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cameron_keys
10-25-2007, 11:24 AM
Dear Cameron,

I am a happily married woman. Problem is i think my husband may not be. He says he is, but wants to have anal sex with me. I find that repulsive. He knew when we dated for 8 years that i would not do anal. So he asks me the other night if i would mind if he brings another woman into our home and has intercourse with her, ANAL!!! He says he wants me to be there, be a part of this by watching...? Does this mean he is falling out of love with me? If i say no, will he do this behind my back? I told him i want to be number one in his life, he says i am? I'm confused.

How can he love me, but want another woman in our bed and do her up the rear?

I feel as if he does not love me if he wants another woman. I asked if he could use a blow up doll, he says it's not the same.

HELP! I don't want to lose him, but don't want him with another woman either.


Well, as me and my husband are swingerts I can definately say that you can want to have sex with someone else without having any lessening of your love for one another.
That said..it is not true for everyone.

It sounds as if anal is a huge fantasy for him(my husband likes it too and I wont give it up either!) and he would RATHER indulge it with you...but if you cant..he wantst o explore it elsewhere.

It is def. possible that he will have his fantasy and be sated with no loss of feeling for you. In fact..he may end up loving you more for allowing it and being part of it.

It is also a distict possibility that once he gets it...it will become an obsession and he will eventually leave in favor of being with someone who will allow it.

As to whether he will do it on his own if you say no...depends on the guy. I it is something he absolutely cant live without..then yes, he prob will. If it is just a fantasy that he is willing to let go of if you put your foot down..tehn he will remain faithful.

Only you know what kind of man he is.

But wanting one thing he asked for and cant get at home does nto necessarily mean he isnt happily married. Many people(myself included) can separate sex and love.

You'll have to discuss this at length with him to decide what is right for the two of you.

leilanicandy
10-25-2007, 05:24 PM
I just met a man four days ago. Yes this past sunday. He had the most beautiful little girl. I was at the park with my children. His child and my child where playing, than we had a nice conversation. He seem to be a cool guy, that was going thru a real bad situation with the mother of his child. I felt so bad for him. His parents was dead and he only had a sister left in this life.

Anyhoo he wanted to do a playdate with the children. Since they play so well togethier, so I agree to a play date.

To make a long story short "daughter" was calling him uncle dad dad. He will text me 15 times. He try to come on to me. I rejected him! Than he kept trying to be with me in a romantic way, Than I told him not to call or talk to me anymore! He have then since left me 46 texts messages since Monday. Which include how much he miss me, he calls me his baby, send me pics of his daughter. He talks about how hurt he is because I won't answer is texts or calls. I dont answer his calls or texts conversate with him! I know he is crazy. I worried for his little girl if that is his little girl. Something seem so strange about the whole situation! The second time I met him I felt like something was not right! With him as a person, and his relationship with this little girl. I hate to leave this little girl with this crazy man. Yet I cant put my children in anymore danger. So you think I should call child proective services on him! He is not in his right mind! I never seen him hurt the girl but his behaivor, towards me. The stuff he write in his text messages. Makes me worry for the poor little girl. He think we are in a relationship when I dont want him near me. I voice very bluntly I did not want to be with him! Than he calls me and cry on my voice mail. I worried for the poor little girl. Should I just forget about the poor little girl? Or should I tell the department of human services? I dont think this is his little girl. Why do she call him uncle dad dad?

cameron_keys
10-25-2007, 06:22 PM
I just met a man four days ago. Yes this past sunday. He had the most beautiful little girl. I was at the park with my children. His child and my child where playing, than we had a nice conversation. He seem to be a cool guy, that was going thru a real bad situation with the mother of his child. I felt so bad for him. His parents was dead and he only had a sister left in this life.

Anyhoo he wanted to do a playdate with the children. Since they play so well togethier, so I agree to a play date.

To make a long story short "daughter" was calling him uncle dad dad. He will text me 15 times. He try to come on to me. I rejected him! Than he kept trying to be with me in a romantic way, Than I told him not to call or talk to me anymore! He have then since left me 46 texts messages since Monday. Which include how much he miss me, he calls me his baby, send me pics of his daughter. He talks about how hurt he is because I won't answer is texts or calls. I dont answer his calls or texts conversate with him! I know he is crazy. I worried for his little girl if that is his little girl. Something seem so strange about the whole situation! The second time I met him I felt like something was not right! With him as a person, and his relationship with this little girl. I hate to leave this little girl with this crazy man. Yet I cant put my children in anymore danger. So you think I should call child proective services on him! He is not in his right mind! I never seen him hurt the girl but his behaivor, towards me. The stuff he write in his text messages. Makes me worry for the poor little girl. He think we are in a relationship when I dont want him near me. I voice very bluntly I did not want to be with him! Than he calls me and cry on my voice mail. I worried for the poor little girl. Should I just forget about the poor little girl? Or should I tell the department of human services? I dont think this is his little girl. Why do she call him uncle dad dad?


That is really odd. I think you should call child services and tell them that while you didnt see any outright abuse, something wasnt right and you are worried the child may have been kidnapped. They should follow up.

I'd also callteh cops and see ifyou can get a restraining order. Call your phone company and see if you can get his number blocked. Tell him in NO UNCERTAIN terms that you want NOTHING to do with him and he is to stop contacting you NOW or you will call the cops for harrassement.

I sincerely hope you did not give him your address....

BalletBaby
10-26-2007, 03:17 PM
Why dont you ask the cops if theres any chance the club will get in trouble over this before you go ahead and let her get away with it?

Well, I talked to the officer who I filed my report with today and he said the report had already been turned into detectives. So if the club gets pissed, they can just suck it up or fire me. Although, I have nothing good to say about a club that lets a thief run around for three months and then tells me I cannot file a police report.

Madcap
10-26-2007, 04:19 PM
Dear Cameron Keys,

How can a guy be like "Damn, i need advice" then write you an email (Or in this case a post) asking said advice letter, yet the same guy wants to *BLLLLAAAAAAAANNNNNKKKKKK* the living shit out of you. Regardless on what the original question was...

Um, not me. A, uh... Um... But...

Um. I just, of course, like your posts (Yeah, that's it). So how does a guy ask advice from a woman he's thirty kinds of attracted to.

Oh.

In short, how does a guy take advice from a woman he wants to fuck?

Not that i'ts me, you know. A friend asked me to ask you this...:D

:D

cameron_keys
10-26-2007, 06:03 PM
Dear Cameron Keys,

How can a guy be like "Damn, i need advice" then write you an email (Or in this case a post) asking said advice letter, yet the same guy wants to *BLLLLAAAAAAAANNNNNKKKKKK* the living shit out of you. Regardless on what the original question was...

Um, not me. A, uh... Um... But...

Um. I just, of course, like your posts (Yeah, that's it). So how does a guy ask advice from a woman he's thirty kinds of attracted to.

Oh.

In short, how does a guy take advice from a woman he wants to fuck?

Not that i'ts me, you know. A friend asked me to ask you this...:D

:D

He shuts up, deals with it and listens to what she has to say. Her vagina isnt the only thing about her that has value....you can want to fuck AND listen to her too!

LuckyOne
10-27-2007, 12:18 PM
Dear Cameron,
I am adopting a very young puppy. Her litter has already been seperated from the mother at 5 weeks and they need homes right now. Is it ok for her to eat dry food or is it easier to digest if its soaked in water or milk? Is she old enough to get her shots? And do you have any other advice for taking the best possible care of her?

I am thinking she will need as much social interaction as possible because she is SO young, and when she has to be alone I will leave her in her crate with a towel and a hot water bottle. Any other suggestions? Thank you so much...

cameron_keys
10-27-2007, 01:16 PM
Dear Cameron,
I am adopting a very young puppy. Her litter has already been seperated from the mother at 5 weeks and they need homes right now. Is it ok for her to eat dry food or is it easier to digest if its soaked in water or milk? Is she old enough to get her shots? And do you have any other advice for taking the best possible care of her?

I am thinking she will need as much social interaction as possible because she is SO young, and when she has to be alone I will leave her in her crate with a towel and a hot water bottle. Any other suggestions? Thank you so much...

5 weeks is too young to be separated from mom. I ususally dont recommend doing so until 7 or 8 weeks...is there a reason they have to be taken away so young?

Soak her food in water(NO milk...cow milk will give her the runs...dogs are lactose intolerant) with a bit of baby rice cereal. Work up to feeding her dry food. She should be on dry food only by about 8 weeks.But dont rush her.
She will be old enough for her first round of shots(based on over all health...your vet will let you know) at 6 weeks.

Be careful with the hot water bottle...she could actually burn herself on it. If the house isnt freezing cold, she shouldnt need it.

I hope you are planning to spay her...do it before her first heat(earliest is 6 weeks, but best to wait until she is finished all her shots at about 3-4 months)

Start housetraining her NOW. About 20 minutes after she eats, take her outside and wait. When she goes make a BIG deal praising her and giving her a treat. She should housetrain very quickly. Last time I fostered, I had them fully housetrained at 7 weeks.

Good luck!!

LuckyOne
10-27-2007, 02:38 PM
I don't really know why they seperated the mother. She was wild, I think she kept running away or something.

The puppies are already on dog food, but I want her to feed her whats best for her.

Thanks Cameron!

cameron_keys
10-27-2007, 03:41 PM
I don't really know why they seperated the mother. She was wild, I think she kept running away or something.

The puppies are already on dog food, but I want her to feed her whats best for her.

Thanks Cameron!

Make sure you are feeding a qualiy food, and puppy formula. They need the extra fat and nutrients right now.

LuckyOne
10-27-2007, 10:35 PM
Make sure you are feeding a qualiy food, and puppy formula. They need the extra fat and nutrients right now.

Gosh, Cam- I am SO GLAD you know so much about puppies!!! She is so cute and fun! I am trying to post a picture for you but experiencing technical difficulties. I might have to post a new thread about her. Still deciding on a name too... :)

cameron_keys
10-29-2007, 01:33 PM
Gosh, Cam- I am SO GLAD you know so much about puppies!!! She is so cute and fun! I am trying to post a picture for you but experiencing technical difficulties. I might have to post a new thread about her. Still deciding on a name too... :)

Puppies are awesome!! Congrats on your new baby! What breed is she?

LuckyOne
10-29-2007, 02:35 PM
Beagle maybe? Her mom was only 25 lbs. Can I threadjack? This is her:

cameron_keys
10-29-2007, 03:13 PM
^^She's SO cute!

Madcap
11-04-2007, 06:14 PM
Here's a Bonafide all or nothing 'ask Cameron:' Please explain Women to me?

Hehe...

cameron_keys
11-04-2007, 08:39 PM
Here's a Bonafide all or nothing 'ask Cameron:' Please explain Women to me?

Hehe...

Women are complicated mysterious creatures. All you need to know is treat us like independant princesses and lavish us with compliments without being needy.

And put the seat down after you pee.

Does that clear it up? LOL!!

Madcap
11-04-2007, 08:43 PM
Put the seat down?!?

PHILLISTINE!

Callyish
11-04-2007, 08:45 PM
Dear Cameron...

MadCap keeps bugging me to do him up the ass with my strap on... should I do it?

Madcap
11-04-2007, 08:46 PM
......No

Madcap
11-04-2007, 08:47 PM
Actually.... Do I get to do Cally?


Decisions... Decisions....

cameron_keys
11-04-2007, 08:47 PM
Dear Cameron...

MadCap keeps bugging me to do him up the ass with my strap on... should I do it?

Yes. Dont use any lube though..he likes it rough!

Callyish
11-04-2007, 08:48 PM
Oh of course id take him raw!!

I'll be sure to use my 16 incher too...

Madcap
11-04-2007, 08:50 PM
Um....
Hrm....
This is weird.

Madcap
11-04-2007, 11:50 PM
I still wanna know what that 'put the seat down' shit is. THAT IS ASKING TOO MUCH.

I demand equal rights!

cameron_keys
11-05-2007, 02:56 PM
Sorry to interupt the fun, but I actually have a question...

Dear Cameron,

Ever since I got sick a few weeks ago, I've been completely unmotivated to do anything. I don't want to clean, shop, go to work, cook, get dressed, or even eat! It's like an overwhelming apathy. All I want to do is lay on the couch and zone out. I'm constantly tired, and just don't want to be active. I know I've been working like crazy, but this is worse than any burnout I've ever had, and I don't know if it's related to having been so sick.

Now, of course, I'm better so I need to motivate myself to accomplish things. Any suggestions?

Well, when you are sick you need to rest so your body can heal itself. I'm willing to bet you still got up and did stuff, work, cook dinner..it may not have seemed like much to you but your body is still exhausted.

Ease into doing more. Do a bit more every day until you are back to your normal routine. Dont go too fast or you will just get sick again.

Glad you are feeling better!!

cameron_keys
11-05-2007, 02:57 PM
I still wanna know what that 'put the seat down' shit is. THAT IS ASKING TOO MUCH.

I demand equal rights!

Ok..its a matter of percentages. What a man does on the toilet he sits down for 50% of the time. What a woman does on the toilet she sits down for 100% of the time. Combine them and thats 75% of the household toilet activities done sitting down.

So keep the seat DOWN.

Not to mention that if I go to the bathroom half asleep in the middle of the night and get my ass wet because the seat is up....I'mma wipe it on your face!!! So THERE!

cameron_keys
11-05-2007, 03:41 PM
Yea, I did get up and go to work every day, but I let the household chores suffer big time. I've cooked twice in the last month. Seriously, I usually cook 4-5 times/week, so I really have been taking it easy. Problem is, we've resorted to eating out which we can't afford to do right now. So I need you to come up here and kick my ass into the kitchen because once I actually start doing stuff, I feel great. I just can't get to starting anything! :D

I wish I could, but I'm not really eating at the moment because of my new meds.

But you can practice!! Whats your fav food? Ge tup and make it...even if it is somethign easy..it'll get you back in teh kitchen.

I'm sure there are MANY Sw'ers that are in need of cookies.....everybody...help out Jade!! Order some cookies so she has motivation to cook!!!!!

Seriously...if you have a way for people to pay for it now...post a thread about ordering cookies for the holidays.

cameron_keys
11-05-2007, 04:08 PM
Heh Yea, that's the other problem... I finished going through the stupid sanitary guidelines. I've been trying to get a hold of the health dept in my town, but I'm not having any kind of luck getting the info I need because I'm a renter. Bah, stupid rich town. I think that I'm going to have to stick with cash/check/money order this holiday and hope that what I manage to make will be enough seed money to really get the business going!

I still think you should start here. Post a thread for anyone wanting cookie baskets for Thanksgiving/X-mas/hannukah....

Put up a menu of cookies and whatever other baked goods they can choose from to customize their gift basket(or gift box...you can charge a bit more for an actual basket). Take orders NOW so you know what you will need then...and get a deposit up front so you'll have the money for the ingredients.

Put it on myspace too.Anywhere you will get traffic

Kaylinn
11-21-2007, 03:41 PM
Cam,
My sick cat Peanut has lately taken a liking to plastic. She eats it. She eats cigg wrappers and anythign pastic she can find. She ate the plastic ribbon off my Lush stuff, and threw it up. This is a very very dangerous habit for her to have. I'm deathly afriad she is gonna block her intestines or get poisoned or somethign terrible.
We started smakin her butt when we catch her eating plastic, but my boyfriend sais somethign i wonder...He said " I wonder if she has some deficiency that is makign her eat plastic" Pica. Animals knwo when somethign is wrong with them, and I wonder if she is trying to make up for some deficiency by eating plastic.
I know we shoudl take her back to the vet, and truth be told, she is overdo for her meds this month, but we can't afford it right now.
She is anemic and gets iron and she gets steriod for inflamation.

DO you know if some cat nutrient deficiency woudl cause her to crave plastic?
Her lab tests before did show she was malnurished and sevrely underweight, although she had a good appitite. But since starting her on treatment, she has gained weight, and is now in a normal weight range. She is up to about 7.5-8lbs now.

cameron_keys
11-21-2007, 04:10 PM
Cam,
My sick cat Peanut has lately taken a liking to plastic. She eats it. She eats cigg wrappers and anythign pastic she can find. She ate the plastic ribbon off my Lush stuff, and threw it up. This is a very very dangerous habit for her to have. I'm deathly afriad she is gonna block her intestines or get poisoned or somethign terrible.
We started smakin her butt when we catch her eating plastic, but my boyfriend sais somethign i wonder...He said " I wonder if she has some deficiency that is makign her eat plastic" Pica. Animals knwo when somethign is wrong with them, and I wonder if she is trying to make up for some deficiency by eating plastic.
I know we shoudl take her back to the vet, and truth be told, she is overdo for her meds this month, but we can't afford it right now.
She is anemic and gets iron and she gets steriod for inflamation.

DO you know if some cat nutrient deficiency woudl cause her to crave plastic?
Her lab tests before did show she was malnurished and sevrely underweight, although she had a good appitite. But since starting her on treatment, she has gained weight, and is now in a normal weight range. She is up to about 7.5-8lbs now.


Theres no real reason for it...a lot of cats do it. Theory is..esp things that have a smell(grocery bags, cig wrappers..remember cats sense of smell is MUCH higher then ours) will attract them. Plus they make fun crinkly noisees when you chew them.

Theres not much you can do except be EXTRA diligent about keeping that stuff out of her reach...you ar eright,...it could wrap around her intenstines and kill her.

Lysondra
11-22-2007, 05:04 PM
Dear Cameron Keys,

Who should I take to the work Christmas party? My choices are:

Extremely adorable young thin six foot tall broke-ass but funny awkward nursing student.

Nice looking well dressed older megamultimillionaire with perfectly smooth smoozing techniques but slightly boring.

Decide.

cameron_keys
11-22-2007, 06:19 PM
Dear Cameron Keys,

Who should I take to the work Christmas party? My choices are:

Extremely adorable young thin six foot tall broke-ass but funny awkward nursing student.

Nice looking well dressed older megamultimillionaire with perfectly smooth smoozing techniques but slightly boring.

Decide.

Whichever will make you have more fun!

Sounds like the nursing student to me...

SarahSynn
11-27-2007, 07:03 PM
Dear Cameron,

How do I get a hot woman to ride me like the naughty unicorn I am?! My pussy may explode if I don't get some action soon.

Speaking of pussy, how do I quite my loud Siamese kitty? I love her but she's sooooo annoying sometimes.

cameron_keys
11-27-2007, 07:33 PM
Dear Cameron,


How do I get a hot woman to ride me like the naughty unicorn I am?! My pussy may explode if I don't get some action soon.

Speaking of pussy, how do I quite my loud Siamese kitty? I love her but she's sooooo annoying sometimes.

1) fly your sexy ass to FL!!!!

2) live with it..siamese are talkers...its just what they do! Part of their charm

Madcap
11-27-2007, 07:52 PM
Hey Cam, what's the meaning of life?

cameron_keys
11-27-2007, 07:59 PM
Hey Cam, what's the meaning of life?

People aren't wearing enough hats.

Madcap
11-27-2007, 08:01 PM
CK thinks, therefore she is...

SarahSynn
11-28-2007, 11:07 AM
1) fly your sexy ass to FL!!!!

2) live with it..siamese are talkers...its just what they do! Part of their charm

I've been meaning to visit some family in Miami }:D

You're right, it's totally apart of the breed and their charm. I was hoping a kitty xanax was on the market for her. :D

cameron_keys
11-28-2007, 11:52 AM
I've been meaning to visit some family in Miami }:D

You're right, it's totally apart of the breed and their charm. I was hoping a kitty xanax was on the market for her. :D


Yeah baby..I'll molest you when I come to LA and you can come here and molest me!!

There are tranqualizers for cats...but you dont want to do that to her. If you dont want a talkative cat...dont get a siamese. If it is that bad for you...maybe you'd be better off re-homing her and getting another breed that is quieter?

SarahSynn
11-28-2007, 12:19 PM
Yeah baby..I'll molest you when I come to LA and you can come here and molest me!!

There are tranqualizers for cats...but you dont want to do that to her. If you dont want a talkative cat...dont get a siamese. If it is that bad for you...maybe you'd be better off re-homing her and getting another breed that is quieter?

Hell yeah, cross country molesting! Let me know when you're in LA and we'll tear this fucking city up! }:D

Yikes, I don't want to tranq the kitty. She throws these huge fits when I come home from work, crying and throwing herself all over the floor. I'm thinking about getting her a friend so she isn't so lonely.

cameron_keys
11-28-2007, 12:24 PM
Hell yeah, cross country molesting! Let me know when you're in LA and we'll tear this fucking city up! }:D

Yikes, I don't want to tranq the kitty. She throws these huge fits when I come home from work, crying and throwing herself all over the floor. I'm thinking about getting her a friend so she isn't so lonely.

Siamese do well with kitty buddes. Be prepared for twice the chatter though!LOL! they will still talk...now to you AND each other. Thats sweet though..she loves you and misses you when you are gone..shes just telling you about her day! One of my birds does that from tme to time...just goes off chattering (interjecting the words and phrases he knows from time to time) for like 15 minutes straight!


I should be in La sometime in the next few weeks...nailing the specific dates down now

SarahSynn
11-28-2007, 12:29 PM
Siamese do well with kitty buddes. Be prepared for twice the chatter though!LOL! they will still talk...now to you AND each other. Thats sweet though..she loves you and misses you when you are gone..shes just telling you about her day! One of my birds does that from tme to time...just goes off chattering (interjecting the words and phrases he knows from time to time) for like 15 minutes straight!


I should be in La sometime in the next few weeks...nailing the specific dates down now

OMG Twice the chatter?! Are there any breeds sans vocal cords? lol Fiona is a little sweetheart, but such a chatterbox!

What kind of birds do you have? My albino parakeet died a few months ago and I miss that little bastard!

Awesome! LA is in need of some Cameron Keys!}:D

cameron_keys
11-28-2007, 12:33 PM
OMG Twice the chatter?! Are there any breeds sans vocal cords? lol Fiona is a little sweetheart, but such a chatterbox!

What kind of birds do you have? My albino parakeet died a few months ago and I miss that little bastard!

Awesome! LA is in need of some Cameron Keys!}:D

LOL....no kitties sans vocal cords(unless you count those with ungodly cruel owners who have them removed.....but thats a whole other thread!)

I have 2 cockatiels (one of which laid an egg this morning! It isnt fertile and they are pretty old to start a family..but I gave them a little breeding box anyway just to make them happy)
and 2 conures(a peach front and a blue crown)

SarahSynn
11-28-2007, 12:37 PM
LOL....no kitties sans vocal cords(unless you count those with ungodly cruel owners who have them removed.....but thats a whole other thread!)

I have 2 cockatiels (one of which laid an egg this morning! It isnt fertile and they are pretty old to start a family..but I gave them a little breeding box anyway just to make them happy)
and 2 conures(a peach front and a blue crown)

There's no way that I would actually have my cat put under just to remove her vocal cords. I can't believe people sometimes. You're right, that's a whole other thread entirely!

I LOVE cockatiels! They are such great pets! I've never had a conure before, but they are very pretty.

TigersMilk
11-30-2007, 12:04 PM
Dear Cameron,

My cat shit, for the 2nd time, in my bath tub last night. Maybe he did it because I didn't come home last night? Its alot of turds too. My bath mat is grossing me out and now going to have to get a new one. My cat hates me or something.

Anyways, I keep his box clean and use the same litter every time. He's about 10 years old and I feed him healthy senior cat food. Why is he doing this to me?

cameron_keys
11-30-2007, 12:33 PM
Dear Cameron,

My cat shit, for the 2nd time, in my bath tub last night. Maybe he did it because I didn't come home last night? Its alot of turds too. My bath mat is grossing me out and now going to have to get a new one. My cat hates me or something.

Anyways, I keep his box clean and use the same litter every time. He's about 10 years old and I feed him healthy senior cat food. Why is he doing this to me?

Well...if you havent gone to the vet in awhile..might want to ..just to rule out medical issues.

But mine do this too. Pee and shit on my bathroom floor and/or in my tub(which is why I dont take baths...even when I bleach it out..the though that it was there is kinda gross to me)

After hundreds of dollars in tests....we determined my cats are fucking neurotic. ANYTHING that changes..I come home late or go away for a few days, I change their litter, I have guests over..ANY little thing that changes their minute to minute routine and this is how they punish me. I have learned to just keep a mop in the bathroom and deal. Thankkfully they never do it anywhere really bad like a rug, couch or my bed...the bathroom floor is relatively easy to clean so I deal.

Also...my male will piss on anythng with a rubber backing...bathroom rug, the cheap area rug I put in my gym or the also fairly cheap welcome mat in front of my door. They are ALWAYS either being washed in boiling water or replaced. Something about the smell of the cheap rubber I guess....and only cheap rubber. He NEVER does this on the expensive Persian rug in my living room(though they will occasionally puke on it...but that I cant really blame them for. It kind of hits them out of nowhere....thank god for steam cleaners)

SteveK
11-30-2007, 02:06 PM
cameron
the woman im in love with, and was in a relationship with was diagnosed with chrones disease.
i broke up with her a while ago, but ive done everything i could to get her back.
i opened my heart up to her a few nights ago, and told her how i was taking her for granted, and all that kind of stuff.
i told her i wanted to be there for her. i always see her happy. and to be "that guy" that girls all talk about.

she said she doesnt want a relationship right now, and that she has to focus on getting better, school, and work.

she said "im not saying we wont ever be together, but right now, i need to focus on these things. i can only offer you friendship now. if you don't want to take that, then i understand".

now, when we were together , she had school, and work, and that wasn't an issue.
also, she all of a sudden died her beautiful blonde hair to brown.. and she is going to jamaica with her frends for 3 weeks for new years.

is she fucking with my head ? or does she really have to deal with her shit ?
im willing to do whatever i can, even if that means just being friends for now..
but it would be better for me to deal with it if i knew if she was being serious, or just afraid to tell me to my face that she doesnt want to be with me...

thanks

SteveK
11-30-2007, 02:54 PM
by the way i really will take what you say seriously

cameron_keys
12-01-2007, 03:55 AM
cameron
the woman im in love with, and was in a relationship with was diagnosed with chrones disease.
i broke up with her a while ago, but ive done everything i could to get her back.
i opened my heart up to her a few nights ago, and told her how i was taking her for granted, and all that kind of stuff.
i told her i wanted to be there for her. i always see her happy. and to be "that guy" that girls all talk about.

she said she doesnt want a relationship right now, and that she has to focus on getting better, school, and work.

she said "im not saying we wont ever be together, but right now, i need to focus on these things. i can only offer you friendship now. if you don't want to take that, then i understand".

now, when we were together , she had school, and work, and that wasn't an issue.
also, she all of a sudden died her beautiful blonde hair to brown.. and she is going to jamaica with her frends for 3 weeks for new years.

is she fucking with my head ? or does she really have to deal with her shit ?
im willing to do whatever i can, even if that means just being friends for now..
but it would be better for me to deal with it if i knew if she was being serious, or just afraid to tell me to my face that she doesnt want to be with me...

thanks

she really needs to deal with her shit, However she needs to deal with it. If that includes your awesome offer of being there for her...great..if not...well...it just doesnt.

I'm sorry I cant give you better news....but you made the offer....you are there if she needs you and now you just need to step back and let her do what she needs to do

leilanicandy
12-02-2007, 02:05 AM
Dear Cameron Keys


I have been dating this man. His name is MadCap. When we first start dating he was great. He seem like a regular guy. I went to his house. We started engaging in heavy kissing, and we start to get down to business. He pull down his pants. He has a .2 inch cock. I was really upset. Fucking baster! I mean he was always braging about his 15.5 inch penis. He is really hairy and he likes to go walking in the woods. The hair on is back is less then the hair on his butt! His whole back side, looks like a monkey. Than he start talking about how he wants to do me like the aliens do him! With the anal probe. He says they come every other weekend. I told him NO! Than he wanted to do it with the cows down the road. It is nothing like doing a cow in the middle of nowhere! So I left him and went home. I really like madcap but his sexual interest I cant deal with, what should I do!


Leilani

P.S He also have dead bodies, in his basement. He tried to feed me thier liver.