I can take a joke. I can take a fuck every once in a while
Hell I have a foul moth myself but fuck it what is it with people, who don't even know a person or you and "Bitch please" and or "Is that bitch single?" and so on and so on, what there are no others words in you vocabulary? What you didn't go to school and you never heard the correct term for a woman, person? If I don't know why in the world would I even think it would be ok to have a conversation with you about a friend of yours, nothing bad is being spoken, just a random "oh yeah she is a really nice person" and wtf makes you say "is the bitch married?" I'm sorry what? what are some type of idiot?
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Can't say I've run across this. I wasn't even allowed to refer to anyone as a "woman" when I was little because it was rude; a female stranger is a "lady." I'm not quite that strict anymore but if some random stranger was calling me bitch this or bitch that, I would definitely say something.
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I HATE that! I have the worst potty mouth sometimes, but finding the word 'bitch' to describe a complete stranger never occured to me. It's a form of slang I suppose, but I don't get it. :shrug:
But who am I to judge, when I said 'fuck' in line at the grocery store yesterday, and there was a young child in front of me in line.
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The other day some custy in the club actually whistled at me. I marched up to him and said, "Do I look like a dog?"
Him- "Er, no..."
Me- "Well don't whistle at me, if you want my attention say excuse me, whistlings for dogs."
Wtf? Learn some manners, some people are just clueless.
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people need to RE-LEARN there manners apparently!
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There was this loser guy who had the worst English. He also had a Southern-sounding accent even though he'd lived in Philly his whole life! He talked like such white trash(and his family wasn't the classiest, but they weren't nearly as bad as white trash either). He said the words "ain't" and "jawn" and "y'all" a lot.
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I'm sorry, was this thread about people being rude and demeaning or about common accents and the derogatory stereotypes that go with them? Which to me is, uh, people being rude and demeaning. But whatever, yall.
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I had a VIP the other night where this guy was telling me about a nickname of his. Now-- he and I have just met. We're only about ten minutes into our 30 min VIP.
his nickname sounds like "goo." it's some cajun spelling geaux or something.
so I finally get me to tell me what it is.
His words: "It's a really ugly, nasty fish that *n-word* catch, and--"
Me: "excuse me? watch yourself. You can use different words"
dumbass: like what?"
Me: "Black people or African Americans"
Him: "okay well it's a fish that black people or anyone catches that's a really nasty, ugly fish"
okay,
a. if it's a fish that ANYONE catches, why the fuck are you singling out black people in such a derogatory way you white trash piece of shit?
b. you just met me. we're in a sexualized context and you think pulling out that word like you would pull it out with any of your white trash buddies is a good idea?
fucking moron.
now-- this guy was REALLY cute, but that just ruined the vip for me. I was counting down from that point on, and while I still made it a decent dance, it really wasn't as good as it would have been.
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and my post is in relation to using inappropriate terms. I have no problem with southern slang. I do have a problem with racism or an overt sexism that is so obviously derogatory.
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Originally Posted by
PhillyDancer1982
There was this loser guy who had the worst English. He also had a Southern-sounding accent even though he'd lived in Philly his whole life! He talked like such white trash(and his family wasn't the classiest, but they weren't nearly as bad as white trash either). He said the words "ain't" and "jawn" and "y'all" a lot.
I grew up in the Philly area my whole young life, am fairly well educated(certainly NOT white trash-ish) and I've said ya'll my whole life.
Not really sure how this would be considered rude
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I have some guy friends who tend to say this all the time.
Examples (Quoted word for word):
"I hope there are some hot bitches in my classes"
"Damn that bitch has nice titties"
"Bitches are easy to get presents for, like flowers and shit."
It drives me straight up the wall but I remind myself that there are differences between actual misogyny, popular misogyny, and popular culture.
The friends that say these words I would file under the category of "Popular misogyny" as in the "its ok to have outdated and sexist values because society makes it OK", and when I say the word myself (force of habit!!) it's more under the pop. culture file. It's what I hear as slang so frequently that I've begun to absorb it.
It irritates me and I say so!
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The sad thing is that it is seen as no big deal.
That just ticks me off even more.
If the person, does something to deserve the word like oh I don't know just do something horrid and bitch is what fits her sure but describing or asking about someone who you don't even know and as a term of female description just does not sit well with me.
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I'll admit it I what I'll call relaxed english at times; yet, no where near that bad. I do say fuck alot. But if I had a job interview tomorrow there is no way I would use such language. Its only very apparent to me when guys try to use crappy pick up lines on me.
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Yeah there is a relax mode, and freedom of speech and all, and yada yada but I also have the right to refuse to have your idiot language come in to my brain. Perhaps just common decency would be nice. Words are words and should not have power like that, you know to make a person so upset or whatever, I just think everyone had a few words they just can't stomach and in the text used Bitch is one of them. Well rant over.
Ok no it's not, it's like any type of respect you might have for a person just goes away once they speak in a horrid manner. FOr example a really good looking person, seems nice, polite in body language and gestures and the they open their mouth and say "what's up bitch" is like they transform in to Igor from Frankenstein to me.
Ok now over.
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I admit to using the phrase "whats up bitch" from time to time...but only as a joke. And I'm fairly obvious that I'm joking(at least..nobody yet has taken it seriously). I only say it to friends who know me well enough to know it's a joke or customers. I find it really tickles guys...esp. after the 100th girl has come over fake fawing over them and they are growing tired of it..for me to walk over and say flippantly "whats up bitch?". They always laugh after the initial shock wears off.
But to refer to someone as "bitch" that you dont know. And not be joking? No. It's ghetto and common and just reeks of disrespect.