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i will say this: i love you. and you will come thru this. counting the year anniv wont help anything so give up and concentrate on something else. hey at least no one is distracting you form getting amazingly great grades. and trust TM on her words that cutey agreed with. she's SO right.
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Yekhefah
Those guys do not deserve you anyway, Pooka. Good on you for holding out.
That's what I was going to say! Think about the awkward downside of a one-night stand. Definitely don't get laid just to get laid.
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Think about the awesome upsides of one-night-stands, though. Sex with strangers is often fun.
There is nothing wrong with getting laid just to get laid. It's not for everybody at every time, but if people have those thoughts, there is nothing the matter with them.
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Pooka sweety! It's okay! I mean, sure sex is nice, and having someone is nice, but please be proud of yourself for being picky with who you allow to be that close to you!
My lil sister is going on 7 months now of no sex. And she was saying to me the other day how she's almost ready to just go out and find someone to screw.... but not relly. Same thing with her, she just wants to find a normal guy, whith goals in life, a head on his shoulders, and respect for her.
So don't feel bad...
Note: This is not to say that women who do go and have recreational sex are bad or wrong....not the case at all. If it makes you happy and you're responsible, then more power to you!
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PookaShell
Yea - while I was strolling around my apartments at 6 am two different guys asked for my number. But....yeah they were just getting home from being out and reeked of weed and alcohol. *sigh* I guess I am picky.
Thats not just picky but smart. Yea real attractive first impression when a guy is all stoned and drunk asking you for your number. Hope you didn't give your number to them. Pooka deserves the best. :)
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PookaShell
Yea - while I was strolling around my apartments at 6 am two different guys asked for my number. But....yeah they were just getting home from being out and reeked of weed and alcohol. *sigh* I guess I am picky.
This explains this:
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PookaShell
My standards aren't even that high. All Im even looking for is respect for themselves and others, some form of ambitions, and a nice personality. I can't find it in this city.
So what's wrong with that? Sex, or choice of soft drink, make all your choices so that you live with no regret. What's the point in doing it, if you're going to regret it? Whatever your point of view, the less you know someone the more the risk is the higher the involvement. So like a Casino, getting a one night stand from someone you just met carries a higher risk of regret-free act than does getting to know someone you feel comfortable with because they have ambitions, a nice personality, and respects you as YOU know them to.
Don't feel sad at yourself for not getting laid pookah, you're going the drama-free route. You'll thank yourself later when the relationship you DO find carries more benefit and dependability with less work.
Anyone can get a one night stand. Only few people know what they WANT, and even fewer actually commit to attaining it.
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PookaShell
I heart our SW Boys. But I'm starting to regret not posting this in Ladies Only.
:-\
Aww, I hope this isn't a me thing? Is it me? It's me isn't it. Awww Damn. I wont post in here after this than. SORRY! MAH BRAIIIINNN HUUURRRTTTTZZZ
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TigersMilk
In my mind bad sex is worse than no sex. So you're doing good for yourself. Its perfectly ok to be picky. Besides everything you listed most younger guys don't have and won't have until they are a bit older. Its slim pickens for the younger crowd of women.
Youth is waisted on the young....wait...I'm young....whoaboy....
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When the time comes -- with someone you've decided is the right someone -- it will be glorious!
It's nice to see you posting again. I've missed your beautiful eyes.