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kitty260
09-23-2007, 04:00 PM
Every time you give a free pass to someone on here being a nuisance, it strengthens the stereotype that people in the adult industry are less than people in "straight" occupations because we'll fall for anything and our trust is cheap.
Not only that, it opens the door for every other problem member to come back. They might as well if all it takes to be welcomed back is a cheap "I'm sorry" no matter what they did in the first place.
Sure, all Danielle did was pretend to kill herself and blame it squarely on us. That's no biggie, right? I mean, she DID say she was sorry. That makes everything okay again, doesn't it?
I get the distinct feeling that RoseDelight wouldn't be welcomed so quickly. Neither would MetalnMitsu and that wasn't even the sort of drama that had people freaking out. Sure Kikin was annoying and was stalking Rhiannon but wouldn't everyone be thrilled to see him again if he just posted randomly one day and apologized? Of course not. So why now?
I do agree with Maxine in the sense that a leopard cannot change its spots. It's only a matter of time before something else sets you off. As if we need any more problematic drama queens around here.
ViolaStrings
09-23-2007, 04:04 PM
Someone give me the Cliff's Notes version what this girl did wrong - please?
britt244
09-23-2007, 04:09 PM
Someone give me the Cliff's Notes version what this girl did wrong - please?
Sure, all Danielle did was pretend to kill herself and blame it squarely on us. That's no biggie, right? I mean, she DID say she was sorry. That makes everything okay again, doesn't it?
what i gathered, other than this, and what i remember from reading this thread before when it was brought up, was that she used multiple sns pretending to be other people, including her abusive boyfriend. she made up some crazy ass lies and then when she was called out she posted under a diff sn that she had tried to kill herself and was in the hospital and blamed it on sw for being mean to her.
ViolaStrings
09-23-2007, 04:18 PM
what i gathered, other than this, and what i remember from reading this thread before when it was brought up, was that she used multiple sns pretending to be other people, including her abusive boyfriend. she made up some crazy ass lies and then when she was called out she posted under a diff sn that she had tried to kill herself and was in the hospital and blamed it on sw for being mean to her.
Douche baggery. No sane person could be driven to hurt themselves over internet drama - much less fake hurting themselves and blame it on the internet. Well, she's just as welcome as some of the other crazies here.
After hearing this, I have to bite my tongue from making certain unkind comments about her pictures - she might try to commmit suicide!
Looks like the drama is already starting... :-\
Kaiyla
09-23-2007, 04:31 PM
Everything "EYEZ" is saying just solidifies my feelings.
I love how since it's all "in the past," we should just forgive and forget according to her. A mistake is one thing, mistakes are typically actions that one does, but 21 pages riddled with lies says a lot about who a person is. Totally took lying and scamming to a whole new level. As a result, I'm not investing my faith in this Extreme Personality Makeover of yours.
People posted your "infamous blogs" because it is what happened.
Britt is right when she says that you don't get to dictate what will or won't be brought up in this thread regarding the manipulative crap that was pulled by YOU. Of course people are going to bring that up again!! What the hec did you expect when you revealed that you were that person in those threads? The person who faked a suicide and tried to blame it on us?!?
Some of us deciding to not forget the shit you pulled is not "stupid," it's an instance of cause/effect. Again, you made your bed. Of course I've made mistakes, and I never expected people I have hurt to forgive and forget, and guess what? Some didn't and it served me right. Time to suck it up and realize everyone is not going to pretend the stunts you pulled 3 years ago did not happen.
Looks like you didn't "learn early enough," as there are women on SW who have been molested, beaten, raped and left homeless and have lived through far worse circumstances but have never pulled such lame crap, then offer "tough times" as an excuse. Not everyone here is going to want to welcome you back, that's the bottom line. You lied, manipulated and burned people who gave a damn about you..and you think you people should just swallow the line that you have changed entirely?
You said it yourself; you're a "person" right? Then you should understand peoples decisions to not be thrilled that you've come back and let us in on the glorious truth that you are the maliscious, manipulating liar that you were 3 years ago. These are people who you "treated like poo." You put people out..genuinely good people who put the time in like Farrah, who took the time out of her life to check on YOU.
I apologize to the other members if this post comes off as irate. It severely irritates me that she doesn't get it, and thinks just because things are in the past that she's going to get a Welcome Back Eyez party here.
gingerlee
09-23-2007, 04:57 PM
Looks like you didn't "learn early enough," as there are women on SW who have been molested, beaten, raped and left homeless and have lived through far worse circumstances but have never pulled such lame crap, then offer "tough times" as an excuse. .
:yes: That is all.
And Danielle/Eyez/Tattoogoddess-I don't know you, but if you have gotten your shit together, I commend you on that.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 05:31 PM
I have gotten my shit togther and i am leaving it at that im not going to get caught up in this drama again whats done it done and im going to leave it at that. If you do not belive me or do that is up to you there is no sense in agruing or trying to deffend my self. The end. I am now done with the forum thread
ViolaStrings
09-23-2007, 05:35 PM
I have gotten my shit togther and i am leaving it at that im not going to get caught up in this drama again whats done it done and im going to leave it at that. If you do not belive me or do that is up to you there is no sense in agruing or trying to deffend my self. The end. I am now done with the forum thread
The best apology you could have given everyone was to stay anonymous and not associate this screen name with your past deeds and open old wounds.
VenusGoddess
09-23-2007, 06:31 PM
I think this thread should be locked. It's only going to get worse.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 06:34 PM
I second that . Thank you.
Blade
09-23-2007, 06:39 PM
fuck me, i had no idea it was you. Welcome back and yeah you can start fresh with me
head turner
09-23-2007, 06:53 PM
^ you don't get to say whats done is done though. the harm wasnt done to you.. it was done to the sw community. i just think what you did is really unforgivable. :-\
the people offended most by this drama are the people that were not even on SW at that time?::)
Hatshepsut
09-23-2007, 06:59 PM
the people offended most by this drama are the people that were not even on SW at that time?::)
My thoughts exactly.
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:00 PM
^ i'm not offended by something i didn't take part in. i said that already. i just dont understand how people can welcome so easily someone who pulled that crap.
AlexxaHex
09-23-2007, 07:04 PM
Before anyone jumps on me for being "cruel" or whatever, you need to be aware hers was not the only Drama flareup on here (RoseDelight, Tigerlilly, sc0101, plus random small BS situations.)
What happened with sc0101?
And...with anyone who has caused this much drama, I'm going to naturally be wary of them. It's just in my nature. You should never have made this post. I don't think you did do any good here, tattoogoddess. I wasn't around to be hurt by anything that happened but I don't think I will be as welcoming to you as I would to an actual board newbie who wants to be here to have genuine interactions with people.
ViolaStrings
09-23-2007, 07:07 PM
the people offended most by this drama are the people that were not even on SW at that time?::)
Why do we need MORE psychos here? Run them off just like an extras girl or bitch at the club - make them as unwelcome as possible. This is supposed to be a safe, sane place.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 07:11 PM
Bites tounge.
Enough is enough allready.
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:13 PM
^ didnt i already say you dont get to say enough is enough? whats done is done? none of that. people here have the right to their opinion and they WILL say it.
LilyLove
09-23-2007, 07:32 PM
the people offended most by this drama are the people that were not even on SW at that time?::)
I'm gonna have to agree with this. I read the thread in question about 9 months ago and thought it was dramatic and that "Eyez" was bad and everything, but there really is no reason for people who weren't personally there at the time to get so worked up, IMO. As far as being here for the drama goes, I personally would welcome Sco101 back with open arms if she were open about what she did and who she really is.
Kaiyla
09-23-2007, 07:34 PM
I was here when that all happened, but strongly believe that people who were not members are still entitled to their opinions because this is a place where we all would like to feel safe, like we're not going to be scammed and be taken for fools. She violated that and that's the only reason why personally I'm not about to welcome her back.
I think the more she fails to see the harm done and protests our reactions, the more certain people will realize that after everything, not very much has changed with her.
Which was pretty much the point to begin with.::)
LoveSexMoney
09-23-2007, 07:40 PM
perhaps some people should merely take advantage of the ignore feature?
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 07:42 PM
do you not think i am entitled to feel safe to? how am i any different?
And how do you know i have not changed? what do you base that FACT on?
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:44 PM
perhaps some people should merely take advantage of the ignore feature?
for me personally, and i can't speak for anyone else, it isn't just her. its the fact that people are so quick to welcome her back. that just isn't sitting right with me.
Circe
09-23-2007, 07:44 PM
Some people will move on, some will hold grudges. You really can't hope that everyone will forgive and forget.
But it seems you're still welcome to post on here, so it's not like your going to get banned or anything. Not everyone's going to like your presence here...but hey, that happens on message boards even if you never scam anyone.
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:45 PM
do you not think i am entitled to feel safe to? how am i any different?
And how do you know i have not changed? what do you base that FACT on?
sigh. you had that privilage and took advantage of it and you lost it. that's what happens in life. people make mistakes and they deal with the consequences. period. if you're gonna stick around you should just know that while half of the people here may welcome you, the other half will not want you around.
Hatshepsut
09-23-2007, 07:47 PM
for me personally, and i can't speak for anyone else, it isn't just her. its the fact that people are so quick to welcome her back. that just isn't sitting right with me.
You seem to be quite obsessed with other people's opinions and business, and quite offended if they just happen to differ from yours. Plus, you go on and on ad nauseum.
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:47 PM
^ same to you, pumpkin.
Farrah_Holiday
09-23-2007, 07:49 PM
I think this thread should be locked. It's only going to get worse.
VG, I normally agree with you..But, I think the members have a right to say how they feel. As long as no one is attacking each other. Kinda like what happened in South Africa, with the reunification trials ( I'm going off of memory and I could be wrong about the title ). I know I forgive if someone apologizes, that's just how I am..Others need to release and let go before that is possible, if it ever is. In the meantime like LSM said there is always the ignore button for those who feel like they don't want to give Danielle another chance.
kitty260
09-23-2007, 07:50 PM
do you not think i am entitled to feel safe to? how am i any different?
*Bangs head on wall*.
Because YOU WERE THE ONE WHO RUINED THAT 'SAFETY' FOR EVERYONE! You haven't changed at all if you can't see that! You have absolutely NO RIGHT to think you're on equal footing with everyone else here after what you did. You're entitled to NOTHING here. You're going to have to work awfully damn hard for a very long time to ever attain any kind of respect here after doing something so despicable.
michele_b
09-23-2007, 07:50 PM
Here's my personal opinion, I don't know the "whole" situation and I wasn't around, but I say she has apologized and got her life straight.When bad things happen it tends to fuck with people, an apology might not be enough for a lot of people but time heals everything. She wanted to come out and be honest and honesty is always the best so that shows care in itself right there that she came out, I welcome her back, sure, even though I wasn't around, everyone makes mistakes, time has went by, she has apologized and is being honest, that's all I have to say. That's just me though, I don't hold things against people for things they have done in the past after they have apologized and changed their life for the better and just want to let it out for everyone to know.
Hatshepsut
09-23-2007, 07:51 PM
^ same to you, pumpkin.
At least when I do it, it tends to stay on the topic and presents an actual case, rather than tangents on other people's behavior and how rude others are and how much you hate drama when in fact you are a viable fountain of it.
TigersMilk
09-23-2007, 07:52 PM
The attacking begins. :banghead:
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 07:52 PM
yes i second that if you do not like me. fine that is your choice. if you do not like what i have to say or questions i may ask ignore them. there is really no real point in starting up the drama again. i relize that some of your are angry allthough im not sure why 4 years later but to each there own. but honestly what is it solving by bringing up things from 4 years ago? what is the point?
i am aware of what happend so why bring it up over and over and over. like i said in the past post 2 months ago i was still a joke of this board and had people stocking me ( serching for my myspace) and the jokeing about it. i mean come on! you do not see me looking for all of yours myspace profiles and having a laugh at them ( im talk about those who are the drama catchers on here) why cause its fucking childish. grow up! this is the internet.
what you say is not going to much to me it only makes me wonder why you feel the need to cause drama over some thing that happend 4 years ago. I know im not the only one who sees this .. but the people who are causeing the drama now are the same ones who started it 4 years ago. and for the comment about i hurt people?
wtf pamela was the only one that called me to make sure i was ok. so honestly i think she was the one who truely REALLY cared about what was going on. ( im sorry if some others of you did as well but she really stuck out for some reason. i think you may have called or emailed to holiday) so if you really cared about me like you claimed you did and how i hurt you. why are you jokieing about me behind my back 4 years later and back then why did you not try to call me or email me if you really honestly cared?
every thing i said back then was the gods honest truth. i had nor have no reason to lie to any to you. this is the internet people. i want to thank pamela and holiday you guys have allways been great to me and have helped me through alot of shit back then and have givin me some great advice you are great girls and i do belive in karma for that reason.
im sure some of you are emailing amoungst your self about this right now and haveing a goog chucle about me and the pics.. ha ha ...grow up. as i stated before im here to learn and for support that is all. so if you are not offering those then why post? its a waist of forum space.
britt244
09-23-2007, 07:54 PM
At least when I do it, it tends to stay on the topic and presents an actual case, rather than tangents on other people's behavior and how rude others are and how much you hate drama when in fact you are a viable fountain of it.
i'm not going off topic ONE BIT. i have every right to post my thoughts about anything on here just as much as anyone else does.
seriously, since everyone likes to talk about ignore ignore ignore.. PUT ME ON IGNORE. this is not the first time you've attacked me and you need to get over yourself. i do not give a crap what you think of me. i do not like you you do not like me. plain and simple.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 07:55 PM
serously im done now i have said what i did not want to say.
http://www.online-thecatsmeow.com/images/Emoticons/popcorneater.gif
Emily
09-23-2007, 07:57 PM
there is really no real point in starting up the drama again.
so why are you here? What exactly do you want to learn? Why didn't you just leave it alone and pretend you were a new user?
cherry_sin
09-23-2007, 08:00 PM
Here's my two cents on the whole thing:
I think that someone who created all that drama, merely to stir up stuff and scam people, to make people feel bad and upset, and basically toy with emotions, has not truly changed when she posts a thread like this.
Allow me to rephrase the first post: OMG! LOOK AT ME!! ME ME ME ME!!! TALK ABOUT ME!!! TELL ME YOU LOVE ME!!! OR ANYTHING! JUST TALK ABOUT ME!
And also, so sorry, but playing around at an amateur night doesn't give you a "right" to be here. You say you want somewhere safe and etc. to talk - why are you on a forum for a profession you aren't even a part of? I understand that we have several folks here, good, honest, folks, who are trying to get into dancing. But it's been THREE YEARS. Come on now - are you really fooling anyone?
I wouldn't even have gotten upset about this except for the fact that you are blaming abuse and bad living situations, and your bullying as a child for your drama. Lots of us have been through a lot worse, myself included, which is why I am so P.O'ed about it. If you are clear headed enough to find causation somewhere else you are clear headed enough to either not succumb to those behaviors or get help. Period.
TigersMilk
09-23-2007, 08:03 PM
This made me laugh.
http://www.motleycrow.com/ImageHost/trainwreck.jpg
cherry_sin
09-23-2007, 08:05 PM
I think we as a whole should vote to move this thread to the one that contains all her other drama.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 08:08 PM
listen i do not want to go into my childhood nor my teenage years that would take me a few hours to type. but i will say this if you had or have gone through some of the things i have you would understand why i am the way i am. i had alot of issues in the past that i delt with and are now burried and done.
I have asked for some help is a few forum threads and i have put some imput into othere .. just like every one else on SW.
If dancing at a specialty night ( not amature i flew 10 hours to rhode isalnd for it) makes me feel like im a dancer to so be it who cares? it made me happy. 3 years yeah i have had alot of trouble with my weight but i have lost 50 pounds in the past year.. pat on the back to me.
and no its not all me me me.. but are not some of the rants on SW and some of the topics on Sw about your self as well we all do it! we are human and we all like attention. as dancers is that not partly what it is about.. the attention?
Holiday- i will deff look into that! im looking to join a local pagan group soon as my squed from the state comes in for OLCC. I meditate daily and have been the most happy i have been in a long time. I had to move away from iowa ( family reasons) and it is the best thing i have ever done! i have wanted to go yoga sense i moved away from cali. i used to take it every wend. and I LOVED IT! its so great and i feel ike gumby after lol. but i will deff look into that. Thank you!
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 08:10 PM
I stand my my comment earlyer. The people starting the crap up again ar the same ones as 4 years ago. Any ways i have better shit to do then argue with a bunch of drama queens. I need to go clean my house and give the mutts a bath.
britt244
09-23-2007, 08:12 PM
I think we as a whole should vote to move this thread to the one that contains all her other drama.
haha, thats a good idea!
I stand my my comment earlyer. The people starting the crap up again ar the same ones as 4 years ago. Any ways i have better shit to do then argue with a bunch of drama queens. I need to go clean my house and give the mutts a bath.
aww, name calling is so sweet and shows how 'changed' you really are.
cherry_sin
09-23-2007, 08:16 PM
It's an amateur night if you haven't done it before. Because you're an amateur. Dictionary, anyone?
And a "specialty" night is a hell of a lot different than, you know, doing it for a living. The difference is, doing it for a living makes you a stripper.
Not brain surgery, but, also not the point.
There's talking about personal problems and then there's stirring up shit. You said yourself you'd seen posts and knew you were still a running joke/source of hurt feelings. You should have known what would come of this. ANYONE would have known what would come of this.
Again, not brain surgery.
Before you go on your poor me rant, I'd like to point you to the "SW'ers who inspire you" thread and look up some of those people. We're talking about people who don't rely on a bad past or mental health issues as a crutch and a ready excuse.
That's the main reason I'm so pissed off, really. You can't apologize unless you accept responsibility.
tattoogoddess
09-23-2007, 08:19 PM
act i have done the "fat girls night" 3 diff times. so you are wrong and i am done.
britt244
09-23-2007, 08:20 PM
act i have done the "fat girls night" 3 diff times. so you are wrong and i am done.
3 times makes you a stripper? i mean youre already proving that you're no different.. accusing people of making fun of your pictures in pms and stuff. if you thought that, why did you post them?
oh, and saying you're done after every post you make doesn't count.
kitty260
09-23-2007, 08:21 PM
Sorry to say, but 'fat girls night' isn't really a "specialty" so much as it's a fetish. You know, parading fat chicks around to be ridiculed and laughed at. That doesn't make you a stripper. So YOU are wrong.
Kaiyla
09-23-2007, 08:23 PM
"If you had or have gone through some of the things i have you would understand why i am the way i am"
^^You are joking, correct?
What a presumptuous thing to say. Again, there are women here who have been through WORSE than you could ever imagine and do you see them lying and scamming others then justifying it with a "I had it rough" excuse?
What a lame excuse for pathetic behavior.
People are pointing things out to you that are seriously, the simplest concepts to understand. Apparently you don't get it. Still.
britt244
09-23-2007, 08:24 PM
Sorry to say, but 'fat girls night' isn't really a "specialty" so much as it's a sideshow. You know, parading fat chicks around to be ridiculed and laughed at. That doesn't make you a stripper. So YOU are wrong.
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