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bem401
09-17-2007, 06:53 AM
BINGO!

Accepting it and Dealing With It are two vastly different things BEM. You are asking us all to accept bad behavior simply because it should be expected in the SC environment.

The first part of dealing with bad behavior is accepting that you will be faced with it on occasion. That is the only type of acceptance I was advocating. I don't think anyone deserves to be treated badly and not deal with it in the way that best suits them. I meant only that when some SC imbecile proves himself to be exactly that, the girl shouldn't be surprised.

I am so thankful to have Jenny here to tell me that what I thought I meant when I posted wasn't really what I meant and I actually meant something entirely different.

Jenny
09-17-2007, 07:08 AM
I am so thankful to have Jenny here to tell me that what I thought I meant when I posted wasn't really what I meant and I actually meant something entirely different.
Oh sweetie. Jenny would never presume to know what is in your mind. Just, you know - what you say. (I know, I know - these women who rely heavily on written text instead of mind reading. SO unreasonable). If you are a poor communicator you should be pleased that someone is giving you the opportunity to backtrack... I mean, Clarify.

So just to clarify - what you have been saying this whole time is not "it's a part of your job, deal with it" but "just FYI - sometimes guys are rude to strippers"? Well. Gosh. Thanks. That information is novel and insightful and I'm sure will come in handy this week at work.

bem401
09-17-2007, 07:38 AM
Oh sweetie. Jenny would never presume to know what is in your mind. Just, you know - what you say. (I know, I know - these women who rely heavily on written text instead of mind reading. SO unreasonable). If you are a poor communicator you should be pleased that someone is giving you he opportunity to backtrack... I mean, Clarify.

Well you certainly are reading things into my comments that weren't stated or inferred ( second-class citizens, treated like garbage, etc ). You are not reading my text. You are projecting what you think I am thinking onto it and reacting to that. As far as criticizing my writing skills and hence my educational background, I don't think that's a road we want to go down. The fact that you want to twist my words to suit you doesn't make me a poor communicator.


to clarify - what you have been saying this whole time is not "it's a part of your job, deal with it".

That is pretty much what I am saying, albeit without the inferences you drew. When one chooses a job, any job, you take the good with the bad, and deal with the circumstances that crop up. Complaining does nothing to make them go away.

yoda57us
09-17-2007, 08:33 AM
That is pretty much what I am saying, albeit without the inferences you drew. When one chooses a job, any job, you take the good with the bad, and deal with the circumstances that crop up.

Agreed, again, dealing with and accepting it are two different things



Complaining does nothing to make them go away.

This is not always the case. A fav of mine has had two guys thrown out of the club in the very recent past for bad behavior towards her. I'm not saying you can have a guy tossed for every stupid thing he says but, by the same token, dancers have plenty of recourse beyond simply expecting to be treated like crap and living with it.










And on that note, thank you, everyone, for your valuable and insightful comments.

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