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Tarasaurusrex
09-29-2013, 12:01 PM
There is another reason not to go to VIP with a guy in sweatpants.....not enough, ahem protection, awkward. I used to joke that some guys did that mess on purpose. But, it doesn't mean they don't have money, they just don't have taste. Or they want to take advantage of decreasing the amount of fabric separating you from them.....nice try.
Davey17
09-30-2013, 03:42 AM
I cant really see why anyone would want to Wear Sweatpants ..Its not a Good Look .
I can understand the Harshness of some other Fabrics , But what is wrong with a Nice pair of Dresspants ?
a Little respect is in Order ..Sweatpants just send the wrong message in my view .
estafador
10-01-2013, 01:01 PM
What if we gave you a grand. Would you still say no?
They don't allow sweats ANYWHERE in NY so wouldn't make a difference for me. Besides don't you fellas wann adress to impress and not look like you just came from a 3 hr power lifting?
Golden_Rule
10-28-2013, 01:03 PM
There is another reason not to go to VIP with a guy in sweatpants.....not enough, ahem protection, awkward. I used to joke that some guys did that mess on purpose. But, it doesn't mean they don't have money, they just don't have taste. Or they want to take advantage of decreasing the amount of fabric separating you from them.....nice try.
I don't know about that. I've always found that sweatpants are heavier fabric. That's why the call them sweatpants. The fleece material is heavy and insulates, so they are bulkier and warmer.
I don't wear sweatpants but if I wanted to I would. I look at it this way: I'm the consumer. I'm spending the money. I wear what I want if there is no dress code stating otherwise. If that means a dancer doesn't want to dance for me, that's fine. It is her right and I wouldn't question it.
If a dancer doesn't want to give me a dance she's not the one I want to be spending my money on anyway. So it's good all the way around. She doesn't want to give me a dance. I don't want her to be the one giving me a dance. No harm. No foul. It's all good. :)
Davey17
10-29-2013, 07:56 PM
I don't know about that. I've always found that sweatpants are heavier fabric. That's why the call them sweatpants. The fleece material is heavy and insulates, so they are bulkier and warmer.
I don't wear sweatpants but if I wanted to I would. I look at it this way: I'm the consumer. I'm spending the money. I wear what I want if there is no dress code stating otherwise. If that means a dancer doesn't want to dance for me, that's fine. It is her right and I wouldn't question it.
If a dancer doesn't want to give me a dance she's not the one I want to be spending my money on anyway. So it's good all the way around. She doesn't want to give me a dance. I don't want her to be the one giving me a dance. No harm. No foul. It's all good. :)
Absolutely , thats exactly what Free Enterprise is , and a good Point .
Aurora14
10-31-2013, 08:21 PM
Sweatpants boner man came into the club the other night. I refused to dance for him. He wasn't worth dealing with just to get 2 dances. The other girls laughed when I called him that. They stopped laughing when the cum seeped through his pants and onto the dancer's leg. They understood why I won't dance for him.
Davey17
11-02-2013, 01:38 AM
Sweatpants boner man came into the club the other night. I refused to dance for him. He wasn't worth dealing with just to get 2 dances. The other girls laughed when I called him that. They stopped laughing when the cum seeped through his pants and onto the dancer's leg. They understood why I won't dance for him.
And I would Suggest a Reasonable and Logical Business Decision Also . :) ..Each makes their own Business Decision , Thats the Beauty of it .
Davey17
11-02-2013, 01:42 AM
As I said previously , My personal opinion is Keep it Nice , Be well presented , Forget Harsh Fabrics ( For Obvious Reasons )
Make Sure you have Clean Shoes ..And ( My opinion ) I just dont think Sweatpants are a Good Look .
Maybe there are different Types , I dont Know . But I know this , If you Threat an Individual with Respect , generally speaking the Final outcome will be far more Pleasant .
Jamiexxx
11-02-2013, 05:29 PM
I could care less about rough fabrics or your sense of fashion. I don't want such close contact with the D. That's why I don't dance for Mr Sweatpants.
Davey17
11-04-2013, 08:17 PM
I could care less about rough fabrics or your sense of fashion. I don't want such close contact with the D. That's why I don't dance for Mr Sweatpants.
And Once Again thats the Great thing about Free Enterprise and Freedom of Choice .
You can Choose that to Dance for the SweatPants guy , Just as other Individuals will Asses your Performance .
Its a Free World , and a Free Choice . Its not the Way the Performance works here , But its up to you .
Jasmine.Doll
11-04-2013, 09:21 PM
Ug. My new club does not have a dress code. I've had to lower my standards a bit. Still don't give lapdances to sweatpants guy. Instead, I give him awkward knee grind dances. And dirty looks while he gets my knee in his balls. Whatever.
Jamiexxx
11-05-2013, 12:10 AM
Well, I can't complain about my income ALL WITHOUT EXTRAS OR SWEATPANTS DANCES :)
Actually quite surprising for LA.
Golden_Rule
11-17-2013, 08:34 PM
I could care less about rough fabrics or your sense of fashion. I don't want such close contact with the D. That's why I don't dance for Mr Sweatpants.
The point is, that is just fine. No issues.
Either someone else will and if enough someone else's will and the ones that don't can't make a buck they will change or seek employment elsewhere.
Or if enough refuse and men who wear sweatpants who want lap dances can't get them they will change or find something else to amuse themselves.
That is how the market works.
The only fault is presuming anyone cares. 8)
Well, I can't complain about my income ALL WITHOUT EXTRAS OR SWEATPANTS DANCES :)
Actually quite surprising for LA.
Great! Sincerely. I am hardly a fan of anyone being compelled to do what they don't want to do. It is fantastic that there are enough dancers with different tolerences to satisfy all the varied clientel with different tastes and fashion senes.
I love it when a plan comes together. :)
Jasmine.Doll
11-17-2013, 08:39 PM
I think some men would care if they realized they could get much better dances with more contact from happier dancers by simply putting on a pair of slacks. But if they'd rather pay for a crappy dance just so they can dress like a slob, then that's their problem, I guess.
Like I said, I've started doing dances for slobs because my new club is lame. But they get almost no contact. They still pay, so it doesn't hurt me! It's just a bummer for them b/c I give a really great lapdance for guys who aren't disgusting.
Davey17
11-18-2013, 12:38 AM
I think some men would care if they realized they could get much better dances with more contact from happier dancers by simply putting on a pair of slacks. But if they'd rather pay for a crappy dance just so they can dress like a slob, then that's their problem, I guess.
Like I said, I've started doing dances for slobs because my new club is lame. But they get almost no contact. They still pay, so it doesn't hurt me! It's just a bummer for them b/c I give a really great lapdance for guys who aren't disgusting.
Pretty much my point exactly Jasmine ..
A little respect , No Harsh fabrics and some presentation never did any harm , And yeah try not to smell like you just come out of the Rubbish .
It aint Rocket Science :) .
Jasmine.Doll
11-18-2013, 02:49 AM
I'm with Jamiexxx--I don't give a fuck about "harsh" fabrics. I do care about sweatpants boners. And being disgusting--which tends to go along with guys who wears sweats to clubs.
yoda57us
11-18-2013, 06:54 AM
Six years and over 800 posts...truly the greatest thread in the history of customer convo!:thumbsup:
Davey17
11-19-2013, 11:08 AM
I'm with Jamiexxx--I don't give a fuck about "harsh" fabrics. I do care about sweatpants boners. And being disgusting--which tends to go along with guys who wears sweats to clubs.
And thats exactly why you dont have to perform for an individual you dont like , the Beauty of the free market is Choice , thats great , its an indivuals decision . Others may choose differently ..Thats fine also .
On the other side of the fence , Harsh fabrics make the performance difficult , thats why ( If I were Suggesting to the Punter )
that dress pants would be better , a half decent Sent and some clean shoes would never Hurt .
In every market place there is a buyer and a seller , well there has to be a buyer or the market place in not functional . Its always important to know what is being sold , and set your Stategy around that to maximise the return . The wonderful world of exoctic dance , Strip clubs is no different to any other market place , you are either comfortable with that or not , Once again thats the beauty of a market place and freedom of choice on all sides .
Davey17
11-19-2013, 11:11 AM
Six years and over 800 posts...truly the greatest thread in the history of customer convo!:thumbsup:
The same point applies to the wonderful thread .... No demand = No supply :) ..Unless of course you threw in potential moderation .
yoda57us
11-19-2013, 10:28 PM
The same point applies to the wonderful thread .... No demand = No supply :) ..Unless of course you threw in potential moderation .
You'll have to post a link to that thread. I'm not familiar with it. You'll also have to clarify what you mean by potential moderation...
Sophia_Starina
11-20-2013, 12:31 PM
Six years and over 800 posts...truly the greatest thread in the history of customer convo! :thumbsup:35531
As thrilled as I am for the gracious recognition... it's a bitter-sweet victory.
Six years later, this is still a relevant thread.
Damn the sweatpants industry!
Golden_Rule
11-20-2013, 04:03 PM
35531
As thrilled as I am for the gracious recognition... it's a bitter-sweet victory.
Six years later, this is still a relevant thread.
Damn the sweatpants industry!
LOL! You are wonderful. [and you know I am being sincere when I write that] :)
On a semi-serious note though; You actually know me. You've seen me in $1500 suits, $250 Florshines, tailor made shirt and all the appropriate accoutrements. You've seen me in classic Newark Guido Casual [$100 track pants, high end sneaks and sports jersey]. Either way I treat folks like folks. An extras dancers at at a hole in the wall gets treated with respect the same as I'd treat your lovely self, a dancer who's probably never had the thought of providing an extra cross her mind. I treat folks the way I want folks to treat me. I'd never dream of 'splooging' on a dancer who didn't want to be splooged on and needless to add paid handsomely for the privilege. 8)
The point being, why the rush to judgement over the choice of apparel? Not every guy wearing sports wear is an animal. It seems unusual for a group of people who suffer from being unfairly judged by most folks because of their choice of profession to do the same thing to a group of guys just because of what they wear.
What's wrong with a case by case basis instead? [Note: I am NOT. NOT, NOT saying a dancer should be refused use of any filtering mechanism she wants to use to decide who she'll dancer for... mostly I'm just being the mildly sardonic, slightly sarcastic, 25 years of cop humor to get me through the day, noticing the weird and wonderful way people do other people...]
Hey, don't shoot me. I'm just the piano player. ;D }:D 8)
safado
11-20-2013, 04:15 PM
LOL! You are wonderful. [and you know I am being sincere when I write that] :)
On a semi-serious note though; You actually know me. You've seen me in $1500 suits, $250 Florshines, tailor made shirt and all the appropriate accoutrements. You've seen me in classic Newark Guido Casual [$100 track pants, high end sneaks and sports jersey]. Either way I treat folks like folks. An extras dancers at at a hole in the wall gets treated with respect the same as I'd treat your lovely self, a dancer who's probably never had the thought of providing an extra cross her mind. I treat folks the way I want folks to treat me. I'd never dream of 'splooging' on a dancer who didn't want to be splooged on and needless to add paid handsomely for the privilege. 8)
The point being, why the rush to judgement over the choice of apparel? Not every guy wearing sports wear is an animal. It seems unusual for a group of people who suffer from being unfairly judged by most folks because of their choice of profession to do the same thing to a group of guys just because of what they wear.
What's wrong with a case by case basis instead? [Note: I am NOT. NOT, NOT saying a dancer should be refused use of any filtering mechanism she wants to use to decide who she'll dancer for... mostly I'm just being the mildly sardonic, slightly sarcastic, 25 years of cop humor to get me through the day, noticing the weird and wonderful way people do other people...]
Hey, don't shoot me. I'm just the piano player. ;D }:D 8)
http://i.imgur.com/NqrM8J2.jpg
Golden_Rule
11-20-2013, 04:24 PM
No spit takes necessary. I stand by the remark. Check out the name. I wouldn't want to be splooged on without permission [actually I don't want to be splooged on at all] so I'm not going to go around splooging on people without permission. I treat people the way I want to be treated because if I didn't I couldn't demand the same level of treatment [and I do demand it] in return. 8)
safado
11-20-2013, 04:32 PM
No spit takes necessary. I stand by the remark. Check out the name. I wouldn't want to be splooged on without permission [actually I don't want to be splooged on at all] so I'm not going to go around splooging on people without permission. I treat people the way I want to be treated because if I didn't I couldn't demand the same level of treatment [and I do demand it] in return. 8) No need for clarification, I just found it funny. Reminds me of this time a few years ago at a strip club in providence where this dancer was trying to entice me to go to the booth with her and splooge on her boobs.
Jasmine.Doll
11-21-2013, 10:30 PM
Reminds me of this time a few years ago at a strip club in providence where this dancer was trying to entice me to go to the booth with her and splooge on her boobs.
You PROMISED me you wouldn't tell anyone about that! I had forgotten my spooge towel in the dressing room and I didn't want to make you wait. I was just trying to provide you with timely customer service!!!!
pinups4
11-22-2013, 06:43 AM
At some clubs it seems splooge on the boobs is considered a customer testimonial
((Dont shoot the messenger))
Jamiexxx
11-22-2013, 08:22 AM
I'm still not sure why customers don't understand the difference between a strip club and a brothel. I mean if you're that desperate to get sex or a handjob or whatever, why not get an escort or go to a massage parlor? Or visit the ladies on whatever the hooker street in your town is? Why keep pushing a dancer's boundaries trying to make her do something she clearly doesn't want to do? Or is that what the thrill is about?
I'm still not sure why customers don't understand the difference between a strip club and a brothel.
What's a brothel? Place with FS penetration? Two clubs in my area have that, third is rumored. I haven't done that, it crosses a personal hard line. But it's openly offered.
It's commerce. 15 minutes VIP or dances comes to $150 plus tips. Not competitive with escorts who will dance for 30 minutes for that. But adding touch-for-tip to the short-notice club experience creates a new deal. Guy gets to window shop first, pays for touch, girl gets the money she wants for a lot less effort that the same money digging ditches or cleaning buildings would take. Win-win, for parties willing to party.
Jamiexxx
11-22-2013, 07:00 PM
"a lot less effort"
you think it takes no effort to force yourself to suck or fuck some random guy you're not attracted to? it's the most disgusting thing i can imagine, basically violating your own body. i could never do it. not for a million dollars. the girls at my club who do extras have to get drunk or even drug themselves up to be able to do it.
"a lot less effort"
you think it takes no effort to force yourself to suck or fuck some random guy you're not attracted to?
I hear you. As I said, I have a hard line, it's the same one. How about "less time and less physical labor"? It would take two days of most retail or manual labor to equal one 15-minute groping tip.
Jasmine.Doll
11-22-2013, 07:50 PM
Fucking for money isn't for everyone, dude. Just because it might take less time and burn less calories than "retail or manual labor," for many women the emotional costs and health costs are high.
But good luck to those who go to the stripclubs in your area b/c the escorts are pricier. with finding the cheapest hookers in the world. Personally, if I were looking to pay for sex, I wouldn't be looking for bargin basement prices.
safado
11-22-2013, 08:05 PM
You PROMISED me you wouldn't tell anyone about that! I had forgotten my spooge towel in the dressing room and I didn't want to make you wait. I was just trying to provide you with timely customer service!!!! So you remember me. Thanks for the good time, next time I will try to not "shoot you in the eye".
Jasmine.Doll
11-22-2013, 08:09 PM
You can shoot your wad in my eye again. But just remember--I get an additional $4 tip for that.
safado
11-22-2013, 08:14 PM
You can shoot your wad in my eye again. But just remember--I get an additional $4 tip for that. Is that per eye?
Jasmine.Doll
11-22-2013, 08:22 PM
Yes. And my eyes are worth every penny, thank you very much.... If I remember correctly, I finished you off pretty well with just the one eyeball. But, if you want to get crazy and pretend your dick is a fire extinguisher, feel free to spray and sweep. Just remember, that's $8.
Davey17
11-22-2013, 11:02 PM
Yes. And my eyes are worth every penny, thank you very much.... If I remember correctly, I finished you off pretty well with just the one eyeball. But, if you want to get crazy and pretend your dick is a fire extinguisher, feel free to spray and sweep. Just remember, that's $8.
Thats worth the $8 :) ha ha ha ha .
Davey17
11-22-2013, 11:07 PM
Fucking for money isn't for everyone, dude. Just because it might take less time and burn less calories than "retail or manual labor," for many women the emotional costs and health costs are high.
But good luck to those who go to the stripclubs in your area b/c the escorts are pricier. with finding the cheapest hookers in the world. Personally, if I were looking to pay for sex, I wouldn't be looking for bargin basement prices.
I think the Emotional cost would be Soul destroying , I know many can do it ....But , on so many occassions I've thought there has to be an horrendous cost at some point .
Vackra
11-22-2013, 11:22 PM
I think that fucking for money would rip the lining right out of my heart, emotionally. I could never do it. It is certainly not for everyone.
yoda57us
11-23-2013, 12:44 AM
The topic here is guys who show up at strip clubs wearing sweatpants. Lets get back on track please. This thread is not about sex or extras.
Sophia_Starina
11-26-2013, 01:40 PM
No Sweatpants Dances EVER!!!
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yoda57us
11-26-2013, 04:51 PM
Sweatpants boner man on crack?
yoda57us
11-27-2013, 12:43 PM
OK, what part of "lets get back on track" don't you boys understand?
Let's be clear. I understand that sometimes we respond to an older post without reading what came after it. That's why no one has been pointed thus far. From here on out anyone who references the posts that I didn't delete regarding sex or extras will be pointed. That includes customers and dancers. It would be wise not to think that you are special enough...or clever enough to ignore this warning...
by the way, debating moderation issues publicly is also grounds for moderation...
Trixia
11-27-2013, 10:51 PM
Sophia, you should get all the girls on board and wear sweat pants when giving dances next April fools
thomaskmatai
11-30-2013, 11:59 AM
I think sweatpants should be decreed as the societal norm. not just in strip clubs, but in all settings. They're just that comfortable. Imagine congress if everyone's dressed in sweats? how about the royal family, all in sweats.