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Jenny
10-03-2007, 09:23 PM
The cervix? Are you sure?
The cervix is way far out of my reach. I mean, I am stubby. But I do think it's mean that she laughs when I hum "Somewhere, over the rainbow".
FBR
Yekhefah
10-03-2007, 09:35 PM
Yeah, I think that reference to the "cervix" should have referred to the G-spot instead. I know I damn well DO NOT want my cervix involved in my sex life in any way.
Budai
10-03-2007, 09:36 PM
The cervix? Are you sure?
"James Bond, 0069, at your cervix." 8)
francescadubois
10-03-2007, 11:01 PM
Okay, for the guys who have had squirters, I have a few questions:
1. Has the squirter ever sat on your face and proceeded to cum on your face?
2. Does the squirter release a LOT of liquid or just a modest amount?
3. If the squirter did release a LOT of fluid while sitting on your face, how are you still alive?
I need the answer to this because I want to try it, but do not want to go to jail. LOL.
Budai
10-03-2007, 11:09 PM
I need the answer to this because I want to try it, but do not want to go to jail. LOL.
:spit: :umbrella: :rotfl:
francescadubois
10-03-2007, 11:45 PM
:rotfl: at the umbrella. I should punch you. :rotfl:
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 12:00 AM
LOL!!! You're terrible!!
(I seriously hope someone answers me, though, and tells me what I want to hear.)
Budai
10-04-2007, 12:11 AM
LOL!!! You're terrible!!
(I seriously hope someone answers me, though, and tells me what I want to hear.)
OK, Francesca D...
I've deleted my prior corny response and I'm attaching some hard data:
Cytherea Wins Squirting Challenge - Flower Soaked Wall, Cytherea Washed Car
SAN FERNANDO VALLEY, CA) -- Adult star, Flower, was on KSEX a few weeks back and I was amazed by her ability to "squirt" while getting off--no doubt about it, she could drown a boyfriend...
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 12:18 AM
:-\
OK, Francesca D...
I've deleted my prior corny response and I'm attaching some hard data:
Cytherea Wins Squirting Challenge - Flower Soaked Wall, Cytherea Washed Car
SAN FERNANDO VALLEY, CA) -- Adult star, Flower, was on KSEX a few weeks back and I was amazed by her ability to "squirt" while getting off--no doubt about it, she could drown a boyfriend...
http://www.ainews.com/Archives/Story5139.phtml (http://www.ainews.com/Archives/Story5139.phtml)
Holy fuck Cytherea has me beat. I could probably only wash half a car. :-\
Glad to know there's someone out there worse than me though! :)
Budai
10-04-2007, 12:36 AM
:-\
Holy fuck Cytherea has me beat. I could probably only wash half a car.
:raincloud Maybe, maybe not...:raincloud
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 12:43 AM
:rotfl: Wow, you're pullin' out some real special smileys on me. :rotfl:
Budai
10-04-2007, 12:58 AM
:help2:
:rotfl: Wow, you're pullin' out some real special smileys on me. :rotfl:
:help2: I'm running out of options :help2:
All Good Things
10-04-2007, 01:19 AM
Okay, for the guys who have had squirters, I have a few questions:
1. Has the squirter ever sat on your face and proceeded to cum on your face?
Yes. All over it. Insanely great when you can get the right forward-backward rhythm, a sliding of the clit fast and furiously over the tongue, almost a classical bucking motion. If you can build on that, it works, but you need to be strong enough in your upper body to physically lift her entire body off of you and slowly lower her down onto your tongue and then drive her whole body back and forth over your tongue by wrapping one arm around her waist and supporting her weight slightly with your knees, then using two fingers from your free hand, twisted firmly and pushing curved forward, full and hard and downward, with increasingly faster motion, coming in from behind, thrusting both fingers into her as you roll her full body back and forth over your tongue, clit to tongue, faster and with increasing downward pressure, pulling her firmly against your mouth in a strong, hard rocking motion while finger-fucking her with both fingers from behind with increasing depth and intensity, with eyes closed to feel her contractions more easily and listen more readily to her vocal response. Hair-pulling optional, but, well, really strongly recommended.
Squirting is much more easily achieved by you controlling her body, on top or from behind, though, because it gives you the advantage of force, time and pressure. Squirting is a special peaking experience -- it takes TIME -- and it requires her to be physically overwhelmed and often constrained. It also frees up your mouth for some time to whisper increasingly nasty shit into her ear as you rock her body back and forth under your mouth. In this position, you can use all of your physical strength to be focused on confining her body below you, with a combination of your tongue, fingers, arms and body pressing hard on her, with her unable to anticipate any release or relief or anything other than the constant rocking pressure of your arms wrapped firmly around her waist and your tongue pressing hard and rolling up against her clit while you rock her body back and forth under your mouth, licking her with long, firm, downward strokes against the hood and down over the exposed part of the clit itself, physically allowing her no ability to move, escape or wriggle free, but only to roll her head back and surrender to the physical force you have enveloped her in.
2. Does the squirter release a LOT of liquid or just a modest amount?
Totally dependent on the girl. I've had my face, hands and entire arm completely flushed away by some girls, while others are much more vocal and less inclined to release a significant volume of fluid.
3. If the squirter did release a LOT of fluid while sitting on your face, how are you still alive?
If you die in the act, it is the most honorable death possible. :)
All Good Things
10-04-2007, 01:33 AM
After using one of the moves - which has two fingers to stimulate the cervix to a powerful vaginal orgasm - she told me that afterwards I was, 'a real crowd pleaser'. An unusual compliment, but she is an Aussie. Stuart take a bow.
Not so fast.
OK, I will be nice.
The only way you could reach her cervix easily with your fingers is if you were a pro basketball player and she were standing on her head. Second, it is sensitive, and banging away at it hurts. Third, I'm sure you know that what you really meant to say was her g-spot, not her cervix, but that requires your fingers to be pointed in another direction (psst: inverted in a V-shape and back toward you, not down, hard and as far in as you could possibly push).
But I'm sure you knew all this already.:)
Budai
10-04-2007, 01:41 AM
The only way you could reach her cervix easily with your fingers is if you were a pro basketball player and she were standing on her head
Either a pro basketball player or Mr. Fantastic (a.k.a. Reed Richards) of the Fantastic Four... ;)
StuartL
10-04-2007, 02:43 AM
Nope. I meant to say cervix. I'm no basketball player, but I am 6 foot 3 and not small in the hands department, so that probably makes it easier.
It is through stimulation of the g-spot that it is possible to apparently make most women squirt. But as I said, I haven't tried that one yet. Time will tell. Just lacking a current girlfriend to practice with.
And why do people keep commenting things about 'banging away'. You make it sound like my fingers are similar to a sledgehammer and I just hit her!! These are meant to be caring, loving, sensual things - not war!
What can I say, but I'm pleased to be one up on the all the experts here, no matter how accidentally it may have happened.
As for the what is it like to be squirted on question, I pray that I will one day find out. I agree with The Other Owner though - if you did die, you would become an instant legend and the world would know for sure, that you died doing something you loved and probably with a smile too.
Best,
Stuart
Jenny
10-04-2007, 06:27 AM
Not so fast.
OK, I will be nice.
The only way you could reach her cervix easily with your fingers is if you were a pro basketball player and she were standing on her head. Well not so much. I can reach my own cervix (maybe I need to lose some weight in the cervix?) It's just that... it is not in the slightest bit sexual. Like you might as well be stimulating her nose. I mean there aren't any nerve endings to speak on on the cervix. So there are eleventy-million women here - does ANYONE like their cervix "stimulated"? Like if there is another kind of orgasm to had, I'm interested... but I'm pretty skeptical at this point.
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 07:25 AM
:help2:
:help2: I'm running out of options :help2:
:rotfl: I hate you so much. :rotfl:
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 07:26 AM
Thanks, TOO!!
Jay Zeno
10-04-2007, 07:48 AM
I've reached cervix before, and I'm average height and hand dimensions. And I'm not a gynecologist. No, I didn't imagine it to be terribly sexual to be there, except from the spelunking thrill of it all.
While the g-spot is a good target of opportunity, it does play hide-and-seek sometimes. The angle and pressure and movements that draw a rebel yell one night can yield a yawn the next night. The best spots can migrate from session to session. Patience.
And in terms of squirting, I've been on the beach before when high tide comes crashing in. You move, you adjust her, you swallow, you do what it takes. If he can't do the subtle, or not-so-subtle, things that he needs to do, then you'll both have a funny story to tell after the CPR.
Yekhefah
10-04-2007, 07:51 AM
^^^ Ahahahaha, you said rebel yell!! ;D
http://msnbcmedia3.msn.com/j/msnbc/Sections/Newsweek/Components/Photos/050315_050321/050317_ArtsBillyIdol_vl.widec.jpg
ExoticEngineer
10-04-2007, 07:52 AM
Touch my cervix and an instant knee jerking reaction accours and you will either get a bloody nose or a lump on the head.
The cervix is a big no no!
And Jenny, you're not alone. I can easily feel my cervix. I can investigate all around it even. But that may just be how somone of us are put together. Either way, don't touch it!
Jay Zeno
10-04-2007, 07:53 AM
^^^ Ahahahaha, you said rebel yell!! ;D
More, more, more!!
ExoticEngineer
10-04-2007, 07:55 AM
Oh yah! I forgot to add about the squirting!
I've been on the bottom before when a girl squirted. Easy, don't inhale and keep on licking or doing whatever it is t hat's making her so happy!
Did I mention don't inhale? :gasp:
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 08:06 AM
^^Okay, so tell him not to inhale? How long can you do that?
Jay Zeno
10-04-2007, 08:07 AM
If he doesn't know not to inhale underwater, well, don't take him on a swimming date.
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 08:17 AM
If he doesn't know not to inhale underwater, well, don't take him on a swimming date.
LOL! JZ, you so crazy. :D
cinammonkisses
10-04-2007, 08:20 AM
1. No. I ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS without fail want cunnilingus. I don't care if you're a one night stand or my man for life, if you ain't lickin' it, you ain't hittin' it. Period. dot. period.
I know that's right :highfive:
francescadubois
10-04-2007, 08:37 AM
^^^^^Hey CK!! I thought you were supposed to call me yesterday! >-:(
Budai
10-04-2007, 05:49 PM
Oh yah! I forgot to add about the squirting!
I've been on the bottom before when a girl squirted. Easy, don't inhale and keep on licking or doing whatever it is t hat's making her so happy!
Did I mention don't inhale? :gasp:
:worship: Whoa! You're like "Aquanautica, The First Lady Of Cunnilingus". :hat:
Do you have an underwater camera? :camera:
Mastridonicus
10-04-2007, 06:23 PM
Why Mast, this is very good to know....but now, how would YOU like a WOMAN to instruct you on the act at hand? Actually, I know any answer from you is going to be a good one, you seem to have a very clear sense of how two people should communicate if they are having sex. That's fantastic. (and sexy:flirt:)
Start by acknowledging I could be doing it better, in your head, than do whatever the situation calls for to correct me in a progression of seriousness that doesn't break the mood understanding that I don't care if you're directing so long as you enjoy the fruits of your direction. Bribe me with cheese.
ExoticEngineer
10-04-2007, 07:18 PM
Gouda or Muenster? }:D
naughty_princess
10-04-2007, 09:29 PM
Oh, exactly, ugggh the worst is when they do that really fast head shaking thing, like they're a dog who just caught a duck and are trying to shake it to death...(heard that description used before and thought it was fitting)...that seriously is the biggest turn-off ever. Don't do that. It's just dumb.
LOL. i didn't know others had suffered from this too
Bridgette
10-04-2007, 09:53 PM
I personally didn't like receiving oral sex...because most guys are horrible at it. A man who is good at it is welcome to it, but in my experience most are nowhere near as skilled as they think they are.
Both women I was with were also not very good at it, as they were both inexperienced. I'm not so sure I was any better at giving it to them, tbh.:-[
I love it when it's good. Too often it wasn't.
Married now. It's good.
Oh yeah ETA, I always did try to tell my partners how I liked it, but they just didn't seem to GET IT. I think cunnilingus is a skill mastered by few.I totally agree with this. So few people are any good at it - I'd rather not have it at all than lie through bad oral. Most people do it way too fast for some reason, causing overstimulation which is just irritating. Some are too rough and it hurts. And most just never quite get it even with very specific direction.
However, if it's good it doesn't take much to get me riled up, and I usually want to get fucked before I cum because I can't cum again and am basically useless after orgasm. I'd rather orgasm with penetration anyway, most of the time.
There's much more to foreplay than cunnilingus though. I don't need or even want that every time - let's mix it up please!!
I've been away from the boards for a little while, what a GREAT thread to come back too...lol!!!
As for me, I can take it or leave it. I've had many men *try*, but the majority just suck at it and havent a clue what they are doing. Out of all my experiences in my lifetime (and yeah I'm 38 so I've more than a few...lol), only 3 men I've been with totally knew what they were doing. They have mastered the art. And YES it is an art form. Others, well, some were okay, but nothing mind blowing. A few others just annoyed the hell out of me. And guys that overstimulate... just fucking QUIT!! Oh that is so annoying!!! Take your time, lick it, taste, kiss it, SAVOR it! I will admit this, if a guy isnt good at it, he will only be there once and once only, life is too short for someone who doesnt know what in the hell he's doing!!
And now for a slightly off topic rant... since it was brought up about cunnilingus in porn.... when it comes to women going down on men... and the trend I see in all of them anymore.... WHO IN THE HELL SAID SPITTING ON SOME GUYS DICK WHILE GIVING HIM HEAD WAS SEXY????? WTF??? Ewwwwwwwwwwwww. So not sexy!
Nicolina
10-04-2007, 10:25 PM
Wow. Where to begin?
Good thread, Sh0t. I was hoping it would still be active so I could add...
However, I have noticed that in many cases, this emphasis might be misplaced because it seems most women are about 50/50 when it comes to cunnilingus. Some will take it every time, but I notice that many seem eager to get to the penetrative portion of sex. I have at times wondered if it was my technique or whatever, but the fans of cunnilingus seem to approve, but even they sometimes get impatient even before and orgasm and want intercourse.
On this site, outside of the lesbian overtunes, it seems that penetrative sex is emphasized and barely any females here mention pussy eating. Fellatio is mentioned often as many discuss how much they enjoy giving it and the joy of swallowing, etc…
Even though it’s among the most reliable ways to get me off, I have sometimes thought it was overrated, mostly for the reasons aforementioned:
1) Many men display an alarming lack of talent in this department.
2) I got kind of turned off to it at one point because of the creepy way certain SC customers would wax repugnant about their singular snatch-eating skills (two can play at that alliteration thing, ToTH ;)), apparently convinced that I had never encountered this deviant practice before, and would undoubtedly follow them home for a demonstration, regardless of how physically repulsive they might be. ::)
3) I am pretty submissive, and cocksucking seems like the more subservient act, especially coupled with the abject acceptance of bodily fluids.
Being the receiver is only submissive if, within the play, you have no choice in the matter, right? To this end, restraints are good.
That said, I still love fucking and I love sucking dick, but, having encountered the astounding phenomenon that is my current lover, I would never, ever again say that cunnilingus is overrated.
For pure, unfettered, mind-warping pleasure: A diabolically talented man, a twisted roleplay scenario, and an extended session of tongue and fingers doing all kinds of wicked things to your nether parts is absolutely un-fucking-beatable.
(I’m not done yet, this thread is too fun…)
Nicolina
10-04-2007, 11:32 PM
For myself, when I'm reaching a certain point…. sometimes I giggle as if I'm being tickled….
OMG, that is way too cute.
When it’s really amazing, I laugh after I come.
You are probably the world's best authority on getting Ms. Nicolina off, but how about the rest of the women out there?....it’s not a one-size-clits-all thing.
(Sorry, I couldn’t let this one go…)
Of course it’s not one-size-fits-all. He had to learn me. But from the ease and speed with which he learned me, it was evident that he’s just really fucking good at learning women’s bodies…and hijacking the filthiest parts of our minds. }:D
I haven’t read that She Comes First book, but now I feel like I have to. I’m betting I would agree with TOO’s assessment that there is not enough emphasis on subtle games of power or the beauty of a savage mindfuck.
My intent is never to simply "satisfy" Nicolina; it's to take her in directions she's never seen before; make her experience orgasmic depths she's never felt before; to make her body do things she didn't even think were ever possible for her.
That you do, my love. It’s pretty fucking astounding.
Not to mention devastatingly addictive.
(Still not done with this thread yet. Didn’t you guys miss me and my unparalleled pithiness? ::))
Nicolina
10-05-2007, 01:21 AM
Okay. One more before I’m done for the evening.
Sh0t, your cliffs notes are good, but based on these posts:
Please, please do NOT stick your tongue out as far as you can, make it hard and pointy, and then waggle it on the very tip of my clit as fast as you can!
2 fingers on the g-spot and 10+ minutes of gentle, steady licking is what makes it awesome.
Big soft licks from stem to stern with a wide flat tongue stimulate all the nerves in her genital area. Go deliciously slow to make her feel like a yummy dessert being savored, or speed it up a bit and focus more on the clitoris to push her towards orgasm.
Most people do it way too fast for some reason, causing overstimulation which is just irritating. Some are too rough and it hurts.
I'd like to submit the following:
*SOFT TONGUE, boys!
Hard & pointy tongue = bad.
Soft tongue and gentle, slow, steady licking = good.*
I’m glad to know I’m not alone in this.
No matter how much she may “like it rough”, there’s a time and a place, and this is not it.
I’m not so good at giving instructions to guys during the act, but the one thing I will not hesitate to say is, “Do it with a soft tongue, baby.”
If it ain't broke, don't fix it...Most women orgasm in response to rhythmic stimulation, so if you're in a groove that is building her up, don't suddenly change what you're doing. Finding the balance between variety and consistency is the art to being an oral sex expert.
Just quoting this for truth.
Eating pussy is not overrated, but it must be done correctly or women will bypass it
The phrase "Eating pussy" is not as sexy as men might think and that a better term is prefered
Less talking about, more doing
Porn is a bad place to learn how to perform cunnilingus
most that responded like cunnilingus coupled with digital stimulation
every guy think he's a champ at cunny but if you think so, you probably are not
Soft and rhythmic is the ideal.
SportsWriter2
10-05-2007, 07:26 AM
a former slut (the best lovers in my experience--they appreciate you but want to stick around too)
Ultimate Truth in the middle of a user manual. :)
I've seen no correlation with sluttiness(a word I hate to use) and sexual prowess. In many case I've seen girls that did the wrong things, but a lot of times. Most guys are desperate, so they don't bother correcting them, they just want the drawers.
However I have seen this:
10s are bad in bed. 9s are better in bed consistently. 8s and below have the expected bell curve among the population.
Rap music seems to be the worst music to eat pussy to. So far trip-hop seems to be the best mood setting music for both participants. I recommend Esthero.
francescadubois
10-05-2007, 08:05 AM
Rap music seems to be the worst music to eat pussy to. So far trip-hop seems to be the best mood setting music for both participants. I recommend Esthero.
Rap muic= wetness instantly evaporated. If you turn 50 cent to set the mood, I will have to ask you to leave the premises immediately. >:(
Then again, I fucking hate almost all rap music...
Katrine
10-05-2007, 08:09 AM
I'm still curious to know how the cervix can be stimulated into orgasm. I've played with other girls' cervixes, but that's because I was exploring in there and flicked it by accident.
RoseWhite
10-05-2007, 08:12 AM
^^ I think the consensus is that he misspoke and meant to say g-spot, whether he knew the difference or not. It seems clear that's what he was referring to.
10s are bad in bed. 9s are better in bed consistently. 8s and below have the expected bell curve among the population.
I've always found that the hotter the person, the crappier the sex. Very attractive people often think they just need to show up. Moderately attractive people try harder to read the you and show more of a desire to learn. Ugly-ass people might be willing to try anything to make you happy, but they have no technique, which is due to lack of pervious partners, which is due to their fuglyness.
RoseWhite
10-05-2007, 08:24 AM
Here's to the Moderately Attractive!
Mastridonicus
10-05-2007, 09:17 AM
Gouda or Muenster? }:D
NY Style Chedder hun. Always.
The only correlation I've ever seen between "sluttiness" and sexual prowess is that, the more sexual experience you have with multiple partners, the easier it is to communicate and gain more from your experience from those you choose as your partners.
This is such a gray area.
The more comfortable you are with the fact that you deserve a continually greater experience, the better you'll be at orchestrating those who are instrumental in gaining that greater experience.
"Moderately Attractive is, more often, a better lay" just seems like justification for settling to me. Even when referencing the one night stands. I'm more from the Casual Observer school of thought. Fuck 1-10. Define your home-runs and swing for them every time.
Perhaps I lack experience though.
I never said anything about settling for the less attractive.
The validation gained from fucking a 10 is worth far more than any brief sexual gratification gained from having sex with an amazingly sex partner who is an 8.
I would rather be able to say I fucked Jessica Alba, but she was a bad lay than say I fucked Suzie from across the street who was amazing in bed.
Pay attention ladies, because this is how men really think. I have another thread in the making just for that.
Yekhefah
10-05-2007, 09:51 AM
^^^ I think when you mature, that changes. A grown man is more interested in having a good time in bed than he is in what his buddies think of his partner's appearance.