How to be someone's security
I've been talking to my fiancee' about freelancing in security. I say it's a little extra money here and there and he can gain cilentele. He says he doesn't want to babysit whores all night. /:O
How can he get into it without losing his integrity?:-\
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baby sitting whores?? charming :S
I call troll unless she can prove other wise
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If he doesn't want to babysit whores, he needs to be selective about who he works with. Not all girls that do private parties are whores.
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"Babysit whores all night", huh? If that's his view of dancers, he doesn't need to be working security for them at all. He won't be losing his integrity if he doesn't have any to begin with, because everyone knows that asshole bouncers are just what we need.
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I reckon someone with that attitude needs to look at another way of making money. If I were in the position I sure as hell wouldn't be sharing my earnings with someone spoke about women/dancers like that,
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this is a stupid thread, its obvious this guy doesn't want to do this job, why are you trying to consult this guy to otherwise.
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lil_miss_kabuki
He says he doesn't want to babysit whores all night.
Let me get this right.
You are an exotic dancer or stripper.
Your fiancee thinks that exotic dancers and strippers are whores.
What exactly attracted you to this person?
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Private-intellectual
Let me get this right.
You are an exotic dancer or stripper.
Your fiancee thinks that exotic dancers and strippers are whores.
What exactly attracted you to this person?
We met in high school. Lost track of each other. Found each other a while ago. Been going strong for over a year now. He's still having issues from his ex-wife cheating on him for all the four years they were married. I'm getting out of the game soon since I've gotten ill. He respected the fact that I did it to feed my son and pay bills, but now that he's doing all that he doesn't want to even think about me in a club right now.
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usually people make speculations based on what they know - and for him to say strippers are whores really says how great you have made him see the industry
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Originally Posted by
lil_miss_kabuki
I've been talking to my fiancee' about freelancing in security. I say it's a little extra money here and there and he can gain cilentele. He says he doesn't want to babysit whores all night. /:O
How can he get into it without losing his integrity?:-\
The short answer is I don't think he should.
If you go along with dancers, it's very important that they trust you (and you them). With a "dancers are whores" attitude, it's going to leak out and they ain't going to trust him.
Add in that PP's often involve higher contact and toys, and he's going to have trouble dealing with what he sees.
And baby sitting is what you do. If you go along with a dancer to a PP, you help out - pass out music, retrieve costumes, etc. If you can't deal with being the helpful guy in the background, don't go.
Phil.
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Well then he shouldn't babysit whores. He should babysit strippers.
:D
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I've done security for private parties. And really the best way to get started is to provide security for people you already know. And as other girls need they consult others for references to good security. And you can either refer your guy or if you don't want to share one of his friends who is similarly reliable and trustworthy.
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How can he do the job without losing HIS integrity? WTF does that even mean? You can't lose something you obviously didn't have to begin with.
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tell him to grow a pair of ...
He should not do the job with that mentality period. Theres needs to be some form of basic respect.