View Full Version : How many one night stands have you had?
Minette
05-06-2007, 09:40 AM
Really? I never have...
And for some reason I'm a lesbian who can't do one night stands with women. I hafta fall in love... isn't that awful?
It seems to be super-common, really. At least you know about it and admit it. There's been more than a few times when I've had a one-night stand - stated up front that it was going to be a one-time thing, the girls says, "Yeah, that's cool", and the next morning is all clingy and like, "When are we going to do this again, when are we going on a date, etc, etc." >:( I think many women, I don't know about men, can't have sex without their emotions getting involved - I don't know whether it's sociological or biological, but I wish they'd be more honest and responsible about it.
BrunetteGoddess
05-06-2007, 11:18 AM
None. No interest. Most men I met when I was single didn't even deserve to get into my pants, so they didn't.
hannah83
05-06-2007, 06:02 PM
I've had a couple. Like 2 in college and then i had an attempt just a few months ago. LOL didn't turn out so well though as he ended up tracking me down and calling me(never gave him my #...so he had to ask around til he found it). Met up a few nites later, and we've been talking ever since. though it is kind of hard because he's in Iraq now until September..
KennedyWinters
05-07-2007, 04:06 AM
Prolly close to 30. They come in heaps when I'm not in a relationship- just trying to figure people out I end up sleeping with them. Actually- the moment I realize I could never love them, never date them seriously and actually have NOTHING in common with them is when I start to put the wheels in motion to get busy. Then it's like "woo hoo sex without strings!"
I know, I suck- sex with love is waaaaaaay better but I wil learn as time goes on...
Naomi12
05-07-2007, 11:33 AM
Aww man I have tried and they always end up becoming a boyfriend or a long-term booty call. Damn come to think of it I tried to make my S.O. a one night stand and now look at us, we have 1 1/2 kids , a house, and argue like married people....
Successful one night stands? 1 out of 4....go figure
Cyndi08
05-07-2007, 11:47 AM
three? ish LOL
hyzenthflay
05-07-2007, 11:52 AM
I've tried to have them, but they ended up as short or long term relationships:p
Gretchen
05-07-2007, 02:09 PM
Just had one this weekend post-Cinco De Mayo! I actually wasn't drunk either. I had just one beer about 6 hours before we came back to my house. He was a long time friend of mine but I don't think we'll ever date.
Coincidentally, my short term FB have all been guys I knew in high school and wanted to date/jump their bones but never got the chance too. 4 have been freaking terrible but one (oh boy!) I hope turns into something more when he gets done shooting this film hes in next month.
That brings the total to
3 one night stands
2 two-three night stands
2 long term (more than a year) relationships
and I'm only 20.
Cyndi08
05-07-2007, 02:12 PM
Well if you count the ones I only had sex with one time, but we were/are friends... hmm, that ups it to like 5 or 6 "one night" things
I've had 18 partners total, but most of them have been small/short relationships, about 4 were serious relationships
... and I'm 22, bad? LOL or just highly sexual?
TheSexKitten
05-07-2007, 03:10 PM
Zero.
I was plucked off the vine, so to speak. ;)
BB1984
05-07-2007, 04:03 PM
1 one night stand, and a few others that could have been considered one night stands but aren't because I stayed friends with the people afterwards.
christian211
05-07-2007, 04:07 PM
Zero.
I was plucked off the vine, so to speak. ;)
Nice!!
Zero here, but 2 one to 2 mth things that I still feel lame about. Those two shouldn't have happened. I think we were forcing a relationship where there obviously wasn't one:-\
Three...but I knew these guys and liked them for a while before I slept with them, and only had the desire to sleep w/ them once....I was usually leaving the country or something right afterwards, so it was like something that I had to accomplish before I left or something....LOL.
Lola Rose
05-08-2007, 09:14 AM
Too many. It's something I'd be perfectly happy to keep in my past.
daloveliestwoods
05-09-2007, 10:37 AM
I just had my first one not too long ago. its embarrasing how much i think about it still... i get kind of a turn on thinking about it. never been a bad girl before!
PleasureVictim
05-09-2007, 09:48 PM
Countless. My friends used to call me "Love 'em and leave 'em".
I grew out of it though. Rather just have a good night sleep. :-)
Cally
05-09-2007, 10:38 PM
I wish I could still do one night stands... I end up getting emotionally attached to the person I sleep with ::)
danijamesxxx
05-10-2007, 11:44 AM
I have had about 10
GrlWithTheMost
05-10-2007, 04:14 PM
Tons.. I was kinda embarassed to look at this thread at first, thinking Id see a lot of "what a fucking slut" blah blah blah opinions and whatnot.. Now I dont feel so bad...
Thanks for not judging *hugs*
LilSweetVixen
05-10-2007, 06:30 PM
Girl, don't you know we are family in here?
BlueJeanBaby
05-13-2007, 07:11 PM
I wish I could still do one night stands... I end up getting emotionally attached to the person I sleep with ::)
Yup, I'm the same way. I haven't had any one night stands for that reason.
I kinda wish I could, it sucks getting attatched to someone who's using you for sex.
Roulette
05-15-2007, 05:56 AM
^^ man, no way, I fuck like a man. Fuck then you're out. No strings.
Kaylinn
05-15-2007, 06:06 AM
I was never into 1 night stands. But...I'm what my bf calls a beer slut. Get me drunk, and I'm horney as hell for a penis. ANy penis.
So if I go out on a first date with a boy and we get drunk, chances are, I'll fuck him. For this reason, I have tried very very hard to not drink with new boys.
However..I've had a few slips to that rule, which ended, yeah, with a few 1 night stands. Well....a 1 weekend stand. Friday till Sunday, ( no regrets there, cept for how I walked bowlegged Monday) And 1 one hour stand...in the back of a truck, in a bar parking lot....
and 1 major, major slip and regret I will not admit to. I do not even "count"it in my list of men I've slept with, because I choose to forget that 1 incident. I don't regret much I've done in life, but this 1 thing, I regret.
PhillyDancer1982
05-15-2007, 06:22 AM
I know this sounds really bad...but I've lost count. I could go back and count in chronological order though.
But what constitutes a "one night stand"? I mean, I've had stands with random guys I met at parties(during my college years). I've also had one-night stands with good guy friends, but I still hung out with them many times afterward. I've also had one-night stands that I later had a second one-night stand with some time later(I guess that disqualifies it from being a one-night stand?). I've also hooked up with people on the first date/fling and surprisingly it evolved into a serious long-term relationship(I never saw it coming!). So if someone defines this a little more specifically, I'll be able to count and answer.
EDIT: I counted at least 71(being liberal on what counts as "one night stand"). I'm a slut, I know. Although I've managed to "cool it down" lately though. :p
PhillyDancer1982
05-15-2007, 06:32 AM
^^ man, no way, I fuck like a man. Fuck then you're out. No strings.
Alleluyah! Someone who feels the way I do. At least I know I'm not the only girl who "fucks like a man" LOL. :D