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So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
I ended up spending like, 8 hours straight with this girl (at the club obviously, some of the time paying for dances/etc) and we drank a lot. And I can hold my liquor, she must've been drunk. She asked for my number, told me all about her family life and stuff, what she wants to do with her life, and a ton of stuff that I think she must have been too drunk to effectively make up completely. Plus she kissed me (zomg) and was otherwise cuddly/affectionate for the duration of this time, yeah yeah I know she's just trying to get some $ outta me (which she did, a lot) but I ask you...
...any remote snowball's chance in hell that this girl is interested in me at all? I mean if she was completely acting the entire time, she could be a CIA spy for all I know because she was good at it...
Also I'm new here, hi guys :)
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Here we go again. First of 2008 I believe.
It's a slim chance at best. Use the search function. You are not the first to ask this. Happy New Year's.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
lol alright my bad, lock/del if necc i'll search thru the past posts
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
stripper's are women too, you know. Some are players, some want money, some act interested and some get drunk. Oh yeah, and it's also our job to do threeof these things . If we are interested, you will know.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
just a small thing i want to point out.. you think she was too drunk to make things up? there is a good chance she a) wasnt drunk. we can get fake drinks. or b) she can drink a lot and wasnt as drunk as you think she was. remember that if she was honestly drinking that much there's a good chance she does it on a regular basis when she works and can hold her alcohol.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Go back in tomorrow, don't spend any money on her, ask her out and see what happens. Report back here with results....
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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Originally Posted by
britt244
just a small thing i want to point out.. you think she was too drunk to make things up? there is a good chance she a) wasnt drunk. we can get fake drinks. or b) she can drink a lot and wasnt as drunk as you think she was. remember that if she was honestly drinking that much there's a good chance she does it on a regular basis when she works and can hold her alcohol.
Well, all the drinks were these mini bottles of wine that come individually sealed, plus tequila shots. I'm sure she can hold her liquor, but I can drink like a fish (and do) and I was feeling pretty drunk. It's possible it's a well-scripted routine, but it seems unlikely considering she had at least 5 or 6 shots of tequila, 7 or 8 glasses of wine, pills (lol) and some redbull/vodkas, and she weighs mebbe a hundred pounds soaking wet.
I mean I'm a great lying drunk too... but this would have been an oscar worthy performance from me... I dunno.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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Originally Posted by
yoda57us
Go back in tomorrow, don't spend any money on her, ask her out and see what happens. Report back here with results....
Erm maybe I dunno... I was hoping there was a lower-exposure method to determining the situation than this to be honest...
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
ok. so. short and dirty. we dont know her, we dont know the situation past what you tell us, so we can offer no advice. yes, she may be head over heels for you. she also may have been acting that way BECAUSE she was drunk. she might have been doing a fabulous job at work. any of those options, plus others, are equally possible. we can't help ya.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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mbillie1
Erm maybe I dunno... I was hoping there was a lower-exposure method to determining the situation than this to be honest...
If you don't have the cajones to ask her out then she probably doesn't like you.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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OdysseusNJ
If you don't have the cajones to ask her out then she probably doesn't like you.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Sorry I don't understand your picture response. Not a big NBA fan. Que? Is that a thoughtful face?
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lol nah that's the "oh snap... you're right" face
edit: or the "damn man..." face
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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Originally Posted by
britt244
ok. so. short and dirty. we dont know her, we dont know the situation past what you tell us, so we can offer no advice. yes, she may be head over heels for you. she also may have been acting that way BECAUSE she was drunk. she might have been doing a fabulous job at work. any of those options, plus others, are equally possible. we can't help ya.
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"So there IS a chance..."
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
how much a player can 22 year old be? Depends on how much experience she has under her t-back. Let's put it this way- by the time I was 22 I had already been at the game a few years and with the exception of giving out a phone number and a kiss, I did what you alot of described with any decent paying customer. Ofcourse back then kissing a customer was the equal to a handjob today. So maybe that will give you some perspective.
Now the real question is did you have fun? If the answer is yes and it sure sounds like it, then hey you've got yourself a potentional new favorite dancer at your local club.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Did she get alot of $$$ out of you? Does she seem to have good hustle, sly questions/answers?
And....you never know. Dancers have been known to hook up with custys before. And use them as well for time spent to rake in $$$$.
Could go either way.
I kinda like to say "Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places"!
Good luck.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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Pamela
Did she get alot of $$$ out of you? Does she seem to have good hustle, sly questions/answers?
And....you never know. Dancers have been known to hook up with custys before. And use them as well for time spent to rake in $$$$.
Could go either way.
I kinda like to say "Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places"!
Good luck.
She seemed to talk a lot and went out of her way to try to describe herself as contrary to the typical stereotypes of strippers imo, like "I didn't do this because I had a bad relationship with my father or anything" and such, lots of fairly personal (if true, of course) and unprovoked stuff, she definitely had a good hustle though. And she definitely got a lot of $ out of me, so you never know.
It's definitely a case of "my new favorite dancer ever" though :)
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Well you're in a SC and seem like no newbie. You know this can go either way. Next time a Dancer offers to take your number, get hers as well. It's only fair right. If she does not give her number (which no dancer should because we never no if one is a nut..lol) bad sign. Bad sign.
Hit the club if you don't hear from her in a few, and see what's up. I know it's tough, sometimes guys just fall hard for a smile, kiss and dance...you're not odd, you're human.
Lets see how it goes. Again could go either way. She may not actually want to deal with you, or she may be honest.
Go to the club. See how she behaves and DON'T spend a fortune on her. See if her tune changes.
Again...Good Luck.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
thanks for the advice everyone :)
I will, of course, bump with any updates hahaha
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
I might be speaking for myself, but it is extremely rare that I am interested in someone I meet at the club. The few times that I have had a "crush" on a club customer, I avoided them like the plague! I hate dancing for people or taking money from people in the club if I'm attracted to them. Maybe I'm weird.
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
Well I figured it was a fairly long shot... I'm relatively cynical and was just surprised by how oddly forward she was with everything (forward in a friendly way, not a dancing way, tho that as well) but hey it obviously worked so maybe I should just give credit where credit is due!
Either way, I guess the reason I go to the SC in the first place is to allow a beautiful, outofmyleague girl to trick me into believing she's in love with me :) so it worked out
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
I did all my best lying as a drunk 22 year old stripper
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
I'm a 22 year old stripper. I am an astonishingly good liar at work, drunk or sober. I'm seriously starting to believe my own BS backstory.
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otoh, if I'm willing to just spend money on her to hang out with her, (as I obviously am) what downside is there for her to hang out with me? lol
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Re: So how much of a player can a 22 year old dancer really be?
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mbillie1
And she definitely got a lot of $ out of me, so you never know.
Just curious, but how much is a lot?
I'm thinking she was having fun drinking and dancing for you and got a bit carried away. That happens sometimes. It's entirely possible she likes you, but it's equally possible that she was just drunk and carrying on with stripper shit.
I think you should stop in briefly and see her again, but only long enough to say hi, maybe have one beer, and exchange email addy's or phone numbers if she's up for it. It will be pretty clear from that whether or not she's interested.
Or you could just have fun with her like you did last night by coming into the club and being her regular. It sounds like you enjoyed your time with her drinking and dancing in the club is often more fun and exciting than actually trying to date. Keep us posted!