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cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 03:19 PM
Cameron,
I seem to be developing anxiety. I never know what is going to set it off, but there have been times that I get nervous in the drive thru line (b/c I feel like I don't have a way out with a car behind and in front of me), sometimes I get nervous while driving or just being in public. Last night, I had to leave work early, b/c I got extremely nervous, almost panic attack like right before my set. I was fine while on stage, but once I got off my body felt very weak, I was a little shaky, and my stomach was upset; like gassy. This seems like its becoming more frequent, and I don't like it. I feel like I constantly worry if I'm gonna freak out or start feeling shitty. I know that I need to talk with my doctor. Is this all in my head? Could I be making myself sick without knowing it? How can I get a grip on this?
This sounds like a type of anxiety disorder and yes, you need to see a DR. In the meantime,take deep breaths and think calming thoughts. Sing a song to yourself that makes you happy,think about something your friends said that made you laugh...you have to consciously calm yourself down. But get to a dr as soon as possible.
cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 03:21 PM
Well, I'm all overwhelmed....
I need to go visit mom in the hospital
I need to clean this pig pen of a house
I need to study up on algebra to take the assessment test this week
I need to find a job.
:help:
I'm horrible at time management!
First..when are visiting hours at the hospital? Clean a cpl easy things first so you can start checking off your list and you'll feel a bit better..then go see mom. Come home..clean a cpl more things off your list,then study.
In the morning..start looking for a job. NOT tonight. Tonight...you do other things. Tomorrow,when your list is half done and you've seen you mom and studied you wil lbe more clear headed when job searching.
thefrog
03-23-2008, 03:40 PM
Dear Cameron Keys
what should i do tonight ? /:O
i can stay home alone watching TV.
or go to the club hang out have a few drinks.
or i could curl up in my bed and sleep.
cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 03:46 PM
Dear Cameron Keys
what should i do tonight ? /:O
i can stay home alone watching TV.
or go to the club hang out have a few drinks.
or i could curl up in my bed and sleep.
I say..go have a few drinks,then come home,watch some TV and curl up and go to sleep.
Best of all worlds!
josie
03-23-2008, 03:57 PM
Dear CK:
My adviser/professor at school always makes passes at me. The program I'm in is very small, so I'm too embarrassed to speak up about it. Not to mention, would anyone believe that whore of a stripper anyway? I'm starting to think an anonymous phone call to the wife is order. What do you suggest?
-Josie
cameron_keys
03-23-2008, 04:06 PM
Dear CK:
My adviser/professor at school always makes passes at me. The program I'm in is very small, so I'm too embarrassed to speak up about it. Not to mention, would anyone believe that whore of a stripper anyway? I'm starting to think an anonymous phone call to the wife is order. What do you suggest?
-Josie
I'd tell him straight up that if he doesnt stop you WILL press sexual harassment charges. Carry a tape recorder in your pocket to collect the evidence..they will have to believe you then.
Leave the wife out of it for now. If you have to press charges she'll find out...but she will be less likely to believe you then the school and you'll end up looking like a scorned mistress.
I'd also talk to other girls in the program...see if he's done it to anyone else(its rarely just one) and if he has..convince them to go all together and press charges. They will be more likely to believe when theres more then one complaint.
You can also set up a meeting. When he asks you to meet him for drinks..tape the proposition and agree to go. Then have another professor or a school administrator come along to see it for themselves.
LuckyOne
03-23-2008, 04:29 PM
Sure...actually any stripper will be your girlfriend. But you have to remember that they are busy and picky creatures so your dates will all take place at the strip club while she is working.
Too funny! Lol!!!
Nini Nieb
03-24-2008, 03:21 AM
Dear Cameron K !!!
Thanks for all your good responses so far :-*
Where is the most business according to porn ?? I guess it has to be La !? But what about Florida ??
If you go to a shoot what it the chances you will hook up or hang out with some of your fe/male co-workers ??
I think it would be a very good place to expirenced some wild/safe sex because of the AIM/stuff !? Do the guys know how to step out of the porn/universe and just be normal gentle guys ??
What about male/female comradiry ?? Hanging out having a good time ?? Having a beach/pool/party or whatever ?? If not !? I think I would feel very lonely :(
PS When I talk co-workers I mean performers !! I don't want to hook up with a random cameraman >:(
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 08:21 AM
Dear Cameron K !!!
Thanks for all your good responses so far :-*
Where is the most business according to porn ?? I guess it has to be La !? But what about Florida ??
If you go to a shoot what it the chances you will hook up or hang out with some of your fe/male co-workers ??
I think it would be a very good place to expirenced some wild/safe sex because of the AIM/stuff !? Do the guys know how to step out of the porn/universe and just be normal gentle guys ??
What about male/female comradiry ?? Hanging out having a good time ?? Having a beach/pool/party or whatever ?? If not !? I think I would feel very lonely :(
PS When I talk co-workers I mean performers !! I don't want to hook up with a random cameraman >:(
LA is the number one,followed by Miami.
ME personally..I dont hook up after. I do my job and go home. I"m sure some do though..
Theres usually a lot of camradery on set..lots of joking around and such. Not always but usually.
As for going out after work..its just like stripping. Some do,some just go home.
hockeybobby
03-24-2008, 08:54 AM
Hi Cameron,
Do you have a little (index finger sized) tattoo on your right butt cheek? Let me explain: I leave my tv on while I'm on the computer, and I just always have it tuned in to one of the cable movie channels I have. After midnight they switch to adult movies, and last night I glanced up and one of the girls, I swear was you or your doppleganger. Beautiful blond, voluptuous body...I checked your picture posts and couldn't see a tattoo but your hand was covering. Anyways...I'm not perving on you, don't worry, just curious. :)
Also, do you find it therapeutic to offer advice, tips, support, consolation and love to people, even strangers? I've noticed whenever I focus on other peoples troubles, it lifts my spirits and distracts me from my own scary thoughts.
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 09:06 AM
Hi Cameron,
Do you have a little (index finger sized) tattoo on your right butt cheek? Let me explain: I leave my tv on while I'm on the computer, and I just always have it tuned in to one of the cable movie channels I have. After midnight they switch to adult movies, and last night I glanced up and one of the girls, I swear was you or your doppleganger. Beautiful blond, voluptuous body...I checked your picture posts and couldn't see a tattoo but your hand was covering. Anyways...I'm not perving on you, don't worry, just curious. :)
Also, do you find it therapeutic to offer advice, tips, support, consolation and love to people, even strangers? I've noticed whenever I focus on other peoples troubles, it lifts my spirits and distracts me from my own scary thoughts.
Sorry,not me. I have no tattoos. But I have been told before that I have a twin out there doing movies. I'd love to know who she is since nobody can come up with a name so our agents can arrange for us to work together!
And yes, I find it very therapeutic. I like being able to put my psych degree to work and I think(hope) that I"m pretty good at it. I like knowing I can help people.Mskes me feel like my time here on Earth has some purpose.
Jezzebelle
03-24-2008, 10:01 AM
You have a psych degree?
Aaaah, then Im gonna have to ask you another question.........once I figured out how to word it without rambling....
hockeybobby
03-24-2008, 10:11 AM
Sorry,not me. I have no tattoos. But I have been told before that I have a twin out there doing movies. I'd love to know who she is since nobody can come up with a name so our agents can arrange for us to work together!
I looked it up, the movie was called Scandalous. It was a higher budget couples type movie, with some people I recognized...Aurora Snow, and Evan Stone. I swear she was your double...well except for the tattoo.
Lysondra
03-24-2008, 10:13 AM
Just why?
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:16 AM
I looked it up, the movie was called Scandalous. It was a higher budget couples type movie, with some people I recognized...Aurora Snow, and Evan Stone. I swear she was your double...well except for the tattoo.
Hmmm..I dont think I look anything at all like Aurora Stone..she has small natural boobs and a body I would kill for!! But thanks for thinking I look like such a smokin' hottie!!
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:18 AM
Just why?
OK...my father took a philosophy class in college(he has 3 college degrees so he took I think every class there ever was!LOL)
the final exam was one question. Why?
People filled blue books like crazy.
My father wrote one word and got an A.
So I will quote him
Because.
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:19 AM
You have a psych degree?
Aaaah, then Im gonna have to ask you another question.........once I figured out how to word it without rambling....
Ramble away..I will figure it out!
hockeybobby
03-24-2008, 10:23 AM
Hmmm..I dont think I look anything at all like Aurora Stone..she has small natural boobs and a body I would kill for!! But thanks for thinking I look like such a smokin' hottie!!
NO, no, no...those two (Aurora & Evan) were in the movie, but the girl I'm talking about, I don't know her name. I didn't see the credits, but I'll try to google and find the blonde's name.
Lysondra
03-24-2008, 10:27 AM
Because why?
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:41 AM
NO, no, no...those two (Aurora & Evan) were in the movie, but the girl I'm talking about, I don't know her name. I didn't see the credits, but I'll try to google and find the blonde's name.
Oh...I thought you thought I looked like a super hottie..:'(
I would def appreciate the name if you can find it...I've been hearing about my doppleganger for years and am dying to know who she is!!!
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:41 AM
Because why?
Just because. Some things have no rational reason.
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:54 AM
Will you marry me? I promise to bake lots of cookies, cook lots of yummy foods, and collect massive amounts of rubber duckies!
YES!!! Lets have a SW wedding with much yummies and pole dancing!! And rubber duckie wedding favors!!
hockeybobby
03-24-2008, 10:54 AM
Oh...I thought you thought I looked like a super hottie..:'(
I would def appreciate the name if you can find it...I've been hearing about my doppleganger for years and am dying to know who she is!!!
You are a friggin super hottie Cam!! Hellooooo, I believe I'm on record in several forums slobbering and gushing all over you. }:D
I'll keep looking...what's the best website to get adult movie info/cast index?? I've googled the title, and got movies that were different.
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 10:57 AM
You are a friggin super hottie Cam!! Hellooooo, I believe I'm on record in several forums slobbering and gushing all over you. }:D
I'll keep looking...what's the best website to get adult movie info/cast index?? I've googled the title, and got movies that were different.
AWWW...ok I feel better now(I know I know..I'm a sucker for an ego boost!)
iafd.com is the imdb.com for porn
Jezzebelle
03-24-2008, 11:00 AM
Ramble away..I will figure it out!
Oh I woudnt right now, It would go on for 3 boring pages.......
Will think on it tho....
hockeybobby
03-24-2008, 11:06 AM
AWWW...ok I feel better now(I know I know..I'm a sucker for an ego boost!)
iafd.com is the imdb.com for porn
OK...got her: Cameron Double (http://www.iafd.com/person.rme/perfid=KWindsor/gender=f/Keri-Windsor.htm)
I goofed it up, I had the wrong title. The movie was called "Love at first Byte". I found it by searching movies with both Evan Stone, and Aurora Snow...and i recognized the title.
cameron_keys
03-24-2008, 11:18 AM
OK...got her:
I goofed it up, I had the wrong title. The movie was called "Love at first Byte". I found it by searching movies with both Evan Stone, and Aurora Snow...and i recognized the title.
Hmm..I still dont see it. I'll again, kill for a body like that,although we are almost the same age(shes 6 months older).But shes hot so I"ll take it!
423texas
04-06-2008, 04:58 PM
Cameron
What is the proper response when some idiot insults me completely unjustly?
Should I get pissed off and turn away from the situation in frustration and anger.
Or would it be better to consider the source on the insult, and just keep going and take the high road?
hockeybobby
04-06-2008, 05:25 PM
Whoa...good question. Timely and appropriate.
desavirsire
04-06-2008, 05:54 PM
Whoa...good question. Timely and appropriate.
Um ok I don't know if you are also but I'm pretty sure s/he is being slightly sarcastic.
cherry_sin
04-06-2008, 05:54 PM
Jenny needs to get in here with her avatar.
hockeybobby
04-06-2008, 06:07 PM
Um ok I don't know if you are also but I'm pretty sure s/he is being slightly sarcastic.
Not a hint of sarcasm from me. I see that question as being relevant for many people currently dealing with insults, frustration and anger, and contemplating what to do about it.
I think the answer is self evident, but others are struggling for answers. This is why I consider this to be a good question for this time. I don't know the person who posed the question, or what their motivation is, but if it causes people to think about their response to this question, then it is totally worthwhile.
lizlizliz
04-06-2008, 07:35 PM
Cameron, should I risk wasting my tampon, or should I go ahead and take it out?
hockeybobby
04-06-2008, 07:43 PM
Cameron, should I risk wasting my tampon, or should I go ahead and take it out?
This is a little on the mean side, don't you think liz?
lizlizliz
04-06-2008, 07:49 PM
I was referencing the overheard in the dressing room post. But nah, not really mean. I could show you mean, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
hockeybobby
04-06-2008, 07:55 PM
I recall that post. It was definitely a WTFer.