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cinammonkisses
06-12-2007, 04:15 PM
Thank you Kaiyla..

Ok goodness, I feel like an ex-stalker chick now...:-[

There is a website for gay/bi/str8/tranni folks to go and hangout called www.downelink.com Anyway, about 1 1/2months ago I got bored with the site, and decided to delete my entire page. (Goodness I'm so embarassed) Tell me why I just logged in (made up a totally plain profile) and checked up on my ex GF's page...

Geez, this is nuts! I tried texting/calling my best friend but I guess she's at work cause she didn't answer. I'm getting all worked up again. Thank GOD I didn't see anything out of line on there (ie. pix of some new girl, or flirting..) but now I'm all mushy cause she has this song on her page that's talking about how much of a mistake he made, and how he knows she's the love of his life...Fuck, I feel like I'm going crazy. All this emotions from me, and shit, what if (definately worst case here) the freaking song she has up isnt even for me :'(

Sumbody, please come smack me..I need a reality check..

PleasureVictim
06-12-2007, 10:15 PM
Aww CK- don't feel stupid. Things like this happen to the foolish and the smart ones. It was a long-distance relationship anyway, very easy for her to hide what was going on. I hope your heart can heal really soon.

Minette
06-12-2007, 10:18 PM
Gawd, I'm sooooo sorry. You have my complete and utter sympathy and empathy. Cheating girls suck. Just to throw my two cents in there that I earned when my heinous ex fucked me over more than once in a row - there's few things worse than not only being fucked over, but knowing you let yourself in for the last time when really you knew better. That's something you keep with you for a looooooong time, so stay strong and don't fall for her bullshit again. Many virtual hugs and choclate and ice cream.

Oh, and would that mushy song be The Reason by any chance? That's the one my little terror sent me in an attempt to win me back. ::)

Lena
06-12-2007, 10:22 PM
Sumbody, please come smack me..I need a reality check..

*hugs*

PhillyDancer1982
06-14-2007, 06:21 AM
CinnamonKisses, I can relate...except my situation was with a boyfriend instead of a girlfriend(doesn't matter though, because my ex-boyfriend was a whiny crybaby lol). Like your gf, my ex-bf was several years younger than me. It seems that the young ones are immature and more likely to do things like this.

I know how it feels, to be good to someone but not have the niceness returned. It really sucks, and I am sorry. I think you are much better than her, and I'm sure you can find someone else that has a lot more respect for you. :) We are here for you if you feel the need to vent(I did before when I went through it).

Haha when I found out that my now-ex was avoiding me and cheating behind my back, I spited him by dumping him via a Myspace bulletin and comment on his site. I further added fuel to the fire by stating in my dumping bulletin that I'd cheated on him(not true, but I wanted him to think that I was cheating too so I wouldn't look like the faithful naive idiot). Ohhh but that wasn't enough. He started lying about having a 2-yr-old son named Patrick James(in reality, it was his new girlfriend's NEPHEW), so I lied by saying that the "proof" that I'd cheated, was that I was now pregnant with my mistress's(i.e., guy I cheated with) kid. He still thinks I'm pregnant to this day. Ha.

cinammonkisses
06-14-2007, 06:29 AM
Philly, I could never go those lengths..my ex is the type whose emotions are as strong and high as a brickwall. Even if it does hurt her, you would never know..So no point, cause from her I would never get a "reaction" and that would piss me off to know end..

I went to the shrink yesterday, and our entire session was about cheater-ex. It's going to be a long time before I get over with her, but I'll be alright. I've come to the realization that I tend to date long distance relationships because they are more "comforting" it's like almost a fantasy vs. a reality.

My counselor and I feel like maybe that's why the ex starting "changing" cause the fantasy was starting to get to real for her..So the first step for me will be to avoid all LDR. I'm going to date, and mix and mingle and just busy myself. If I do ever decide to take the ex back, it won't be a long distance thing..

krchab99
06-14-2007, 08:00 AM
i love you ck i am sorry you are going threw a ruff time