When love becomes obsession..(sad)
I got a text message on Thursday from my ex's sister who is like a little sister I never had..Anyway..It read Aunt P's dead. I replied with WHAT ?!?!
I couldn't stand the whole texting thing so I called. Apparently she was killed by her boyfriend. The details are still so sketchy right now. She'd been missing for a few days and then some how they found out she was dead..
I'm here thousands of miles away and there is nothing I really can do.
Even if I was in Houston, it would probably be worse to witness the sadness first hand. P was such a nice and loving person, sometimes too loving and caring. She was a special ed teacher and gave all of herself to the students.
It's so sad that "love" can take this type of drastic route..That's always been one of my biggest fears and a main reason why I rarely date. It seems like as soon as it's time to cut off the relationship, people turn into obsessive crazied lunatics..I was telling my "lil' sis" that we need to let her death be a lesson to us and really watch the people we let into our world.
Guarded,
Farrah
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Glamazon
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thanks..I'm really sorry for her oldest grandaughter..they were so close and she could confide in her whenever her mom was being a selfish bitch which is basically all the time. I don't know how that side of the family is going to hold it together, Portia did everything for whom ever asked, without a second thought and she was the rock who held everyone together.
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I am so sorry for you lost Farrah. It is sad that the ones we love our tooken away by some lunatic. It makes me very upset to hear how much of a wonderful person your aunt was in her life. Than a jealous person took away such a special person who had a postive affect on so many lives.
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Farrah_Holiday
. It seems like as soon as it's time to cut off the relationship, people turn into obsessive crazied lunatics..I was telling my "lil' sis" that we need to let her death be a lesson to us and really watch the people we let into our world.
,
Farrah
^^ You could not have said it better, I learned the hard way!
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:hug: I'm sorry you're going through this.
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I am so sorry for you lost Farrah. It is sad that the ones we love our tooken away by some lunatic. It makes me very upset to hear how much of a wonderful person your aunt was in her life. Than a jealous person took away such a special person who had a postive affect on so many lives.
^^ You could not have said it better, I learned the hard way!
I speak from experience too..Very few of my many relationships, short and long term, end in any way "normal"..
What makes me even madder is the more I learn about what happened the more it didn't need to happen. Apparently she'd been staying with her daughter (M) to help her out with her x kids (we won't even go there right now::) )and M kicked her out because her new boyfriend ( that she just met and moved in) didn't want her there. So P had been living with her boyfriend who was extremely abusive..She'd also asked her sister (B, my ex's mom) and her mom (Memaw, Southern family) if she could move in with them, at the time neither or Memaw wanted her there..Now that she's dead of course everyone is all broken up and saying how she could've lived with tham..Yada,yada..
She could've had her own place if she wasn't always giving M money to help support her and her kids. Not to mention, I just found out there was an article about her on ..I'm told she was listed as an unknown female and her body was fucking decomposed.. She was found on Thursday but, no one knows how long she'd been dead or any of the details..The boyfriend still hasn't been found. I've tried searching the site for the story but, I'm not having any luck.:(
My lil' sis says at least she is in a better place.. I guess that's one way of looking at it. I feel pissed and that none of this should've happened in the first place..But, I could sit here and go over what ifs all day. That's not going to change anything.
I'm not a firm believer in the death penalty but, I hope his ass fries !
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:hug: I'm sorry you're going through this.
Thanks Ahmeerah.
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Where is Army SGT, when you need him..I'm sure he could find the story for me.
*off to pm him*
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I found it..The house looks scary and unkept..No info on the killer :(