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valentine's Day Gifts from Regulars?
Just curious if anyone's regs show up to the club with roses or heart shaped boxes of chocolate. It's a line that probably should never be crossed, but I'm sure there's some amusing stories in here.
Brought on by a request from the ATF for me to send her roses on V-Day as she has never received them from anyone.
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I like getting flowers at the club. I have never worked on valentines day but i would love to get something. Lots of money would be great too.
But as a woman, getting flowers is nice, always.
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Ahhh... I've gotten flowers, scented candles, lotions, candy, and other goodies from custies.
Do it!
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I ordered them yesterday. She told me she had a favor to ask me and she seemed a little nervous/embarrassed asking. I sent her a get well bouquet from her dog when she was ill, which was just the second time she had gotten flowers in her life (including 3 years of marriage). WTH is wrong with men/boys these days?
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I haven't gotten anything except money in the club, but I saw a girl last month get a bouquet and a VS box. I sure wouldn't mind getting gifts like that, so long as it's in addition to cash, not instead of cash.
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I think VS would be dangerous unless a guy is positive that he has the correct size. I had a bf (not regular) buy me a size L thong and 32A bra for v-day. I'm a size xs and a 34B. Needless to say I spent the day pondering if I looked like a size large.
Roses I think would be awesome from a regular but hopefully accompanied by cash or a gift card to a universal store like Nordstroms, Macys or Cash. Just flowers seems like an overly romantic gesture that is more appropriate for a boyfriend than a PL.
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In my stupid-ass PL days I showed up with an outfit for my then-ATF purchased from Victoria's Secret. We went into VIP where she modeled it for me before allowing me to remove it piece by glorious piece...it was fun.
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^^^^^I think thats cute!!
Also, gifts are always nice and appreciated. I would <3 to receive a Vdays gift from a regular.....
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I debated a VD gift for the latest in my line of 'favorite' dancers, but decided she'd probably rather have me spend the cash on a bigger tip when I see her Saturday. Flowers are nice, but don't last. Perfume lasts a while, but picking out a fragrance she'll like is tricky, same with apparel (sizes and styles). So, my anti-Valentine gift to her will be an extra Benjamin.
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I like flowers, chocolates, etc, as long as (like everyone else said), you aren't coming in thinking that those things count as 'tips'. Also, if you ever buy something edible, (chocolates, etc), make sure it's something she likes. A bar reg brings all the girls chocolate covered strawberries (fresh ones, they're amazing), every once in awhile, and that rocks.
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I think romantic gestures are best given and received when there already exists a romantic relationship. Otherwise, the gift is likely to be either creepy, stalkerish, tossed in the dumpster, or all three. I'll be going to the club tomorrow; my current ATF will be getting me requesting dances.
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Aw Lestat... such a romantic...
:p
But yeah, I am basically on the same page there.
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Originally Posted by
lestat1
I think romantic gestures are best given and received when there already exists a romantic relationship. Otherwise, the gift is likely to be either creepy, stalkerish, tossed in the dumpster, or all three. I'll be going to the club tomorrow; my current ATF will be getting me requesting dances.
That's totally, like, my favourite thing.
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I would love getting flowers at the club(or at home for that matter). It would totally brighten my day to get a surprise delivery of gorgeous flowers.
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LOL PL here. :-[ It wasn't really a V-Day gift, but met a new potential ATF at the Vegas PEC over the weekend.
I asked her where's you Penthouse Key necklace/charm since they call the dancers Key Girls there. Apparently, it's not standard issue. The dancers have to buy it themselves in the boutique. So I asked how much is it?
She said about $40 and she needs to save up for it. Then I asked her "would you like me to buy it for you?" The answer was a resounding "yes".
So after our VIP, we went to the boutique and got it. It was only like $43 with taxes. I didn't even consider it as a gift :-\ as much as a tip since I paid for the VIP on the credit card and she gets charged 10% for the funny money.
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I would never send flowers to a girl at a club. That is so gross and disgusting. Clubs are about a fantasy. Clubs are not reality. Yuck, Yuck, Yuck!
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I think that's sweet. One of my regs bought me a coach purse for V-day :)
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Cash
Stay away from the gifts unless its a real relationship...
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Sophia_Starina
Ahhh... I've gotten flowers, scented candles, lotions, candy, and other goodies from custies.
Do it!
If we bring you a gift, it's an attempt to have a relationship - no matter what we say.....it's an attempt. Always..................................... seriously.
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JoeUnCool
I would never send flowers to a girl at a club. That is so gross and disgusting. Clubs are about a fantasy. Clubs are not reality. Yuck, Yuck, Yuck!
I feel so sorry for your atf
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MojoJojo
If we bring you a gift, it's an attempt to have a relationship - no matter what we say.....it's an attempt. Always..................................... seriously.
yep. and refusing them if they go to far out there can be a bit tricky too for us. I had someone bring me a full bondage kit once.....that was a bit too far out there. Granted I would have liked to have kept it for use with my husband, but his intentions were for me to use it on him. Since I refused it he hasn't been back in the club to see me.
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Agreed with Winter Rose. Normal gifts. Pretty things. I used to get shoes, flowers clothing. Nice stuff. If you bring me a bondage kit or gift for say a toy compay I have to wonder about the intentions.
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I bought a chick 'Strip City' by Lily Burana once for valentines day. She was a dancer. I was retarded. I got razzed for not buying her some god-damned diamonds or some who knows what crazy shit like that (Not by her).
Whatever. She dug the book. She flipped over the jacket picture of Lily Burana. Doubt she's read it though, Not really the type. Pretty, but brainless. Great boobs though!!
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As I see it, giving a dancer a gift is one thing. Giving her a Valentine's gift is another thing entirely. Wouldn't a Valentine's Day gift to a dancer confer automatic PL status on the guy giving the gift? I mean, I give birthdays gifts and the like to lots of people. I've only given Valentine's gifts to girlfriends ( and my mom, of course ).
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bem401
As I see it, giving a dancer a gift is one thing. Giving her a Valentine's gift is another thing entirely. Wouldn't a Valentine's Day gift to a dancer confer automatic PL status on the guy giving the gift? I mean, I give birthdays gifts and the like to lots of people. I've only given Valentine's gifts to girlfriends ( and my mom, of course ).
Gift giving is a personal choice. I have given valentines day gifts many times both as a budding PL many years ago and as simply a good customer. One must remember that Valentines day is basically a Hallmark holiday, created as an EXCUSE for giving gifts. I have received many a token V day gift from dancers who, trust me, were not looking to express anything other than a to show me that they appreciated my kindness and of course, my business.
Honestly, I can't think of anything more fun than buying some skimpy little red lingerie thingy from Victoria's Secret for a fav and then watching her take it off in the VIP room...good times!