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Dottie Rebel
06-10-2007, 07:54 PM
[edit: ha, Nina, great minds]

^^ who the FUCK would be happy after having sex for 3 hours and their being no orgasms? answer me that!


Ummm...me...? :blush: And most of the women I've been with. I don't know, it's more like, "Let's play and have fun" than, "Come on, let's get you off, NOW!" Maybe it's just me (and LM!) but that is one surefire way to guarantee I am NOT getting off. I can't take the pressure. It's very, very hard for me to orgasm so someone going, "Oh, *I* can do it!" is about the biggest turnoff in the world. Uh, no, Big Pimpin'. You can't.

That being said, I've slept with women who are very goal-oriented about sex and with men who are very stream-of-consciousness about it. Just depends on the person.

Lena
06-10-2007, 07:56 PM
^ I just bring a van. :-)

Lysondra
06-10-2007, 07:59 PM
Ummm...me...? :blush: And most of the women I've been with. I don't know, it's more like, "Let's play and have fun" than, "Come on, let's get you off, NOW!" Maybe it's just me (and LM!) but that is one surefire way to guarantee I am NOT getting off. I can't take the pressure. It's very, very hard for me to orgasm so someone going, "Oh, *I* can do it!" is about the biggest turnoff in the world. Uh, no, Big Pimpin'. You can't.

That being said, I've slept with women who are very goal-oriented about sex and with men who are very stream-of-consciousness about it. Just depends on the person.

Maybe you and I should sleep together. I can go for hoooooours without ever coming. Sex is about the closeness and passion for me, not the orgasm.

Andygirl
06-10-2007, 08:08 PM
Ok, I have to come back to the thread to say I am amazed at the no-orgasm thing. It confirms, in my mind, that while I think women are sexy as hell there is no way I would be interested in the type of sex being discussed here. I'm much more of a guy when it comes to that stuff. Foreplay is kinda boring, IMO, and I am all about the orgasms, and I'd choose penetration with no orgasm over oral or fingering with orgasm anyday.

It is definitely fascinating to hear about others' preferences though. To each her own.......

NinaDaisy
06-10-2007, 08:21 PM
Sex is about the closeness and passion for me, not the orgasm.

Ditto. But whatever the female equivalent of blue balls is can really suck too. :-[

Dottie Rebel
06-10-2007, 08:23 PM
Well, it's nearly impossible for someone to "give" me an orgasm. And, if history is an indication, absolutely impossible for me to have one during PIV sex. If it were easily accomplished, I could TOTALLY see where you are coming from. I'd just want to cum and cum and cum again. Since that kind of sex just has never been an option for me, I have learned to enjoy the kind of sex LM and I are talking about.

Completely unrelated--LM, when are you visting the US again?

Lena
06-10-2007, 08:24 PM
I've slept with girls that want their damn orgasm right now, too, Andy.

There are lesbians that are all about penetration, and then there are the first wave radical feminist lesbians who think of any penetration as rape. We're just as diverse when it comes to sex as we are with fashion.

Lysondra
06-10-2007, 08:24 PM
^Exactly, I don't come easily AT ALL... so I might as well enjoy everything else instead.

And um, around December.

Dottie Rebel
06-10-2007, 08:25 PM
*clears calendar for the entire month of December*

Katrine
06-10-2007, 09:33 PM
Oooooh, dammit, now I'm horny for some lesbian sex. It is a lot of fun, and every woman is so different and unique. I mean, men have their small distinctions and preferences. But each woman is a mystery to figure out each time. And mystery is a good thing. You just have to be a good communicator and even better listener. I look back at many of my experience quite fondly, they were all different, and none of them particularly "structured."

cinammonkisses
06-10-2007, 10:55 PM
Q: What does a lesbian bring on a second date?
A: A U-Haul.

LMAOOOOO omg So true ;D

cinammonkisses
06-10-2007, 10:56 PM
Ok, I have to come back to the thread to say I am amazed at the no-orgasm thing. It confirms, in my mind, that while I think women are sexy as hell there is no way I would be interested in the type of sex being discussed here. I'm much more of a guy when it comes to that stuff. Foreplay is kinda boring, IMO, and I am all about the orgasms, and I'd choose penetration with no orgasm over oral or fingering with orgasm anyday.

It is definitely fascinating to hear about others' preferences though. To each her own.......

Hmmm she could always use a strap on :-\

jaizaine
06-11-2007, 01:03 AM
I"m so hearing Mr Garrison(south park) screaming "Scissor me baby...oh yeah..scissor"

But yes..you rub clits

That was the piss funiest episode.
"Let's scissor"

When u say scissor do you mean literally that both women are in a scissor position or is it any form of rubbing together like one just on top?

Dottie Rebel
06-11-2007, 02:29 AM
Either, I would imagine. The first time I ever got off with another person was a girl in college. I was on top, riding much like you would if you were on top of a guy--with my legs on the outside of hers. Clit on clit action.

I've neve done actually scissors. seems like that would be more hole-to-hole and not sure what that would accomplish.

Lysondra
06-11-2007, 02:34 AM
Either, I would imagine. The first time I ever got off with another person was a girl in college. I was on top, riding much like you would if you were on top of a guy--with my legs on the outside of hers. Clit on clit action.

I've neve done actually scissors. seems like that would be more hole-to-hole and not sure what that would accomplish.

It's not. }:D

Dottie Rebel
06-11-2007, 02:36 AM
Well...someone's just gonna have to show me then. ;)

jaizaine
06-11-2007, 04:33 AM
^^
yep pics anyone??

cinammonkisses
06-11-2007, 05:18 AM
Well...someone's just gonna have to show me then. ;)

Hmm maybe we could learn together when I come to Indy }:D

Emily
06-11-2007, 09:38 AM
I'm keeping the thread open for now and deleted a lot of stuff. Don't let this get personal and be aware how your comments are being perceived.

200singles
06-11-2007, 01:04 PM
Well...someone's just gonna have to show me then. ;)


^^
yep pics anyone??

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v80/jupiterprime/vag-kiss.jpg

cinammonkisses
06-11-2007, 01:09 PM
^^^They look like plastic dolls...

kryssy
06-11-2007, 01:22 PM
LOL.......is baby oil that is making them look like that

cinammonkisses
06-11-2007, 01:23 PM
LOL.......is baby oil that is making them look like that Yes, that and the photoshop :-X

ExoticEngineer
06-11-2007, 04:00 PM
I've done the scissors thing several times, but things seemed to uhm...line up differently than in that pic. But anyway, as far as the grinding thing goes, the women I have been with who did enjoy that, like the OP was talking about, we'de actually lay one on top of the other, much like the missionary position, and in fact our clits wouldn't be rubbing, more like her clit on my thigh, vice versa.

Anyway it works is good for me though. ;D



This thread is steamy....

Lysondra
06-11-2007, 05:19 PM
LOL.......is baby oil that is making them look like that

Who the hell fucks with that much baby oil? It's like Yes, let's totally fall off eachother!

Yekhefah
06-11-2007, 05:45 PM
Baby oil is HOT in lesbian sex. I love feeling our slippery soft bodies together, especially tits. Don't knock it till you've tried it!

Lysondra
06-11-2007, 05:46 PM
Baby oil is HOT in lesbian sex. I love feeling our slippery soft bodies together, especially tits. Don't knock it till you've tried it!

I have. I fell. It hurt.

Yekhefah
06-11-2007, 05:47 PM
:laughing:

TigersMilk
06-11-2007, 05:49 PM
Where would you do it on? A baby pool ...a tarp....mound of plastic grocery bags? You wouldn't want to get baby oil everywhere. Other than the mess factor....thats hot. I got a lil turned on there.

Lysondra
06-11-2007, 05:51 PM
DONT DO IT ON A TARP OR PLASTIC. That was the main problem in my falling. See.. baby oil slips off of plastic very fricken easily... Get two lubed up girls and throw them on plastic and watch the fight to sit up....

*grimace*

If given the chance, I'd use old sheets or towels next time.

Yekhefah
06-11-2007, 05:54 PM
I've used it in the shower.

TigersMilk
06-11-2007, 05:56 PM
^^ hot shower baby oil lesbian sex...mmmmmm *home drool sound* Now that sounds like fun.

Yekhefah
06-11-2007, 05:58 PM
Oh yas. Is nice.

cameron_keys
06-11-2007, 07:57 PM
Get two lubed up girls and throw them on plastic and watch the fight to sit up....


I think I made that movie.

You're right...you fall. And it hurts.

NinaDaisy
06-11-2007, 09:40 PM
Astroglide warming. All the benefits of baby oil (and then some) and none of the drama. Good stuff...

Katrine
06-11-2007, 09:50 PM
I have. I fell. It hurt.

Hmmmm, you did something wrong. Let's re-enact the event so that we can learn from the past. }:D

cinammonkisses
06-12-2007, 04:41 AM
Hmmmm, you did something wrong. Let's re-enact the event so that we can learn from the past. }:D

Strictly for educational purposes, I will need to sit in on this tutorial, so I can know where you went wrong Lillith. :expert:

Lysondra
06-12-2007, 04:47 AM
Well, since this is all strictly for learning purposes... I don't see why not.

Heehee.

rozz
06-12-2007, 08:21 AM
^^^^ and I should watch... and film. I'm a health professional, so it's perfectly normal. :P

ExoticEngineer
06-12-2007, 11:02 AM
Someone should be there to clean you all off afterwards, I will volunteer. ;D

cinammonkisses
06-12-2007, 11:55 AM
Umm now who is going to hold the cue cards...

miss marina
06-12-2007, 01:14 PM
^ lol *raises hand*

Lysondra
06-12-2007, 04:37 PM
Ladies, we have no invented a new porn for LatinaRose's collection.

Teaching Morrigan how to have proper oil sex. :P

NinaDaisy
06-12-2007, 06:14 PM
Something tells me a lot PM's to "meet in person" are being sent back and forth after this thread...