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RoseWhite
10-01-2007, 09:05 PM
That's for the giving end. I kind of feel bad as a receiver making a girl taste herself.


I can't speak for everyone, but I've never had a problem with this.

Mily
10-01-2007, 09:07 PM
I can't speak for everyone, but I've never had a problem with this.



:-X !!!

francescadubois
10-01-2007, 09:09 PM
You know I don't know if I'm alone here but I don't mind stopping intercourse and giving/receiving oral sex then going back to intercourse again.

Ooh!! Yeah!! I can definitely appreciate that!!

(I'm a little too active on this thread...:-\ )

Katrine
10-01-2007, 09:10 PM
You know I don't know if I'm alone here but I don't mind stopping intercourse and giving/receiving oral sex then going back to intercourse again.

8) Definately. I don't believe in foreplay. The sexual experience isn't linear, nor does it matter which order you run the bases.

I_luv_dancers!
10-01-2007, 09:12 PM
I can't post in L.O....maybe after the surgery
Oops - mea culpa - I got so excited about the subject material, and it's such a good thread with great participation, I ASSumed it was started by one of the ladies.

Djoser
10-01-2007, 09:14 PM
Dottie, I don't think she was referring to you. A desire to be clean and fresh for your lover is healthy. Not being able to ever really feel clean and fresh due to societal brainwashing is a problem some women seem to have, though. Which is really sad.

The typical male attitude doesn't help. Invariably referring to it as "Eating Pussy" being perhaps the most benign manifestation. The endless fish jokes are worse. Then there is the rabid fear most men have of even the slightest chance of a little blood. I just don't get that at all.

Then there are the endless television commercials letting women know how much of a problem it is, and how they are going to need a full array of sprays, powders, and other manufactured goods to control it at all times.

francescadubois
10-01-2007, 09:17 PM
^^^^^^^How I've missed you, DJoser.

Sh0t
10-01-2007, 09:23 PM
I don't find too many men are apathetic about eating pussy. Either they do it, love it, and are the best at it in their city; or they hate it and won't ever do it(listen to some rap songs for examples of this).

I'll go down on a girl during her period but most women seem to never be able to relax because of their discomfort at being less than perfectly clean.

Are there any guys here that will confess to NOT being very good at eating pussy? I had a very similar experience to Djoser in that I thought I was great at it, but then I realized every other guy who did it was the best at it, too. I figured that girls must tell every guy that.

Sex is probably the only area of my life where my usual confrontationality and competitiveness is backburnered. I've realized it doesn't help the experience if you come at it from that angle of wanting to be her best lover. Connection is more important. I try to ask every woman what they like and/or ask them to demonstrate. Sadly, many don't seem to know what it is they like and can't explain.

The smell issue is overblown but don't let it be ignored. Some girls are funky down there, which is why most guys do a recon finger mission to assess the situation before diving in.

But if he is willing to go down there, don't ask him repeatedly if you smell ok, as your thighs generally prevent us from hearing anyway.

Katrine
10-01-2007, 09:28 PM
The smell issue is overblown but don't let it be ignored. Some girls are funky down there, which is why most guys do a recon finger mission to assess the situation before diving in.


Not only guys implement this technique Shotsky.

Yekhefah
10-01-2007, 09:29 PM
I can't speak for everyone, but I've never had a problem with this.

Me neither. In fact I love it when I can taste my pussy on a guy's cock (or mouth). Even better if I can taste someone else's pussy on him! }:D

Dottie Rebel
10-01-2007, 09:31 PM
Dottie, I don't think she was referring to you. A desire to be clean and fresh for your lover is healthy. Not being able to ever really feel clean and fresh due to societal brainwashing is a problem some women seem to have, though. Which is really sad.

I, know. And I agree 100% I was just a little defensive, being the first to respond that yes, I'll turn it down if I don't feel clean.

All you other girls is nasty...

Kidding! I'm such a little shit today!

Mily
10-01-2007, 09:32 PM
Me neither. In fact I love it when I can taste my pussy on a guy's cock (or mouth). Even better if I can taste someone else's pussy on him! }:D


Who is the naughtiest SW'er of them all? }:D

Budai
10-01-2007, 09:34 PM
Not only guys implement this technique Shotsky.

'Tis true...
The Delta of Venus is the rightful province of all humanity. ;)


Me neither. In fact I love it when I can taste my pussy on a guy's cock (or mouth). Even better if I can taste someone else's pussy on him! }:D

Awesome! Multi-course kisses... :-*

Yekhefah
10-01-2007, 09:35 PM
Who is the naughtiest SW'er of them all? }:D

Katrine. :D

RoseWhite
10-01-2007, 09:37 PM
Katrine. :D

Yeah. She just gave a KITTEN a LAP DANCE (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=99523)! Sicko.

blondhottie
10-01-2007, 09:39 PM
It doesn't do anything for me. I've never been able to cum from oral sex. I'd rather just get to the fuckin'. ;D

Katrine
10-01-2007, 09:42 PM
Yeah. She just gave a KITTEN a LAP DANCE (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=99523)! Sicko.

Oh god, for shame.

BalletBaby
10-01-2007, 09:54 PM
I only read the title. No, eating pussy is not overrated.

Jay Zeno
10-01-2007, 10:12 PM
For some people, it's a challenge to rub their stomach and pat their head at the same time. For the vast majority of people, it's a huge challenge to rub their head and pat their stomach at the same time. Try it. But with practice, you can do it.

When you've got your nose at the Jade Gate, there are lots of little spots and strips and rises and valleys of opportunities there, and you've got two free hands to find other spots and strips and rises and valleys, and you can multitask. With practice, you can do it.

It's a matter of patience, of paying attention to the reactions and following up (or not) on them. It's not doing what you think will work. It's doing what actually does work. Just pay close attention. There's all kinds of green lights and red lights, if you just pay attention.

And yeah, on the receiving end, there is such a thing as a bad blowjob, and when it's happening, it's sometimes better to say, "Thanks, baby," and move on to Phase Next. Or to borrow a line from "The Stand": There are worse things than crucifixion. There are teeth.

Flick6
10-01-2007, 10:20 PM
I am 28 and I am only just learning to appreciate receiving head (always loved giving it). I think mainly it's because I am too shy (ha! the only time in my life I am!) to tell the guy exactly what I want. Which seems to be a common thing - lapping and fingers in the right place.
I'm not into it when a guy spends ages "fucking" my pussy with his tongue, I mean compared to his cock how am I even meant to notice it? And when they get rough with my clit I just start bucking about trying to get free, which unfortunately often leads men to think I am having a great time, at which point I usually resort to dragging them outta there by their hair and begging them to fuck me (anything to save my poor clit from being sucked on!)
Now I am getting better at being bossy about what I want, which seems to be kinda a turn on for my partner, being bossed about that is.

jaizaine
10-01-2007, 10:20 PM
I like being with a man who is talented at oral sex as well as penetrative sex.
I gave up sleeping with men who are only out the pleasure themselves using my body many years ago.

I agree with the others about the head shake thing being ridiculous. The problem is those guys have not been with a woman who has the confidence to say "babe that does not feel good, try this". I am that confident and I let my partner know my likes and dislikes.

I also like a good fingering at times. There is a great way some guys do it where they put their middle finger in and jiggle it around really fast inside there, it makes me feel like I have butterflies flying around in my uterus ;D

Sh0t
10-01-2007, 10:30 PM
And when they get rough with my clit I just start bucking about trying to get free, which unfortunately often leads men to think I am having a great time, at which point I usually resort to dragging them outta there by their hair and begging them to fuck me (anything to save my poor clit from being sucked on!)

Ut oh. I think you just instilled a bunch of doubt in our male audience here,

How come every time women try to prod men into stopping something, they make it seem like it's because we're so hot rather than because we are fucking up.

I'm replaying so many things in my mind now wondering if that was what was going on.

I suppose we should thank you for not bruising our ego during the act, but it does give us the wrong feedback.

I did learn a long time ago that "tongue fucking" the actual vagina cavity is a no-no for 99% of women. It doesn't taste great either. Oddly enough rimming a chick tastes better than tongue fucking her vagina.

The usual technique for me is to try and digitally stimulate the g-spot with 2 fingers and then figuring out what kind of pressure is required on the clit with tongue. One major problem with this is that your body tends to be linked. You usually need quite firm pressure inside with the fingers BUT that tends to make you lick more forcefully which is usually not exactly what is required there. So it's a fine balancing act that is pretty difficult at times.

Has anybody had experience with using a toy + cunnilingus? but in this case, I mean a toy for penetration, not just a vibe on the outside.

All Good Things
10-01-2007, 10:42 PM
Great thread. Not quite as great as Sh0t's "Strippers or Waffles?" thread on blue, but great nonetheless.

I promise to keep my comments relatively brief and not bore everybody to death. I post about this all the time, usually in extended, graphic, explicit detail.

The reactions to those posts would suggest that most women adore cunnilingus if it's performed by somebody with serious technique and absolute dedication combined with an honest and insatiable infatuation with making that specific woman go absolutely, uncontrollably and irreversibly insane.

I've also been in the fortunate position of having my practices reviewed on this very forum, much like a food critic might do, by the incomparably wonderful Nicolina. If you've not seen them, I won't re-post them here, because she is a much better writer than I am, and can single-handedly cause all the vibrators across the country to switch on simultaneously.

Porn, of course, is the universal killer, the insecticide, the trigger responsible for the traumatic death of proper cunnilingual technique. You would be better off watching a dog licking his balls than rely on porn as a guide. In fact, the dog is probably a better guide because at least he's doing it with loving care and damn serious dedication.

Kerner's book is a step in the right direction, with a playful take on the subject. His most clever move is to open the book with a quote from Clark Gable in Gone with the Wind, in an era where the real intent of dialog was hidden below the line the censors would allow. In speaking to Scarlett he says, "You should be kissed, and often, and by somebody who knows how."

Kerner has some great observations, one of which is how important it is to know every single thing possible about a woman's body. He emphasizes patience over performance and wisely notes that time really should simply disappear if you expect to ever master a technique.

Yet he misses the mark in several ways. He's too fussy about those stupid A-B-C pattern licking rules, which are moronic and inane (don't ever try them on a woman unless you want her to burst out laughing at you). He doesn't devote nearly enough time to the nastier, physically intense side, such as multiple penetration, consistent force, bodily restraint or mind-fucking. He's far too nice and polite, which is toxic to the dominant physical intensity of overwhelming a woman's body and invading her mind.

His greatest sin, however, is his failure to explain exactly how to read a woman's verbal, guttural and bodily responses and to adjust accordingly. He describes them in great detail, but doesn't walk you through the adjustments. Granted, this is probably impossible to teach in book form, and nobody ever gets it right, even in those HBO specials that purport to explain cunnilingus and other sexual acts. I have shoes scattered all over my living room from having hurled them at the TV screen because of some jaw-droppingly stupid, inane direction offered by the "instructor," who honestly couldn't locate the clit with a map and a magnifying glass and thinks the "G Spot" is a new outdoor cafe.

Lysondra
10-01-2007, 10:44 PM
I used to HATEHATEHATE being eaten out. HATED it. And then I actually realized why - men SUCK at it. Terrible. Shitty. I found a man (Lover) that was so insanely good at it I realized what I was missing. Sadly, it's been where now I don't want it at all if you're not going to be decent.

S far the only decent men I've had at it are over 30 and don't fucking brag about their skills.

If they brag about it, they suck at it. End of story.

ExoticEngineer
10-01-2007, 10:52 PM
K, first of all, TOTH, Yek and Mily.... I WILL have drunken lesbo dreams of you three tonight..yup, for sure!

I love oral, giving, recieving, either, both at the same time. For me it is a playful sexual experience and can quickly turn into a steamy one! If someone isn't hitting all my spots the way the want to be hit at the time, I try a little not so subtle coaxing, and if that doesn't work, I enjoy it for what it is and move on to bigger (hopefully) and better (really hopefully!)

But if I run into someone who is just doing it for the sake of doing it, you know "Well, let's see, first I lick you, then you blow me, then I get to f*ck you." That'll turn me off faster than a fart in the shower. Be into it, or don't do it.

How did my hubby get me to stay with him? Our first date, heavy making out, clothes on (I was trying not to be too much of a tramp) and he whispers in my ear "I am dying to taste you, do you mind?" SOLD!

Sh0t
10-01-2007, 10:53 PM
Every woman sounds pretty different to me. Some get louder when more excited, some get breathless and speechless. I don't think there is a roadmap to follow in general.

You just have to have sex with the same woman a few times(WTF) and learn what she likes.

I could be mistaken but I've found this to be the case. For myself, sometimes when I'm reaching a certain point, I sometimes get very verbal, sometimes I giggle as if I'm being tickled, sometimes I get quiet.

You are probably the world's best authority on getting Ms. Nicolina off, but how about the rest of the women out there? As Susan and Paige have so expectedly said, it's not a one-size-clits-all thing.

The alphabet trick is probably the first sexual "gimmick" guys hear about. The first time I tried it on a girl, back in HS, she said immediately "get to p! p is my favorite!" which announced pretty obviously she had encountered it before.

Susan Wayward
10-01-2007, 11:02 PM
I am not unenlightened or unliberated. FDS spray has never touched my lips. I read Spread, not Cosmo. I just prefer both partners to be nice and clean for any mouth to south action.

I appreciate where you're going with this, but I resent the implication that my preferences are dictated by what popular culture expects of me.

Dottie, I wrote my first post before yours had been posted, so please don't take what I wrote as a personal attack. Also please note my subsequent post. In no way was I trying to implicate anything about your pussyeating preferences. There is no doubt in my mind that your concerns are benign ones about hygiene and enjoyment and not some unhealthy concern about the innate dirtyness of girly parts.

But I also know you won't argue the point that there are men and women out there who think their sexuality should reflect pop culture, hence all of the bitching about ignorant tools who think good fucking is porn fucking.

Dottie Rebel
10-01-2007, 11:03 PM
^^^Haha. Nah, we're on the same team. I just had my panties in a wad for some reason. That's been happening to me a lot lately. I need to get laid, is what it is.

LAChloe
10-01-2007, 11:04 PM
Honestly. I have obviously been drinking on a xanax to admit this on here, but the only time I ever came from oral sex was from another woman going down on me. This is also the only time I have "squirted", too. I would pay big money to fuck that girl again. It was amazing...I still masterbate to it. God, I love SW. I can't believe I am admitting this online!!!

Susan Wayward
10-01-2007, 11:12 PM
^^^Haha. Nah, we're on the same team. I just had my panties in a wad for some reason. That's been happening to me a lot lately. I need to get laid, is what it is.

Oh, yeah? Oh, baby, I would be so good to you . . .

ATTN: ALL OF THE FOLLOWING ARE ACTUAL LINES I HAVE HEARD FROM CUSTOMERS CONCERNING THEIR TALENT AT CUNNILINGUS.

I loove to eat pussy, did I tell you I am so good at it? I know some guys won't do it but I love hair pie. I just want to please a woman. There's nothing better than making a woman come. It's not about me, it's about getting her off. I would eat you so good you couldn't walk. I'll pay you $500 to just let me eat your pussy.

And, of course:
http://www.rivercitykitty.com/images/benson.jpg

All Good Things
10-01-2007, 11:12 PM
Every woman sounds pretty different to me. Some get louder when more excited, some get breathless and speechless. I don't think there is a roadmap to follow in general.

There is no roadmap, as every woman is indeed different, but there are unmistakable physical responses that are easy to miss, harder to interpret and even more challenging to manipulate.


You are probably the world's best authority on getting Ms. Nicolina off, but how about the rest of the women out there? As Susan and Paige have so expectedly said, it's not a one-size-clits-all thing.

Well, I didn't exactly pop out of Zeus' forehead fully-formed. These are practices learned initially with older women with a thing for hardbody boys, and later developed in intimate concert with many different women of varying tastes and preferences over the years.

My intent is never to simply "satisfy" Nicolina; it's to take her in directions she's never seen before; make her experience orgasmic depths she's never felt before; to make her body do things she didn't even think were ever possible for her (I'm borrowing a bit from what she's posted here herself).

francescadubois
10-01-2007, 11:14 PM
S far the only decent men I've had at it are over 30 and don't fucking brag about their skills.


This is true for me. I have given up on men under 35 (I'm 24) and the guy who is the best at it (that I'm seeing now) is in his late 40s. I would feel like a perv for getting so much pleasure from being with a man twice my age, but the funny thing about a man who is a master at cunnilingus is that he can really fuck up your ability to think straight. :D

Lysondra
10-01-2007, 11:16 PM
K, first of all, TOTH, Yek and Mily.... I WILL have drunken lesbo dreams of you three tonight..yup, for sure!

I love oral, giving, recieving, either, both at the same time. For me it is a playful sexual experience and can quickly turn into a steamy one! If someone isn't hitting all my spots the way the want to be hit at the time, I try a little not so subtle coaxing, and if that doesn't work, I enjoy it for what it is and move on to bigger (hopefully) and better (really hopefully!)

But if I run into someone who is just doing it for the sake of doing it, you know "Well, let's see, first I lick you, then you blow me, then I get to f*ck you." That'll turn me off faster than a fart in the shower. Be into it, or don't do it.

How did my hubby get me to stay with him? Our first date, heavy making out, clothes on (I was trying not to be too much of a tramp) and he whispers in my ear "I am dying to taste you, do you mind?" SOLD!

WINNER!

Lysondra
10-01-2007, 11:18 PM
This is true for me. I have given up on men under 35 (I'm 24) and the guy who is the best at it (that I'm seeing now) is in his late 40s. I would feel like a perv for getting so much pleasure from being with a man twice my age, but the funny thing about a man who is a master at cunnilingus is that he can really fuck up your ability to think straight. :D

Yeah. I'm really into the older men now just because that one guy totally did it for me. Oh my GOD. Was he ever good. He was, of course, 38. Tall and hot as well. And never once did he ever say 'Oh by the way, I give oral like a god'.

Don't brag and be older. WINNER.

All Good Things
10-01-2007, 11:22 PM
I know some guys won't do it but I love hair pie.

Oh God, Susan, please tell me he didn't actually say, "hair pie." :O

And then there is the old favorite from guys so old, feeble and disgusting that you don't even want to be in the same room with them: "I can't cut the mustard anymore, but I can still lick the jar."

francescadubois
10-01-2007, 11:29 PM
"I can't cut the mustard anymore, but I can still lick the jar."

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Susan Wayward
10-01-2007, 11:31 PM
Of course someone actually said that. Though "silly shit guys say about oral sex" should probably be its own thread as this one was started with a somewhat higher purpose.

francescadubois
10-01-2007, 11:31 PM
Yeah. I'm really into the older men now just because that one guy totally did it for me. Oh my GOD. Was he ever good. He was, of course, 38. Tall and hot as well. And never once did he ever say 'Oh by the way, I give oral like a god'.

Don't brag and be older. WINNER.

My guy never said a THING about it. Matter of fact, he never said anything sexual at all. He just did it. And he did it like his life depended on it. ;D

God, I'm twisted.

Helle
10-02-2007, 12:03 AM
I got lucky. My man had never gone down on a girl before so I have been able to train and mold him into my perfect little cunnilingual tool. He's trained to my specifications so well, he'd probably be useless to other women's vaginas now.

Lysondra
10-02-2007, 01:13 AM
My guy never said a THING about it. Matter of fact, he never said anything sexual at all. He just did it. And he did it like his life depended on it. ;D

God, I'm twisted.

There's a keeper. <3

Zoe_en_Australie
10-02-2007, 07:12 AM
Gosh, this is a GREAT thread to come back to!

I cant believe it - so many responses in one day, hehe. Well, come to think of it, yes I can!!

Ah, SW I missed you :D

Yekhefah
10-02-2007, 07:22 AM
I loove to eat pussy, did I tell you I am so good at it? I know some guys won't do it but I love hair pie. I just want to please a woman. There's nothing better than making a woman come. It's not about me, it's about getting her off. I would eat you so good you couldn't walk. I'll pay you $500 to just let me eat your pussy.

I hear this exact same thing at least five times a night.

It never ceases to amaze me how many of our customers just LOVE "eating pussy" and really are the best in the world at it. It's like every single one of them! ::)

francescadubois
10-02-2007, 07:36 AM
^^^The best part is that they think they're SOOOO original. That they are special because other men don't even do it. They are the only ones. And you are so lucky that they like you. They are really gonna put a hurtin' on ya. :rotfl:

Yekhefah
10-02-2007, 07:46 AM
It's even better when they also remind us, "I'm not like all the guys you get in here. You probably think I'm just another asshole but I'm not, I really like you as a person."

(And five other guys said the exact same thing in the last 20 minutes... yeah babe, you're one of a kind!)

RoseWhite
10-02-2007, 07:49 AM
The alphabet trick is probably the first sexual "gimmick" guys hear about. The first time I tried it on a girl, back in HS, she said immediately "get to p! p is my favorite!" which announced pretty obviously she had encountered it before.

That's exactly what it is, a high school gimmick. If the guys reading this can learn only ONE THING from this thread, technique-wise, please, let it be the permanent burial of this ridiculous idea. GOD, what a stupid suggestion. It obviously came from some guy who hated it and was trying to find a way to kill time & get through the ordeal. Do you think you'd get off from someone tracing the alphabet on your shaft???

RoseWhite
10-02-2007, 07:55 AM
^^^The best part is that they think they're SOOOO original. That they are special because other men don't even do it. They are the only ones.

The thing about that is (and yep, it was a rare night indeed when I didn't hear this at LEAST once) it always struck me as slightly sexist, in a weird way. Like, the presumption was that cunnilingus is actually gross, and most men don't like it for that reason, so they really just be unusual to DO it at ALL, let alone ENJOY it! ::)

What do they want, a medal?

francescadubois
10-02-2007, 07:58 AM
^^^^EXACTLY Rose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LatinaRose
10-02-2007, 08:02 AM
Wow, long thread and it got that way quick!! After reading all this, I just have to say I'm so thankful to have a guy that knows what the fuck he's doing when it comes to oral. No, it's not overrated, not in my opinion.

ExoticEngineer
10-02-2007, 08:03 AM
I wonder if that same bs would work turned around on them?

"You know, I'm different from these other girls, I actually LIKE giving you a lap dance, and I'm really good at it too! I'm telling you, you'de loooove the way I dance for you! I could do it for hours! And there's nothing better than giving a guy a good dance, you wouldn't even be able to walk afterwards!"

Gosh, that sounds sort of pathetic huh? ::)

RoseWhite
10-02-2007, 08:08 AM
^^ Added to the SS Hall of Fame! That's BRILLIANT!