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VegasPrincess
05-31-2007, 12:16 PM
I hate dancing for men who grope me or annoy me. Other than that, I'm cool with whomever.

karlinlondon
05-31-2007, 02:52 PM
I realise that the majority ruin it for the few that are good customers.
Let me just clarify my thing against Indian men only applies to the strip club environment.
My ex boyfriend of 6 years was from an Indian background and he is a wonderful and very generous man.


that sounds like the "some of my best friends are gay / jewish / whatever" line

Don't worry, people of different backgrounds have to deal with stereotyping from time to time in all parts of their lives, so i guess there's no reason strip clubs would be different.

Lilithmorrigan - i'll be in Brisbane for the first time in like 6 years next weekend - any steers on where to hang out?

StevieStar7
05-31-2007, 08:03 PM
I don't really think there is a like a general "rule". I've heard so many times that younger guys are broke and older guys are dirty and intimidating. Honestly, I've learned that there is not such thing as a general type of guys. Among my customers there is a 18 year old kid who always takes VIP shows from me. A 50 ish year old man who always takes 10 $10 dances from me. I think he's cheap but he is nice to talk to and at least he always shows up on the really slow nights. A 30 year old really handsome man, who is, in my opinion, the most intimidating customer I've had. He comes to see me about once a month, he never wants to talk, I don't even know his name, and he usually just wants me to entertain him for like 3 hours, he never likes to pay in advance. He always gives me the money at the end of the night and gives me really good tips, but as a person, he's an asshole.

So there you go....there's a little bit of everything.

This has also been my experience! I know it's a cliche, but really you can't judge a book by it's cover! I've been surprised many a time, by thinking a guy was going to be this way or that way...though I do prefer the older guys;)

jaizaine
05-31-2007, 10:33 PM
that sounds like the "some of my best friends are gay / jewish / whatever" line

Don't worry, people of different backgrounds have to deal with stereotyping from time to time in all parts of their lives, so i guess there's no reason strip clubs would be different.

Lilithmorrigan - i'll be in Brisbane for the first time in like 6 years next weekend - any steers on where to hang out?

Well ok then. I was merely trying to illustrate that I obviously have nothing against indians outside of the strip club environment but play the race card if u will. Look I really don't care. Inside the club I wont waste my time and energy on indian customers so that they can ask to fuck me for $20. If that offends you then so be it coz u know what? It offends me to be illegally propositioned as well.

karlinlondon
06-01-2007, 07:21 PM
Well ok then. I was merely trying to illustrate that I obviously have nothing against indians outside of the strip club environment but play the race card if u will. Look I really don't care. Inside the club I wont waste my time and energy on indian customers so that they can ask to fuck me for $20. If that offends you then so be it coz u know what? It offends me to be illegally propositioned as well.

i'm not playing the race card - i didn't bring this up and it's not me making judgements about people based on their skin colour - and you're clearly saying you would judge me like that.

but that doesn't mean i'm on the side of the guys who think it's ok to ask for sex during a dance

nuff said by me

miss marina
06-01-2007, 07:35 PM
i prefer older men to younger guys. But hey, everyones money is green as long as their respectful.

KatGrrl
06-02-2007, 05:17 AM
I totally prefer younger men for lap dances! They get so smitten, it is cute! Older guys just expect so much more than I am willing to give. Although, I can't remember the last time I danced for a guy over 50.

ChubbyChaser
06-02-2007, 08:01 AM
Before this gets crazy, let me just say something. *clears dry, scratchy throat* As business women, to be successful we must quickly find the customers who will spend the most money on us with the least aggravation. Every minute counts, so we can't waste time, or loose an opportunity to another girl. Experience, intuition, persistence, charm, and sheer luck make up a big part of how profitable our night will be. That being said, we feel more comfortable going for the type of guys we’ve had good experiences with in the past, and hesitant (which men WILL notice) going for types that have been less than civil or generous to us. Yes, there is some stereotyping, but it’s not personal, it’s just business.

Optimist
06-02-2007, 09:41 AM
^^^^^Tahnk you for taking thee words out of my mouth! I've had the best experiences with Indian men from the UK and Africa and the worst from India. I listen for the accent and hope for the best.


The retirement age older ones I find to be the pervert grabby ones, but i can't generalize as i have had a few good customers in that age group.



Of course every customer is not the same. There are obnoxious guys in every age and ethnic group, which is why instead of stereotyping, we need to go after everyone.

I used to have the same modus operandi but now I get burned out by these johns pretending to be patrons. For those of us who are crispy burnt it's better to target the least obnoxious.

tanyadancer1976
06-03-2007, 06:54 PM
I am more comfy dancing for older men, unless I have danced for the younger guy a few times before. It is my own hangup, and I know that. I think alot of it has to do with my age. I look early twenties, I am 30. I always wonder if the younger guy would have gotten a dance if he knew I wasnt his own age? Probably, but still, makes me feel a bit"off".

Tanya

Bridgette
06-03-2007, 11:22 PM
I am more comfy dancing for older men, unless I have danced for the younger guy a few times before. It is my own hangup, and I know that. I think alot of it has to do with my age. I look early twenties, I am 30. I always wonder if the younger guy would have gotten a dance if he knew I wasnt his own age? Probably, but still, makes me feel a bit"off".

TanyaThe really young guys know you're older than them - trust me. If they're thinking about your age at all, they're ENJOYING the hot older chic fantasy. Trust me on this ;)