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Kalligirl
10-12-2008, 08:01 AM
I would just like to say that a lot of you who responded by calling women who fall into these categories as dumb, stupid, weak, or irresponsible...
do you think this man showed up where I lived and demanded my money and I just simply handed it over?
No, I was under 20 years of age, and believed his manipulative bullshit. He pursued me relentlessly for almost 2 months before any of that shit happened.
I think its very ignorant that a group of strong minded women would be on here and point fingers and make assumptions about a lifestyle they have no idea about. I guess none of you have ever been emotionally manipulated, because any woman that has every been victim of a narcissit or sociopath is just stupid, weak or irresoponsible... ::)
And I will say it again, I am proud of what I accomplished while being with him. If you accumlated what I did in 6 months when you were 20 yrs old , and I'll say it again 35,000 benz, a condo with 10 g's worth of furniture, a boob job and a lot of jewelry... Then by all means, JUDGE ME.
AmberHoney
10-12-2008, 07:31 PM
I would just like to say that a lot of you who responded by calling women who fall into these categories as dumb, stupid, weak, or irresponsible...
do you think this man showed up where I lived and demanded my money and I just simply handed it over?
No, I was under 20 years of age, and believed his manipulative bullshit. He pursued me relentlessly for almost 2 months before any of that shit happened.
I think its very ignorant that a group of strong minded women would be on here and point fingers and make assumptions about a lifestyle they have no idea about. I guess none of you have ever been emotionally manipulated, because any woman that has every been victim of a narcissit or sociopath is just stupid, weak or irresoponsible... ::)
And I will say it again, I am proud of what I accomplished while being with him. If you accumlated what I did in 6 months when you were 20 yrs old , and I'll say it again 35,000 benz, a condo with 10 g's worth of furniture, a boob job and a lot of jewelry... Then by all means, JUDGE ME.
I dunno if you have seen my posts on here or not, but I have spoken about how I got into dancing/escorting/etc. I never had a pimp cuz I kind of turned myself out when I saw the money in it, and I so do not judge girls who have pimps because a pimp can be a really really good thing for some girls. I hope your post wasn't directed at me. I applaud you for sharing your story and keeping it real because a lot of chicks won't stand up and say.... yep, I have/used to have a pimp and that's why my shit is hella tight right now.
Two of my brothers are still "pimps", and their girls are fly, well paid, well maintained, drug free (for the most part), and several of them got an education while they were with him. One of my brothers even kept a chick in his basement for like 3 weeks, but when she came out she was off the heroin, going to day treatment, and doing private parties until she worked in a club. And he made her move clubs to get her out of a club that had a lot of heroin in it. He cares about her, because he cares about his money. It's not like he'd fuck her up if she stopped making money. He'd try to fix her, and if he couldn't fix her, he'd let her go. She's stripping and going to nail school, currently. The chick makes a shit load of money. Sometimes all of it goes to my brother, sometimes half, sometimes none it all depends.
Every pimp out there isn't taking 100% and a cross between Mike Tyson/Lil' John/"Tiny from tha block".
thelovelylenee
10-12-2008, 09:18 PM
this post makes me really fucking sad especially for you cr something i did not see in a movie : my father was arrested 2 years ago in an operation conducted by the FBI and the IRS called the Innocense lost investigation , one of the largest human traffikng busts in history . at 15 i began to babysit for these women while they worked i travelled with them anywhere from Vegas to Laurel MD for years !!! and i lived good ...and i met many a pimp many a hoe and lots of them lived fucking great owned houses and buissnesses hummers and the like all off prostitution and i've also had to cover the eyes of a three yr old while her mom got her nose busted for not making quota and being out of pocket and ive seen a grown ass women beaten with a belt in a basement ( really nice house though , so i guess it's ok) and countless other shit ...my father and about 28 other men and women are in prison right now for the abuse of these women ( my father will be there for the rest of his life he's 38 , actually got my ass kicked at 17 for asking one girl why the fuck she stayed ...i was not a prostitute but a witness and at 17 had an opinion and fucking left cuz the shit was NOT right and this isn't an isolated case i grew up with pimps so please for the not so simple individuals : it's not management it's fucking dangerous
CKXXX
10-13-2008, 08:42 AM
OMG thelovelylenee....that broke my heart to read that you had to grow up that way. I'm sorry because its your dad...but I'm glad they are in jail and you are now free to live your life how YOU see fit. And that your children wont grow up in that environment. I give you a lot of credit for not falling back into the lifestyle you grew up with.
bustybabe312
10-14-2008, 04:04 AM
Well damn....I've been missing out on alot of shit.....
So .... um.... there are good pimps?
Hmmmmm...so CherryRain has a good pimp in her life huh? He's probably "good" to you as long as you pay him and I'm sure he says to himself, "Bitch betta have my money!" Yall know that song. LMAO!
But yanno, alot of broads will pay a man to be with them. Don't forget that aspect of the game. A girl may not want to be alone. He may have laid major dick in her. She may think she's in love.
Me, in P.I.M.P. mode with "Bitch betta have my money" playing in the background:
I need a crew of young bitches like her in my life! Bring me all that money honey!!
Then, when your all used up and tired and you can't pull that bread in anymore you can leave and I'll replace you, while you'll have nothing but the clothes on your back, if I let you even have that...buttercup. Meantime, I'll still be living fly off the sweat of your back and the rest of the stable. Make me rich bitch! Of course, I wouldn't trust you to hold my money, so trust me and let me hold yours instead...baby. Without the money you gladly give me, I couldn't live the way I do without your dumb ass...sweetheart.
Anywho... I'm gonna check out the pimp site that was posted. Laughter is good for the soul.
All in all...those of us who are truly independent and proud of it...we can't be mad at employees like CherryRain. Let's just all be grateful that we have the wherewithal to count and KEEP our own money. Let's all be happy that we don't enable leeches to live off our earnings. Her work ethic may be stronger than ours being that we won't need to worry about getting pimp-slapped and all.
Many young girls can buy a car, rent an apt and furnish it well and buy jewelry in 6 months if their mind was right, if not sooner, especially if she's pulling 5 to 8k or better per month. But alot of the young girls in the game aren't focused, but it can certainly be done...without a pimp at that.
Some men would want their hoes to go to school and stuff. Why not? Hell, when she can't hoe no mo', she can still give him her money she earns that she has to pay taxes on. He's certainly not going to give up his sugarmomma. All the while, he can lay up and chill all day everyday.
misspthesweetesttaboo
10-14-2008, 06:10 AM
I dont even know if she's still here, but that's super-real talk... i wish she could see it, cause really that's what it is
CherryRain
10-14-2008, 10:05 PM
:) exactly...
I dunno if you have seen my posts on here or not, but I have spoken about how I got into dancing/escorting/etc. I never had a pimp cuz I kind of turned myself out when I saw the money in it, and I so do not judge girls who have pimps because a pimp can be a really really good thing for some girls. I hope your post wasn't directed at me. I applaud you for sharing your story and keeping it real because a lot of chicks won't stand up and say.... yep, I have/used to have a pimp and that's why my shit is hella tight right now.
Two of my brothers are still "pimps", and their girls are fly, well paid, well maintained, drug free (for the most part), and several of them got an education while they were with him. One of my brothers even kept a chick in his basement for like 3 weeks, but when she came out she was off the heroin, going to day treatment, and doing private parties until she worked in a club. And he made her move clubs to get her out of a club that had a lot of heroin in it. He cares about her, because he cares about his money. It's not like he'd fuck her up if she stopped making money. He'd try to fix her, and if he couldn't fix her, he'd let her go. She's stripping and going to nail school, currently. The chick makes a shit load of money. Sometimes all of it goes to my brother, sometimes half, sometimes none it all depends.
Every pimp out there isn't taking 100% and a cross between Mike Tyson/Lil' John/"Tiny from tha block".
:) exactly...
saphire123456
10-15-2008, 06:32 AM
Oh good, she's back
AmberHoney
10-15-2008, 01:23 PM
Well damn....I've been missing out on alot of shit.....
So .... um.... there are good pimps?
Hmmmmm...so CherryRain has a good pimp in her life huh? He's probably "good" to you as long as you pay him and I'm sure he says to himself, "Bitch betta have my money!" Yall know that song. LMAO!
But yanno, alot of broads will pay a man to be with them. Don't forget that aspect of the game. A girl may not want to be alone. He may have laid major dick in her. She may think she's in love.
Me, in P.I.M.P. mode with "Bitch betta have my money" playing in the background:
I need a crew of young bitches like her in my life! Bring me all that money honey!!
Then, when your all used up and tired and you can't pull that bread in anymore you can leave and I'll replace you, while you'll have nothing but the clothes on your back, if I let you even have that...buttercup. Meantime, I'll still be living fly off the sweat of your back and the rest of the stable. Make me rich bitch! Of course, I wouldn't trust you to hold my money, so trust me and let me hold yours instead...baby. Without the money you gladly give me, I couldn't live the way I do without your dumb ass...sweetheart.
Anywho... I'm gonna check out the pimp site that was posted. Laughter is good for the soul.
All in all...those of us who are truly independent and proud of it...we can't be mad at employees like CherryRain. Let's just all be grateful that we have the wherewithal to count and KEEP our own money. Let's all be happy that we don't enable leeches to live off our earnings. Her work ethic may be stronger than ours being that we won't need to worry about getting pimp-slapped and all.
Many young girls can buy a car, rent an apt and furnish it well and buy jewelry in 6 months if their mind was right, if not sooner, especially if she's pulling 5 to 8k or better per month. But alot of the young girls in the game aren't focused, but it can certainly be done...without a pimp at that.
Some men would want their hoes to go to school and stuff. Why not? Hell, when she can't hoe no mo', she can still give him her money she earns that she has to pay taxes on. He's certainly not going to give up his sugarmomma. All the while, he can lay up and chill all day everyday.
I 100% understand what you're saying... but to play devils advocate... some of these girls out here couldn't even remember their own date of birth unless they asked their mother. I have ran into some super dumb, super clueless females. They'll be blessed with a hot body and a sweet face but with bird shit for a brain.
A pimp might be a better "option" for them, than a deadbeat dude getting her pregnant with baby number 6 by the time she's 30, while she doesn't even get a GED, certificate, degree, and gets her welfare benefits cut off cuz she forgot to update her address -or- being young and dumb and screwing every dude who takes her to Applebee's raw until she's stuck with emotional trauma, or HIV or something.
Pimps don't just lie around. Crappy boyfriends that life off their women while she works all day lie around. Pimps are too concerned about their money to be sitting on their asses.
A pimp isn't for every girl. A pimp isn't for *most* girls. But for an unmotivated chick who can't get her shit together by herself or a chick who is totally naiive to the sex industry and after a bad situation or two seeks guidance from a pro, a pimp might be a lesser evil and might even be a really good thing.
bustybabe312
10-17-2008, 11:56 PM
Amber:
A woman ought to be accountable for how she lives her life. Even if girls are dumb as dirt, after a while, when do they get "smart"? It's sad to believe that many girls would want to remain a pimp's jump off for life. However, I've never had to deal with that because my strengths as a bonafide woman wouldn't allow such skullduggery. But that's just me.
I was fortunate to have two parents who taught me better. I recognize that many girls who are pimped on may not have had that support, therefore, they end up resorting to finding a boy to call "Daddy". Yet, instead of "Daddy" taking responsibility for her with his own money, he takes care of himself, foremost, then her, with the money she earns from dick sucking and pussy selling. To me, I certainly wouldn't want a "Daddy" like that, lmao. But girls like CR and many others do. They'll more than likely will even go so far as to die for their "Daddy".
Girls like her are puppets, pawns, etc. whose lack of self direction lead them to the world of pimpdom.
Nonetheless, I wouldn't mind a few whores like her in my life. Additional free money would be wonderful! All they would need is a few new things every now and then. Hell, if a broad made 2k a week, I would only spend 300 on her as her reward. And definitely keep her working, only because that's what she wants anyway.
Pimps are preachers and vice versa. For those that listen to them, the mission is accomplished.
As far as a pimp teaching a girl the game, he's gonna do that to get his money. He tells the game to sell it and the vendor is his bitch. Pimps prey on weak broads, that's why it's the weak ass broads are the ones getting pimped on. I've never wanted to give my hustle money to a boy/pimp/leech. To want MY money, he would have to put on some 6 inch heels or better, an outfit and get his own damn grind on.
Many of us are LEADERS. I am a LEADER. LEADERS are bosses. I'm the shot caller. I couldn't be a follower. No one can count and hold my money better than me. Except for the credit union. lol. The pimps that I've seen and know such as Pimpin' Ken Ivy, Solo, Magic Don Juan and other so called mainstream ones, they respect me and have never tried to come at me sideways simply because true gangsta is always recognized and respected. Hell, even Pimp C (RIP) had always shown me love and respect. I don't have the wolf as my avatar for nothing.
In closing, Amber, I recognize and understand your view too.
Kalligirl
10-18-2008, 01:33 AM
Amber:
A woman ought to be accountable for how she lives her life. Even if girls are dumb as dirt, after a while, when do they get "smart"? It's sad to believe that many girls would want to remain a pimp's jump off for life. However, I've never had to deal with that because my strengths as a bonafide woman wouldn't allow such skullduggery. But that's just me.
I was fortunate to have two parents who taught me better. I recognize that many girls who are pimped on may not have had that support, therefore, they end up resorting to finding a boy to call "Daddy". Yet, instead of "Daddy" taking responsibility for her with his own money, he takes care of himself, foremost, then her, with the money she earns from dick sucking and pussy selling. To me, I certainly wouldn't want a "Daddy" like that, lmao. But girls like CR and many others do. They'll more than likely will even go so far as to die for their "Daddy".
Girls like her are puppets, pawns, etc. whose lack of self direction lead them to the world of pimpdom.
Nonetheless, I wouldn't mind a few whores like her in my life. Additional free money would be wonderful! All they would need is a few new things every now and then. Hell, if a broad made 2k a week, I would only spend 300 on her as her reward. And definitely keep her working, only because that's what she wants anyway.
Pimps are preachers and vice versa. For those that listen to them, the mission is accomplished.
As far as a pimp teaching a girl the game, he's gonna do that to get his money. He tells the game to sell it and the vendor is his bitch. Pimps prey on weak broads, that's why it's the weak ass broads are the ones getting pimped on. I've never wanted to give my hustle money to a boy/pimp/leech. To want MY money, he would have to put on some 6 inch heels or better, an outfit and get his own damn grind on.
Many of us are LEADERS. I am a LEADER. LEADERS are bosses. I'm the shot caller. I couldn't be a follower. No one can count and hold my money better than me. Except for the credit union. lol. The pimps that I've seen and know such as Pimpin' Ken Ivy, Solo, Magic Don Juan and other so called mainstream ones, they respect me and have never tried to come at me sideways simply because true gangsta is always recognized and respected. Hell, even Pimp C (RIP) had always shown me love and respect. I don't have the wolf as my avatar for nothing.
In closing, Amber, I recognize and understand your view too.
You are being extremely judgemental and focussing on the obvious side of the spectrum. ALL of the girls I know would LAUGH in those people you named face. DON MAGIC JUAN? Okay, he is like half leprechaun half loser who makes a mockery out of, shit, do i even have to go there.........Pimpin ken!?!?:O
You have to open your eyes to a whole nother world of emotional manipulation. This isn't fucking UGK 'Players Anthem' or a PIMP C video. I am glad you felt respected by these emotional vampires, but, jesus christ, what kind of credit do you feel? Do you feel triumphant that you withstanded their games and they 'respect' (how much can a fucking PIMP respect a woman, seriously!) you?
I am happy people raised you right. Shit, I was raised right to. Its not my fault someone chose me to prey on. Its not my fault somebody at an early age decided to come in and try to mold what I was already trying to figure out on my own...
this thread does nothing but piss me off. its not educational merely than people pointing out there intelligence and how they 'would never get caught up'. aka they are smarter than the bitches that owned up to their past in this thread.
i am DONE ===========
this website itself is a mockery to women. where does a group of women have to defend themselves to women when men prey on them? when a woman gets raped, is it because she is weak? when a woman becomes a victim of domestic violence, is it because she is weak? when a woman becomes a victim of EMOTIONAL ABUSE, is it because she is weak? when a woman is PIMPEd due to emotional AND physical abuse, is it because she is weak???
FUCK Ya'LL. i am OUT. Tired of defending myself to warped ass ppl!!!
goldengrl69
10-18-2008, 01:56 AM
What you said was the truth BB. Some people are just in denial.
Amber:
A woman ought to be accountable for how she lives her life. Even if girls are dumb as dirt, after a while, when do they get "smart"? It's sad to believe that many girls would want to remain a pimp's jump off for life. However, I've never had to deal with that because my strengths as a bonafide woman wouldn't allow such skullduggery. But that's just me.
I was fortunate to have two parents who taught me better. I recognize that many girls who are pimped on may not have had that support, therefore, they end up resorting to finding a boy to call "Daddy". Yet, instead of "Daddy" taking responsibility for her with his own money, he takes care of himself, foremost, then her, with the money she earns from dick sucking and pussy selling. To me, I certainly wouldn't want a "Daddy" like that, lmao. But girls like CR and many others do. They'll more than likely will even go so far as to die for their "Daddy".
Girls like her are puppets, pawns, etc. whose lack of self direction lead them to the world of pimpdom.
Nonetheless, I wouldn't mind a few whores like her in my life. Additional free money would be wonderful! All they would need is a few new things every now and then. Hell, if a broad made 2k a week, I would only spend 300 on her as her reward. And definitely keep her working, only because that's what she wants anyway.
Pimps are preachers and vice versa. For those that listen to them, the mission is accomplished.
As far as a pimp teaching a girl the game, he's gonna do that to get his money. He tells the game to sell it and the vendor is his bitch. Pimps prey on weak broads, that's why it's the weak ass broads are the ones getting pimped on. I've never wanted to give my hustle money to a boy/pimp/leech. To want MY money, he would have to put on some 6 inch heels or better, an outfit and get his own damn grind on.
Many of us are LEADERS. I am a LEADER. LEADERS are bosses. I'm the shot caller. I couldn't be a follower. No one can count and hold my money better than me. Except for the credit union. lol. The pimps that I've seen and know such as Pimpin' Ken Ivy, Solo, Magic Don Juan and other so called mainstream ones, they respect me and have never tried to come at me sideways simply because true gangsta is always recognized and respected. Hell, even Pimp C (RIP) had always shown me love and respect. I don't have the wolf as my avatar for nothing.
In closing, Amber, I recognize and understand your view too.
bustybabe312
10-19-2008, 09:46 AM
You are being extremely judgemental and focussing on the obvious side of the spectrum. ALL of the girls I know would LAUGH in those people you named face. DON MAGIC JUAN? Okay, he is like half leprechaun half loser who makes a mockery out of, shit, do i even have to go there.........Pimpin ken!?!?:O
You have to open your eyes to a whole nother world of emotional manipulation. This isn't fucking UGK 'Players Anthem' or a PIMP C video. I am glad you felt respected by these emotional vampires, but, jesus christ, what kind of credit do you feel? Do you feel triumphant that you withstanded their games and they 'respect' (how much can a fucking PIMP respect a woman, seriously!) you?
I am happy people raised you right. Shit, I was raised right to. Its not my fault someone chose me to prey on. Its not my fault somebody at an early age decided to come in and try to mold what I was already trying to figure out on my own...
this thread does nothing but piss me off. its not educational merely than people pointing out there intelligence and how they 'would never get caught up'. aka they are smarter than the bitches that owned up to their past in this thread.
i am DONE ===========
this website itself is a mockery to women. where does a group of women have to defend themselves to women when men prey on them? when a woman gets raped, is it because she is weak? when a woman becomes a victim of domestic violence, is it because she is weak? when a woman becomes a victim of EMOTIONAL ABUSE, is it because she is weak? when a woman is PIMPEd due to emotional AND physical abuse, is it because she is weak???
FUCK Ya'LL. i am OUT. Tired of defending myself to warped ass ppl!!!
This is really getting good. First of all Kalli, chin check yourself! The cyber world is safe, aren't you happy about that??
Anyway, I had not ever typed your name in any response to this topic, right? Recognize that fact....I won't even curse you. Any other time it would have read..recognize that fact bitch. But, I digress.
Now dig the licks....I never felt a reason to call you out because I could understand your situation of having been preyed upon. There are many men who live to do just that. Prey on baby girls. You were one of them. Yet, you got smart. So again, after being used for so long when do you get smart? (I should've quoted myself on that one but anyway)
As far as MDJ, he is a clown. Yet and still, he and his cronies have pimped majorly and still do. You ask:
"Do you feel triumphant that you withstanded their games and they 'respect' (how much can a fucking PIMP respect a woman, seriously!) you?"
Honey, they didn't have any game for me to even want to play. Pimps step to those they know that they can get. Furthermore, they all respect the fact that 'The Kid'- just can't go for that, like Paul and Oates. Therefore, all they've ever said to me was "How you doing Lady?" And kept it moving.
As far as the "raising right" thingy is concerned. My parents instilled in me the importance of being independent. And with that, I learned how to think for myself, making wise decisions. Thus, NO man has ever been able to come at me from any angle to convince me to give them my money. For BustyBabe312 there's not enough game in this world to make me even care to do that. Self sufficiency is the name of my game and that has always included keeping my money. My game wasn't yours.
Obviously, that wasn't your game. You were some how persuaded to give it up. You were coaxed to hand it over. So, what I was taught, you didn't learn. Therefore, you fell into pimpdom. But after a while, you stepped up out of it..and that is a beautiful thing to not be undermined. That's why I never called you out. So you need to pull your crusty ass thongs from betwix your ass cheeks and fall back on this "izm" your reading right now.
For the broads that brag about being pimped on such as CherryRain, that's who my message is for. I didn't even include you in that realm. Yet you choose to put yourself in that bracket. I manipulated your mind without even trying to, hence, your response to me. Damn. Maybe I should consider becoming a pimp.
This website isn't a mockery to women. You mocked yourself. Since you don't like this site then put on your heels and stand on your ten toes elsewhere. Alot of us in this spot are Pro-Woman. We don't congratulate pimps nor whores who think pimping is the shit. You won't see threads like "I want a pimp" on here. You may see, "I want a daddy" but you betta believe he'll have to have a whole lot of Sugar! You don't feel me though. That probably just went all over your little head. But anyway.....
We'll continue to be "warped" as you put it. All while we are stacking our cheese and reveling in the fact that we control our shit.
ARE YOU REALLY DONE??::)
jessica_rabbit
10-20-2008, 12:34 AM
Wow BustyBabe, that was harsh. I'm glad you're super confident in yourself and you've been able to avoid the predators of this world. But before you continue congratulating yourself on your fabulousness, take a minute to count your blessings and consider the saying "there but by the grace of God, go I."
I have never been the victim of a pimp, but my heart aches for women who are being used and abused at the hands of someone they are looking to for love and protection. I thank God everyday for my supportive family, my education, my mental capacity, and my inner strength. Please realize that you and I are no better than those less fortunate.
Why kick someone when they are down? You've said that these women are weak. I think we can all agree on that to some extent. Does that make them deserving of ill treatment? Does that make the pimp (or any of us who mock their women) somehow better? I don't think so. The strong are supposed to protect the weak. That is one of many things that separate human beings from other animals. How about showing some compassion?
bustybabe312
10-20-2008, 01:05 AM
Wow BustyBabe, that was harsh. I'm glad you're super confident in yourself and you've been able to avoid the predators of this world. But before you continue congratulating yourself on your fabulousness, take a minute to count your blessings and consider the saying "there but by the grace of God, go I."
I have never been the victim of a pimp, but my heart aches for women who are being used and abused at the hands of someone they are looking to for love and protection. I thank God everyday for my supportive family, my education, my mental capacity, and my inner strength. Please realize that you and I are no better than those less fortunate.
Why kick someone when they are down? You've said that these women are weak. I think we can all agree on that to some extent. Does that make them deserving of ill treatment? Does that make the pimp (or any of us who mock their women) somehow better? I don't think so. The strong are supposed to protect the weak. That is one of many things that separate human beings from other animals. How about showing some compassion?
Dang Jess...you really think that was harsh? Geez, yall are really gonna hate it when and if I ever get vicious.
I don't want it to be misunderstood on something. We've all fallen short on something in our lives and I'm not exempt from that. But I don't consider my state of not paying someone "fabulous-ness". I would term it as being street smart. And I count my blessings every single day. I am grateful for the money I do make even though I would like millions. I appreciate the lifestyle my work affords me.
As for having compassion for those who want to be pimped, my heart won't ache for those who desire that. The weak, imo, ought to learn how to fend for themselves while not intentionally placing their well-being in jacked up situations. I've never claimed to be better than anyone. I've only claimed to have made a better decision as far as my life is concerned.
Since some girls believe that getting pimped is a wise decision, then I want them in my stable. I do have pimp tendencies. Shiiiiiiiiid, I could use that money! Hell,a pimp's whore makes more money than me anyway. :( Yet in the end, I'll have more than that whore because, I keep my money.
I don't thrive on kicking someone when their down. But if they choose to stay down, then, if their kicked hard enough (hopefully not by the pimp's boot), then maybe they'll learn that getting pimped on and bragging about it isn't so kosher. A pimp doesn't love his whore...he loves the money she hands over to him.
I'll be what a pimp would call a renegade for life! Hopefully, more women in this hustle game will want to be too.
xsomnambulist
10-20-2008, 02:05 AM
PREACH, BB, PREACH!
This is really getting good. First of all Kalli, chin check yourself! The cyber world is safe, aren't you happy about that??
Anyway, I had not ever typed your name in any response to this topic, right? Recognize that fact....I won't even curse you. Any other time it would have read..recognize that fact bitch. But, I digress.
Now dig the licks....I never felt a reason to call you out because I could understand your situation of having been preyed upon. There are many men who live to do just that. Prey on baby girls. You were one of them. Yet, you got smart. So again, after being used for so long when do you get smart? (I should've quoted myself on that one but anyway)
As far as MDJ, he is a clown. Yet and still, he and his cronies have pimped majorly and still do. You ask:
"Do you feel triumphant that you withstanded their games and they 'respect' (how much can a fucking PIMP respect a woman, seriously!) you?"
Honey, they didn't have any game for me to even want to play. Pimps step to those they know that they can get. Furthermore, they all respect the fact that 'The Kid'- just can't go for that, like Paul and Oates. Therefore, all they've ever said to me was "How you doing Lady?" And kept it moving.
As far as the "raising right" thingy is concerned. My parents instilled in me the importance of being independent. And with that, I learned how to think for myself, making wise decisions. Thus, NO man has ever been able to come at me from any angle to convince me to give them my money. For BustyBabe312 there's not enough game in this world to make me even care to do that. Self sufficiency is the name of my game and that has always included keeping my money. My game wasn't yours.
Obviously, that wasn't your game. You were some how persuaded to give it up. You were coaxed to hand it over. So, what I was taught, you didn't learn. Therefore, you fell into pimpdom. But after a while, you stepped up out of it..and that is a beautiful thing to not be undermined. That's why I never called you out. So you need to pull your crusty ass thongs from betwix your ass cheeks and fall back on this "izm" your reading right now.
For the broads that brag about being pimped on such as CherryRain, that's who my message is for. I didn't even include you in that realm. Yet you choose to put yourself in that bracket. I manipulated your mind without even trying to, hence, your response to me. Damn. Maybe I should consider becoming a pimp.
This website isn't a mockery to women. You mocked yourself. Since you don't like this site then put on your heels and stand on your ten toes elsewhere. Alot of us in this spot are Pro-Woman. We don't congratulate pimps nor whores who think pimping is the shit. You won't see threads like "I want a pimp" on here. You may see, "I want a daddy" but you betta believe he'll have to have a whole lot of Sugar! You don't feel me though. That probably just went all over your little head. But anyway.....
We'll continue to be "warped" as you put it. All while we are stacking our cheese and reveling in the fact that we control our shit.
ARE YOU REALLY DONE??::)
blancaloca
10-20-2008, 02:06 AM
http://www.itshardouthereforapimp.com/
Here's another industry-related forum. Only you get banned for being anti-pimp.
first post i read was about how NOT to be a "choosy susie ho". i did giggle at the name...
after hearing about girls that learned how to hustle FROM their pimps, i want to read up on hustling from the PIMPS perspective (if i can decode the wording)
blancaloca
10-20-2008, 02:31 AM
^^update, nevermind. there are no hidden hustle gems, just a bunch of derogatory names and misspelled words. sigh :( shouldve known better.
Otoki
10-20-2008, 03:46 PM
The sort of judgmental assholery in this thread is almost word-for-word what some girls were saying in the "abused girls in your club" thread.
It's never going to happen to you? Fantastic! Let's hope it never does!
But don't go around dismissing other people's intelligence because you're looking at a situation from the outside. Just like any complex human relationship, it's a lot easier to tell someone to do something than to be in that situation and get out of it.
Kalligirl, thank you for trying to inform people. I know I got a lot out of your posts. It makes some of what I've seen make a lot more sense.
jessica_rabbit
10-20-2008, 08:57 PM
I don't thrive on kicking someone when their down. But if they choose to stay down, then, if their kicked hard enough (hopefully not by the pimp's boot), then maybe they'll learn that getting pimped on and bragging about it isn't so kosher. A pimp doesn't love his whore...he loves the money she hands over to him.
This is where we disagree. It's frustrating for me to watch women be abused and continue to take it. I'll admit that sometimes I feel they're getting what they deserve if they brag about their lifestyle and defend it against all reasonable objections. But mostly I just feel sorry for them because deep inside they must be very scared and insecure. And I don't believe it helps them to hear people being judgemental about their situation.
But I think we agree on mostly everything else. Choosing up with a pimp is just bad news. I'm proud of what I've accomplished on my own and I value my independence. I think it's important to set a good example in the club for how a professional entertainer should act. I hope that newer dancers can look up to me and learn from me the way that I admired and learned from the many talented women who came before me.
Elvia
10-20-2008, 09:13 PM
God I feel so sorry for you CherryRain.
AmberHoney
10-21-2008, 08:37 AM
This has gotten all crazy and wild.
Some girls need pimps.
Most girls don't.
If a pimp is gonna take a girl's money but keep her motivated and alive and from overdosing or something...fine.
I know it is hard to believe, but some females just simply can not do it on their own, and some pimps out there genuinely want to make a chick better because it makes his pockets fatter. There are some pimps that are actually taking good care of their chicks because they view it as part of human resources and retention at their company.
This isn't Intervention.
Just because most of us see the light, doesn't make it okay to hold someone's eyelids open and force them to see it, too. We're not their family, we're not their kids. If they like it, I love it.
Scorpia
10-21-2008, 09:52 AM
Some guy tried to pimp me in the elevator of a college dorm once. What the hell? You would seriously have to be a lost soul in life to allow someone to control what you do as an adult. Just the thought of that guy sends chills up my spine. I literally ran away from him when I figured out what the hell he was talking about. Pimp/Hoe relationships have always been something I could not fathom.
bustybabe312
10-21-2008, 07:59 PM
OH lawd!!
The elevator pimp. lmao