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Anyone going through a hard time right now?
Our member Sultry_eyes had her grandma pass away a few days ago. She is the one Calypso the kitten was sent to. On top of that she had to have oral surgery and I was wondering if good thoughts and prayers can be sent to her and her family.
Are you going through a hard time? Need T&P's? I'm here for you.
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Lots of happy thoughts being sent her way~
I'm glad this thread was started. What a nice idea. Everything's goin' peachy for me, though :)
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I'll send my prayers to her and her family...
as for a hard time...well I guess it could be worse. I'm just dealing with it day by day. My stepmom has lymph node cancer, stage 4. She was told she has about a year, and that's only if the cancer remains below the neck lymph nodes. She got an infection from the IV port that was put in a month or 2 ago. It was so bad that they had to sedate her.
Today was the first day that she wasn't completely under. She was going to be moved from ICU into the Cancer ward but then they realized that her heart was going crazy and that she was completely disorientated. She didn't know the year, who she was, where she was...absolutely nothing. So she stays in ICU.
I left work in tears and had to rush there, since the doctors and my father told me it can't get any worse....the next step...was death.
I'm not ready to say goodbye...but I don't think I will ever be.
heh. I could ramble on and on...but I won't. Any positive thoughts and prayers for her and my family would be greatly appreciated....
sorry for the long post....
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Wonderful idea for a thread! I'm feeling so inspired and touched by SW tonight!
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Big hug Hanna, I am so sorry and I am sending T&P for you and your family.
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^^ I'm sorry to hear that, Hannah :'(
I hope everything will be alright. Happy thoughts to you, too.
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Yeah, much of the last 18 months for me...
It's good to not be judged by people who in private think I was "better" before, but otherwise say I'm better off now.
Fuck...
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I'm sorry Nina. Hey you have been 109 day with out smoking! That is great!!! Good for you hon.
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Thanks.
As for the OP, oral surgery sucks so bad. Milkshakes are a nice treat if you're a bit healed up. Feel better soon!
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Yeah I had oral surgery a while back and it was horrible.
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Actually, yes. I am in WI today because both my grandma and my aunt passed away. I actually have to drive to the internment (sp?) for my aunt in 5 minutes.
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Originally Posted by
VegasPrincess
Actually, yes. I am in WI today because both my grandma and my aunt passed away. I actually have to drive to the internment (sp?) for my aunt in 5 minutes.
Sorry for your losses, VP.
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VegasPrincess I'm sorry honey :(
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VP, really sorry about your loss, dear. I'm sending out a prayer for you. :grouphug:
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My parents are splitting after 36 years of marriage. My father's an alcoholic mess who abuses my mom. I'd be surprised if he lives another year. My mom just said she only stayed with him to make sure me and my brother got a shot at college. Man, this sucks.
My happy thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who's having a hard time.
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oh geez..... hannah, vP, rozz.... hugs, condolences, good thoughts and sympathy/empathy..... :'( i hope everyone makes it through ok.... this thread was a good idea.
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My husbands Opa (grandfather just died. He's a member here my husband and bt2001 just in case and damn it we were in the middle of dinner and now he doesn't want to eat and he's crying and the kids are going nuts and oh man.
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Ladies, this place, and you girls have come to mean quite a bit to me, and my heart goes out to those of you having hard times right now. I know it's almost impossible sometimes, but try to remember during these tough times that This Too Shall Pass. And that there are people out there who care about you wish you nothing but the best in life.
I wish I were an angel, so that I could wrap my wings around those who need to be protected, create a breeze for those who need to be lifted up and blow the clouds away for those who need to see the light.
:hug:
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I'm having some issues lately...but I've whined about them all enough on here so I wont repost.
HUGE hugs to all here who need them though. I have truly come to think of this community as family so my heart goes out to all who need a boost.
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*Grumbles and kicks a can*
I'm having a hard day today. I am hearing things, and they're not nice things. I got upset over something a few hours ago and it's been downhill from there. My first reaction was to get in my car and just drive to nowhere, but there were tornados so I couldn't. After that I wanted to cut *so* bad but it's been almost 14 months and I don't want to break my record. So now I'm just sitting here waiting for meds to kick in and every evil thought on the planet is running through my head. It's scary and I don't even know why I'm writing about it right now, but it's better than crying.
This fight sucks. Slooooooooooow down brain! Slow down and shut up! Shhhhhhhh! Ok, I'm done.
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I found out my mum has cancer and nobody will stop bugging me about it. I refuse to ask her questions about it or anything - so I don't know much other than 'breast cancer'. I don't know the stage or anything because I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT. Of course, saying that while living in a house full of dumb people spawns the 'Oh you wanna talk about it but you just don't know it' groupies who won't go away. I had a forty minute lecture on 'being there' for my mother in her 'time of need' by a woman I didn't even know! I'm taking my mum on a vacation to one of the seven wonders of the world in less than a MONTH, I think my way of being there for her is damn good enough, you strange crazy batty old woman.
I'm having some other troubles, but they're on that list of 'good things will happen if I don't talk about them' I mentioned in the random thread. Hopefully all goes well. If it doesn't, I'll be quite sad. So if people can wish me well for the 'thing Lysondra won't talk about' to their prospective gods, I'd LOVE that.
And I'll do the same to mine for everyone else, if they don't mind my well wishing being to strange dieties. :)
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gingerlee
After that I wanted to cut *so* bad but it's been almost 14 months and I don't want to break my record. So now I'm just sitting here waiting for meds to kick in and every evil thought on the planet is running through my head.
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That's great that it's been almost 14 months. You've got me beat by over a year!
ETA: I wish Lysondra well for the thing she won't talk about.
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Thanks ladies. Hugs to all of you.. Rozz, Ginger, EE, HHL, LYS, Cameron....
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Oh man guys life is hard isn't it?
I wrote this last night and wanted to share.
Journey.
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.
Blinded by brightness we enter this enormous small world, knowing nothing, able to do almost nothing, depending on others to guide us, care for us and love us.
We speak no words yet we are understood.
We barely move but can cause a commotion.
What will we be? who knows?
What will we see? who knows?
What will we like? who knows?
What will we hate? who knows?
Answers to these questions are given to those who ponder, but certainty can never be expected, for our journey can change in an instant.
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.
We grow.
We smile.
We laugh.
We cry.
We get frustrated.
We get upset.
We feel pain.
We feel joy.
We live! and at times we barely hang on.
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.
Things change. What we like changes. What we used to like no longer entertains us or perhaps it does but do not want to admit it. Interesting things may occur, amazing things can happen around us but we may not see them as such.
Out side of this box it does not really matter,
Deeper and deeper we dwell on what we want and make a fuss when we don't get it and sometimes if we do get what we want we dwell on how we wished we never got it.
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.
The choices, the amount of choices, the lack of choices, the obstacles, placed in front of us can become the only things we place our focus on because we no longer have that which we had before, the depending on others to guide us, care for us and love us. We must move on.
We must move on merely to do it again and again.
We smile.
We laugh.
We cry.
We get frustrated.
We get upset.
We feel pain.
We feel joy.
We feel alone.
We feel surrounded by many things and nothing at the same time. Looking for the answers to the questions others before us have asked themselves at some point with out ever getting the response that is wanted.
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.
-Sigh-
What happened?
Where did it all go?
How?
-Sigh-
So soon? Memories come back. Old choices seem obvious. Regrets can taunt. Validation can be given.
New ones who need guidance in this enormous small world arrive to depend on us.
What will they be? who knows?
What will they see? who knows?
What will they like? who knows?
What will they hate? who knows?
But the new journey is sure worth watching. As long as we always remember,
We are only here for a little while and at times it seems as if we live for an eternity.