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The NICEST thing said to you by a custie
The thread on the mean things customers have said to us was making me really sad because there ARE decent people out there who enter the clubs to enjoy themselves and enjoy us.
Now, I know we collectively have some great compliments said to us that made our night or even week.
Mine recently was
"All the girls here are hot, but I really think you are my favorite."
I love compliments that don't come as an insult to others. This one didn't point out anyone else's faults, just showed he was having a great time and wanted to let me know.
I think my favorite of all time was.
"You have the one of the tightest and toned bodies I've seen lately, and you can dance too!" <-- gotta love it!
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I def. get more comments like this than the bad ones. My favorite was when an older woman said I was her favorite on stage all night. I think when the women compliment they're more sincere, they're not trying to get me to date them or anything lol. I get told by guys I'm the hottest dancer there multiple times every shift.
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Taylorlila
I def. get more comments like this than the bad ones. My favorite was when an older woman said I was her favorite on stage all night. I think when the women compliment they're more sincere, they're not trying to get me to date them or anything lol. I get told by guys I'm the hottest dancer there multiple times every shift.
I agree and whenever I get a really good compliment and someone says "oh, you hear it all the time, I bet," I always say as soon as I stop hearing it, I will start to worry.
Ooh, I also love to hear how soft my skin is (this isn't when they are trying to grope me, but gave me a hug or during a lap dance where they are allowed to touch our back and legs.)
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"you look like one of Santa's elves"
"I'm 5'10" in these shoes. That's a giant freaking elf"
"Yeah. You look like a really tall elf."
This was the middle of summer.
Former customer:
Me: "Do I look like someone who would pick up a guy in a laundromat?"
Him: "Yes! If you felt like it."
And - of course:
"You smell like ice cream."
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"I love feeding you money. I'm going to throw money at you all night."
It was nice only because he did.
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Jenny
And - of course:
"You smell like ice cream."
"You smell like gummi bears" lol.
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"don't change yourself for other people--you are perfect just the way you are"
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I make it a habit to never take anything personally, bad or good. But as for nice, last month I was in one of the VIP parties at the club and one of the girls got on stage and no one was paying attention to her or tipping her. Then this guy (mid thirties?) kind of yanked one of his buddies aside and was telling him to tip the girl, and the guy refused him saying that the girl had too many tatoos. "Go tip her. She's been dancing there for five minutes, she's here to make money." And he was saying it so nicely, really concerned for her! It was out of her earshot, but I could overhear them. So he gave the guy money so he would tip it to her.
When the nice guy sat down near me, I teasingly asked him if he was too shy to give it to her himself, and he said that he had a beautiful wife at home and that if he wanted to do anything suggestive, he'd do it with her. So sweet! And sober!
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Anyone noticing that I'm smart & funny makes my day.
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I always like it when a customer says I'm funny.
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Most memorable: (This was during a sort of goth phase when I wore my hair short and spikey and dark with whatever colors on the tips) " You look like a Nagel girl".
(Patrick Nagel was the artist who drew all those Euro-trash looking models for Duran-Duran covers).
Most recently when I had darker hair : "You look like Brooke Burke". (yeah right/:O )
But he came back a couple of times after that and said it again. That was nice, although I don't think I am nearly as attractive as her.
I get comments on the muscle tone of my stomach all the time and other parts of my body. I like it, but I've been athletic all my life, so I have earned it.
It really cheers me up to get compliments on my skin, hair or smile.
I once got a compliment on my ear lobes:O (I don't like my ears):(
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Corey
Most memorable: (This was during a sort of goth phase when I wore my hair short and spikey and dark with whatever colors on the tips) " You look like a Nagel girl".
(Patrick Nagel was the artist who drew all those Euro-trash looking models for Duran-Duran covers).:(
I'm jealous of that compliment. I love Nagel! But hey, to each her own.
Best compliments- "You're full of life." (Nice because of my endometriosis, it's figurative, not literal...)
"Great tits!" ;D
Strong, artist, good dancer...any compliment indicating they payed attention to the fact I was WORKING.
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My all time favorite nice comment came from a guy sitting at my stage..."You aren't like the other girls in here. What you're doing up there isn't stripping, it is performance art." Then he tipped me like crazy, but rather than make me come over to him to get it he just put it on my stage so I didn't have to stop the flow of what I was doing.
I never did get sick of being told I looked like a pin up girl though...hell, I still love that!
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Some of my favorites are:
You have the prettiest eyes I have ever seen!
There's no way that you have had 3 kids!
I came in Just to see you!
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Nice thread. In general, we have to get way more compliments than insults...it's just that the insults seem to get more of our attention.
It's always nice being complimented on something I'm insecure about. The other day a customer told me my breasts were "the perfect shape." My boobs are quite small, so this was nice. The compliments that stick in my mind are the unusual onces: A customer once told me he loved my nose, which was sweet. A few guys have told me they love my back or shoulders.
The most over-the-top compliments have to come from regulars. Sunday night a very long-time customer told me, "I'm just glad to know people like you exist." Awww.
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"You have the best expression on your face when you dance." That really made me happy to hear!
Of course, later I get the more direct "Damn look at those long-ass legs and big ol' nipples!" For some reason, that just didn't tug at my heartstrings the same way...
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I get some form of this AT LEAST once a week, and I LOVE it:
"If David Bowie were a hot woman, he'd look like you."
Very very odd, but I love David Bowie, so whatevs!
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A regular once told me he'd still come to see me (ie spend lotsa vip time w/ me!) if I wasn't beautiful.
I thought that was really sweet, b/c he actually meant it :)
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Originally Posted by
Corey
Most memorable: (This was during a sort of goth phase when I wore my hair short and spikey and dark with whatever colors on the tips) " You look like a Nagel girl".
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I got that from a friend one time about some art I'd made w/ a pic of myself & I had to look it up cause I didn't know who Nagel was.
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a club semi-regular, who sincerely told me i was the funniest girl he's ever met.
and
whenever someone compliments my brain... although... not when they say it like "you're actually really smart" or "you're educated, why are you a stripper?"
heh :P
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"If you put your behind on ebay you'd get a billion dollars for it" lol.
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your smile lights up the stage
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some more:
"you should try out for cirque du soleil!"
"entertainers like you work so hard--i appreciate everything you do!"
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a long time regular (he isn't every week regular or even every time he visits yet ultimately i am definately his favourite) told me recently that he appreciated that i had filled out a bit more... I'm not fat by a long shot! :laughing: Just that I have filled out a little.. I'm hovering around 51-52kg at the moment and feeling healthy.
Plus my boob size has increased enough for me to notice it at least (and i'm so happy with the small, perky yet full enough for me size).
He was going on about how in the last year or something, to him, I was a little skinny yet he didn't really notice until now after I had filled out a bit more... and that he enjoyed me being my 'old self' again. Maybe my body fat percentage is a little higher? That might be it.
I liked it as I do feel better about myself at the moment.. and all this has only happened after I had been off BC for awhile.. so that is interesting. hmm.
I also appreciate compliments about my personality, that I seem to have my head screwed on right, that I'm entertaining, fun and so forth. I can never get sick of hearing sincere compliments about my legs, ass, hair and boobs ;D
yet honestly... words are meaningless in this business in the end... the best compliment in the world (IMO) is followed by action: spending money their money on me. :thumbsup:
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I tend to not remember compliments, they always go in one ear and out the other. In fact, it only pisses me off when a customer will tell me how I'm the hottest girl in the whole world or something like that but not spend a single fucking dollar. The best thing a customer has told me?
"Call me when you have a slow night, I'll fix it for ya"