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BlackSheEp3
08-02-2007, 08:10 PM
So if a black/hispanic kid did they'd get away with it? I don't get it...

Who looks more intimidating and credible?
http://www.popmatters.com/columns/harris/images/060313.jpg
http://slantmouth.com/articles/escapeFromNewOrleans/images/wiggas.jpg

or
http://gangsta411.com/Bloods7.jpg
http://media.hamptonroads.com/images/special/hrgangs9.jpg

*Id say the individuals in the last two pics can do such dirty deeds and have less of a chance of getting beat up than the individuals in the first two pics.

BlackSheEp3
08-02-2007, 08:11 PM
I disagree...normal boys that age don't act like that. Boys who aren't raised right act like that. Harassing adult women is not normal 13 year old behavior.

Exactly...i was horny when i was 13 but i neved touch/said anything disrespectful to girls/women. Thats what porn is for....when you get a g/f even better....

UtahMike
08-02-2007, 09:50 PM
You will not know if talking to their parents will help until you try it.

Kalligirl
08-02-2007, 09:55 PM
You know the picture of that little kid in red, he might be like a 3rd generation blood. My sister was a guidance counsler in Nashville in a school that had 16 gangs and everyone was allowed to "represent their clique". She had a special case on a kid that was like 3rd generation crip and how to go about protecting him.

LuckiCharm
08-02-2007, 11:30 PM
I just don't understand where white "gangstas" vs any other race "gangstas" has to do with 12 year old punks. Blacksheep, you're stereotyping races which is very offensive and pretty annoying.

LilyLove
08-03-2007, 04:15 AM
Who looks more intimidating and credible?


*Id say the individuals in the last two pics can do such dirty deeds and have less of a chance of getting beat up than the individuals in the first two pics.

Would you please just stop it? All of this wanna-be gangster stuff has been pointed out to you before. I don't wanna be too harsh, but really, cut it out. Its annoying, not to mention totally irrelevant to the thread.

BlackSheEp3
08-03-2007, 07:45 AM
Would you please just stop it? All of this wanna-be gangster stuff has been pointed out to you before. I don't wanna be too harsh, but really, cut it out. Its annoying, not to mention totally irrelevant to the thread.

No problem sista. :)

Minette
08-03-2007, 07:51 AM
Two words:

gom jabbar (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gom_jabbar) :)

You're my hero. ;D

LuckiCharm
08-03-2007, 09:25 AM
Would you please just stop it? All of this wanna-be gangster stuff has been pointed out to you before. I don't wanna be too harsh, but really, cut it out. Its annoying, not to mention totally irrelevant to the thread.

Oh my GOSH thank you "sista", lol!

Alia_of_the_Knife
08-03-2007, 12:29 PM
Well I havn't ran into the little punks again but we shall see. (And after I am all mentally prepared and everything.)


Two words:

gom jabbar (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gom_jabbar) :)

Bwahaha. I love you.

Silverback
08-04-2007, 11:33 PM
Bwahaha. I love you.

That's so nice. :'(

Right back at ya. ;)

G-Real
08-05-2007, 07:16 AM
I was at JCPenny when I thought of this thread, there was a 15-16 years old wanksta, trying to act tough and all, oversized shirt, oversized hat, etc etc....

So I'm shopping, and he's trying sneakers on, I guess school shopping, and all of Ia sudden I hear "MooooooooOOOOmmmm", and he starts complaining that he wants 2 paris of sneakers, etc......then after that his mother is acting motherly to him, "Try to walk around first to make sure they fit, etc etc" I alsmost died laughing

LuckiCharm
08-05-2007, 12:05 PM
G-Real- LOL! I can so see that. Or it's even funnier when they circle a parking lot for hours in their moms car all hangin out the window with the music all loud.

OP- I'm glad they haven't bothered you any more. Punk kids are the most annoying creatures EVER.

Paris
08-05-2007, 04:38 PM
Thx for the responses everyone.

They are just making comments like commenting on my body spray, or how my body looks, one kid actually said he would like to "tap that". I have screamed at them at cursed at them in the past which seems to have lessened it but they still do it. Especially when they are in hanging around in a group (4-6 of them.) They get more brazen and vulgar when they are in a group. I have a boyfriend who is somewhat intimidating looking but he lives in Sweden (long story), and I don't like any of the bouncers at my club and wouldn't trust any of them as far as I could throw them.



1. They are actually afraid of you, that is why they have to be in large groups to harass you.

2. Tell them how you want them to behave. Seriously. Statements like, "I know you are a nice guy, and I really want to like you, but you keep saying things that guys shouldn't be saying to girls. Please talk to me like I'm your teacher or something. I know that you really are a great guy, just act like it." will give them a social expectation. These kids probably have no idea that women really don't like being objectified. Someone has to tell them, because their parents really aren't getting the job done. They see that kind of behavior on TV and can't or don't realize that real life doesn't work that way.

2. Bravado will go a long way. Insult the Alpha male of the group just like you would a group of guys at the strip club. "You are just saying that because you're gay!"

3. Flirt in a not so subtle way with the underdog of the group. He'll be your hero and act to protect you from his 'mean' friends.

4. Divide and conquer: There is likely only one male in this group that is the instigator. Get his friends on your side by being nice. Compliment them on how they look and comment on how you always knew that he was a very nice guy. The asshole of the group won't have any support and will look like the baby-misogynist that he is.

I live with a 13 year old boy and all of his hormone-crazed friends are here on a nearly daily basis. Seriously, if you can get the help and support of the group, the asshole-in-training will quit bothering you, too.