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misslizzy
02-14-2012, 02:24 AM
Just because grinding is the norm doesn't mean you have to. Nobody's forcing you to do anything.
Quite true. I've made money in some pretty crazy high contact clubs as the "clean" girl, so I know all about that. Nonetheless, even that included some grinding. I learned early on in my stripping career how to "grind" without actually rubbing my pussy on anyone, but that doesn't mean I want to be anywhere near a wild and free boner held back by one layer of ratty cotton.

Sophia_Starina
02-14-2012, 12:31 PM
And to the poster that said they would put folded up booty shorts on the guys crotch-wtf, unless you have a whale sized ass booty shorts aren't going to accomplish anything besides making you look silly.

Wowz.

Why on earth are you judging ladies based on their personal limits and boundaries?

There is nothing silly about it.

First of all, a piece of fabric placed between a dancer and customer lessens friction (in contact/grinding clubs). There's also a hygienic aspect involved. I certainly wouldn't want to grind bare-assed on a customers crotch right after the previous dancer did the same. Ew. More importantly, I don't care if other dancers think I look silly... I certainly don't care how "silly" other dancers look. Another dancer's opinion is irrelevant to me unless I ask for advice.

When I danced nude, in a one-way-contact-full-grind club, girls routinely placed two-layer "scarves" about 36"x36" on customers laps to slide around more comfortably and to keep things sanitary. Booty shorts would be a last resort because they are small, thinner, and stretchier. If anything, covering a cutomer's crotch with booty shorts could communicate to the customer that his pants are too thin/loose and that dancers are uncomfortable with his dick poking out in an unseemly fashion.

DesuvsDeath
02-14-2012, 02:00 PM
In clubs where grinding in the norm, it's pretty difficult to avoid contact with boners.

You can grind and rub and touch without being ON the boner. It's really not hard unless you're just too lazy to learn to give a sexy/sensual dance vs just lazily bouncing around the dick for 3 minutes. lolz

No offense.

DesuvsDeath
02-14-2012, 02:19 PM
lololol. Yeah... I'm not even really sure how you're supposed to grind on the booty short barrier... wouldn't it just be too small and move around and bunch up and fall off after like, ten seconds?

Sophia_Starina
02-14-2012, 03:50 PM
lololol. Yeah... I'm not even really sure how you're supposed to grind on the booty short barrier... wouldn't it just be too small and move around and bunch up and fall off after like, ten seconds?

Uhmmm *cough* Ahem!


Booty shorts would be a last resort because they are small, thinner, and stretchier. If anything, covering a cutomers crotch with booty shorts could communicate to the customer that his pants are too thin/loose and that dancers are uncomfortable with his dick poking out in an unseemly fashion.

Sophia_Starina
02-14-2012, 03:58 PM
There is a huge difference between 36x36 two layer scarves and a pair of teeny booty shorts. And like I said before...just don't grind naked if you have a problem with it. A pair of booty shorts isn't going to stop the boner from poking you.

I'm aware that there is a difference. Derp.

I have no problem grinding nude on boners.

I DO have a problem with scumbags that saunter into a club wearing microns-thin material and no underwear. Even the thickest, well-constructed scarf won't prevent me from being grossed the fuck out.

Placing booty shorts on the offending customers crotch is a pretty clever solution that "sends the message" that their attire isn't ok.

Kudos to girls that decide to do that. They can make a statement and they can still make money.



I, on the other hand, wouldn't dance for the douchebag. My dance, grinds, and attention would go to someone who knows better.

Sophia_Starina
02-14-2012, 04:06 PM
You can grind and rub and touch without being ON the boner. It's really not hard unless you're just too lazy to learn to give a sexy/sensual dance vs just lazily bouncing around the dick for 3 minutes. lolz

No offense.

Holy shit! Saying "no offense" doesn't take away from the fact that you just implied misslizzy is lazy. That's not ok. :(

Some clubs are sit-on-the-crotch-hardcore-grinding establishments. Some girls (myself included) are entirely fine with that level of contact. But that doesn't mean that customers should wear clothing that is barely existent and allow their hardons to run wild and rampant.

Most dancers on here (and I can certainly vouch for misslizzy) don't lazily bounce around on the dick, as you say, for the length of a song. WTF? This thread isn't about that. It is about common decency and sensible attire. C'mon!

Sophia_Starina
02-14-2012, 04:11 PM
To the critical strippers out there. I have one thing to say:



Don't tell me how to dance,
Men need to wear real pants.

Love,
Sophia_Starina

misslizzy
02-14-2012, 10:33 PM
Haha, thanks for backing me up, Ms. Starina. :D

When I learned how to strip, it was in a hardcore grind factory where plenty of girls DID, in fact, just bounce around on the guy's dick for however many dances, with our 36x36 cloth bits as barriers. I figured out pretty quickly how to be sensual and hot and NOT do that but in that club, like many others in that area, there is little-to-no money to be had without grinding on dick. It was only after I traveled out of NJ that I even learned about other, non-grinding, ways to give a lapdance.

Since then, I've actually decided that the "towels" themselves are just as unhygienic as grinding nude on dicks, so I've found other ways around the issue. One of them is choosing to avoid dancing for guys wearing sweatpants, basketball shorts, and other wildly inappropriate attire. I make decent money these days (in a town where there isn't much for non-extras girls), so I've deduced that my choice has probably not made me lazy.

DesuvsDeath
02-15-2012, 12:43 AM
Uhmmm *cough* Ahem!

Oh, no... I saw it the first time.
Do you honestly think a man in paper thin sweat pants is going to go "Oh my, this young woman is putting a small thin piece of fabric on my boner... perhaps I should wear thicker pants!"
...because I'm pretty sure it'd be more like "What the fuck is this dumb bitch doing. Whatever. Those fucking shorts are on the floor. Were they supposed to feel good on my dick or something, I don't get it. Whatever. Comere bitch, get on my barely covered dick!"


Holy shit! Saying "no offense" doesn't take away from the fact that you just implied misslizzy is lazy. That's not ok. :(

Some clubs are sit-on-the-crotch-hardcore-grinding establishments. Some girls (myself included) are entirely fine with that level of contact. But that doesn't mean that customers should wear clothing that is barely existent and allow their hardons to run wild and rampant.

Most dancers on here (and I can certainly vouch for misslizzy) don't lazily bounce around on the dick, as you say, for the length of a song. WTF? This thread isn't about that. It is about common decency and sensible attire. C'mon!

Yes. It is okay. It's my opinion. If grinding on a dick bothers you and you still can't be fucked to find away to avoid constant contact with it... what are you but lazy?
I work in LA. I know about hardcore-grinding establishments. ...I still wouldn't spend 3 full minutes bouncing up and down on someone's dick if I weren't comfortable with how much it were covered.
I'm not condoning customers wearing sweatpants. But I also don't condone crying about a problem you aren't willing to find a solution for.


I'm not telling anyone how to dance. I'm simply explaining that you don't NEED to maintain constant contact with customers dicks if the level to which they are covered is unsatisfying.
It should be common sense. It apparently is not.

4everresolutions
02-15-2012, 01:30 AM
I've been inspired to create a new How-To Thread:

The Art of Thigh-Grinding; How to dance around a dick - not ON it.

yoda57us
02-15-2012, 07:53 AM
I've been inspired to create a new How-To Thread:

The Art of Thigh-Grinding; How to dance around a dick - not ON it.

Sounds like a great idea!

kaiarose
02-15-2012, 08:00 AM
hahaha...the dick. Idk why but seeing "dick", "the dick" typed out so many times made me LOL :D Carry on!

yoda57us
02-15-2012, 12:47 PM
I'll make it official. I hereby declare an end to any further dancer vs. dancer attacks in this thread. You ladies can take all the good-natured shots you want at customers, lord knows we deserve it much of the time, but the back-biting stops now.

Thank you all for your anticipated cooperation. Carry on...

yoda57us
02-15-2012, 04:34 PM
Well, ok, if that's the way you ladies want it...

yoda57us
02-15-2012, 04:55 PM
OK, let's be clear, stop means stop. I'm reopening this thread in the hopes that the conversation will shift away from repeating what's already been said. As far as I'm concerned everyone's opinion has been expressed quite clearly. if you girls would like to start a thread somewhere else regarding technique that's fine by me.

I like this thread. It makes me laugh. I also respect all points of view in how to deal with what we all know is a very difficult job. I expect all participants to show each other the same respect.

lestat1
02-17-2012, 01:01 PM
My penis fees all sorts of special knowing there are 29 pages dedicated to discussing how to, and how to not, make contact with it.

Y'hear that little buddy? :pickle: You induce trepidation over your trouser-clad power! :D

Sophia_Starina
02-17-2012, 09:46 PM
My penis fees all sorts of special knowing there are 29 pages dedicated to discussing how to, and how to not, make contact with it.

Y'hear that little buddy? :pickle: You induce trepidation over your trouser-clad power! :D

Since you're a cool dude I will let you slide....

To anyone else, I would say that it's a small issue that inspires a big debate. ;)



*wink* :rotfl:

misslizzy
02-17-2012, 11:42 PM
My penis fees all sorts of special knowing there are 29 pages dedicated to discussing how to, and how to not, make contact with it.

Y'hear that little buddy? :pickle: You induce trepidation over your trouser-clad power! :D

I know, this is conversation has been going on for over 4 years now!

lestat1
02-18-2012, 02:17 AM
Since you're a cool dude I will let you slide....
To anyone else, I would say that it's a small issue that inspires a big debate. ;)


*wink* :rotfl:

Thanks for the upgrade to "small issue" instead of saying "tiny issue." 'ppreciate it. ;)

rockie
02-18-2012, 09:34 AM
Who would have thought this thread would have a shelf life of 4+ years? Kudos to Sophia S for the Thread start! lestat1: Thanks for my latest SW laugh!

yoda57us
02-19-2012, 09:14 AM
It's fascinating to me as well. Most of the time when a dormant thread comes back to life it gets a post or two and then fades back into oblivion. Every time NSDE!!! comes back to life it takes on a new set of twists and turns. It's interesting that, way back when Sophia started this thread, there were questions about whether it even belonged in customer convo. Back then I was on the fence but I think it's a valuable thread to have here in CC. To me it's about more than wardrobe. Honestly, every time some newb shows up wondering if "she really likes me" or some misguided cyber-stud wants brag about how much the ladies love dancing for him all we need to do is point them in the direction of this thread...

And, on top of all that, this thread was the birth of "Sweatpants Boner Man"!!!

lestat1
02-19-2012, 11:08 AM
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Cheo_D
02-23-2012, 09:17 PM
Men need to wear real pants.

Y'know, this is sound advice for ANY situation with the probable exception of swimming or competitive athletics.

And the "business sweats"... that, that's just wrong...

lestat1
02-26-2012, 04:05 PM
SPBM sighting:

29229

Sophia_Starina
04-23-2012, 01:39 PM
Recently I ran across a thread ( http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?172757-Liquid-Lapdance ) featuring Liquid Lapdance Make It Rain Underpants ( http://www.liquidlapdance.com/ ).

I would like to inform Stripclub Clientele that these are a sick joke. They are not appropriate for a strip club... or anywhere really.



Allow me to elaborate:

I thought that the purpose of a lap dance was common knowledge. I guess it's not.

A lap dance is similar to a ride on a roller coaster.
The customer pays some money and gets an exhilarating thrill.

Roller coasters offer an adrenaline rush since they scare the living bejeezus out of you without compromising your actual safety.
With lap dances the exhilaration stems from a sexy semi-nude woman lavishing you with expert moves and seductive glances, flirting, and gyrating to a sexy musical track... even though, in reality, the dancer has little to no sexual interest in you.

Roller coaster operators don't want you to careen at break-neck speed to a near certain death.
Strippers don't want you to actually orgasm from a lap dance.

Sure… in either industry accidents happen. But just as roller coasters are not assisted suicide machines… lap dances aren't semi-legalized-almost-prostitutional-orgasm-procedures…. or as I like to call them SLAP-OP's.

The goal is not to ACTUALLY kill/sex the customer, respectively. The goal is to derive a controlled thrill from FLIRTING with the concept of danger/sex (respectively!) and come out a bit frazzled or excited without actually experiencing danger/death or a sex act.

If a customer orgasms, it is akin to jumping out of the protective confines of a very tall, very fast, very dangerous roller coaster. And I think we can all agree that jumping from a roller coaster is either an act of desperation or lunacy.




Thank you for your time. This has been your stripper PSA of the day.

socialreject
04-23-2012, 03:59 PM
^^Umm...kay...point already made by previous posters in the thread you referenced (though this was enjoyable read).

yoda57us
04-23-2012, 06:50 PM
What does something that previous posters said in another thread have to do with Sophia posting her thoughts in this thread? This is Sophia's thread. She started it and she keeps it entertaining while getting some very valid points across. As far as I'm concerned, she can restate or reinforce anything she likes especially if it was from a thread that other folks may not bother to read (myself included).

Ribbangga
04-23-2012, 09:18 PM
what about linen? its light, but dressy. just had a suit tailored for myself and was hoping to wear it to a club one night in Vegas? is this a new rule spreading around the biz?

yoda57us
04-23-2012, 11:22 PM
Relax bro. The title of the thread is no sweatpants dances. As long as you are polite and spending (and assuming that your zipper is up) I'm sure you will have no trouble attracting dancer attention in a suit...

Natalllia
04-23-2012, 11:33 PM
what about linen? its light, but dressy. just had a suit tailored for myself and was hoping to wear it to a club one night in Vegas? is this a new rule spreading around the biz?


Linen pants should be fine. The point is that they're actual pants. The whole sweatpants/gym shorts thing... not a new phenomenon.

It's not a new occurrence that some men wear these types of bottoms so they can grind their boners on a poor, unsuspecting - wait, scratch that; she suspected it the minute she saw SPBM - stripper with the least amount of fabric possible/legal separating the old Bishop and said stripper.

It's certainly not a new thing for men to pretend they wear pants like that for the dancer's benefit. "She likes the way the soft fabric feels on her tender body. Everyone know jeans and suit pants are made of barbed wire, rusty nails, and sandpaper. Do her a favor, and wear your sweatpants. The more threadbare, the better... you know, for her."

And the dancers' ability to see through this tired ploy is not breaking news either. It's not exactly a rule, unless of course the club has a dress code. Some will still dance for SWBM, some will dance for him but give him a crappy dance and stay as far away from his lap as she can manage, and some will not talk to SPBM unless he is planning to drop at least a thousand. Some girls out there may even pass good ole SPBM over no matter how much he wanted to spend.


Anyway, the point isn't fashion, or even the fabric exactly. It's that SPBM is 99.7% likely to try to push his dick up inside us (through the "pants") if given half a chance.

Natalllia
04-23-2012, 11:42 PM
@ Ribbangga:
Also, I feel the need to tell you that your screen name makes me think of "Scarface":
(though spelled differently)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bEfd-s7pXOM

mikef
04-24-2012, 07:36 AM
So I have a question.... I get that sweatpants are considered rude..... But if a guy is wearing regular pants.... and you can tell he has gotten a hard on..... Is that rude?

Conversely, if you can tell he hasn't gotten hard..... How does that make you feel in relation to your skills, or effort?

Natalllia
04-24-2012, 08:28 AM
It is not rude to get a hard-on. It's a natural body reaction to stimulus.

It IS rude to pull it out of your pants, grab your dancer and try to push her down onto your erection, intentionally cum on her, etc. It might seem like that should go without saying, but then again you might be surprised at how many men act like they think that's acceptable behavior in a lapdance.

I try not to notice whether my customer is aroused, but sometimes you can't help but notice. I certainly don't analyze his crotch region to make sure I got him all rock hard in order to feel validated.

I have seen sooo many scenes on television or in movies where a man is getting a lapdance, and for whatever reason (usually relating to the show's plot) he does not have an erection. The stripper always gets all offended, and asks him if he's gay or if she's doing something wrong, or whatever. Those are movie strippers, not to be confused with real strippers.

I can't speak for every stripper everywhere, but I feel confidant including the vast majority here: It is not our goal to make as many boners as possible. It IS our goal to make as many dollars as possible.

Plus, a man's penis isn't the be-all end-all of his experience in a strip club, or his sexuality in general. I can tell if my customer is enjoying himself without measuring for hardness.

Sophia_Starina
04-24-2012, 08:52 AM
what about linen? its light, but dressy. just had a suit tailored for myself and was hoping to wear it to a club one night in Vegas? is this a new rule spreading around the biz?

I think linen is fine.... but doesn't it wrinkle like Hell?

Sophia_Starina
04-24-2012, 08:55 AM
It's not a new occurrence that some men wear these types of bottoms so they can grind their boners on a poor, unsuspecting - wait, scratch that; she suspected it the minute she saw SPBM - stripper with the least amount of fabric possible/legal separating the old Bishop and said stripper.

It's certainly not a new thing for men to pretend they wear pants like that for the dancer's benefit. "She likes the way the soft fabric feels on her tender body. Everyone know jeans and suit pants are made of barbed wire, rusty nails, and sandpaper. Do her a favor, and wear your sweatpants. The more threadbare, the better... you know, for her."

Anyway, the point isn't fashion, or even the fabric exactly. It's that SPBM is 99.7% likely to try to push his dick up inside us (through the "pants") if given half a chance.



EPIC WIN! *Applause* OMG! :rotfl: Hahahaha!

unbeleavable
04-24-2012, 02:35 PM
I'm not a big club goer anymore but I can only think of once where I was hard during a dance & it was the suduction that did it. I can say there was more than once where I was felt up to see if I was though to be honest & my reaction was always, it's going to take more than a naked woman in my space to get me going.

EmilyMichelle
04-24-2012, 02:37 PM
ITA. Ive had this rule for years. And you know the fckers go out of their way to do it on purpose, so annoying and gross.

Davey17
04-25-2012, 01:12 AM
If I had my way guys would always arrive at the club dressed as if they were going on a special date. Would you wear sweats or basketball shorts to a date? Hmmm?

Dancers always try and look as seductive as possible to appeal to the guys that come to these clubs. If a guy dresses like he doesn't give a fuck they are going to get waaaaay less attention.

Have you ever wondered why guys in suits get the most girls all over them? It's because what you wear matters to us gals. First impressions can be the most potent.


Could not agree more ..Its quite obvious . DRESS WELL Guys ..and Clean your shoes while you are at it . Make sure you have Clean clothes , Dress Pants ..Smell Ok ..No jeans . Dress like you are going somewhere special , I cant believe the way some Guys dress . HAVE SOME RESPECT .. and better things will happen . It goes a long way .

Davey17
04-25-2012, 01:20 AM
It is not rude to get a hard-on. It's a natural body reaction to stimulus.

It IS rude to pull it out of your pants, grab your dancer and try to push her down onto your erection, intentionally cum on her, etc. It might seem like that should go without saying, but then again you might be surprised at how many men act like they think that's acceptable behavior in a lapdance.

I try not to notice whether my customer is aroused, but sometimes you can't help but notice. I certainly don't analyze his crotch region to make sure I got him all rock hard in order to feel validated.

I have seen sooo many scenes on television or in movies where a man is getting a lapdance, and for whatever reason (usually relating to the show's plot) he does not have an erection. The stripper always gets all offended, and asks him if he's gay or if she's doing something wrong, or whatever. Those are movie strippers, not to be confused with real strippers.

I can't speak for every stripper everywhere, but I feel confidant including the vast majority here: It is not our goal to make as many boners as possible. It IS our goal to make as many dollars as possible.

Plus, a man's penis isn't the be-all end-all of his experience in a strip club, or his sexuality in general. I can tell if my customer is enjoying himself without measuring for hardness.


Probably not the Goal for Sure ..But Not a good result either .
If your Customer Aint hard ..there unfortunately is no industry ..So like it or Not ..you need them aroused .
Or the who Scenario is Fucked ..and I aint talking about movies , Im talking about repeat business , and expanding the client base ..Otherwise , all are out of business . Best form of business is refferal .

Natalllia
04-25-2012, 11:31 AM
^^^ All I'm saying is that we're not nearly as concerned with your hard-on as you are.

Dancers that work in no-contact clubs can still give a great sensual and seductive dance, and they are able to tell the customer is enjoying himself without feeling his erection pressing against them. Many men get erections during private dances, and that's fine. In itself, not offensive. Some men don't get erections from private dances, but it doesn't mean they didn't enjoy themselves.

If a dancer has to grab a man's dick to tell if he is having a good dance, she's doing it wrong.

Siddarth
04-26-2012, 05:10 PM
So I have a question.... I get that sweatpants are considered rude..... But if a guy is wearing regular pants.... and you can tell he has gotten a hard on..... Is that rude?

Conversely, if you can tell he hasn't gotten hard..... How does that make you feel in relation to your skills, or effort?

I think it is considered rude to attain erection during a lap dance. Besides, your erection will make most strippers uncomfortable to the extent she will be unable to concentrate on the task. In my opinion, it is best to stay away from erection in a strip club.

Omegaphallic
04-29-2012, 02:32 PM
I don't even own track pants anymore, just casual pants and shorts. I have warn shorts before, but not biker shorts, I don't have many fashion rules, three really, 1) fedora's rule and are good luck 2) I will go to my grave never having worn a spedo and plan to keep it that way 3) I'll wear bike shorts when I get to hell and not a minute before. One think I like about shorts is when the dancer drags her fingernails gently across my calves, makes them all tingly. Still does anyone think this thread will discourage a single sweats guy? If a guy come in wearing sweatpants he really doesn't give a shit what anyone thinks, he knows what he wants and there are plenty of dancers willing,to give it. Me I'm looking for an adventure, something interesting to imprint on my mind, not to lose myself to a jizz inspired fog. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy the way a dancer grinds her ass or tits into my dick, I just don't blow my load. I do refuse to wear suits to a stripclub, in casual pants I don't care if she leaves a snail trail, a suit is a different story. In a way the sweats pants guy is doing you favour, you know his agenda, and you can decide to avoid him or help him blow his load.

Mr Me
05-12-2012, 06:46 AM
^^^ All I'm saying is that we're not nearly as concerned with your hard-on as you are.

Dancers that work in no-contact clubs can still give a great sensual and seductive dance, and they are able to tell the customer is enjoying himself without feeling his erection pressing against them. Many men get erections during private dances, and that's fine. In itself, not offensive. Some men don't get erections from private dances, but it doesn't mean they didn't enjoy themselves.

If a dancer has to grab a man's dick to tell if he is having a good dance, she's doing it wrong.

I do get aroused when I'm getting a good sensual dance,regardless of contact. Not meant to be rude and don't expect hand to crotch contact or need to blow in my pants to feel like I'm getting my money's worth. Good to see that this is not offensive to you.

Omegaphallic
05-12-2012, 07:56 PM
I can get a hard on with no arousal and be turned on without one. Arousal plus friction on the other hand equals hard on. Its not something I concern myself with.

Davey17
05-13-2012, 01:07 AM
^^^ All I'm saying is that we're not nearly as concerned with your hard-on as you are.

Dancers that work in no-contact clubs can still give a great sensual and seductive dance, and they are able to tell the customer is enjoying himself without feeling his erection pressing against them. Many men get erections during private dances, and that's fine. In itself, not offensive. Some men don't get erections from private dances, but it doesn't mean they didn't enjoy themselves.

If a dancer has to grab a man's dick to tell if he is having a good dance, she's doing it wrong.


You certainly dont have to grab a man dick to give a good lap dance that goes without question .

Dudes in sweatpants and jeans to be honest I just dont get . My belief ( and its an opinion ) is that guys should dress as if they were going to Dinner / Show , make sure your clothes are Clean , make sure you are groomed , make sure you smell okey , all good general hygene measures . Possibly you are not the best looking dude on the block , but purely out of respect for your entertainer ( and yourself .).make sure you are clean ..Oh , and make sure your shoes are clean ..No one wants to look down and see some Vomit stained old runners .

Guys without an errection , well thats either a poor dance or a really weird guy in my view . Why would he possibly want the dance ? now I appreciate some guys may find it difficult to get an errection and I guess they consitute some different Catogery of Pleasure , but that I dont understand . Certainly all the dancer I've known at the Club would expect 95% of Patrons to Aroused during a dance . Would it be life Shattering if some dude was Not ? well of course not , as long as the product purchased was to the relevant standard as per the situation at the Club .

For someone that doesn't come under ( Point B ) , I would certainly expect that the errection is an important function ( in general terms ) of the service offered , and would expect most guys to get hard . Certainly this creates ongoing opportunities for both the Club and the performer . Like it or not , thats the bottom line .

But to all Guys ...Please , make sure you are properly presented , and I promise you ..you will certainly get a better deal anyhow , with just a few simple steps .

Davey17
05-13-2012, 01:14 AM
I think it is considered rude to attain erection during a lap dance. Besides, your erection will make most strippers uncomfortable to the extent she will be unable to concentrate on the task. In my opinion, it is best to stay away from erection in a strip club.

It certainly wouldn't be considered Rude ..although I have heard the converse .

Look basically , like it or not without the bodily function of the errection ..Who would actually ever attend a srtip club ? What on sale is a Fantasy , an illusion , part of the exoctic element is that Sexual intercourse will not be taking place , Its the Big tease , the unattainable ....All adds to the experience .

I honestly dont know any dancers who consider it Rude .. If they did ..Put quite frankly , they need to try another Gig , because this one Aint for them .

yoda57us
05-13-2012, 03:38 AM
Just for the record the only poster here saying that getting an erection in a strip club is rude has been a "customer". Take that for what it's worth...

yoda57us
05-26-2012, 04:50 PM
Dude, really? Cute story, I guess, but what does it have to do with the thread? The same rules of etiquette apply in CC as on the rest of SW. Please keep it relevant or, by all means, feel free to start a new thread.

Thanks!

Davey17
05-26-2012, 10:58 PM
Just for the record the only poster here saying that getting an erection in a strip club is rude has been a "customer". Take that for what it's worth...

Yes thats True ..But I am concerned as to why this " Customer " attends the joys of the world of various strip clubs ...Interesting view .. There must be a lot of Rude men out there :)