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Working groups?
I find that I generally do okay at talking up dances, etc. with guys who come in alone, or with a two-some (although I'll usually take another dancer with me to "divide and conquer"), and since I'm one of the few girls in my club who is actually comfortable with couples (M-F: I usually talk up both, but mainly the girl, and then I'll ask the guy, "So are you going to buy your wife/girlfriend a dance, or just get one for yourself?" The guy is then usually really excited by the idea of his wife/girlfriend getting a dance and will either buy one for her or one for both of them.), I usually do okay there.
My problem is how to hustle a table full of guys (or a mixed-gender table)... I never know how to turn up the hustle on one of the guys without giving the impression to the others that I'm uninterested in them. And sometimes I get the excuse that "I'm hanging out with my friends and don't want to leave them out here alone," or something similar.
So what's the best way to hustle a group of guys at a table? Ideally, I'd like to get dances from all or at least a few of them, or at least to not get locked onto the ONE guy at the table who's broke or doesn't want to spend his money. What's a good way to hustle these tables?
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Re: Working groups?
Just walking over and addressing them all at once works for me. I usually don't approach each guy in the group for dances one by one. And I find that a lot of times, if you address them all at the same time, they'll all try to make sure one of their buddies gets taken back, it's like a team effort lol. Just make sure you give him a good lap dance so he'll tell all his buddies how great it was when he gets back and when you go over and ask the group who's next they'll be eager to go with you. ;)
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" Hey guys. We are gonna play a game. It's called the LapDance Waterfall. Here's how it works. The first guy is gonna buy his friend a lapdance. That friend has to return the favor and buy the guy next to him a dance. Then that guy has to buy the next guy a dance. So we'll go around in a circle, each guy buying the one next to him a dance. The last guy buys the first guy his dance, so each of you will all recieve and pay for 1 dance. Who's gonna be the first one to start the waterfall?"
I also play this game and call it the Karma Dance. Tell them that they will get good karma buying the guy next to him a dance. Karma will make it's way aroud the circle, and then the last guy to get a dance buys the first guy 2 dances.
OR I do the Karma dance, but instead of telling the whole group what's up, I just talk the first guy into buying his friend a dance. Then while I'm dancing for the friend, I whisper in his ear that he needs good Karma and should buy the guy next to him a dance. When he does, and I start dancing for the third guy, I say the same thing. I say, he bought one for him, then he bought one for you, it's only right to keep the karma alive and buy the other guy one, right? And I just keep going, being passed from guy to guy until I complete te group.
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The BEST way to work a group is to take note of who is looking at you when you walk up. That's the one you approach first.
If no one is staring at you as you come up to the group, you should pick out the one who looks money. by "looking money" i mean well-dressed, nicely-groomed, or at least the best of this in that group, because sometimes no one is money-looking.
if it's a Bachelor party, approach ANY one of them. Immediately ask which one the bachelor is. Take a quick look at him, and be direct. "Oooh, I want to give him a dance! It's *only* $20. Send me away with him!" Works most of the time. If the first one doesn't want to do it, look to the next one.
If it's a Bach party and you don't realize this walking up, and then you find out, ask for to dance for the bachelor, same way. Then say, "After I'm done with him, I want to play with you/have fun with you, because really, that's why I came over here!" Now you've set yourself up for two dances!
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i pick the ugly guy in the group, or the outcast quiet one. the other, more confidant guys are used to being hustled.
by sweetening up the ugly guy and expressing my interest in getting naked for him out loud, i've usually got one of the ring leaders throwing money at me to take him away. they wanna see him squirm to get a laugh out of it. i don't care, it works for me and my guy gets his lapdance paid for. the ugly ones are usually nicer too and never give any trouble or smart-ass comments.
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good tip, April Leigh! I'm going to use that one next time!