I am grateful to exotic dancers for letting us men live our fantasies of seeing beautiful female bodies in their naked glory. What I wonder is: How do ladies become so uninhibited? After all, it is a long way from, say, wearing a brief bikini on a beach, to going topless in a club, to stripping off the G-string, to doing graphic floor shows, to giving up-close private dances, to rubbing and grinding. And this is mostly for guys you wouldn’t give the time of day to OTC. How do you come by the motivation and/or get past the fear? After all, for most of us, being naked in a roomful of people is a nightmare. Is the loss of inhibition a slow process, or is there some innate desire to put oneself on display?

