Girls stealing all the attention
Ok, so here's the situation. I work a small club with too many girls to guys. Even with that obstacle I can still work the crowd, get dances, and draw people up to my stage to pull away for dances after. However, I feel my appeal to custies has been squashed by these two Ukrainian dancers. Because they're friends OTC they do this double girl approach that really hooks the custies. They act like they're in love with one another (they're married to American men ..citizenship) staring admiringly at each other and even making out! They thicken their accents and get "lost" in translation to keep control of the conversation. Now they started getting on stage together!! They both dance like they learned from a Britney Spears music video but they get very suggestive of their raging lesbian "passion". And on top of all that the custies get $30 2 girl dances versus $20 standard plus they'll throw in complimentary freebies here and there.. and they're dirty.. sittin in laps and rubbin titties on custies in a full nude no contact club. How can the custies resist? Worse, they don't make GREAT $$$ off their custies. Like yesterday they prolly made $100 in dances each but played hours worth of pool and ate lunch with him at the bar. Now, he was talkin dances with me before I got on stage and they started playing pool with him. Had he not ignored me for them I would have had that full $200 to myself in a quarter of the time and dance count. >:(
How can I err.. out do this? Two nights ago I followed their stage and made nothing compared to them. And, people left after they were on before I could even get out there. I've been trying to grab the custies before they do but as yesterday proved even that is not guaranteed. Do I need to start coping feels of my coworkers now?! Realistically though, what do I do??
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Can they set their own prices for LD's? I know that wouldn't fly at my club, or most of the ones I've worked at.
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don't let these girls get inside your head 1st of all. Its sound like they are a couple of amatuers and if they stay working one custy for hours like that, you've got the whole rest of the bar to work! Stay positive and don't doubt your own skills, as we all know you're greatest competition can sometimes be yourself.
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there's not much you can do, unless they are REALLY breaking rules. my advice? just work on your own hustle. try not to focus on them so much, it will just discourage you and fill you with negativity... which is never good for your $.
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Not every guys fantasy is two girls.
Plenty of men would rather have the FULL attention of ONE beautiful woman.
And I'm sure they would rather know that THEY are turning you on, not another woman.
Tell your customers how attractive they are, be seductive. Hint that they're turning you on. Make it about them. Because onviously those girls are making it about themselves.
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Tell a manager if they are breaking the rules. If they aren't, there's not much you can do. They will keep doing the double teaming because it makes them money. Don't take that personal, it's just business. Focus on yourself and keep hustling.
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Pretty_Penny
my advice? just work on your own hustle. try not to focus on them so much, it will just discourage you and fill you with negativity... which is never good for your $.
Holler!! The top girls at my club never worry about the other girls. I've noticed that a lot of the lower earners at my club are the ones that always freak out when new girls are hired, or when there's a lot of girls working on a night and so on.
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hello?? tip the dj to put you on before the girls or way afterwards.
maybe talk to custies during their stage and talk about how hot they're making you, and try to convince you want to use up that horny energy on him.
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My guess is these girls won't be taking the club by storm for much longer. From having seen this "type" come through a nude, no contact gentlemen's club before, I can tell you that they'll probably eventually get themselves fired, or scared off and narked on by older girls who won't tolerate their shit.
A good hustler is never a one-trick pony. They have a gimmick that works, but it's not everything. You do your thing, bide your time, and these girls will most likely be gone soon.
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Just because they are appearing to cause a scene, and are so noticeable that everyone's staring including you, does not mean they are making more $$ than you, you have to remember that at all times. What did you do before they got there? What is everyone else doing? Keep doing you, and yes obviously they are NOT doing it right if they're charging $30 for 2. WTF? I might anonymously make that known to a mgr, if they would care.
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It sounds like management isn't enforcing their rules, so you'll have to just work around them. All you can do is brush up on your sales skills and be more assertive. Girls like that can be annoying, but if you're on your A-game at least they won't be a threat to your money.
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Well, you could rally a bunch of the other girls to get them fired. This isn't so hard to do in small clubs ;) I've seen with my own two eyes how a bunch of girls complaining to management will get a girl or two fired. Get a bunch of girls to complain EVERY shift until management gets so sick of hearing it, they fire the girls to shut yall up ;)
I agree with above poster who said chics like this don't usually last long in a no contact GC.
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Exactly what everyone else has been saying... Just concentrate on your hustle. You don't need to "out-do" them. Just keep feeling sexy, and be assertive. If you let them get to you, you will just have negative, jealous energy and that is what will cause you to lose money, not their tag teaming hustle.
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Like someone else said, not every guy is sold on the whole lesbian thing. They may capture a large niche but there's always got to be a few guys hanging around that aren't into that, and therefore they are YOURS for the taking. Get them!
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Even worse? They are doing you a huge favour. So there are only two of them; if they work as a team there are only one of them; one girl is already down. They can only work one customer (or two) at a time; they are not working the room like sharks, but hanging out with one guy for hours playing pool? Honey - you don't need to compete with them. They are taking themselves out of competition. Yay! Just don't focus on them.
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lol, you don't work in Philly by any chance, do you? B/c you just described the uber-irritating faux-lesbian ukrainian duo at my club perfectly. Ugh.
One thing I found that works when they're stealing the show is to beat them at their own game. One Saturday night a girl I'm friendly with and I were a little tipsy and decided we were sick of their attention-whoring shit and were going to play their game better than them. And we did. And we banked. :P
(But no, we didn't actually make out with each other and weren't dirty...)
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we have a girl at my club that has such an amazing stage set we just sit down with a guy when she goes up and talk instead of asking for dances cuz all the guys want to see her show. I have made TONS of money by talking to whatever guy i'm sitting with about how hot she is and how turned on i am, and usually by the end of her set, i dont even have to ask for a dance, the guy will ask me. You might try that. And team up ocassionally. The girls at my club like helping each other alot, and if we see a girl with a guy who looks interested but she cant close the sale, one of us goes up and pretends to grope her, saying "have you ever had a threesome?" Or if the girl prefferes to work alone, walk by if she isn't closing it and go "wow! you managed to get her? your so lucky!" and they'll do the same for you later. make sure its girls your cool with tho so you dont get taken advantage of or get it taken the wrong way.