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TigersMilk
06-04-2007, 04:38 PM
I had a customer (a month before my boobs) tell me my body was a weird shape and made the appropriate hand gestures to show how 'messed up' I was. He made wavy hand gestures which was the worst.

I still hate the "I dont like black girls" line. Cant they just say youre not my type instead. Damn if I got a dollar for all the dumb shit guys have said to me I would own California and a sore hand from slapping them all. >:(

Darcy if I had all that stuff said to me then I dont blame you for how you feel now about yourself. Its hard to forget that stuff.

Pinky3160424
06-04-2007, 05:22 PM
I don't really get mean comments, but if one more guy tells me to grow my hair out...

teeth_of_the_hydra
06-04-2007, 08:07 PM
One guy once watched my stage show without tipping. When I was done, I approached him and asked for a tip. He said, "No, I hate girls with short hair."

Not too bad, but the word "hate" sure stung. Oh, the other night a guy told me that no matter how smart I was, I was going to become a drug addict and probably wind up with HIV. He said it was a shame, because I seemed like a nice girl, but meth addiction was "unevitable" and I should always use condoms because all strippers had AIDS from their customers and I was going to get it, probably that very night after work. When I told him I didn't have sex with customers, he said that I was going to give in to peer pressure. It was funny in a way, but I still seethe over the assumption that I'm a prostitute. It also aggravated me because he was paying for my time, so I was a captive audience for his offensive idiocy.

Jenny
06-04-2007, 11:50 PM
I had a customer (a month before my boobs) tell me my body was a weird shape and made the appropriate hand gestures to show how 'messed up' I was. He made wavy hand gestures which was the worst.

I still hate the "I dont like black girls" line. Cant they just say youre not my type instead. Damn if I got a dollar for all the dumb shit guys have said to me I would own California and a sore hand from slapping them all. >:(
Oh my god. You should do that. Next time someone says something say "Hey, can I have a dollar? I'm trying to collect a dollar for all the dumb things guys say to me so that I can buy California. Thanks, you're sweet. Dumb, but sweet."

AlexxaHex
06-05-2007, 12:23 AM
Two guys were sitting at a table near the stage. I come up and say hello. The first guy says to his friend, "Hey dude, did you know that all goth chicks have like, no self esteem? That's why they are so freaky in bed. You can do whatever you want to them.". He then proceeded to try and get my number. I told him he should become a drug dealer, that way he would at least have some kind of play. When he tried to tell me he did in fact have drugs (another attempt to insult me), I walked away.

I've had 2 guys try to pick me apart psychologically in one day. It was just unusually bad. I went home in tears but I think it was only because I didn't make any money to counteract the assholism. Looking back, I realize that I shouldn't have stayed talking to them long enough to hear them out.

On my first day dancing, one guy said, "If you give a shit about yourself at all you will quit this job and never come back."

Probably lots more...just can't bring them all from the blocked parts of my memory. :O

Dottie Rebel
06-05-2007, 12:39 AM
Oh my god. You should do that. Next time someone says something say "Hey, can I have a dollar? I'm trying to collect a dollar for all the dumb things guys say to me so that I can buy California. Thanks, you're sweet. Dumb, but sweet."
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

After talking to a couple of rich assholes for a couple of minutes one became mystified and interrupted what I was saying to say, "Y'know...you seem like you might actually have two brain cells to rub together. You could probably get out of here and maybe even go to college if you wanted."

Lysondra
06-05-2007, 12:41 AM
I think the worst was when a bunch of assholes threw 5 cent coins at me and told me I was the most digusting thing they'd ever seen and that I should just get off stage because I'm nothing more than a tit-less whore.

Jewel21
06-05-2007, 07:13 AM
A customer was sitting at a bar with his friends, one of which always gets at least 5 songs from me every time he comes in...And was saying out loud in a kinda creepy way : "Little boy, little boy, you look like a little boy."
I had no idea what he was talking about, I have long blonde hair and am very curvy so I didn't even think he was talking about me...
So I ask him, what are you talking about? And he goes, "you, your chest, you look like a little boy" I was so surprised and pissed off at the same time I was speachless. that was pre-op, but I still had SOMETHING..arrrrg
Good thing is his friend felt horrible and spent lots of $ after that. yay for me:)

Taylorlila
06-05-2007, 09:07 AM
wow I better get a thicker skin before I start really getting into stripping...
I worked at a peepshow...the worst I even got was when I'd tell a guy about our shows (we didnt stay in our booth we got to walk around the store) he'd listen look at me and say "well are there any other girls working" and i'd say "no just me" and he'd say "oh never mind" and walk away. That kinda ticked me off always...but not even close to some of the things you ladies have heard.

Helle
06-05-2007, 10:58 AM
I always get "Why did you want to go fuck up such a beautiful body with all of those tattoos??"

::)

It's like, if that's the best you can think to say to me, just don't say anything.

AlexxaHex
06-05-2007, 04:55 PM
^^I've gotten that one too.

$$$magnet
06-05-2007, 05:12 PM
Oh! Here's a good one:

A young female custy came to tip me on stage. She said that her and her friends were debating over what my ethnicity was (I'm black). She said that I had a really nice ass, but it's not like I was one of those REAL black girls. Ya'know, with the REAL big asses, and with the REAL hair (that you would find on an African American).

I guess b/c my skin tone is on the lighter side? WTF?

Punch Line: I (politely) inquired about her ethnic backround. She replied that she was Mexican and German. I asked if she spoke Spanish. Nodding her head she replied "Say". :O?

PrettyCurlieQ
06-05-2007, 05:30 PM
I get very irate when pimps offer me their services.

And I hate, "You're hot, but you're not THAT hot.." When being confronted with prices they don't want to hear.

I also hate when a customer is sooo cheap that he won't buy you single drink. I was shot girling one night, and I offered this customer a body shot, he declined. The dancer he was sitting with asked if she could have one, and he just turned her down in the rudest way like, "I don't think so.." It doesn't SOUND that rude, but the look he gave her of how he felt she wasn't worth it was awful!!

VegasPrincess
06-05-2007, 05:50 PM
oh my gosh. This customer said, "do you have any kids? Your stomach looks like you have." (It doesn't)

Also, I work the night shift at SR, which is VERY competitive. A manager who shall remain nameless yelled at me about something and followed it up with, "Any you're border-line working this shift, anyway!"

I will never forget that as long as I live, I swear.

Andygirl
06-05-2007, 06:17 PM
Hmm... let me see...

"Holy shit, check out the size of the ass on that bitch!" as I walked past.

"Oink oink, fat piggy, oink oink snort" from a whole group of guys every time I walked past their table.

"It's nice to see a girl who looks like she really enjoys to eat a lot of food" from a guy during a lap dance.

"You've got a nice pussy, but the rest of you is fucking shit!" from some random guy as he walked past me on his way out of the club.

"Hahahaha! Look how fat that girl is! Oh my god that is soooo GROSS!!! Oh my god she like needs to do sit-ups or something, I can't believe anyone would want to look at all that flab!" from a girl standing by the stage and pointing at me while laughing hysterically. I walked off stage mid-set and pushed her across a table and slapped her face.

"With an ass that fat, wouldn't you break the table?" from a guy whom I'd asked about a table dance.

"I like you because you're not skinny like all the other girls" from a customer who meant well.

"Get off the stage, fatty!" from a group of guys sitting at the tip rail.

"Have you had kids? We've got a bet going that you have, because you look like you have" from two young guys sitting along side the stage during my show.

That's just a few of the many fun comments I've received.

And people on here question why I have such severe weight issues ::)

Wait a minute, I've seen your pictures and no way do you look even slightly overweight. Am I missing something? Did you used to weigh a lot more? If not, these guys must be blind because you look gorgeous in all the pics I've seen of you.

Kaiyla
06-05-2007, 06:40 PM
it blows my mind how most of these guys that are total overweight slobs feel that just because we are without clothes, we are without feelings too, and they have the right to verbally critique us.
I once overheard this drunked piece of shit slur behind me when I got onstage, "now THAT's a big ass."
Totally f*cked my mood for the night.

TheSexKitten
06-05-2007, 07:53 PM
Holy crap Darcy! I can't understand why anyone would say any of that bullshit to you. Like, my mind can't wrap itself around the concept at all.

D:

Lysondra
06-05-2007, 08:18 PM
Holy crap Darcy! I can't understand why anyone would say any of that bullshit to you. Like, my mind can't wrap itself around the concept at all.

D:

Australian men are assholes who nitpick everything about you. Chivalry and class rarely exist here.. especially in small towns.

Edit: This was probably a rant - seeing as I just had a conversation about this with another lady.

Jenny
06-05-2007, 08:30 PM
I had a guy insult me over my age yesterday. Like he guessed my age at being quite a lot lower than it is, and when I corrected him... you know. Made obnoxious "old stripper" comments. Not offended; more like "Dude what the fuck? You are still 13 years OLDER than I am, and I could actually conveniently pass for your kid. What are you thinking?" I rolled my eyes and rolled with it - still got his money, so.

ETA - I was also once told that I'd have to lose weight to work for a club. I told them very politely that I was sorry, but that I knew that wasn't going to happen. They acted - seriously - like I hadn't just said a word. They just completely ignored it and never brought it up again.

flickad
06-05-2007, 08:40 PM
oh my gosh. This customer said, "do you have any kids? Your stomach looks like you have." (It doesn't)

Also, I work the night shift at SR, which is VERY competitive. A manager who shall remain nameless yelled at me about something and followed it up with, "Any you're border-line working this shift, anyway!"

I will never forget that as long as I live, I swear.

I've been told I was 'borderline' by a manager as well. He also told me that my stomach was fat and that I needed to lose weight when I was about 118lbs and a size eight (US size four).

flickad
06-05-2007, 08:43 PM
Australian men are assholes who nitpick everything about you. Chivalry and class rarely exist here.. especially in small towns.

Edit: This was probably a rant - seeing as I just had a conversation about this with another lady.

I once had a man squeeze my arse in a club and say 'all flab, no muscle tone' (again, I was size eight, 115lbs- and whoever heard of a muscular arse, anyway?). This was right after I'd refused to sleep with him.

jaizaine
06-05-2007, 10:45 PM
I regret reading this thread. It has truly made me sad.
People who come into a strip club and have nothing better to do than insult the beautiful women who work in them are doing it because of some issue within themselves.

Like Darcy's example of the girl who called her fat, that was the girl's own insecurities and jealousy towards Darcy.

Men who insult dancers are probably just resentful because they know we are too good for them and they have a deep seated hatred of women.

My club management is really good about things like this, they wont tolerate anyone being rude to the girls. They will kick guys straight out the door for being insulting.

burnedrose
06-05-2007, 11:06 PM
"oh, you look like a guy with your short hair and small boobs. I only get private dances with women who look like women."

umm..yeah. I told all the girls what happened and no one gave him a private dance after that, saying that they only gave private dances to guys who acted and looked like gentlemen.

colleen
06-05-2007, 11:15 PM
"Have you had kids? We've got a bet going that you have, because you look like you have" from two young guys sitting along side the stage during my show.


This reminds me of high school, when guys would try to guess whether a girl was a virgin or not by the way she walked. And yeah, Darcy, I heard that lots of times before I had my son.

Let's see:
You have more hair on you ass than I do!

(Poking at a zit on my chest) Whats' that, a third nipple? (Yeah, asshole. I'm growing it just for you.)

Damn, girl, you thick as a motherfucker! (Just exactly how thick IS a motherfucker, anyway?)

Are you a man? (Actually yes. Suck my dick!)

Are you pregnant? (Many times. Once I heard it so many times in such a short period, that I actauly had to buy an EPT to make sure!)

Choice moment from last night:

Fat, drunk female custy: (Trying to squeeze by me in a narrow passage) I can't rmember her exact words, but it had to do with age and weight, after I had laughed about making myself tiny by pressing into the wall)
Me: Yeah, but I've got you beat in the tiny department
FDFC: At least I dont have to sit on dicks to make my living
me I doubt you could.

And even in Instant messenger, they will find you and get you:


tony2182000: hi sexy the playpen an manhiem

ColleenOReilly: the one and only

tony2182000: do you meet

tony2182000: i live close bye

tony2182000: rosemont

tony2182000: im married and need descreat

tony2182000: you there sexy

ColleenOReilly: if you are married you should be banging your wife, or else get a divorce. I am an entertainer not a prostitute

ColleenOReilly: I wish I knew who your wife is so I could send her this conversation

ColleenOReilly: She deserves to know what a lying deceitful scumbag she married

tony2182000: im not the one who works at the play pen i know what goes on there

ColleenOReilly: apparently not as much as you think you do. We are all different and I am not cheating on MY spouse.

sun child
06-06-2007, 01:09 AM
One time this guy said "I don't have any money so happy hunting" right when I walked up to him to chat. I had just made like $400 in the champagne room so I decided to fuck with him and humor him a bit. I was tired. He went on to say all kinds of shit about how he never comes to these places and girls who do this job must have had the shit beaten out of them and have no self-esteem. This REALLY pissed me off. Actually nothing pisses me off more than misogynistic bullshit like that. He then went on to brag abut how his daddy or his daddy's friend or something was going to hook him up with a sweet Vice President job at some company. I mentioned sinecure and he didn't know what that meant. Hahahaha.

mina loy
06-06-2007, 01:21 AM
umm..yeah. I told all the girls what happened and no one gave him a private dance after that, saying that they only gave private dances to guys who acted and looked like gentlemen.

*cheers*

LilyLove
06-06-2007, 04:46 AM
I had a terrible night tonight at work. But for some reason, the thing that burned me the most was this guy trying to take up all my time chatting with me and than saying "You're too good for this" as he walked out the door. Yeah, but I'm not good enough to not have you trying to get me to work for free by talking to your non-tipping ass. GRRRRRR....

mysticmeadow
06-06-2007, 08:08 AM
Hello everybody, I have a couple:
You know you would be the most beautiful girl in here if you painted your toe nails- I mean come on WTF I never thought that my toe nails played such an important role in my looks.

Ok next one I am on stage- kind of a full stage- lots of dollars and i am in my second song and topless- i need to also add that i busted my ass doing pole tricks-so i go up to guy with his dollar do my little dance and hold open my garter, that mother [email protected]#@ said you don't actually think i am going to give you this dollar now, you can have it when you get naked- i told him to take his dollar shove it up his ass and i would make sure that no girl got too close to him naked because he sucked.
My fav is this guy is sitting at the bar, his buddy was in vip with another girl and he was miserable waiting for him he couldn't afford it and i felt bad, stupid me, so i sit down next to him offer to buy him a beer and he says don't talk to me i don't talk to stripper you are all whores and fuck for a living you strippers are the most disgusting people in the world- now being sicillian you know i couldn't help myself- i looked at him and said you know what your problem is it isn't the strippers, it is the fact that in the real world not one girl in this club wouldn't even acknowledge you- it must be heartbreaking, to know that your scummy ass cant get any hot ass so!! I said a lot more and got in trouble but i got tell you it was worth it!

Darcy Foxx
06-06-2007, 08:25 AM
Wait a minute, I've seen your pictures and no way do you look even slightly overweight. Am I missing something? Did you used to weigh a lot more? If not, these guys must be blind because you look gorgeous in all the pics I've seen of you.

No, I've always looked like this.

Some of the girls at work have a theory. There's quite a few girls at work who are significantly larger than I am... yet they rarely, if ever, get negative weight comments. I, on the other hand, regularly (and I do mean regularly) get told that I have a fat ass. It's true, my ass is huge and flabby, and it's especially big in proportion to my waist which is quite small. My thighs are also very thick compared to the bottoms of my legs, which are very slender. Some of the girls at work have said that they think it's because I'm pretty that I get called fat all the time... like, I look like one of those really hot girls that would be a bitch, except I have a fat ass, so customers like to point it out. All the time.

I honestly get at least one 'fat' comment a week at work. Whether it's a 'compliment' like, "I like girls who look like they enjoy food," or an outright insult like, "That bitch has a fat ass!", I rarely go a week without having at least one customer say something about my weight that upsets me.

Customers are assholes.

cameron_keys
06-06-2007, 08:43 AM
I honestly get at least one 'fat' comment a week at work. Whether it's a 'compliment' like, "I like girls who look like they enjoy food," or an outright insult like, "That bitch has a fat ass!", I rarely go a week without having at least one customer say something about my weight that upsets me.

Customers are assholes.

Dont sweat it honey...I get the same thing at least as often. These guys know that they wold never have a snowballs chance in hell with us and thus reject US before we can reject them. Its a pretty good gamble that any woman is going to be sensitive about her weight..no matter what she weighs. And if she isnt an anorexic stick figure...esp in this business...she's got it in the back of her mind that she is fat. Just because sadly...thats how women are. So it's a cheap shot-in-the-dark that they are betting will hurt you. It actually has very little to do with you. They dont actually think you are fat..they are just playing the odds with a comment that is very likely to hurt a woman.

I try not to let it bother me. I give it right back... hey there big mouth with your bald spot,beer gut and shit breath...when the dark day ever comes that ANYONE ever gives up so much as a DIME to see your fat wrinkly ass naked you can talk. Since my body looks good enough that it makes me more money in a week then i'm betting you make in a month...you can bite me.Fat ass fucktard. Might be a good idea to trade in the buckt-o-beer for a treadmill once in awhile...then you wouldnt have to pay to see tits and ass. Loser.

xoxoGracexoxo
06-06-2007, 09:40 AM
Holy shit, guys! Some of this stuff is unbeleivable. I'm not skinny and was 15 lbs heavier when I started dancing, and I NEVER got any insults from customers about it. The occasional awkward compliment -- "you've got some meat on your bones" -- but nothing intentionally mean.

(Oh, wait...I take that back. A few weeks ago a guy told me he would tip me if I found him a "petite girl" to dance with. It definitely upset me at the time -- I was having a crap night anyway -- but then I told myself he was an insecure pencil-dick who couldn't handle a lady of my stature, and forgot all about him.)

I have this theory that when you have an insecurity, you unconsciously project it and the customers pick up on it. I have a large surgical scar from just below my breatbone to just above my navel. It looks like a zipper. When I started dancing again after the surgery, I wore corsets and cinchers to cover the scar, but then I got lazy and went back to my normal clothes. At first I was self-concious about it and EVERY SINGLE customer had to ask me about it. Guys would come up to my stage to ask about it, even, which in turn made me more self-concious. Over time, though, I totally forgot about my scar and seemingly so did everyone else...hardly anyone asks about it now, and it's as big and gnarly as ever. Weird but true.

I wonder if customers are ruder in some areas than other. I live in an awfully nice and laid-back town where customers are generally pretty polite. When I danced in Dallas, guys seemed much more intent on picking dancers apart. Add that to the ten thousands other reasons never to go to that horrible city. (Kidding, buffie.)

Susan Wayward
06-06-2007, 09:41 AM
Wow, Australian guys sound like dicks. As does your management.

Andygirl
06-06-2007, 09:45 AM
No, I've always looked like this.

Some of the girls at work have a theory. There's quite a few girls at work who are significantly larger than I am... yet they rarely, if ever, get negative weight comments. I, on the other hand, regularly (and I do mean regularly) get told that I have a fat ass. It's true, my ass is huge and flabby, and it's especially big in proportion to my waist which is quite small. My thighs are also very thick compared to the bottoms of my legs, which are very slender. Some of the girls at work have said that they think it's because I'm pretty that I get called fat all the time... like, I look like one of those really hot girls that would be a bitch, except I have a fat ass, so customers like to point it out. All the time.

I honestly get at least one 'fat' comment a week at work. Whether it's a 'compliment' like, "I like girls who look like they enjoy food," or an outright insult like, "That bitch has a fat ass!", I rarely go a week without having at least one customer say something about my weight that upsets me.

Customers are assholes.

I am still having trouble digesting this. There is no way your ass is as fat as you are making it sound, unless your photos have been seriously doctored. And if you do have a bigger butt, well hell, that would make you popular around here. Guys always like a booty, it seems.

I'm sorry that people are so awful to you. It just doesn't make sense. You must have an invisible suit of iron to be able to continue dancing after being treated like that.:(

Darcy Foxx
06-06-2007, 10:00 AM
There is no way your ass is as fat as you are making it sound, unless your photos have been seriously doctored.

Haha... they have.

Dottie Rebel
06-06-2007, 12:51 PM
^^^Well, yeah...of course! No model in the world leaves her pics 100% untouched. But have they photoshopped your ass to shrink it? I seriously doubt that. And all of the candid photos of you and friends on your myspace? Have they been shopped?

You're hot. I'm gonna stop because it's pointless but I can't believe insecures assholes have this much influence on your self image. It's tragic.

Andygirl
06-06-2007, 01:14 PM
Yeah, I am still not seeing how anyone could call you fat. You can't be any bigger than me and I never get that.

Pretty_Penny
06-06-2007, 01:27 PM
a lot of the general "i'm a bitter woman hater" bullshit. i think the one that stands out most though.. is a guy who (when asking if he'd like a dance, during a walk-around dance special) said "what happened to your tits?" nothing is wrong with my tits, so i said "excuse me?" to which he replied "i mean, where the fuck are they?" ...i'm a 34 B .. and a bigger B at that. so, while i don't have large tits by any means, i'm not "flat" either. my boobs (if i may say so) are also nice and round and perfectly perky.

anyway... after i called him out for being a rude asshole i said something about how he'd be lucky to have a woman 1/2 as cool as i am " to which he said something about me being "just a fucking stripper".

>_<


that guy (i can't remember the exact covo) definately pissed me off. there was another guy who walked ACROSS the room to tell his friend, who was STARTING to get a dance from me, to stop.

i was like "what the fuck are you doing?" and he said "i don't want my friend to waste his money" ...........................

i said "what the hell are you talking about?" and he went on to tell me that, while i'm sexy and attractive and whatnot, i don't "give good dances".

i called him on it and said "ohhhhhhhh you mean because i don't grind dick the entire song???" and he looked at me like "well, yeah, duh" i knew that's what the problem was, because i had danced for this guy earlier. he was all handsy and trying to pull me down on his dick. anyway...

usually i walk away from shit like this, but i was so incredibly pissed off that he actualy STOPPED his friend from getting a dance while i was getting undressed. i stood up right in his face and told him how rude he was. i told him what it means to be a dancer and why he should respect my boundries. i explained how hard i work and etc. ...it was one of the only times i actually explained or defended myself. as i said before, i usually just walk away. the guy who stopped his friend, wound up feeling really terrible about it and gave me twice the price of the dance. not to "shut me up" either. i think he really thought about what he just did. the funny thing is, when i started confronting him about it, his friend was like "why did you stop her". when he told him, the friend was like "oh i know they don't grind here dude, i don't care"

*sigh*

CupCake
06-06-2007, 01:54 PM
Darcy your so beautiful the men in the states would definetly appreciate your nice booty::)

hearts
06-06-2007, 04:59 PM
For some reason I always get the insults from the guys sitting at my rack...(and I think, WTF?! If you wanna insult me, why are you sitting at my rack paying me?) My favorite thing to do to them is giggle and say (in a flirty voice) "Oh you're so funny" then seductively lean over them, suck my finger, get it nice and wet...and give them a wet willie. It brings me great joy.

$$$magnet
06-06-2007, 05:52 PM
^ ^ ^ :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: ^ ^ ^

Lysondra
06-06-2007, 06:01 PM
Wow, Australian guys sound like dicks. As does your management.

Yeah. What's weird is I was just talking about how Aussie men are kinda crude to another friend of mine. All the girls agreed that Aussie born men were pretty stupid and offensive - even if they didn't mean it! Fricken Aussie men are the only ones that would go 'How many children do you have' instead of asking if you have any... while looking at your tummy. And I KNOW there is nothing effing wrong with my tummy. And when you accuse them of calling you fat, they say, "No I meant because you do this job. You wouldn't do this if you didn't have mouths to feed!"

UUUGHHH!

They're SO fricken DENSE.

jaizaine
06-06-2007, 08:01 PM
^^^
Im not doubting your experiences at all but I just dont see this. maybe it's adelaide and QLD? The guys in melbourne pretty much all compliment the girls.

My management would not condone customers speaking to ANY of their dancers like that Darcy thats fucked up that u have to put up with that shit.

Lysondra
06-06-2007, 08:04 PM
^ Probably. Sydney men were REAL sweet to me. And some of the upperclass Adelaide men were great (the kind that buy you a drink from across the bar and never talk to you.. omfg!) but I think something about small towns and low class just make men... arrrggghghhhh....

I need to move to a bigger less convict city.

jaizaine
06-06-2007, 08:11 PM
anyway u will see soon when u come to melbourne.
i am shocked at some stuff i have read on here.

A customer put a 2 dollar coin on the table once when this dancer was up there and she felt insulted and management kicked him straight out. they always take our word for it over the customer.

In melbourne besides the customers who wont pay for dances the customers really are on the most part lovely to us.

The only haters that come in are chicks! they are the ones who will sit there and pick on the girls.

Lysondra
06-06-2007, 08:13 PM
Every day I live in Australia and someone mentions Melbourne is another day I realize that's probably where I should be. *sigh*

jaizaine
06-06-2007, 08:14 PM
I think u will love it besides the weather.I am sitting in front of the heater now. *shivers*

Lysondra
06-06-2007, 08:16 PM
Pffft... I lived in Michigan for two years... at least now I don't have to pretend to like someone to be inside. :P

jaizaine
06-06-2007, 08:17 PM
LOL and winter fashion is pretty cool.

8)

flickad
06-06-2007, 08:47 PM
^^^
Im not doubting your experiences at all but I just dont see this. maybe it's adelaide and QLD? The guys in melbourne pretty much all compliment the girls.

My management would not condone customers speaking to ANY of their dancers like that Darcy thats fucked up that u have to put up with that shit.

In Melbourne, it very much depends on the club. I've worked at dives and mid-range clubs almost exclusively, and the classiness of the men tends to be in line with the classiness of the club. So, at cheap-arse places you get horribly rude customers, at the mid-range places they're less rude and, though I've never worked anywhere really high class (I lack the looks for it), it seems that management don't tolerate rudeness at all in those places.

jaizaine
06-06-2007, 08:49 PM
Oh ok. Well since I have only worked at one club I can only go on that. So CF customers dont seem to be rude on the most part.

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