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I like the idea of a twin flame. Makes me wish I met mine...does it have to be romantic though? Or can a twin flame be a friend?
I believe I have met two soul mates, cause I am of the thought that there are more than one soul mates and that they dont have to be romantic.
One is a very close friend of mine, and she lives up in NY while I am here in Colorado. I grew up with her, and she is kinda like a second mother to me.
The other is my husband. I truly feel we were ment to be together is this lifetime.
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I was skeptical but I am no longer. I am a believer!
And so I am marrying my soul-mate a week from tomorrow and I am halfway though carrying our first child. Something clicked in me the first time I met him and knew I had to see him again, the next time I saw him I never let him go. Thats not to say that this is always perfect, we work at our relationship and sometimes drive each other nuts. We went about things so quickly in our relationship and we still have a lot to learn about each other. But i know no matter what he is my partner in this life, and i believe we were put on this earth to be each others counterpart and mates. No one has ever made me feel the way he does, or understood me like he does. I am forever blessed to have him.
I think everyone deserves love like ours, and I hope everyone finds it someday.
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People who think alike make the happiest couples.
Im still working on ... "The word of God is alive and powerful, sharper than a two- edged sword, piercing even unto the dividing asunder of the soul and the spirit, the joints from the marrow, and is a critic of the thoughts and intents of the heart." It's the dividing asunder of the soul and the spirit part that challenges me. Is the the soul where the spirit resides? Soul mates? Soul mates share a common spirit.?
Anyway, I'll say no to the soul mates questions. I have witnessed that some people compliment each other so perfectly and with such mutual love that they seem to be one person. But to me a soul mate would never complain about anything, and would never give reason to make a complaint because the will of each is atuned so perfectly to the other.
Craps, in my life there were times when I was not that good to just myself.
If you are lucky enough to have found someone who cares about you, who carries you with them wherever they go, who makes every consideration about you then I say, "I really am happy for you. Truly so. And may such a wonderful life stay with you till a last breath leaves your body."
I think I'll take up rattlesnake kissing.
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I'm inspired by a lot of the posts here. I thought I was with a soul mate until a few months ago but it has dissolved into something I cannot understand; we have separated and she is still the human being I knew but there are dimensions to her that I didn't know...still I can't seem to fall out of love. So I guess I'm on the dark side of the soul mate question...I believe in soul mates, but maybe not in my own ability to recognize when she comes along--not good! :-[ A lot of the posts here give me hope though that, as FrustratedBunny says, you can find more than one soul mate in your life. Here's to that hope!
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Farrah_Holiday
I believe in soulmates..I had one for a very loong time..Unfortunately a lot of things had happened in my life and it was hard for me to be with him after a while. Then he got "famous" and it was hard for him to be faithful to me. Our relationship continued like that until I got the balls to move out of state.
I still to this day think he's my soulmate and he feels the same way about me.
We just "hate" each other..LOL
So to answer your question, yes, I believe in soumates.
Um.......have we had the same guy? LOL
I could type you post word for word, except I had to get out while he was at work. But yes he got `famous` and that didnt help. He is my soulmate because no-one knows me like he does and visa- versa. He is a c**t and in the exact same ways I am too. So we hate eachother and we love eachother, when we argue its like clash of the titans. But he will always be special.
The only other soulmate Iv had, and the one that has the biggest place in my heart though was my first dog. Such a handsome prince.
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I don't believe in destined soul mates. I believe that we can come across people we connect with because there is something about them we relate to, but I don't believe that you are born with one person out there for you. Monogamist propaganda!
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Indeed, I cant possibly believe there could only be 1 person for you. Im screwed if there is!
Seriously though, with the millions of people in the world, its silly to believe there is only one person for everyone. Besides, people evolve thier thoughts, ideas, personalities, our perfect love at 21 will be different to our perfect love at 31.
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Jezzebelle
...people evolve thier thoughts, ideas, personalities, our perfect love at 21 will be different to our perfect love at 31...
Excellent point! :D
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do you think someone could become attracted to somebody they thought was a soulmate????
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Yekhefah
How do you define "soul mate"?
I think they say it best in Wedding Crashers.....
It is your soul's recognition of its counterpoint in another.
Ok the quote was actually True Love is..... but after hunting for a long time to remember where I heard the damn thing.... it works for me!
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I believe DJSlider is my soul mate but shhh don't tell Pogo :O
Its okay though Slider is in denial about our soul matedness ::)
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Callyish
I believe DJSlider is my soul mate but shhh don't tell Pogo :O
Its okay though Slider is in denial about our soul matedness ::)
WHAT!?!?!?! I thought I was the only one that felt that was the case!:O
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Oh Slider if only it could be *sigh*
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Callyish
Oh Slider if only it could be *sigh*
I know, I know......
where oh where are you tonight
why did you leave me here all alone
I searched the world over and thought I found true love
You met another and pffft you were gone! :(
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Honestly,
I believe soul mates are made, not born. People can grow together to be soul mates, even if they don't start off perfectly matched(which is probably impossible).