OMG this website is so amazing!
I have been doing 'research' for ages on dancing, lap dancing etc for absolutely ages. I have wanted to be a dancer for about four years and am finally getting round to it.:) I have read so many of the postings on this site and to be honest I have probably stressed at most of the topics mentioned, am I too fat?, too old?, how do I do my make up?, how to give a good lap dance?.... well as I said every topic lol.This site has answered so many of them and I have finally decided to get off my bum and give it a go.
So really I just wanted to say cheers and here is to a hopefully well informed but fun career change. Oh if any of you have got any advice for over-weight, old poledancers all is gratefully received:D
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Oh kittty I'm glad we could help!
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I hope it's everything you want it to be!
Good luck, sweetie. You must let us know how it turns out!!!
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;D Thanks for your posts am still so excited about this site am back again already. Have just been laughing my head off at the horror stories about some of the worse strippers. I feel really bad cos I would hate to be the subject of one of the stories (will let you know any embarrassing moments as soon as I have them), but it is quite encouraging to know that for all my worries about being a newbie that I am really not that bad lol.
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Well, good luck with everything, hon! :) Let us know how it goes!
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yay! when are you starting? :)
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I have been really lucky because I have got someone who already dances to show me a few tricks and she is also helping me to perfect my private dances. Then when I feel ready she is taking me to her club to audition. So hopefully if nerves hold out I will be dancing within the next couple of weeks.If not I will just keep trying until I do get in. The worst that can happen is that I will end up super fit and be able to do some seriously sexy dancing for my boyfriend lol will let you know how it goes.;D
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well I met with my lovely lady today to go through a few moves, and although I knew it was gona be hard, but it was real hard for me to get my head into gear.I just couldn't think that I was sexy. I just felt like a hippo in heels. I know the problem was in my head as I can usually shake my ass with the best of them:) but the confidence just wasn't there. Any way have made three more dates to meet up to keep practicing and will keep practicing my sexy thoughts hahaha. Am sure it will be better next time. I have spent loadsa time looking through the threads on this site so will continue to do so for inspiration.
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i am glad that you are doing things that you feel will help you.
I would also like to say that its good to learn moves and ideas from other people, but what is also even more helpful is to practice alone, in front of a mirror. do what you feel is sexy, see what it looks like. different moves work differently on each person and can be modified a bit for each person. :)
If the moves that somebody else is giving you doesn't make you feel sexy, maybe its not actually you but rather the moves. What also might be good to get yourself in the mood is make your surrounding environment sexy. try adding a black light and choose music that makes you feel sexual/sexy. :)
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Thanks for that I think I know what you mean. She was very good with the technique and I got loads of help with spins etc, I just felt that my body wasn't moving very naturally with the other stuff. I went through absolutely tonnes of music when I got home including some recommended on this site and have got a list that I think I will feel better dancing to. I have also decided to invest in a huge mirror for my bedroom as I currently have a pole but no way of seeing how I look::). Other than the huge amount of aching in my shoulders this morning I am feeling really optimistic again:).
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^ the mirror is not really needed. go practice at the club before opening or after closing one night, and see yourself then!
mirrors are too expensive. big ones i mean. i'm the ikea queen and i know, even for cheap shit, a mirror big enough for you to evaluate yourself will be mega bucks! (mega bucks to me = $80)
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Well the place where I am having my lessons is actually in the club. I suppose I just feel at a loss really cos I know there is a job there pretty much waiting for me, yet I still can't get over my self consciousness. This is really doing my head in cos I know I can do it and have wanted to for ages. I am wondering if I am just putting added pressure on myself because Christmas is coming and I could do with the extra money. Maybe this is stopping me from relaxing and getting into it? I just thought that if I could see myself at home while I practice it would help me./:O
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Really, you should just go do it. Believe me, once you go do it, you are gonna be so proud of yourself!! Don't let your nerves stop you, now that you have had a few lessons you certainly have an advantage over a lot of newbies. :)
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:)Thank you everyone who has posted on this thread and thanks Pookie your post was the kick up the ass I needed. after all your right I am in a much better position than a lot of girls. I have got a pole in my bedroom, and have someone to show me what to do. I have got the tan, the hair, and the nails and I can walk in my six inch stripper heels so what am i waiting for? lol :D:D:D have got a lesson on Thursday this week so am gonna set up an audition at the club. X
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yay!!!! :) what kind of club?
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Is pole/lapdance club??? No contact which is good. Am actually really looking forward to it. Will see what happens and will just keep going until I get in :)