Originally Posted by
kitty260
Not attacking you at all here, but the reason people are being critical is because all we ever see is a one-sided issue. To us, it just looks like he's just letting his "pride" get in the way of providing for his family...and yeah, it makes him look really bad. My man is an HR specialist (and paid VERY well) but if he ever lost his job, you'd better believe he'd be pumping gas for minimum wage in five seconds to put food on the table. Having at least a little bit of money coming in is worth swallowing your pride for.