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AlexxaHex
05-21-2007, 07:51 PM
I like to make all the decisions and I am always right. But 90% of the time I really am! :P
I have been accused of being too solitary and selfish, but I think that is only with people who I feel are trying to take advantage of me.

I used to be more jealous and then I kinda stopped caring. Let him wander if he wants. If they are too stupid to realize that I'm the shit, then they don't deserve me.

Lena
05-21-2007, 08:05 PM
Nope. 99.99% of my sessions are with submissive males. I am in no way attracted to that type of guy. My at home kinks tend to involve submissive women, and THEN I can focus more and get into sex more, but I never orgasm, and I never initiate.

Are you straight? I'm wierdly turned on by submissive guys, even tho when it comes to sex I'm like 99% lesbian.

PaigeDWinter
05-21-2007, 08:45 PM
Are you straight? I'm wierdly turned on by submissive guys, even tho when it comes to sex I'm like 99% lesbian.

Nah, never been straight. I've been openly pansexual for a long time.

BrunetteGoddess
05-21-2007, 09:06 PM
I'm flighty, bossy, insecure, controlling, and my moods are all over.

How does my husband stand me? :P

BrunetteGoddess
05-21-2007, 09:13 PM
Like Rozz, I'd rather eat broken glass that communicate.
My boyfriend is the type of person that must talk things out. Resolve the issue.

I'd rather let it go, I get over shit fast. Sleep it off, Im fine the next day, all is forgotten and forgiven. But him...we need to talk it out. It takes him hours to get a conversation out of me.

Ahhhhh, me too::)

Silverback
05-21-2007, 10:06 PM
Yeah, I suck.

Too easy. I'm gonna let that one go. ;)

miss marina
05-21-2007, 11:50 PM
My temper. my god...My mother is from Italy, and i thought SHE had a bad temper growing up..Lawdy, when i go off i throw things, kick in the wall/doors, my favorite thing to do is throw lamps and books at whichever poor guy im dating at the time. Then 10 mins later, im all baby come to bedddd...in a sweet voice. They just look at me shocked. Usually they run, if they are smart lol!

then i dont like to talk about my feelings, so i never want to talk about WHY i freaked out. so it happens over and over again. it is so stupid.

RoseLeigh
05-22-2007, 08:58 AM
I am a giant mush and am generally more in love with books than people.

I tend to get all absentminded and like someone to take care of me a bit, though I will freak the hell out if anyone implies that I am weak or incapable of doing so myself.

I am overly loyal and hang on far longer than I should (this especially applys to friendships)

But when someone has done something that finally makes me wake up, I cut them off and they don't exist to me. I've only managed to stay friends with the few exes with whom it just didn't work out. The rest could be bleeding on my lawn and I'd walk over them.

Rose Leigh

Vyanka
05-22-2007, 09:20 AM
I tend to bottle up my emotions for way too long. When I have an arguement, they all come out and I end up literally exploding over the smallest thing.

Me too. I'm trying really hard to change that shit. :(

Vyanka
05-22-2007, 09:24 AM
I also have a big fat pride(but I think that has gone down a bit, too much is bad...maybe not.)

I have a temper, another thing i'm trying to control.



My God, thank goodness for all of my other good traits, LOL.

braxley
05-22-2007, 10:47 AM
i tend to bite off and eat the heads of the men i mate with.

Bella21
05-22-2007, 11:44 AM
As my bf said, I am the perfect woman. ;)

(Although not really. I'm secretly evil and I laugh when people fall down.)

Roulette
05-22-2007, 12:12 PM
I dont yell, or raise my voice... and for some reasons guys dont argue with me (because I'm always right?) so there are never any fights in my relationships... I think that might not be healthy. I also keep things bottled up that bother me, but that is changing.

PrettyCurlieQ
05-22-2007, 12:57 PM
I can be a total emotional bitch when I'm PMSing .. like crying and yelling. In general, I tend to hold in when I'm pissed off instead of letting my SO know I'm upset, and then I'll explode while drunk or something.. bad habit.
And I can be selfish. It's a habit I picked up in my late teens as a result of being on my own since I was 15. I think of me first, because no one else ever thought of me. That's a horrible streak in me I'm trying to change right now.

lwtex52
05-22-2007, 05:33 PM
After five marriages to four different women, I think I have the relationship thing down. I have now moved on to other pursuits, such as going to the customer service desk at WalMart and inquiring about the fees to wire money to my cousin in Istanbul.

Minette
05-22-2007, 10:01 PM
I don't leave when I should. I do the mothering thing, too. I tend to date younger girls I can give lots of advice to. Advice they need, sure, but seriously, it's bad news when you're not sure if your girlfriend should be calling you sweetheart or mommy. I'm stopping that though. My next girlfriend will be my age or older, have her shit together, and be able to stand up to me. Oh, and she'll already know how to fuck. And have a sex drive that can keep up with mine.

FrustratedBunny
05-22-2007, 10:21 PM
I can't even seem to find anyone I want to be in a relationship with, let along stay in a relationship with. Once I get into one there are other flaws but I rarely get to that point.

jaizaine
05-22-2007, 10:28 PM
- I have a low sex drive (thats prob enough to put any guy off)
- I am selfish
- I am often thoughtless
- I dont communicate (Rozz I think I'll have dinner with u and we can eat broken glass together)
- I have double standards - whats ok for me to do is not ok for him to do
- I am irritable
- If I hate their mother I'll tell them

Damn I'm shit!

maryjaneknightly
05-22-2007, 11:48 PM
I tend to give up all my dreams and ambitions (and money) so that my partner can persue their dreams and wants in life. I may need to go to a doctor for torn muscles but if my partner wants more supplies for his art I will buy the supplies and skip the doctor.
I am very moody and hold grudges for lifetimes.
I am very insecure,
and passive aggresive.

Lysondra
05-23-2007, 12:09 AM
I like sex too much. I don't mean 'woohoo this chick like a lot of sex'... I mean, I think I may be a non-slutty sex addict. It's NOT cool - I've actually BURNED the skin off my partner's dick with my vagina WITH lube... and then I asked if we could go again.

When with someone for a year, I start getting really snappy and resenting them for holding me back. I'm really bitchy and actually vocalize all their flaws to them in a really really rude manner. :/

Roulette
05-23-2007, 01:05 PM
I like sex too much. I don't mean 'woohoo this chick like a lot of sex'... I mean, I think I may be a non-slutty sex addict. It's NOT cool

Same. Altho I think you might be a bit more than me, I've never burned a dude. But seriously, my goal in life if to find a guy who can outsex me.

southstbabe
05-23-2007, 01:35 PM
I'm crazy. Thank god for the meds.

Lysondra
05-23-2007, 04:38 PM
Same. Altho I think you might be a bit more than me, I've never burned a dude. But seriously, my goal in life if to find a guy who can outsex me.

Who need a guy? Wanna get together and try?



...see?!

Roulette
05-23-2007, 04:48 PM
Who need a guy? Wanna get together and try?



...see?!

Never made it with a lady, but I'm pretty open to trying it once... Apparently it's not cheating in mu boyfriends eyes...

When I make it to Aussie you are #1 on my list pf people I need to meet and do things with.

Also I went to my settings and you were the last person to post on like 4 fourums... it was craziness.

Lysondra
05-23-2007, 08:10 PM
That's because I need 10,000 posts to get my StripperWeb Addict sticker - it now comes in purple!

Roulette
05-23-2007, 08:36 PM
^^ hahaha

I think another flaw I have is I often end up with guys who need to be helped/saved.

Mare
05-24-2007, 02:41 AM
If I see weakness he's toast. If I feel like I can do things better than or better without him....