Triton
09-20-2007, 02:35 PM
It's funny(funny as in odd) you said she's not ready b/c I was thinking about something like that other day.In the rehabs they would always say you have to want it,if you don't want it it won't work.I never understood that at the time but I do now.And I don't think it's the type thing you can explain to someone,it's a feeling they either get it or they don't but when they do they know it.It;s kind of like the porch light suddenly went on....Oh I get it now,now I know what they were talking about.I don't know if that helps any or not.
The girl I'm talking about it by no means alcoholic or an addict but even tho it's work she does spend 5 days of the week at a bar.Like I said I debate everyday as much as I care about her do I want that in my life.The fact she's in a bar at al bothers me more than what she's doing in said bar.I keep going back to that b/c it really is my biggest issue rite now.I don't want to cut her out too but w/o sounding obnoxious if I'm growing beyond her and don't want to admit it.Maybe a better way to put it,again w/o sounding rude,is she's sill living in a world that I've left behind.I don't want to leave her behind too but it seems to get harder everyday
The girl I'm talking about it by no means alcoholic or an addict but even tho it's work she does spend 5 days of the week at a bar.Like I said I debate everyday as much as I care about her do I want that in my life.The fact she's in a bar at al bothers me more than what she's doing in said bar.I keep going back to that b/c it really is my biggest issue rite now.I don't want to cut her out too but w/o sounding obnoxious if I'm growing beyond her and don't want to admit it.Maybe a better way to put it,again w/o sounding rude,is she's sill living in a world that I've left behind.I don't want to leave her behind too but it seems to get harder everyday