View Full Version : EW! he came on me!
SarahSynn
10-19-2007, 04:17 PM
Yuck!!!! I've had it happen once in my 3 yrs of dancing, and it was once too many! I make sure it doesn't happen, I can't handle it. The time is happened to me it was so nasty! I'm only like a third of the way in the dance, and I smell bleach....lol....I'm like wtf? Then I realize its cum!! This guy blew the biggest load....it was coming thru his dress pants, he's all like " ok thank you"! I'm like "ohhhh noooo, you're paying me double, ur came in the dance, are you that pathetic ect ect ect....." I went off on him I don't kno what came over me, I know I was a lil over the top, but I couldn't believe it, It even seaped thru the lil towel we have dance on and got on my leg. Needless to say he wasn't impressed with having to pay me double but I said it would be in his best interest ;) then he left and went and sat down to watch the stage show in his mess, like how gross, I warned all the girls he was covered in cum.
I just can't deal with that, I'm not here to get u off. I'm here to get u up. I don't mind heavy contact but when I can tell he's getting a lil too into it I back off a lil....plus if he cums, he's done, and there goes more dances....
^
so true
This is my biggest issue with girls who provide extras!! They are killin their hustle by letting him finish!
Corgan
10-19-2007, 05:01 PM
so, if a guy were to offer you 1k + dance cost to finish him, you wouldn't? by grinding i mean.
yeah right.
SarahSynn
10-19-2007, 05:37 PM
We all have our boundaries, and I don't finish off anyone except myself and the occasional lover.
I like to keep the blood flow going strong to the 2nd head for as long as possible and work them into a spending frenzy.
Ruru said it best, "I'm not here to get you off, i'm here to get you up!"
ruru123
10-19-2007, 06:09 PM
so, if a guy were to offer you 1k + dance cost to finish him, you wouldn't? by grinding i mean.
yeah right.
No I wouldn't. Might sound silly, but it screws with my head too much, that's were I set my personal boundries I guess. I've turned down custys that I know are known for cumming in dances. Its just not worth the money to me (but everyone is different and can handle it, so I'm knocking anyone, I jus can't)
ruru123
10-19-2007, 06:14 PM
We all have our boundaries, and I don't finish off anyone except myself and the occasional lover.
Exactly. You and I have the same outlook on that :)
Corgan
10-19-2007, 06:32 PM
i've never finished a guy off by grinding on purpose, but if i was offerred 1k to do so, it's a no brainer.
lilac666
10-20-2007, 02:46 AM
LOL! I was giving a table dance to a guy once...arms length away. He was sitting watching calmly, then halfway through ONE dance he taps my arm and tells me I can stop. Thinking something was wrong I asked why. He said he was done. I looked down...yep...wet spot. I was like are you KIDDING ME???? I'm all the way over here!!!!
I asked if he was married and he said yes. That poor poor woman. Honey I'm ready for sex...ooooohhh..never mind. Yikes.
Jeez!/:O
Darcy Foxx
10-20-2007, 02:53 AM
i've never finished a guy off by grinding on purpose, but if i was offerred 1k to do so, it's a no brainer.
i couldn't do it. i've never made a guy cum in my 4.5 years of dancing, and i don't ever intent to. even for $1k, i'd still tell him to shove it. i just couldn't do it.
cameron_keys
10-20-2007, 09:28 AM
i've never finished a guy off by grinding on purpose, but if i was offerred 1k to do so, it's a no brainer.
Oh hell yeah...I would too. Of course I'd get the money up front because I wouldnt believe him. And I"d set a time limit..in case he has some medical condition where it takes him hours to come!!! LOL!
But yeah..I'd do it. Hubby would be proud of me too. $1K for nothing but grinding? That'd be a great night.
delyla_blue
10-21-2007, 06:01 PM
men are gross. most definitely. but yes it has happened to me too. and its always the old dirty prvs. Why can't it be the hot ones that look like Scott Ian?
luvsdancers
10-21-2007, 07:49 PM
As a customer myself, I would find it very uncomfortable and downright embarrassing if I ever came during a lapdance. Yes, it's very stimulating, but I've thankfully never came during a lapdance. To me, it's messy and very, very unhygenic for both the customer and the dancer. I'll admit that I have come close on certain occasions, but either the dancers adjusted, as you ladies have commented on, or I ask them to get up for a second while I cool down. Unfortunately, there are alot of guys out there that expect to climax and that is their main goal. I'm very sorry to hear that this happened to the OP, as well as the rest of the ladies here....
Now, I have only experienced one dancer who actually expected me to climax during our lapdance. After the lapdances, in which she rode me extremely hard, she smiled and asked me if i came. I did get very excited but i wasn't even close, so I told her,"no, i didn't" and she frowned at me, which I thought was...ummm...odd. I didn't ask her, but I do believe she actually expected it of me. Anyway, more than likely, she is probably in the minority of dancers who expect the guy to cum...
Take care and stay safe ladies!