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cicistiletto
09-07-2014, 11:56 AM
I usually suffocate them and they love it. ::)
I'm a busty girl too and I find myself straddling custy's and facing forward most of the time in the dance room. I am worried that it makes my lapdances boring though.....thoughts?
cicistiletto
09-07-2014, 11:57 AM
I usually suffocate them and they love it. ::)
I'm a busty girl too and I find myself straddling custy's and facing forward most of the time in the dance room. I am worried that it makes my lapdances boring though.....thoughts?
tempest666
09-07-2014, 03:23 PM
I'm a busty girl too and I find myself straddling custy's and facing forward most of the time in the dance room. I am worried that it makes my lapdances boring though.....thoughts?
Unless they have asthma nope mine love it. Lapdances with huge tits can never be boring. If they start asking me stupid questions, muffle their chatter automatically.
lol1337a
09-07-2014, 03:51 PM
Before I bought tits, I would alternate ass in the face to take care of visual needs with breathing in the ear/touching his thighs to take care of sensual needs. Now that I have big tits I can take care of both needs at once -- there's no missing the view when I breathe in his ear and stroke his thighs now. I only do ass in the face for a few seconds for variety, and it's always a transition move to leaning back so the customer can have another view of my tits while I breathe in his ear. Only around 1/4 guys request mostly ass now. Another 1/4 request tits in face only. The other half seems happy with my standard dance. I feel like it barely even counts as a lapdance, but it consistently gets me repeats and VIPs.
So no cici, your dances don't sound boring!!
lol1337a
09-07-2014, 04:00 PM
As far as general tips for strings of dances or extending VIP go, the #1 thing that boosts my income is building sincere rapport. Make him laugh, find something unusual you have in common, figure out how to get him talking about something he doesn't usually get to but wants to, etc. But do this while giving him a great view of your body and touching him sensually so he doesn't friendzone you. Occasionally turn the conversation back to suggestive topics helps. Ask him what his fantasies are, share yours, etc.
polequeenkat
10-06-2015, 04:11 AM
I only tell customers the song is over after every song if they request it. most people don't, and i just keep dancing until they don't look like their not being as entertained as before than i ask them "should we keep going". I've only got the "i thought this was one song" from cheap fobs, i don't let them play though. i stand by the door and don't let them out until they pay xD. I'm 5'5 and 108 lbs during the dance... but 7'0 and 300 lbs when you talk about not wanting to pay what you owe me
Nina_
10-06-2015, 10:30 AM
Unless they have asthma nope mine love it. Lapdances with huge tits can never be boring. If they start asking me stupid questions, muffle their chatter automatically.
I don't have huge tits yet lol so I improvise by putting my ass in their face (not so they can touch it but like so it's right in front of their face). I specifcally dab perfume on my ass before work because I know it will be in a guy's face. It's like universally loved by white guys or any guy who doesn't have a huge-ass-fanstasy. It's not big but it's awesome and gets the job done... You must sell your most valuable assets! ;)
As for the OP, most try to waste time without him thinking you're wasting time. Be slow and sensual often and draw attention to your best assets (if you have long hair flip it, play with it... If you a flat stomach rub your hand sensually down it... And if you have nice tits or a nice ass you get the idea ;))
When the dance is almost over I usually don't ask if we should keep going, I just say, "we should keep going" or simply let's "let's keep going" in a sexual either sultry or playful way. They will often comply to what they didn't even relize was my command. Lol
Nina_
10-06-2015, 10:35 AM
Unless they have asthma nope mine love it. Lapdances with huge tits can never be boring. If they start asking me stupid questions, muffle their chatter automatically.
I don't have huge tits yet lol so I improvise by putting my ass in their face (not so they can touch it but like so it's right in front of their face). I specifcally dab perfume on my ass before work because I know it will be in a guy's face. It's like universally loved by white guys or any guy who doesn't have a huge-ass-fanstasy. It's not big but it's awesome and gets the job done... You must sell your most valuable assets! ;)
As for the OP, most try to waste time without him thinking you're wasting time. Be slow and sensual often and draw attention to your best assets (if you have long hair flip it, play with it... If you have a flat stomach rub your hand sensually down it... And if you have nice tits or a nice ass you get the idea ;))
When the dance is almost over I usually don't ask if we should keep going, I just say, "we should keep going" or simply let's "let's keep going" in a sexual either sultry or playful way. They will often comply to what they didn't even relize was my command. Lol
*edit: if they're not a regular and are getting a bunch of dances I will politely ask them to pay every $100 worth and say something like, "I trust you, it's just policy."
TearieLeigh
10-16-2015, 04:50 PM
In my club we can get down to a g string for dances, so i tend to do the first 3 songs with my bottoms on and before the second dance is over i tell them, if they want me naked ( meaning in my g string only ) that we should do more dances. it always gets me an extra 2 to 5 more dances.
Not sure why, but it seems to work alright for me.