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Nude dancing and "big kitty" *pic similar to mine"
so i've been looking up labia reduction and found this girl's AFTER pic looks just like what I have. I would like to change the overall shape of mine b/c Im thinking of dancing nude and Im thinking it will turn guys off...I've already had many comments about how "big" I am down there just from what you can see wearing booty shorts...
http://www.drvitenas.com/photos/vaginal2.jpg
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Re: Nude dancing and "big kitty" *pic similar to mine"
there's a labiaplasty forum at makemeheal.com although I'm not too sure how active it is, I haven't been on makemeheal in awhile.
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you look like the after?
thats not big....
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If you look like the after pic...I don't think you have any kind of a problem.
hb
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guys like a fat pussy anyway. i would try dancing nude and see what happens and if you still feel uncomfortable, go get the surgery but you never know how guys will react.
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Mine looks like the after pic, and I have had NO negative comments about it at all.
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I look fairly similar to the "after" pic as well. Some days I feel self concious about it and wish it were all neatly tucked in, but no guy has ever EVER said anything about it. I'm too worried to go cutting around there unnecessarily.
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dude , its the after for a reason , it looks fine, leave it alone
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I work at a nude club and there are all sorts of pussys in my club LOL and I will quote Goldcoastgirl by saying that no matter what your pussy looks like, guys are just happy to be looking at one!!
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Im big too, and the only comments Ive had were of the "can I have a closer look" sort. (making it easy to ask for tips to come up closer lol)
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iseestars
guys like a fat pussy anyway. i would try dancing nude and see what happens and if you still feel uncomfortable, go get the surgery but you never know how guys will react.
iseestars is soooo right. A LOT of guys like a fat pussy. The after picture looks fine. Rock it! I mean of course, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, then it's better to get the surgery. But if you're just worried about what the guys will think....don't.
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I have the same issue but not as bad as that, I just have a fat kitty
especially when, I do my ninja turtle move, with my legs by my head you can really see it lol
On the contrary, it's earned me money
I usallly get the whoops and perv comments likes that's a fat ass pussy girrlllll. and other really sexual things whispered in my ear if I'm interacting with a custy on stage or dancin for them... real nasty comments let me tell you...
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I don't think the after picture is abnormal by any means... nor very big!
There is a wide range from the airbrushed playboy clam to having inner labia that may literally brush the inner thighs [see labia stretching...ouch!]. Having longer labia minora is really not that uncommon although you would think it from the way mainstream porn presents it. A pretty pussy comes in a variety of shapes, sizes, even colors---have you seen this thread? At any rate, most guys should be happy just to see a pretty vulva. :)
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i have an 'outy' and dance nude. i used to be paranoid and want surgery (and kinda still do cuz i like the look of an 'inny' and personally think mine is ugly) but decided not to because the guys love it. its not as common. try it you'll see.
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saphire123456
dude , its the after for a reason , it looks fine, leave it alone
Agreed. The second pic looks completely normal. I doubt you'd get any comments other than positive.
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hockeybobby
If you look like the after pic...I don't think you have any kind of a problem.
hb
Same here. Be proud of your vag!;D
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hockeybobby
If you look like the after pic...I don't think you have any kind of a problem.
hb
So the before is a problem?
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Sophia_Starina
So the before is a problem?
not a problem, but as you yourself stated, you've received some unkind comments about it. Based upon my own experiences working nude, vaginas with inner labia that large are most appreciated by a sort of fetishist if you will.
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thickienikkie
I have the same issue but not as bad as that, I just have a fat kitty
especially when, I do my ninja turtle move, with my legs by my head you can really see it lol
I'm curious to know what the ninja turtle move is.
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alessandra
I don't think the after picture is abnormal by any means...it's not the closed clamshell playboy kitty, but it's not hanging down your thighs either.
Have you seen
this thread? Labia come in all kinds of forms, and guys are pretty happy just to see it :)
Well... guys SHOULD be happy to see it. That doesn't mean that you won't have to deal with jerks that drop a few "meat curtain" jokes. Or how about Dane Cooks famous "cow tongues" line? (Fucking idiot... ugh)
It's also caveats like "...it's not hanging down your thighs either" that contribute to the notion that some vagina's are just NOT okay. Not okay? They are completely capable of accepting a schlong and popping out a couple of children yet they aren't okay... they aren't okay even though they can perform the exact funtions that they are supposed to.
I have a vaj like the Before picture... I have worked in nude clubs. I have been called disgusting, gross, have been given dirty looks, had insinuations made that I was a huge slut because I have an outie (go figure...) and a mess of other not so nice things.
I think labiaplasty should be left to the women with actual problems (rips, pain, complications from childbirth). Otherwise, if we as women keep mutilating our nether regions to fit a plasticized, airbrushed standard we will only do ourselves more harm than good.
....and if a guy makes a mean remark about your vagina..... remind him that he should probably stick to sucking cock.
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I didn't mean it as an insult to anyone with longer inner lips, I was just trying to reassure the OP that there is a wide range from the airbrushed playboy clam to having inner labia that may literally brush the inner thighs [see labia stretching...ouch!]. I guess it did not come out across in quite the way I intended! I will edit it and try to fix the insinuation.
So, to clarify, SweetPetite, as "big" as you feel your inner lips are, they are really not that uncommon and pretty pussy comes in a variety of shapes, sizes, even colors. :)
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looking at the pic again, i think my labia majora/outer lips are longer than the after but still pretty similar...thanks for your input guys.
OMG Sophia, Im so sorry people have cracked such insensitive jokes like that!! I will seriously kick someone in the nuts if that happens that is just so not cool. do you eveer get guys that comment on how much they like it??
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Originally Posted by
alessandra
I didn't mean it as an insult to anyone with longer inner lips, I was just trying to reassure the OP that there is a wide range from the airbrushed playboy clam to having inner labia that may literally brush the inner thighs [see labia stretching...ouch!]. I guess it did not come out across in quite the way I intended! I will edit it and try to fix the insinuation.
So, to clarify, SweetPetite, as "big" as you feel your inner lips are, they are really not that uncommon and pretty pussy comes in a variety of shapes, sizes, even colors. :)
oh no its my outer lips that i hate. most the inner lips are tucked away nicely in side but the clitoral hood is similar to the after still...i would actually prefer to have larger inner labia than what i have! i dont see a prob w/ that
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hockeybobby
If you look like the after pic...I don't think you have any kind of a problem.
hb
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Originally Posted by
Sophia_Starina
So the before is a problem?
Perhaps that was a poor choice of words Sophia. Clearly the OP is having some problem at the moment, in terms of deciding whether or not she should have surgery...to correct something that in my opinion needs no correction. But that is only one man's opinion. A more helpful comment might have been that both the before and after look just fine to me. This would also have been truthful.
I have dated a girl in the past who looked similar to the before. It was not a problem for me, however she did have some insecurities about it. I didn't mean to imply that the before was/is a problem. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
There seems to be a sub-group of men who enjoy criticizing some feature of a woman's appearance. I feel discouraged that you and many of your dancer colleagues have to endure that sort of nonsense. It may seem at times they are a proxie for all men, but they are just jackasses.
hb
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Mine is bigger than the after pic and Ive never had a negitive reaction to it, quite the opposite! Guys like pussy, end of story.