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Girlfriend Experience.... a lot of the girlfriends I've had... that's not really an experience you want.... yet those are the parts that translate best to the club environment.... the jealousy... being taken for granted... being treated like an ATM... being expected to be a mindreader...
on the other hand, many of the good things about having a girlfriend... the great sex... the lazy mornings together in bed... the little surprises... the quiet times together... the crazy times together... the feeling of being together with someone... not so much in the club.
Harry Truman said if you want a friend in Washington, get a dog. I say if you want a girlfriend experience, get a girlfriend.
Whatever happened to Xanfiles1 when you need him? He and R19 could share a thread and write long, profound, confusing posts to each other.
My TV dinner is ready. :hungry:
The medicine cabinet is between here and the microwave. Anyone need an aspirin, antacid tablet or cough drop while I'm away?
Sorry, that's about all I can add here. Reading into this thread any deeper may cause me to have a stroke.
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It's fairly obvious to me that the op wants to know how much he needs to pay to get into a "good girl's" pants. I'm not sure why he thinks strippers come with a price tag but I definitely get the idea that this is what he wants to know.
Short of that he wants to know how much he has to pay to get a girl to pretend that he is the hottest guy in the club I think? and maybe he also wants to know why other guys try and score the gfe experience in the club as opposed to an escort service... but I think he needs to answer that himself since he is the one seeking it!
But mind you I have only obtained this clarity by not reading any of his posts and skimming through them, so perhaps on closer inspection he is just a big old attention seeker!
^^^ Actually Flick I think he is more like Jane Goodall ( do i have that right? ) in the jungle studying the habits of gorillas. Except his jungle is a stripclub and his gorillas are the dancers and customers.
So like Jane would do, he questions...
What signals that a male is ready for GFE?
How do the dancers tell each other - hand off b$%tth - thats my custy!!!
How does the male impress the dancer enuf to initiate mating...
How does the GFE male react to other males wanting similar GFE ...
Thats what I think he wants ... the total sociological/economic underpinnings of GFE in a sc ...
Of course i could be way off base...
^^^ Dian Fossey?
^^^ Who is Jane Goodall then .. dang! Oh I see dhe studies chiimps... I guess then R19 studies chumps
I posted why I go to SCs somewhere (yes all over the map) but I have been on a PDA posting and spending wayyyyy too much time. But this is shit built up over a long time at clubs. Yes I could have simply tried this GFE pay to talk shit myself or asked a dancer but I have not so I am asking here.
My preference is for more dances than not but I have limited money and I would like to bs quite a bit with the dancers so they aren't bored - buy 'em some drinks and help some stay motivated or point out guests that look like they will spend bank. Look I am definitely not the most popular guy in the place, but I have number of dancers that think I am cool to hang with and have some 'things' going on now and in the past.
A part of why I go to clubs is to watch people - the game on both sides...
good one! Yes, I got amp'd to post a ton - I just found this place and didn't know something this serious would exist for SCs and dancers. Clearly, I think it's spectacular if it helps dancers bank more money and stay safe...
RE PDA, when I first got it I did bring it when I went out (new toy!!!) but it is big and also has a camera so I figured it is best left in the car when I am at a SC and most other places I go out. Although it doesn't look like it now, I am usually wayyyy too busy to be on the net like this.
This thread is hilarious ! Did anyone catch the part where he said he gets turned on by hot guys ? I choked. Keep smokin' that pipe R19:D
I hope that this is my last post of the day. RE hot guys, hell yes. I am am young and attractive so I get hit on by guys from time to time. I have been to parties where most of the guys are gay and had fun! It is fun to get hit on. Have never done anything more than flirt and receive light kiss/kisses. But I am not ashamed to talk about it. And I think people who say hey are not attracted to beauty, hmmmm...
But this is hilarious because a decent number of dancers I see are lesbian or bi to some extent and many of them talk about it with me. Although, for women I see it is much different.
Been posting for just over a day and will be completely slowing my roll - at least I got a lot of you entertained in a good or bad way...
:headache: I highly doubt it'll be your last post seeing as though you're still online three hours after that one. It's still early. There are still more people to confuse. :hypnotize
I will give you credit for keeping everything in one thread though
this is funny. I work in SF and at least half our dancers pull MIDDLE 5 figures every month. It's a gentlemans club, we get wonderful men and woman from all over the world due to our location in SF.
For the 5 figure girls, it may be LOW in the off months, but in the good months...middle to high, easy. Even myself, in the good months, 5 figures is not as hard as I would've thought. Reason being, money is EVERYWHERE and it flows like WATER and it sits in people's bank accounts, and some of these people really appreciate the right kind of woman. If there's one thing my profession has taught me, it's NEVER judge a book by its cover and also just how much money there really is in the world.
Anyway, to answer your question, I'd charge $500 for an hour. That my include a few spiradic (sp?) dances + a drink if I'd like one. Other girls at my club have loving regulars and may get $1000 an hour. And where I am, I'd get skipped in the stage rotation so I can devote the time to my man, and tip the DJ $40 + the standard $20.
i am dying over here. i thought we were talking about GIRLFRIEND expriences, not BOYfriend...
ha. yeah. except for the identical one in blue. where he says that he doesnt have a lot of money to spend on dances.. yet he's talking about how girls are making 6 figures.. clearly that money isnt coming from him ::)
^^^ Britt for u , I can make a great deal on a BFE .... ;)
Everything is beginning to make sense ... lolQuote:
From R19->I have been to parties where most of the guys are gay and had fun! It is fun to get hit on. Have never done anything more than flirt and receive light kiss/kisses.
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BANANA PHONEEEE.
Okay so - is there not enough to make fun of in this thread without treating male homosexuality or bisexuality as some kind of shameful disease? What's the big if he likes kissing guys?
^^^ No its not a shameful disease ... but then neither is any human quality that we sometimes poke fun - fat, skinny, Canadian, fungal toes ... ( well fungal toes may actually be a disease) Of course neither should we make fun of diseases!!
If I offended anyone I am sorry ..