&%@! strokers!

Mastridonicus
05-06-2007, 10:26 AM
That is the most retarded anaology ever.

You said in your first post that you do not like lap dances. Therefore, you are entering a business INTENDING TO NOT PURCHASE THE PRODUCT.

People do not go into a clothing store, knowing they dislike the product for sale in there and have no intentions to buy it, then try on clothes anyway even though they already know they're not going to make a purchase.

You absolutely cannot compare the two situations because they're nothing alike.

You sire, are a moocher.

Not true Darcy.



No, I disagree. If you are true professional, you don't lose your cool and say garbage like that. Let's suppose you went into a clothing store and you tried on few items, but you did not buy items because you did not like them. As you walk out of the store, a store person who was assisting you say, "you should have stayed home, if you weren't gonna buy anything." .. hmm.. I wonder what would happen ...


He's ABSOLUTELY right. The difference is, he's linking the wrong people. If those shirts had to go home and pay rent based upon his patronage....well then they'd be very pissed he tried them on and didn't buy. But when you're comparing strippers to inanimate objects, how do you even approach educating that?

Yea, the bouncer may get pissed that you didn't buy any shirts when you leave the store. Especially if they work on commission and have to take time off the floor to not clean the shirts you just tried on...

there's a pube on my monitor..

waitaminutesilly
05-06-2007, 03:36 PM
It's too bad Mastridonicus is one of few who really understand what's going on. You are in a service/sales business. All of those things that you girls need to do to get a guy to come with you for dances are something that you NEED to do unconditionally as a sales person, like it or not.

Again, if you think that a guy is wasting your time then get up and leave. He won't say anything, but for a sales person to leave a harsh remark towards to the other person just because he did not buy your service is just not right.

Jenny
05-06-2007, 03:44 PM
Yeah but... you're not going in even for the free show. You are going in with the deliberate intention of taking our time without compensating us. In other words - you are planning and intending on dicking us around.

We are selling a service, not a product. You have ALREADY USED the service, and have no intention of paying for it. And now you're saying that we are unprofessional for getting annoyed? Where do you locate yourself in this scenario, exactly? Like, what are you for annoying us?

waitaminutesilly
05-06-2007, 04:04 PM
Yeah but... you're not going in even for the free show. You are going in with the deliberate intention of taking our time without compensating us.


deliberate intention? My only intention is for me to have fun. No offense, You cannot define my intention.



We are selling a service, not a product. You have ALREADY USED the service


Regardless, you are a sales person and conversation is not part of your service. If it was, then your club would have it on it's menu - talking with stripper $10 per min etc.



And now you're saying that we are unprofessional for getting annoyed? Where do you locate yourself in this scenario, exactly? Like, what are you for annoying us?


You are a human so I understand that you can be annoyed, mad, bitchy, etc.. But keep it to yourself or tell it to your boss etc.. but NOT to your club patron.

Jenny
05-06-2007, 04:28 PM
deliberate intention? My only intention is for me to have fun. No offense, You cannot define my intention.
No, I can't. But you very kindly provided us with that information. So it seems silly for you to claim now that I'm not allowed to read, comprehend and then synthesize the information you give me.


Regardless, you are a sales person and conversation is not part of your service. If it was, then your club would have it on it's menu - talking with stripper $10 per min etc.
Of course it is. It is on the menu in many clubs. Me, sitting down and acting like you are interesting is absolutely part of the service I provide. If you didn't understand that - very well, it was a simple misunderstanding of what clubs are for and our role in them. But now you know.


You are a human so I understand that you can be annoyed, mad, bitchy, etc.. But keep it to yourself or tell it to your boss etc.. but NOT to your club patron.
I don't have a boss. And - Why not? As you said, I am human. Club patrons are only entitled to treat me as an "object" (e.g. a shirt in a store) insofar as they are paying for the privilege. If you are not paying for the privilege and still insist on treating me like an object, I don't see how you deserve deferential treatment. Moreover - you asked. We answered. What you are doing is outside what is normally considered courteous in a stripclub. I mean, that is what you came here to ask, right? Well - there you go. Question answered. So now - you're trying to tell us that we are professionally obligated to tolerate your discourtesy? Why? I mean, to what purpose are you having this argument? Like are you trying to say "Yes, I'm a douchebag, but you guys really ought to be tolerating it"? Okay - suppose you're right. In that case - some dancers are not highly professional and you would still be a douchebag. I mean - even your best case scenario kind of portrays you as a loser.

gingerlee
05-06-2007, 04:32 PM
No, I can't. But you very kindly provided us with that information. So it seems silly for you to claim now that I'm not allowed to read, comprehend and then synthesize the information you give me.

Of course it is. It is on the menu in many clubs. Me, sitting down and acting like you are interesting is absolutely part of the service I provide. If you didn't understand that - very well, it was a simple misunderstanding of what clubs are for and our role in them. But now you know.


I don't have a boss. And - Why not? As you said, I am human. Club patrons are only entitled to treat me as an "object" (e.g. a shirt in a store) insofar as they are paying for the privilege. If you are not paying for the privilege and still insist on treating me like an object, I don't see how you deserve deferential treatment. Moreover - you asked. We answered. What you are doing is outside what is normally considered courteous in a stripclub. I mean, that is what you came here to ask, right? Well - there you go. Question answered. So now - you're trying to tell us that we are professionally obligated to tolerate your discourtesy? Why? I mean, to what purpose are you having this argument? Like are you trying to say "Yes, I'm a douchebag, but you guys really ought to be tolerating it"? Okay - suppose you're right. In that case - some dancers are not highly professional and you would still be a douchebag. I mean - even your best case scenario kind of portrays you as a loser.

:10: Seriously, you wrote everything I was thinking.

Casual Observer
05-06-2007, 04:39 PM
You are a human so I understand that you can be annoyed, mad, bitchy, etc.. But keep it to yourself or tell it to your boss etc.. but NOT to your club patron.

But you're not a patron, as you've clearly established with some degree of warped pride, so really you should just avoid SCs entirely, since you're obviously too cool for school.

Pan Dah
05-06-2007, 05:31 PM
No, I can't. But you very kindly provided us with that information. So it seems silly for you to claim now that I'm not allowed to read, comprehend and then synthesize the information you give me.

Of course it is. It is on the menu in many clubs. Me, sitting down and acting like you are interesting is absolutely part of the service I provide. If you didn't understand that - very well, it was a simple misunderstanding of what clubs are for and our role in them. But now you know.


I don't have a boss. And - Why not? As you said, I am human. Club patrons are only entitled to treat me as an "object" (e.g. a shirt in a store) insofar as they are paying for the privilege. If you are not paying for the privilege and still insist on treating me like an object, I don't see how you deserve deferential treatment. Moreover - you asked. We answered. What you are doing is outside what is normally considered courteous in a stripclub. I mean, that is what you came here to ask, right? Well - there you go. Question answered. So now - you're trying to tell us that we are professionally obligated to tolerate your discourtesy? Why? I mean, to what purpose are you having this argument? Like are you trying to say "Yes, I'm a douchebag, but you guys really ought to be tolerating it"? Okay - suppose you're right. In that case - some dancers are not highly professional and you would still be a douchebag. I mean - even your best case scenario kind of portrays you as a loser.

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

jaizaine
05-06-2007, 07:00 PM
You are a human so I understand that you can be annoyed, mad, bitchy, etc.. But keep it to yourself or tell it to your boss etc.. but NOT to your club patron.

Oh this is where u r very wrong. That's the best part of my job. The fact that I can be rude to rude customers. Its a priviledge I did not have when I worked in retail and I will use it to my full advantage.

There was a time waster much like yourself at my club on sat night who just went around wasting all the girls time until he decided to waste the time of myself and my dancer friend. Well he did NOT leave the conversation with a smile on his face.
I asked him if he ever spent money on the girls. He tried to change the topic. He told my friend how beautiful she was to which she replied "Great well guess what on monday I am going to ring my landlord and say oh I dont have the rent this week but guess what I am beautiful so it's ok". Then she told the time-waster that we don't pay our bills with compliments.

So let me break it down for you:

- we PAY to be there
- we don't get paid by the club
- every minute wasted with a non-paying douche like yourself is a minute that we could be closing a sale with a genuine customer
- your behaviour is pathetic and only matched by your lack of understanding and insight on the matter
- stop arguing coz u r not going to convince anyone on here that what u r doing is ok.

gingerlee
05-06-2007, 07:04 PM
Oh this is where u r very wrong. That's the best part of my job. The fact that I can be rude to rude customers. Its a priviledge I did not have when I worked in retail and I will use it to my full advantage.

There was a time waster much like yourself at my club on sat night who just went around wasting all the girls time until he decided to waste the time of myself and my dancer friend. Well he did NOT leave the conversation with a smile on his face.
I asked him if he ever spent money on the girls. He tried to change the topic. He told my friend how beautiful she was to which she replied "Great well guess what on monday I am going to ring my landlord and say oh I dont have the rent this week but guess what I am beautiful so it's ok". Then she told the time-waster that we don't pay our bills with compliments.

So let me break it down for you:

- we PAY to be there
- we don't get paid by the club
- every minute wasted with a non-paying douche like yourself is a minute that we could be closing a sale with a genuine customer
- your behaviour is pathetic and only matched by your lack of understanding and insight on the matter
- stop arguing coz u r not going to convince anyone on here that what u r doing is ok.

:rotfl:

TigersMilk
05-06-2007, 07:22 PM
I just want to interject this:
Strippers: some unimaginable large number
PL's: 0

Wwanderer
05-06-2007, 09:23 PM
Suppose that I deliberately try to trick and mislead you in order to get some of your money, including trying to convince you that you will make money if you are willing to risk some. That is called fraud and makes me an unethical con artist, right?

Suppose you are running along carrying an object in your arms and I suddenly grab you and throw you roughly to the ground to keep you from getting where you are going. Further imagine that you drop the object when you hit the ground and I, or someone working with me, grab it and run off with it. Assault and robbery - immoral and illegal behavior, right?

Not if we are both playing in a poker or football game, respectively in the two examples above. Then my behavior is perfectly acceptable; in fact, I could be doing exactly what I am supposed to do in that situation; no one would criticize me at all.

Ethicists sometimes call such games/activities "special arenas" or "special ethical arenas"; such special arenas occur when the ordinary normative rules (be they legal or moral or ethical or simply customary) are intentionally set aside in order to allow activities to take place that would otherwise be forbidden or strongly discouraged. Such special arenas are both common and quite useful/convenient/important as the above examples perhaps make clear...and many many other examples are possible. There are certain general features of special arenas that can be identified as well: voluntary and knowing participation by all involved, clear boundaries in space and time, some sort of generally understood agreement about what rules or other standards of behavior apply within the arena (i.e., being in a special arena does not mean "anything goes", but only that the constraints are different than normal).

Imo, strip clubs are special ethical arenas, and it is helpful to see and understand them in that context and those terms. They are places to which men (customers) and women (dancers) voluntarily go in order to do things that would not be considered acceptable by most people, including the customers and dancers in many cases, outside the club. And, just as in the examples I gave in the first two paragraphs of this post, one can get very confused (and irritated) if one tries to evaluate what goes on in strip clubs without understanding that they are such a special arena and that a lot of one's normal expectations and standards of behavior are irrelevant re what happens in them.

Furthermore, imo, much of the controversy and some of the bad feelings that arise on SW in general and in this forum in particular could be avoided by keeping this "special ethical arena" concept in mind.

The old old thread (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=43333) started by the above post is somewhat relevant. There are indeed unwritten rules in SCs, and they are not necessarily the same "rules" that apply in other situations involving customers and service providers, or otherwise.

Imo, the OP asked a legit question about these unwritten rules and got a perfectly clear and correct answer. Also, not liking the rules is a legitimate reaction, just as someone might not like tackle football because getting tackled can hurt. The solution, obviously, is not to play tackle football if you don't like being tackled and not to go to SCs if you don't like the way they operate. However, trying to convince everyone that they should change the game to suit you is silly and pointless, at best.

Please excuse the faux pas of my self-quotation above.

-Ww

Bob_Loblaw
05-06-2007, 09:43 PM
Basically, what you're doing is loitering. You go into the club, sit and talk to dancers and watch the stage and possibly other guys who may be getting dances. It's like going into McDonald's, sitting down and talking to the workers while taking a peak at the menu once in a while and what the next guy is chowing down on. The workers are under no obligation to provide any services to you. Ever see signs that say, "This establishment reserves the right to refuse service"?

You are correct in saying that retail employees have to be courteous to people who come into their store. It's part of the job that they are paid for. But dancers are not being paid by the club so they have the right to pick and choose when and to whom they are courteous to.

RoseWhite
05-07-2007, 12:36 AM
^^ Right on. It's even more like going to a salon and insisting on chatting up the hairdresser or whatever without intending to actually purchase a haircut. Yes, the hairdresser IS probably going to consult with you first and then chat with you during the haircut ITSELF, but it's ALL part of the service. You're going to base your tip and the likelihood of a return visit on a number of things, probably the quality of the cut also, maybe even subconsciously, on things like rapport - but it is AGAIN all part of the service.

So, Original Poster - do you feel like you have the right to come into a salon and take up a chair & a stylist's time without EVER intending to spend money - just because it's a good idea for them to be polite and engaging in order to be professional? Give it a try sometime. I doubledogdare you.

Hell, there are other professions where time spent with the person IS the service, as is more our case than the analogy above (chosen just because it's clearly a service & not merchandise). Have you ever attempted to mooch a psychologist's time, for example? Maybe not even having him or her give you advice, but just sitting in their office & shooting the breeze, preventing them from getting to their other paying patients. Does that sound fair to you?

Jenny, you deserve a medal. Jazaine too.

Minette
05-07-2007, 12:58 AM
But you're not a patron, as you've clearly established with some degree of warped pride

^^^^^Exactly. You, the OP, feel that as salespeople, we should be nice to customers. True enough. You, however, are not a customer, you are a shoplifter. Now, put a shoplifter into your shirt-store analogy, and let's see how much manners and 'niceness' comes your way.

rozz
05-07-2007, 08:46 AM
For a sales person to leave a harsh remark towards to the other person just because he did not buy your service is just not right.


You are a human so I understand that you can be annoyed, mad, bitchy, etc.. But keep it to yourself or tell it to your boss etc.. but NOT to your club patron.

Oh noes!!! The dumb stripper with the stoopid feelings has lost a non-sale. Poo! Piss off, ya cheapass. If you're not buying, you're not a custie, and therefore have no right to critique a dancer's "professionalism." You deserve only to hear that you have aggravated her.

It's now the point in the thread where you come to terms with the facts: you're currently beating your tiny, ineffectual fists against a wall of logic. Stay home and rent Girls Gone Wild tapes, those girls come pre-exploited! Less work for you!

jaizaine
05-07-2007, 08:54 AM
^^
thanks Rozz. I LMAO at the "poo piss off you cheapass" part!

Jenny
05-07-2007, 09:06 AM
Stay home and rent Girls Gone Wild tapes, those girls come pre-exploited! Less work for you!Oh my god! That is the best thing I've heard all week. Including last week (since it's only Monday). That just got, like, a whole body laugh.

ChubbyChaser
05-07-2007, 12:51 PM
You don't like lap dances, you don't like how the dancers treat you, and then you come HERE to cry about it? You're just a glutton for punishment! Going to the strip club is just like feeding squirrels in the park. If you stop giving them food - they stop coming over to you, and get a bit irritated. So either start tipping, or stop going.

PrettyCurlieQ
05-07-2007, 02:20 PM
there's this old man that comes into my club. he doesn't buy dances, he doesn't drink even a soda (granted, they're $3..but still). he comes in when cover is free and gets butt hurt when none of us sit with him for more than five minutes. the other night it was waaaaay slow, and so i sat with him (and got $1 for it! ::) ), and he was telling me how glad he was that he made a friend with me. he asked for my number, so I gave him the # to my answering service, it doesnt' blow up my phone, but it goes to a voicemail with my voice and i get an email or text message telling me to check my messages. i'm not sure why i gave him the number, i felt bad for him.. but now he's blowing up that phone like the world is ending. he called three times the same night i gave him the # to tell me he's glad he met me. Now I wish I didn't give it to him.. anyways, yeah, don't take up someone's time without paying them. We're there to work, not 'make friends', although I apparently forgot this on a slow night .. grr..